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	<title>Comments on: Everyone Is Ditching the DNC&#8217;s Gay Fundraiser</title>
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	<description>Free of an agenda. Except that gay one.</description>
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		<title>By: Raymond S. Decelles-Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-185028</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond S. Decelles-Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Clearly, all I know is that the deputy executive director of MASS EQUALITY, a GAY INCORPORATED organisation, attended the DNC function with Biden at the Fenway in Boston.

This man clearly walked across the GLBT picket line and walked into the event. Maybe the GLBT community will remember this betrayal the next time that they receive a request for donations from GAY INC organisations like MASS EQUALITY, and put them in the &quot;spam file.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clearly, all I know is that the deputy executive director of MASS EQUALITY, a GAY INCORPORATED organisation, attended the DNC function with Biden at the Fenway in Boston.</p>
<p>This man clearly walked across the GLBT picket line and walked into the event. Maybe the GLBT community will remember this betrayal the next time that they receive a request for donations from GAY INC organisations like MASS EQUALITY, and put them in the &#8220;spam file.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Miller</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-183223</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 01:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stop attacking the President!  He owns your asses, faggots!  So do we Democrats!  Get to the BACK OF THE BUS NOW!</description>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-183122</link>
		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-183076&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;schlukitz&lt;/a&gt;: That presupposes the concept that Movement Guy has either a heart or a mind to win over.  Personally, I just say:

MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!

(I&#039;m really enjoying posting this.  Thanks for the excuse. LOL!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-183076" rel="nofollow">schlukitz</a>: That presupposes the concept that Movement Guy has either a heart or a mind to win over.  Personally, I just say:</p>
<p>MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</p>
<p>(I&#8217;m really enjoying posting this.  Thanks for the excuse. LOL!)</p>
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		<title>By: schlukitz</title>
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		<dc:creator>schlukitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182960&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;TANK&lt;/a&gt;: 

&quot;Why is this bigot here posting ad nauseam?&quot;

I keep asking myself the same question.  Why aren&#039;t people flagging him?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182960" rel="nofollow">TANK</a>: </p>
<p>&#8220;Why is this bigot here posting ad nauseam?&#8221;</p>
<p>I keep asking myself the same question.  Why aren&#8217;t people flagging him?</p>
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		<title>By: schlukitz</title>
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		<dc:creator>schlukitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182744&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Orpheus_lost&lt;/a&gt;: 

It&#039;s apparent that you have not been successful in winning either Movement Guy&#039;s heart or his mind. *wink*</description>
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<p>It&#8217;s apparent that you have not been successful in winning either Movement Guy&#8217;s heart or his mind. *wink*</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-182960</link>
		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182656&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SM&lt;/a&gt;: 

Why is this bigot here posting ad nauseam?  It&#039;s disgusting.  THis bigoted piece of shit is either a closet case or insane.</description>
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<p>Why is this bigot here posting ad nauseam?  It&#8217;s disgusting.  THis bigoted piece of shit is either a closet case or insane.</p>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-182959</link>
		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182903&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jeffrey&lt;/a&gt;: Good luck, Jeffrey.  I&#039;ve spelled out how Movement Guy is wrong in several threads now and he just comes back with the same lies and distortions never acknowledging that he&#039;s been proved wrong.  That&#039;s why I now just say...

MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182903" rel="nofollow">Jeffrey</a>: Good luck, Jeffrey.  I&#8217;ve spelled out how Movement Guy is wrong in several threads now and he just comes back with the same lies and distortions never acknowledging that he&#8217;s been proved wrong.  That&#8217;s why I now just say&#8230;</p>
<p>MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</p>
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		<title>By: Jeffrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Movement Guy: &quot;No reaction to the Law Dork post that puts the lie to the hysteria launched by Americablog. This whole anti-Obama wave has been launched by a convenient misreading of the DOJ brief to make it sound like the president was calling us child molesters. It&#039;s not true. Read the brief, instead of marching in lock-step with a few bloggers looking to promote themselves.&quot;

I&#039;ve read the brief.  Americablog was pointing out how incredibly insulting it was for them to use cases that involved incest and underage marriage to justify discrimination against gays and lesbians.  It can be argued that Arovosis spun this a little bit to make it sound even worse.  But it was still completely unnecessary and incredibly insensitive considering the context of the entire incident and Americablog and the rest of us are right to be furious over it.
You can set aside that whole incest/pedophile controversy--completely disregard it--and still find PLENTY of outrageous, ridiculous and terribly insulting things in that DOJ brief.
So why do you think you can discount our anger over it just by going after Americablog over this one point?

