I’m pretty sure that decades of research, surveys, and studies has confirmed with relative certainty average is somewhere between 5 and 6. 6+ is above average, 7+ is well above average, and 8+ is big. 9+ is huge and double-digits are holy moly.
The problem is the only ones you ever see are 8+. for very obvious reasons: those are the only guys who show off whether in the locker room or in video and photo shoots.
It helps to remember the concept of the silent majority. It often seems like the loudest 10% are the mainstream, but that’s only because they’re so loud. But do not mistake visibility for normalcy. 8+ is not the norm group, it’s just the group seen the most publicly.
My guy falls into the average, and I think his tool is absolutely perfect. Would not change it if I could. There’s something really hot about the contrast in our sizes. If everybody was huge, nobody would care.