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Are You Trying To Add This Guy On Facebook Just To See If He’s Hot Enough To Hook Up With?

“Whenever I get a Facebook request nowadays, nine times out of 10 it is a gay male who I have no met,” says James Berry, Facebook user. “I have not met him, and chances are I have not heard of him, and he’s just adding me simply because he’s gay and he lives one of the two towns that I live in. … And that’s really fucking annoying.” It is! Perhaps you’ve experienced the same thing? And you know the reason for the friend request: to cruise your profile and see if you’re worth screwing. “It’s because they want to check out if I’m attractive or not … and they want to hook up with me if they think I’m attractive enough. If you’re the kind of person who does this sort of thing, I’m not gonna fuck you. That’s just principle. I’m a very slutty person, but I do have my standards.”

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By:           JD
On:           Feb 22, 2011
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  • 38 Comments
    • mpc144
      mpc144

      This is so true! My favorite quote “I’m a very slutty person, but I do have my standards”– ie meaning they need to go on Manhunt or Adam4adam. Standards!

      Feb 22, 2011 at 11:25 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • VanceMan
      VanceMan

      And the point of posting this was what … ?

      Feb 22, 2011 at 11:45 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • mike128
      mike128

      Enjoy it while you can. Ten more years and nobody is going to be cruzing your ass on facebook.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 11:57 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Qjersey
      Qjersey

      You party boys that hit up every profile listing 7 or more at 8 in the morning after you’ve been up all night. Sorry don’t care how hot you are, I’m still not gonna fuck you, even MH and A4A sluts have standards.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:16 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Freddie
      Freddie

      I find this hard to take seriously. He’s a) “a very slutty person”, and b) there are naked guys plastered all over his walls- doesn’t scream decorus :p

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Freddie
      Freddie

      PS: Is it the most infuriating thing in the world? Or, for example, innocent protesters dying in Libya and Tunisia? Just sayin’.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DJM
      DJM

      I think his point was, “I spot it because I’ve got it.’

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DJM
      DJM

      Maybe his point was, “I spot it because I got it.” Rush Limbaugh, for instance, is commmenting this week on Michele Obama’s weight. Rush, you know, is an expert on other people with weight problems.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:46 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ted
      Ted

      Are You Trying To Add This Guy On Facebook Just To See If He’s Hot Enough To Hook Up With?….I can honestly say no.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 12:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Danny
      Danny

      With that haircut, he’s obviously going bald and not in the good way.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 1:01 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • hygtrfe
      hygtrfe

      Poor guy, he limits himself in seeing Facebook as only for friends.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 1:06 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kammm
      Kammm

      Oh my god, James. I used to talk to him on Facebook and Skype, and met him on Tumblr. He is a bit of slut, as he says. And he was nice for a long time, but then he decided to drop me as a friend on both networks. Never knew why, he never told me.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 2:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Nick
      Nick

      This is rather silly. It’s Facebook, not something really important. Adding someone isn’t contractual agreement that you’ll be BFFs. If you don’t want to add someone, click ignore and move on.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 2:26 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Loop
      Loop

      I’d add the fuck out of him.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 2:40 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Enron
      Enron

      I like to cruise hot gay men on Facebook, not necessarily to hook up, because the majority are far out of my reach, but just to look at their pictures and mouth water over how hot they look.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 2:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Red Meat
      Red Meat

      wow he is so coincided, the worst kind of gay there is.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 3:41 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • IE
      IE

      @Red Meat: Conceited. Yes, he is.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:13 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ken S
      Ken S

      @Red Meat: He “coincided” with what? :-/

      Now if you mean “conceited,” that’s something you ought to back up with some kind of evidence if you’re going to say it. And a bitter feeling because maybe you add total strangers on facebook just to check them out and are feeling called-out as a creeper by his vlog doesn’t count as evidence.

      “He’s so conceited” is far too often code for “I don’t like what he’s saying because it struck a nerve, but since I can’t disprove his claims I’ll settle for an ad hominem attack on him to try and turn the audience against him.”