Is it ok for the DOJ to argue that it is ok for the government to deny marriage equality to gays and lesbians because it would SAVE THEM MONEY?
Is it ok for them to argue that gays and lesbians aren&#039;t being denied marriage rights because they can always just marry someone of the opposite sex???
Is it ok for them to argue that denying gays and lesbians marriage equality DOES THEM NO HARM?????
The brief is odious and disgusting, especially when it comes from the administration of a &quot;fierce advocate&quot;; someone who says it is unjust, discriminatory and needs to be repealed.

So this whole &quot;anti-obama wave&quot; (which Obama has been bringing on himself over several weeks) is not just from a &quot;misreading&quot; of a portion of the brief, but from a very clear reading of the whole thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Movement Guy: &#8220;No reaction to the Law Dork post that puts the lie to the hysteria launched by Americablog. This whole anti-Obama wave has been launched by a convenient misreading of the DOJ brief to make it sound like the president was calling us child molesters. It&#8217;s not true. Read the brief, instead of marching in lock-step with a few bloggers looking to promote themselves.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read the brief.  Americablog was pointing out how incredibly insulting it was for them to use cases that involved incest and underage marriage to justify discrimination against gays and lesbians.  It can be argued that Arovosis spun this a little bit to make it sound even worse.  But it was still completely unnecessary and incredibly insensitive considering the context of the entire incident and Americablog and the rest of us are right to be furious over it.<br />
You can set aside that whole incest/pedophile controversy&#8211;completely disregard it&#8211;and still find PLENTY of outrageous, ridiculous and terribly insulting things in that DOJ brief.<br />
So why do you think you can discount our anger over it just by going after Americablog over this one point?</p>
<p>Is it ok for the DOJ to argue that it is ok for the government to deny marriage equality to gays and lesbians because it would SAVE THEM MONEY?<br />
Is it ok for them to argue that gays and lesbians aren&#8217;t being denied marriage rights because they can always just marry someone of the opposite sex???<br />
Is it ok for them to argue that denying gays and lesbians marriage equality DOES THEM NO HARM?????<br />
The brief is odious and disgusting, especially when it comes from the administration of a &#8220;fierce advocate&#8221;; someone who says it is unjust, discriminatory and needs to be repealed.</p>
<p>So this whole &#8220;anti-obama wave&#8221; (which Obama has been bringing on himself over several weeks) is not just from a &#8220;misreading&#8221; of a portion of the brief, but from a very clear reading of the whole thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-182846</link>
		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 16:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182811&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!

This really is much easier.  I&#039;m glad I thought of it, liar.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182811" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</p>
<p>This really is much easier.  I&#8217;m glad I thought of it, liar.</p>
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		<title>By: Movement Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Movement Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 15:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182744&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Orpheus_lost&lt;/a&gt;: 

LOL. Wow. It&#039;s really pathetic how you&#039;re constantly having to resort to name calling because I disagree with your temper tantrum tactics regarding the DNC. You have chosen here and there to pick at things I&#039;ve written without actually dealing with any of my arguments. Instead, my arguments are &quot;lies.&quot; And because I&#039;m not willing to throw myself on the floor and scream and cry, I&#039;m &quot;self-hating.&quot; 

