Thanks for taking the time to explain to me and everything. I didn’t realize that many others before me had said the same thing and that it’s become irritating to all of you.

I found the link on a site and it did take me straight to this thread, which is why I posted what I thought on what the article was about, I didn’t realzie this site was mainly for people who are gay and that it talks about issues in the world involving people who are gay.

I know anything I write won’t help Adam or anything like that, I wasn’t really expecting it too .. I thought it was just one of those threads where you post what you think, it’s read and ignored basically. I probably should have found out what the site was about before I posted anything. Sorry.

As for the two boys in Iran, I don’t know what to say. I can’t say I understand or whatever, because obviously I don’t because I’m not in your poisition. It’s discgusting what’s going on and I also should have said it ‘shouldn’t’ matter instead of it ‘doesn’t’ matter. I realize that I mainly focused on my thoughts there and not considering things that all of you go through in your everyday lives, I guess. I didn’t mean to patronise or anything, I realize the mistake I made and also apologize for that.

If I had known all of this when I was brought to the site then I wouldn’t have been so quick to jump in and post what I thought.

I do have a bit of a sense of humor .. I guess I just mis-interpreted or something and viewed it as mocking or something. – which it wouldn’t surprise me if it was but, I probably deserve it.

I just re-read what I said in my first post and now understand why the last bit of what I said (mainly) was probably out of order – because like you said, it’s not a fansite. So again, I apologize.

And I’m sorry for being rude or insulting or anything I said that may have been interpreted in that way.

I understand where you’re coming from now and I am sincerely sorry for what I have written in the past.

I’m assuming that you came directly to this thread because it was Adam related and had been bookmarked somewhere else, which means that you bypassed the Queerty main page. If you look there you will see news stories and serious discussions about matters that are important to gay people such as the murders and beatings many of us have to endure, the serious job discrimination we face, how religious and political prejudice denies us many fundamental rights that every other citizen enjoys, and on and on. Though there are celebrity stories here from time to time, this is not a fansite. Most of the stories here are quite serious in nature. For instance, at the moment many of us are very concerned for several young boys, about your age, that are scheduled to be executed by hanging in Iran – just because they are gay. The world is not a friendly place for gay people. We have to make our happiness for ourselves, no one hands it to us. And coming here where we can be free of the outside world and speak our own minds freely is part of that.

Which brings us to Adam and your posts here. Adam is gay and we here are gay. We can relate to Adam and his circumstances in a way that people who are not gay could not possibly. And his career is, of course, of great interest to us. We understand clearly the discrimination and hatred he has had to face which makes his success of great importance to many of us here. Sure, some of us will criticize him for some things, and, believe me, Adam will understand those criticisms. He knows we’ll let him know. But much of his greatest support will be found here amongst us. I am one of his most devoted fans, trust me.

Which brings us to his straight fangirls. Every time a story opens here on Adam, the thread is besieged by women and girls, repeating the same things, that have become cliches, unnecessary and redundant, crowding us out of that thread so that no discussion or exchange of thoughts can take place. And this includes you, Nicole. What you said was identical to what we’ve seen in every thread about Adam. And let me tell you something further about what you said, namely that sexuality doesn’t matter. Well, it certainly shouldn’t matter, but the people here know that it does. So you were patronizing us by saying that. We understand all that better than you, believe me. None of you probably intend it, but the cumulative effect is that you’re all trying to intimidate and control the people here. I know you want to support Adam, but how much help do you think this gives him? Frankly, I think you and the others may be irritating people to the point that it reflects badly on Adam, and loses fans for him. Careers today are made on the internet. When the girls come in to this site for an Adam story, they are almost invariably rude and insulting because they don’t understand that this site is different.

So that is why I did not take you seriously, and you found me patronizing. Does this help you to understand? I hope so.

I never said you had to ‘put up with them’ but you could at least respect them and if you don’t agree tell me in a non-argumentative, non-patronising way. To be honest I am an open minded person and if you don’t agree (and tell me why) then I will respect your opinion and move on.

However, you did come at me in an argumentative and partonising way therefore, I will stand my ground and say what I believe is right.

You haven’t really said what was wrong with my post, it was an opinion, the first thing you said was about Hansel and Gretel .. so yeah, I’m gonna come back at you for that. From there it escalated. – Yes I am going to apologize and say I’m sorry if my post was offensive in any way or form to you or any of the people who usually post on this site. I didn’t mean to offend anyone but could you tell me why it was so offensive so I don’t make the same mistkae twice anywhere else? Thanks.

(in case any of the guys see this exchange, yes, I know. I should hate myself, but I just don’t ! LMFAO !!! )

Soo … I wasn’t refering to any other comments I was refering to the actual title of the article .. who said anything I said was refering to you at all?
When I said “people really need to stop looking deeper into things and get on with their own lives instead of trying to analyse and decipher someone elses” I kinda meant the media ’cause it’s pointless.
And wooow I’m straight, buut I do have many gay, bi and lesbian friends and if the site is on the internet in general doesn’t that mean anyone can have a say on what their opinion is refering to the article? Whether they’re striaght, bi, gay whatever?
And I don’t care about who’s gay or who’s not I was just making a point saying it’s a pointless debate – my opinion, deal with that.
Really? So you’re all grown up with 2 graduate degrees and you’re on here mouthing off to a 16 year old who has an opinion and has the right to say that opinion no matter who the website is aimed at? – Real mature! What ever happened to freedom of speech, eh?
And I am not a moron, I can tell you that now. I may not have 2 graduate degrees but hey, at least I’m working towards something which is more than I can say for most my age. I am at college because I did get the grades I needed meaning, no I am not a moronic idiot why don’t you deal with that.
I couldn’t really care less what you think of me or what you think about what I say because it’s my opinion and you’re going to have to deal with that because I have every right to say what that is.
Like I said, no I didn’t read what was said before because I wasn’t talking about any of you guys. I was talking about the article – the world doesn’t revolve around you and neither does this site.

And no, I’m not five, I’m all grown up with two graduate degrees. And you are a moron. Try your best to deal with that. Good luck.

Re: the rumors, it’s in Star magazine. LMAO

@ Swarm: I worked in Europe a couple of years ago. I was there about a year. Wall to wall men. LOL

Did you guys see that Youtube of the guy dancing to FYE? So-so dancer, but nice body. Tight.

@ Trisha: I hope Adam meets the love of his life, too. Hell, I hope I do. BTW, I think he says all that stuff about finding true love because his mother is within earshot. LOL But in the meantime, I hope he gets laid all over the place. Use it or lose it! But bag it, Adam, bag it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHHVZrW5Gp4

Near term let’s watch him sing FYE to moms on Good Morning America Nov 23 or 24 pounding out “once I’m in I’ll own your heart” bwahahaha

@Bianca #35 No.

‘Night

Check ‘em out, Adam! And lucky you, you don’t have to do it on the downlow like all those Hollywood scaredy-cats. LMAO

U hope it’s that guy:)

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