Comments on: (Definitive) Words… http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/ Free of an agenda. Except that gay one. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 18:58:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Alexa http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85636 Alexa Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:45:44 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85636 So you're entirely defined by your sexuality, Minnie? I'm not, nor are my friends - gay, straight, or somewhere in the middle. It's an integral part of us, but not our entire definition. And you have to remember, he was talking to his fanclub here, to the clueless ones who are still shocked that he's gay, and are still coming to terms with it, and who were expecting him to offer an apology for misleading them and probably to proclaim his celibacy as well. Many of them (the clueless ones, that is) don't know any out gay people personally, and rely on stereotypes and what their homophobic pastor tells them in church. If Clay coming out and speaking directly to them in words they can understand makes even one of them rethink things, then he deserves a lot of credit for not just coming out but the way he has done it. As to self loathing morons like men-sar, how the hell can we hope to have straight people take us seriously when we attack ourselves for the way we look? So you’re entirely defined by your sexuality, Minnie? I’m not, nor are my friends – gay, straight, or somewhere in the middle. It’s an integral part of us, but not our entire definition. And you have to remember, he was talking to his fanclub here, to the clueless ones who are still shocked that he’s gay, and are still coming to terms with it, and who were expecting him to offer an apology for misleading them and probably to proclaim his celibacy as well. Many of them (the clueless ones, that is) don’t know any out gay people personally, and rely on stereotypes and what their homophobic pastor tells them in church. If Clay coming out and speaking directly to them in words they can understand makes even one of them rethink things, then he deserves a lot of credit for not just coming out but the way he has done it.

As to self loathing morons like men-sar, how the hell can we hope to have straight people take us seriously when we attack ourselves for the way we look?

]]> By: scott http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85619 scott Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:05:40 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85619 @men-sar- ugh! Rock Hudson. Not weak, girly, nor a butterface. @men-sar-

ugh! Rock Hudson. Not weak, girly, nor a butterface.

]]> By: MEN-SAR http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85567 MEN-SAR Tue, 07 Oct 2008 08:07:21 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85567 HE IS SOOOOOO UGLY! then again, he's a typical physical representation of a gay man - weak, girly and a butterface HE IS SOOOOOO UGLY!

then again, he’s a typical physical representation of a gay man – weak, girly and a butterface

]]> By: marco channing http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85556 marco channing Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:09:28 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85556 His sexual orientation has nothing to do with the fact that he's an idiot. There are straight idiots as well. His sexual orientation has nothing to do with the fact that he’s an idiot. There are straight idiots as well.

]]> By: Minnie http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85544 Minnie Tue, 07 Oct 2008 05:24:17 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85544 he's speaking "on behalf" of gay people? Did we tell him to do that? Did I miss the vote? he’s speaking “on behalf” of gay people? Did we tell him to do that? Did I miss the vote?

]]> By: Darth Paul http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85448 Darth Paul Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:27:17 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85448 Sexuality doesn't EXCLUSIVELY define who you are, but it has a significant stake in your psyche. I'm not just talking about gender preferences, but all aspects of sexual identity and activity, like how you kiss/liked to be kissed, etc. Sexuality doesn’t EXCLUSIVELY define who you are, but it has a significant stake in your psyche. I’m not just talking about gender preferences, but all aspects of sexual identity and activity, like how you kiss/liked to be kissed, etc.

]]> By: Alexa http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85427 Alexa Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:34:20 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85427 Way to encourage closeted entertainers to come out, replies 2 and 3. He just can't win, can he? Way to encourage closeted entertainers to come out, replies 2 and 3. He just can’t win, can he?

]]> By: Eminent Victorian http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85425 Eminent Victorian Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:30:16 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85425 Oh my god when will this nitwit go away already? Oh my god when will this nitwit go away already?

]]> By: gayinsf http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85416 gayinsf Mon, 06 Oct 2008 18:49:25 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85416 I can only hope your "finally" also means this is the last post we have to suffer re. this man. I can only hope your “finally” also means this is the last post we have to suffer re. this man.

]]> By: fredo777 http://www.queerty.com/definitive-words-20081006/#comment-85413 fredo777 Mon, 06 Oct 2008 18:35:54 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=29688#comment-85413 It's funny that he goes on + on about how he doesn't allow his sexual orientation to define him then he's identified as "homosexual entertainer Clay Aiken" in this article. It’s funny that he goes on + on about how he doesn’t allow his sexual orientation to define him then he’s identified as “homosexual entertainer Clay Aiken” in this article.

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