Is “suicide contagion” a real thing? Yes, the experts will tell you. It’s the phenomenon where depressed youth, in reading about their peers across the country taking their own lives to escape torment, get the brilliant idea that they, too, should commit suicide to put an end to things. It’s something we’ve discussed on the site, and in meetings behind the scenes, a number of times. But now we’re being told on KevinMD.com — “social media’s leading physician voice” — that it’s not just our writing about gay kids killing themselves that could be part of the problem. See, when readers merely share blog posts, whether reblogging a Tumblr post or tweeting out a link to a Queerty post about a young person taking his own life, you’re contributing to the problem.
Writing on KevinMD, “preventive medicine specialist” Jay Parkinson points us to the CDC-approved way of writing about teen suicides without encouraging others to do it:
John Doe Jr., 15, of Maplewood Drive, died Friday from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. John, the son of Mary and John Doe Sr., was a sophomore at City High School. John had lived in Anytown since moving here 10 years ago from Otherville, where he was born. His funeral was held Sunday. School counselors are available for any students who wish to talk about his death. In addition to his parents, John is survived by his sister, Ann.
And since kids are so hep to the Facebooks and the Twitters and the MySpaces (hah, just kidding with that last one), we need to be extra careful about how we write about LGBT kids who continue to take their own lives. As in, we need to make sure that we aren’t putting our stamp of approval on these actions, nor recommending suicide as a reasonable out. Which means: Absolutely do not check in on Foursquare to “Suicide Note Workshop.”
Kev C
Sounds like Jay would prefer it gays pushed it back into the closet.
“I have some concerns about your methods. If you did these things to make your message less effective, it would be more effective.”
http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Concern_troll
Samwise
@Kev C: His advice is not unique to gay teen suicides. People were talking about suicide contagion long before the media started paying attention to gay teen suicides, and they generally discuss it – as straight people are wont to do – without even acknowledging the existence of gay people. This isn’t about, “let’s sweep gay teen suicide under the rug.” This is, “let’s not go on and on about how wonderful these gay teens who killed themselves were, how much everyone misses them, how regretful their bullies feel now, etc. etc.”
Kev C
@Samwise: The concern that motivated him to specifically write this piece is the problem of gay suicides and recent attention that’s been paid to it in the mainstream. He ignores the fact that the problem has always existed but never discussed in the mainstream, as many gay authors have noted. He ignores why the problem is occurring, namely, bullying and discrimination. His entire concern is about controlling the discussion of the topic, aka, he’s a concern troll.
:)
It’s not just suicide, most problems can be easily solved by not talking about them.
Kev C
Dr. Parkinson seems like a smart guy, but what he’s saying isn’t smart. He’s repeating information from media experts who are somewhat anti-gay, like Professor Ron Slaby who doubts school bullying is the cause and blames it on mental illness (gay = mental illness = increased suicide). Or from Ken Trump who blames gays for exploiting the suicides. Stupidity is contagious.
kyle ward
Church supports gays because they don’t get involved in abortion. :))
Claudia O'Keefe
This isn’t about, “let’s sweep gay teen suicide under the rug.His entire concern is about controlling the discussion of the topic, aka, he’s a concern troll.
Claudia O'Keefe
Random variable is not always the same with random variate. All the gays have the capacity to understand what.
Lei Ting
Gay marriage must not be stopped by the church because it sounds fun. LOL but seriously,it doesn’t really define what faith is. XD
David
So if we have gay children, we must teach them about suicide and its consequences. If you as parents are not able to figure out your child’s sexual orientation does not mean that you are a parent.
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