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	<title>Comments on: Ed Koch Still Perfectly Happy to Live In the Closet (With the Light Turned On)</title>
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		<title>By: Vito Sutulovich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vito Sutulovich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2011 23:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can&#039;t wait for sex in the city 8, big fan</description>
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		<title>By: getreal</title>
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		<dc:creator>getreal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 20:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-128298&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Psychofag&lt;/a&gt;: I respectfully disagree there are many, many people out there who voted for this man some of them homophobes. His coming out could be an ah ha! moment for some of them especially the elderly who the gay community does virtually no outreach to. Like Harvey Milk said coming out helps change minds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-128298" rel="nofollow">Psychofag</a>: I respectfully disagree there are many, many people out there who voted for this man some of them homophobes. His coming out could be an ah ha! moment for some of them especially the elderly who the gay community does virtually no outreach to. Like Harvey Milk said coming out helps change minds.</p>
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		<title>By: Mister C</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mister C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 09:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Us NY&#039;kers have always known he was a QUEEN, 

To the Imports into NYC YES she is one of us!

We love Ms Koch he stills lives with his partner today!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Us NY&#8217;kers have always known he was a QUEEN, </p>
<p>To the Imports into NYC YES she is one of us!</p>
<p>We love Ms Koch he stills lives with his partner today!</p>
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		<title>By: ew.</title>
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		<dc:creator>ew.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 08:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ewww the hets can keep him! they can keep every other ugly fag that is considering coming out too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ewww the hets can keep him! they can keep every other ugly fag that is considering coming out too!</p>
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		<title>By: Psychofag</title>
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		<dc:creator>Psychofag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 05:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>At his age it´s useless to come out...he´s not gonna get laid anyway...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At his age it´s useless to come out&#8230;he´s not gonna get laid anyway&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sebbe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sebbe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 23:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>re:  disclosure I give him a pass since he is almost a centenarian.  He was born in the 20s.  He is still rather a douche though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>re:  disclosure I give him a pass since he is almost a centenarian.  He was born in the 20s.  He is still rather a douche though.</p>
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		<title>By: getreal</title>
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		<dc:creator>getreal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 22:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ed Koch is gay??????!!!!!!!!!</description>
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		<title>By: Jaroslaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaroslaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:57:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I meant to say was also, but got mentally sidetracked - the details draw a picture not possible any other way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I meant to say was also, but got mentally sidetracked &#8211; the details draw a picture not possible any other way.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaroslaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaroslaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, RichardR - that was an amazing book and it would be required reading in high Schools &amp; colleges if I had anything to say about it!

I read it three times, the first time all the chronological stuff was so tedious and I kind of skimmed over it.  Then I gave it another try.  THEN I saw the movie, and read every detail with great interest.  It was still tedious sort of but tolerable.  I think it had to be an incredible &quot;labor of love&quot; because that kind of book had to be just an unfathomable amount of work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, RichardR &#8211; that was an amazing book and it would be required reading in high Schools &amp; colleges if I had anything to say about it!</p>
<p>I read it three times, the first time all the chronological stuff was so tedious and I kind of skimmed over it.  Then I gave it another try.  THEN I saw the movie, and read every detail with great interest.  It was still tedious sort of but tolerable.  I think it had to be an incredible &#8220;labor of love&#8221; because that kind of book had to be just an unfathomable amount of work.</p>
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		<title>By: RichardR</title>
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		<dc:creator>RichardR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-128034&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;KPC&lt;/a&gt;: Very inexplicably tiresome, Koch&#039;s dodging this question. Why can&#039;t he say both &quot;Yes I am,&quot; and &quot;It&#039;s none of your business.&quot; I&#039;m nearly as old as he is, do nothing whatever to hide being gay, couldn&#039;t if I tried, and it&#039;s been decades since anybody asked me, BUT if someone did, my answer would be something like &quot;Yes, why do you ask?&quot; But like you Jaraslaw, it took me a while to get here. PS, wasn&#039;t Shilts book an amazing work? Heartbreaking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-128034" rel="nofollow">KPC</a>: Very inexplicably tiresome, Koch&#8217;s dodging this question. Why can&#8217;t he say both &#8220;Yes I am,&#8221; and &#8220;It&#8217;s none of your business.&#8221; I&#8217;m nearly as old as he is, do nothing whatever to hide being gay, couldn&#8217;t if I tried, and it&#8217;s been decades since anybody asked me, BUT if someone did, my answer would be something like &#8220;Yes, why do you ask?&#8221; But like you Jaraslaw, it took me a while to get here. PS, wasn&#8217;t Shilts book an amazing work? Heartbreaking.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaroslaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaroslaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oops - the book was &quot;And the Band played on&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oops &#8211; the book was &#8220;And the Band played on&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Jaroslaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaroslaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not to excuse the mayor, but I&#039;m quite a bit younger than he is and it took me quite a while to be comfortable with being Gay. Perhaps folks in their 20&#039;s or even early 30&#039;s wouldn&#039;t understand this.