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:16 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ken S
      Ken S

      @Red Meat: He ‘coincided’ with what now? :-/ Personally I think (one of) the *worst* kind of gay is the kind who do a thing- say, creep total strangers’ facebook pages, for instance- and then when they happen upon someone saying “what is with the creepy fuckin’ creepers who add you to facebook *just* to scour your pictures?” they get all personally offended at feeling called-out, so rather than admit the questionable appropriateness of what they’re doing they just make up some ad hominem attack on the other person (calling them conceited, just for example) to turn the audience against the messenger for the argument that they can’t challenge in good faith.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ken S
      Ken S

      WTF is with Qweerty lately? Half the articles I try to load give me server error messages and when I tried to post my comment it fucked up too, leading me to try again and double-post :-/

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:35 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Brandon H
      Brandon H

      Life must be soooo hard when people find you attractive. Even harder when you have to move your finger enough to click Deny.

      Woe is him.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • McMike
      McMike

      Unfortunately for the people on Facebook they have yet to see this video and do not realize what a complete douche bag this guys is.

      I don’t know what’s worse, him thinking just because someone requests him on Facebook that they must want to f*ck him or that this so-called problem is only limited to the queery community.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 4:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Jay
      Jay

      well this is depressing. I dont think anyone has ever added me on facebook wanting to check me out or fuck me.

      ….I feel so uncool :-(

      Feb 22, 2011 at 5:15 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kevin (New Jersey, US)
      Kevin (New Jersey, US)

      We all know stalking is creepy unless the stalker is good looking. Please.

      Principle? Right.

      Feb 22, 2011 at 11:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Shannon
      Shannon

      This QUEEN is delusional!!!!!! Just becuase some OLD man…or foreign dork hits you up does NOT mean you are “cute” cause you are NOT!!!!!! I would not given you ANY energy if we were naked in a bathhouse! I swear…the ugliest queens THINK they are cute…

      Feb 23, 2011 at 1:22 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • IE
      IE

      New link for this video: http://vimeo.com/20266862

      Feb 23, 2011 at 5:46 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Matthew
      Matthew

      It’s not like he’s raising a valid point and from some of the comments (i.e. Shannon and Danny), he’s being proved right on this site alone. Gay guys should stop being so judgmental – this guy isn’t; he’s just clearly annoyed at being added on Facebook by any stranger, it just so happens that more often than not, it’s a gay guy looking to get a higher fuck number, Nothing he’s saying is wrong.

      Feb 23, 2011 at 5:57 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Matthew
      Matthew

      I should’ve say “It’s not like he’s NOT raising a valid point XP

      Feb 23, 2011 at 5:58 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Pip
      Pip

      Welcome to the internet dude. I don’t really see what principle he’s going at. He says he’s slutty, and all people of all orientations check out other people every day for their sex appeal. Seems like he’s being a whiny adolescent.

      Feb 23, 2011 at 9:08 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • whatever
      whatever

      @Ken S: What are you? His bitch boy?

      Feb 23, 2011 at 9:50 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Charles
      Charles

      It’s a shame that people are so quick to make making assumptions about a person’s entire life and history based on three minutes of footage online that he made on a whim. Harsh.

      Feb 23, 2011 at 3:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Allen D.
      Allen D.

      I’ll add people that I think are attractive — to maybe DATE. Not hookup with. And that’s usually only if we have 8+ friends in common.

      Feb 24, 2011 at 11:07 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • declanto
      declanto

      If you’re a slut in the first place, what’s to whine about? That you’re a successful slut? Another non-story for Big Q.

      Feb 28, 2011 at 4:13 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • justiceontherocks
      justiceontherocks

      @Charles: Not really. I think it gives us a pretty good idea.

      Note to James – don’t be too fussy about who you get “slutty” with. You’re not exactly looking like the homecoming king (or queen).

      Feb 28, 2011 at 8:54 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Charles
      Charles

      @justiceontherocks: Okay, Mr. Perfect, would your entire worth as a human being judged by the three minutes you lost your temper or got frustrated and vented? You would? Well okay then.

      Mar 2, 2011 at 9:43 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • justiceontherocks
      justiceontherocks

      @Charles: Everyone loses their cool once in a while, just like everyone writes things that don’t make sense. Most of us don’t share those moments with the world.

      Mar 2, 2011 at 11:07 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • justnow
      justnow

      @mike128: so funny and so true
      @Nick: yes and who adds someone they dont know on facebook?
      @Shannon: or someone who has high standards and think they are all that and everything else

      But he is allowed to make this video and not be judged by it

      Mar 3, 2011 at 12:24 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AC Walker
      AC Walker

      A guy posts about how put upon he is that people find him so attractive and manages to get media attention for it. Well played, Egoman.

      Mar 9, 2011 at 1:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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