No reaction to the Law Dork post that puts the lie to the hysteria launched by Americablog. This whole anti-Obama wave has been launched by a convenient misreading of the DOJ brief to make it sound like the president was calling us child molesters. It&#039;s not true. Read the brief, instead of marching in lock-step with a few bloggers looking to promote themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182744" rel="nofollow">Orpheus_lost</a>: </p>
<p>LOL. Wow. It&#8217;s really pathetic how you&#8217;re constantly having to resort to name calling because I disagree with your temper tantrum tactics regarding the DNC. You have chosen here and there to pick at things I&#8217;ve written without actually dealing with any of my arguments. Instead, my arguments are &#8220;lies.&#8221; And because I&#8217;m not willing to throw myself on the floor and scream and cry, I&#8217;m &#8220;self-hating.&#8221; </p>
<p>No reaction to the Law Dork post that puts the lie to the hysteria launched by Americablog. This whole anti-Obama wave has been launched by a convenient misreading of the DOJ brief to make it sound like the president was calling us child molesters. It&#8217;s not true. Read the brief, instead of marching in lock-step with a few bloggers looking to promote themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: Cam</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/everyone-is-ditching-the-dncs-gay-fundraiser-20090618/#comment-182802</link>
		<dc:creator>Cam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 15:26:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182445&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;M Shane&lt;/a&gt;: you said &quot;Gays had better figure out really fast that this is the most progressive President we&#039;ve had. This country is definitely in need of humungus changes. 

For Qyueerty or anyone to suggest that we not support Obama is the most underhanded Neocoln trick I have ever seen . You can&#039;t expect to get anything unless you do something but whine. There is not one solitary reason fro this kind of trash unless you are Republican reactionaries.&quot;
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So overseeing the submission of a DOJ brief that backs up DOMA by comparing gay relationships to Incest is progressive?  Just because the chicken pox are better than the mumps doesn&#039;t mean I want to get either one!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182445" rel="nofollow">M Shane</a>: you said &#8220;Gays had better figure out really fast that this is the most progressive President we&#8217;ve had. This country is definitely in need of humungus changes. </p>
<p>For Qyueerty or anyone to suggest that we not support Obama is the most underhanded Neocoln trick I have ever seen . You can&#8217;t expect to get anything unless you do something but whine. There is not one solitary reason fro this kind of trash unless you are Republican reactionaries.&#8221;<br />
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<p>So overseeing the submission of a DOJ brief that backs up DOMA by comparing gay relationships to Incest is progressive?  Just because the chicken pox are better than the mumps doesn&#8217;t mean I want to get either one!</p>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 14:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182637&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: Wow!  I must be dumb.  I list out your lies and then say they are lies but you still come back and say that I&#039;m not showing where you lied?  Yep, I must be a real moron for bothering to go through that trouble when really all anyone needs to know is that you are a liar.  In fact, you&#039;re a very bad liar who can do little beyond parrot the lies of others in your attempt to hold down the GLBT community.  So yes, I&#039;m dumb - but I&#039;m willing to learn.  From now on I&#039;ll just link this thread when I let people know what a fucking stupid liar you are and that way I save the trouble of having to type it all out again.

And just so that everyone sees it nice and clear...

MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182637" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: Wow!  I must be dumb.  I list out your lies and then say they are lies but you still come back and say that I&#8217;m not showing where you lied?  Yep, I must be a real moron for bothering to go through that trouble when really all anyone needs to know is that you are a liar.  In fact, you&#8217;re a very bad liar who can do little beyond parrot the lies of others in your attempt to hold down the GLBT community.  So yes, I&#8217;m dumb &#8211; but I&#8217;m willing to learn.  From now on I&#8217;ll just link this thread when I let people know what a fucking stupid liar you are and that way I save the trouble of having to type it all out again.</p>
<p>And just so that everyone sees it nice and clear&#8230;</p>
<p>MOVEMENT GUY IS A MENTALLY DISTURBED, SELF HATING LIAR!</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Miller</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 12:38:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182435&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;So when the Republicans recapture the Senate in 2010 and effectively block any pro-gay legislation for the remainder of Obama&#039;s first term, what&#039;s next? &lt;/i&gt;

That&#039;s no change from the status quo, really.