Having said that, it is hard to imagine a big city Mayor being in the limelight all the time, being asked all kinds of questions of personal and political natures, it is kind of sad he can&#039;t come to terms with this so late in his life.

Having been as generous with him as I can, I also want to point out that per Randy Shilt&#039;s book (and I vaguely remember reading various newspaper &amp; magazine articles that backed up a lot of what was in the book) NYC under Mayor Koch wouldn&#039;t even cough up a tiny bit of money for an AIDS shelter in an abandoned school. That was only one thing in a long list; so don&#039;t let him get away with saying NYC did all it could for people with AIDS.  He didn&#039;t.  It&#039;s shameful and THAT I will hold him accountable for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not to excuse the mayor, but I&#8217;m quite a bit younger than he is and it took me quite a while to be comfortable with being Gay. Perhaps folks in their 20&#8242;s or even early 30&#8242;s wouldn&#8217;t understand this.</p>
<p>Having said that, it is hard to imagine a big city Mayor being in the limelight all the time, being asked all kinds of questions of personal and political natures, it is kind of sad he can&#8217;t come to terms with this so late in his life.</p>
<p>Having been as generous with him as I can, I also want to point out that per Randy Shilt&#8217;s book (and I vaguely remember reading various newspaper &amp; magazine articles that backed up a lot of what was in the book) NYC under Mayor Koch wouldn&#8217;t even cough up a tiny bit of money for an AIDS shelter in an abandoned school. That was only one thing in a long list; so don&#8217;t let him get away with saying NYC did all it could for people with AIDS.  He didn&#8217;t.  It&#8217;s shameful and THAT I will hold him accountable for.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-127995&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Eminent Victorian&lt;/a&gt;:  He actually said that that is not okay either.

I don&#039;t know. I don&#039;t think there is just one good side, I think he has a point as well. You shouldn&#039;t care. I think both &#039;you shouldn&#039;t care&#039; and &#039;yeah, I&#039;m gay, so?&#039; are good arguments to make. 

In this case, say there wasn&#039;t such a huge issue made of the question like it&#039;s something abnormal, or sensational, of important knowledge about a person, the kind of thing that warrants a tabloid cover, then it might make people look at someone differently than &#039;that&#039;s the gay guy&#039;, and more at their whole personalities, &#039;that&#039;s the clever guy with the nice smile&#039;. I think that&#039;s positive too. In actuality, sexuality is only (should only be) really important when it concerns the person you want to be with, after all. More focus on all people as human beings (and treating them as such), less on the cause of conflict and assigning labels, would be the idea, I think.

