So this actor wants his cake and eat it too. He wants to remain a leading man starring in big films and getting big salaries. He wants a wife and maybe even kids. He wants to be an active gay man too.
Well, welcome to the real world. We’ve all had to make compromises, but at the end of the day, we all realize that it’s our life to live. No one owes us a fabulous career and we make the most of what we can. There are some lucky ducks who dont’ have to compromise, and more power to them.
Sorry, kiddo, but you really have no option. Come out. Sooner or later, you will anyway, or you will be forced out. Take the lumps, if there are any. If your agent rejects you, so what — better to be rejected for you who are than be accepted for being someone you are not.