Democrats who cannot pass the legislation when they have a filibuster proof majority in the Senate, a supermajority in the house, and the presidency might as well be Republicans.

We gave &#039;em their supermajority that they demanded.  Now, they either make good on their promises, or they lose it.  Period.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182435" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: <i>So when the Republicans recapture the Senate in 2010 and effectively block any pro-gay legislation for the remainder of Obama&#8217;s first term, what&#8217;s next? </i></p>
<p>That&#8217;s no change from the status quo, really.</p>
<p>Democrats who cannot pass the legislation when they have a filibuster proof majority in the Senate, a supermajority in the house, and the presidency might as well be Republicans.</p>
<p>We gave &#8216;em their supermajority that they demanded.  Now, they either make good on their promises, or they lose it.  Period.</p>
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		<title>By: schlukitz</title>
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		<dc:creator>schlukitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 08:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182656&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SM&lt;/a&gt;: 

&quot;SICK OF IT!!!!!!!&quot;

Good. Then get the fuck out of our faces.

WE&#039;RE SICK OF YOU!

What part of that do you not get?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182656" rel="nofollow">SM</a>: </p>
<p>&#8220;SICK OF IT!!!!!!!&#8221;</p>
<p>Good. Then get the fuck out of our faces.</p>
<p>WE&#8217;RE SICK OF YOU!</p>
<p>What part of that do you not get?</p>
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		<title>By: schlukitz</title>
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		<dc:creator>schlukitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 08:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182639&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;michael&lt;/a&gt;: 

The Queen you are referring to was Donnie McClurkin.

Quack. Quack. ;P</description>
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<p>The Queen you are referring to was Donnie McClurkin.</p>
<p>Quack. Quack. ;P</p>
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		<title>By: jeffrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>jeffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 07:47:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Movement Guy: you said &quot;So no funding for people with AIDS until gay can get married? I&#039;m with Majorie on this one.&quot;

What a straw man you set up there! I would be with Marjorie on that one too, if anyone had actually offered such a ridiculous choice.  But you are the only one who framed the topic in that way.
Let me try to put it in a way that you might not misconstrue:
No money to Obama or the DNC until they make good on their promises. When Obama actually demonstrates that he is a &#039;fierce advocate&#039; instead of just claiming he is, he gets our support again.
Give to candidates who actually walk the walk.
Is that so hard to understand?
And gays can already get married, smartass, we just want our marriages to have the same validity and benefits in every state and federally that &#039;opposite&#039; marriages have.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Movement Guy: you said &#8220;So no funding for people with AIDS until gay can get married? I&#8217;m with Majorie on this one.&#8221;</p>
<p>What a straw man you set up there! I would be with Marjorie on that one too, if anyone had actually offered such a ridiculous choice.  But you are the only one who framed the topic in that way.<br />
Let me try to put it in a way that you might not misconstrue:<br />
No money to Obama or the DNC until they make good on their promises. When Obama actually demonstrates that he is a &#8216;fierce advocate&#8217; instead of just claiming he is, he gets our support again.<br />
Give to candidates who actually walk the walk.<br />
Is that so hard to understand?<br />
And gays can already get married, smartass, we just want our marriages to have the same validity and benefits in every state and federally that &#8216;opposite&#8217; marriages have.</p>
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		<title>By: SM</title>
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		<dc:creator>SM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 07:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182654&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;jeffrey&lt;/a&gt;: 


BAH!

I was out on street corners fighting your precious HUMAN RIGHTS AND HUMAN DIGNITY in Conservative parts of CA and out of the MILLIONS OF GAY PEOPLE IN THE UNITED STATES...BARELY ANY SHOWED UP to stand beside me.

Don&#039;t you DARE BASH OBAMA WITHOUT BASHING YOUR ENTIRE LAZY COMMUNITY!