...Your thoughts?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-127995" rel="nofollow">Eminent Victorian</a>:  He actually said that that is not okay either.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. I don&#8217;t think there is just one good side, I think he has a point as well. You shouldn&#8217;t care. I think both &#8216;you shouldn&#8217;t care&#8217; and &#8216;yeah, I&#8217;m gay, so?&#8217; are good arguments to make. </p>
<p>In this case, say there wasn&#8217;t such a huge issue made of the question like it&#8217;s something abnormal, or sensational, of important knowledge about a person, the kind of thing that warrants a tabloid cover, then it might make people look at someone differently than &#8216;that&#8217;s the gay guy&#8217;, and more at their whole personalities, &#8216;that&#8217;s the clever guy with the nice smile&#8217;. I think that&#8217;s positive too. In actuality, sexuality is only (should only be) really important when it concerns the person you want to be with, after all. More focus on all people as human beings (and treating them as such), less on the cause of conflict and assigning labels, would be the idea, I think.</p>
<p>&#8230;Your thoughts?</p>
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		<title>By: KPC</title>
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		<dc:creator>KPC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being gay or lesbian is much more than your &quot;sex life&quot; and it is perfectly okay to ask the question just as it is perfectly okay not to answer it (but sort of chickenshit if you ask me).  It is an important question to ask because of society&#039;s continued ignorance, fear and hatred towards sexual minorities.  Only by coming out will change truly take place, legislation is but a small part of the equation.  Some day, probably far in the future, humans will understand that none of this truly matters in the grand scheme of things and come to understand and accept that people are complex - some are gay, some are not, some are inbetween, etc.  Until that time comes, keep asking the questions and much applause to those who have the balls to answer them truthfully.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being gay or lesbian is much more than your &#8220;sex life&#8221; and it is perfectly okay to ask the question just as it is perfectly okay not to answer it (but sort of chickenshit if you ask me).  It is an important question to ask because of society&#8217;s continued ignorance, fear and hatred towards sexual minorities.  Only by coming out will change truly take place, legislation is but a small part of the equation.  Some day, probably far in the future, humans will understand that none of this truly matters in the grand scheme of things and come to understand and accept that people are complex &#8211; some are gay, some are not, some are inbetween, etc.  Until that time comes, keep asking the questions and much applause to those who have the balls to answer them truthfully.</p>
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		<title>By: cufflinks</title>
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		<dc:creator>cufflinks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mayor Ed Koch is not gay!  You all just think he is because he&#039;s so damned sexually attractive!  Just like Jake Gyllenhahl and Richard Gere!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mayor Ed Koch is not gay!  You all just think he is because he&#8217;s so damned sexually attractive!  Just like Jake Gyllenhahl and Richard Gere!</p>
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		<title>By: Gregoire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gregoire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find &quot;Ed Koch&quot; and &quot;oral sex&quot; in the same sentence particularly repellant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find &#8220;Ed Koch&#8221; and &#8220;oral sex&#8221; in the same sentence particularly repellant.</p>
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		<title>By: Nota Koch Fan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nota Koch Fan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 19:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Koch should have picked &quot;Rather than admit I was gay, I looked the other way, and AIDS won the day&quot; for his tombstone&#039;s epitaph.

When he was the mayor; Koch totally ignored the developing AIDS epidemic in New York City, particularly in the beginning part of his administration (&#039;81-&#039;83) because he was afraid of lending credibility to rumors swirling around regarding the possibility that he might be homosexually inclined.

Although Koch and his cronies always claimed that the city acted as quickly and responsibly &quot;as it could&quot; it actually took the Mayor seven years into the epidemic just to issue &quot;a preliminary plan&quot; for housing assistance for people with AIDS. 

Claiming that &#039;the city is sparing no effort&#039; against AIDS, Mayor Koch created the Office of Gay and Lesbian Health Concerns in 1983. However there was never any AIDS agency or assistance created for drug users, not just neglecting drug addicts but entirely writing them off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Koch should have picked &#8220;Rather than admit I was gay, I looked the other way, and AIDS won the day&#8221; for his tombstone&#8217;s epitaph.</p>
<p>When he was the mayor; Koch totally ignored the developing AIDS epidemic in New York City, particularly in the beginning part of his administration (&#8217;81-&#8217;83) because he was afraid of lending credibility to rumors swirling around regarding the possibility that he might be homosexually inclined.</p>
<p>Although Koch and his cronies always claimed that the city acted as quickly and responsibly &#8220;as it could&#8221; it actually took the Mayor seven years into the epidemic just to issue &#8220;a preliminary plan&#8221; for housing assistance for people with AIDS. </p>
<p>Claiming that &#8216;the city is sparing no effort&#8217; against AIDS, Mayor Koch created the Office of Gay and Lesbian Health Concerns in 1983. However there was never any AIDS agency or assistance created for drug users, not just neglecting drug addicts but entirely writing them off.</p>
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		<title>By: Eminent Victorian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eminent Victorian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 19:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yet it&#039;s &quot;okay&quot; to ask straight people about their marriages and for them to yap endlessly about it because: fewer people find shame in that.  I think he&#039;s on the wrong side of history on this closet business.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yet it&#8217;s &#8220;okay&#8221; to ask straight people about their marriages and for them to yap endlessly about it because: fewer people find shame in that.  I think he&#8217;s on the wrong side of history on this closet business.</p>
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