SICK OF IT!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182654" rel="nofollow">jeffrey</a>: </p>
<p>BAH!</p>
<p>I was out on street corners fighting your precious HUMAN RIGHTS AND HUMAN DIGNITY in Conservative parts of CA and out of the MILLIONS OF GAY PEOPLE IN THE UNITED STATES&#8230;BARELY ANY SHOWED UP to stand beside me.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t you DARE BASH OBAMA WITHOUT BASHING YOUR ENTIRE LAZY COMMUNITY!</p>
<p>SICK OF IT!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: jeffrey</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 07:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Movement Guy and SM want to be part of the problem.  The rest of us want to be part of the solution.
Movement Guy, especially, just enjoys being contrary to get attention.  Ignore him and watch his head explode.  First, he won&#039;t be able to resist making some snarky retort to this post, even though he said he was going to bed about 8 posts before his last one.  He might even start with something really pithy like &quot;first let&#039;s assume you&#039;re an asshole&quot;.
If anyone is not furious with what has taken place so far from the Obama administration towards our community, they haven&#039;t been paying attention.  
If anyone is telling you to sit down and shut up and wait for the right time, they are no friend to human rights and human dignity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Movement Guy and SM want to be part of the problem.  The rest of us want to be part of the solution.<br />
Movement Guy, especially, just enjoys being contrary to get attention.  Ignore him and watch his head explode.  First, he won&#8217;t be able to resist making some snarky retort to this post, even though he said he was going to bed about 8 posts before his last one.  He might even start with something really pithy like &#8220;first let&#8217;s assume you&#8217;re an asshole&#8221;.<br />
If anyone is not furious with what has taken place so far from the Obama administration towards our community, they haven&#8217;t been paying attention.<br />
If anyone is telling you to sit down and shut up and wait for the right time, they are no friend to human rights and human dignity.</p>
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		<title>By: kademonster</title>
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		<dc:creator>kademonster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 06:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it&#039;s funny that the 20 gays who still support Obama are becoming a SEVERE minority. Almost as popular as the gays who supported Bush. I didn&#039;t vote Obama because I called his bullshit from day one. Not that I thought Hilary would have been much better... and surely not thinking McCain would be a wiser choice... just saying most of the minorities that he made big promises to are starting to turn their noses up at him because he went from being mr. progressive to a regular moderate president. at least Bush had the balls to let his conservatism hang low.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it&#8217;s funny that the 20 gays who still support Obama are becoming a SEVERE minority. Almost as popular as the gays who supported Bush. I didn&#8217;t vote Obama because I called his bullshit from day one. Not that I thought Hilary would have been much better&#8230; and surely not thinking McCain would be a wiser choice&#8230; just saying most of the minorities that he made big promises to are starting to turn their noses up at him because he went from being mr. progressive to a regular moderate president. at least Bush had the balls to let his conservatism hang low.</p>
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		<title>By: SM</title>
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		<dc:creator>SM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 06:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hate Crimes Legislation is almost through the Senate and Senators are working on Legislation to end DADT.

GODDDAM OBAMA AND NO GOOD DEMOCRATS! Its not fast enough!

Bunch of bitter, ungratefull Queens...all of you! 


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rep-kirsten-gillibrand/i-stand-with-lt-dan-choi_b_217364.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hate Crimes Legislation is almost through the Senate and Senators are working on Legislation to end DADT.</p>
<p>GODDDAM OBAMA AND NO GOOD DEMOCRATS! Its not fast enough!</p>
<p>Bunch of bitter, ungratefull Queens&#8230;all of you! </p>
<p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rep-kirsten-gillibrand/i-stand-with-lt-dan-choi_b_217364.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/.....17364.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>timncguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182638&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: i never said he promied to repeal it on his first day.  You asked if he provided a timeframe for any of his promises.  And he did, he promised to start the process of repealing DADT when he took office.  That was a promise and a timeframe.  You are apparently the person with comprehension difficulties.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182638" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: i never said he promied to repeal it on his first day.  You asked if he provided a timeframe for any of his promises.  And he did, he promised to start the process of repealing DADT when he took office.  That was a promise and a timeframe.  You are apparently the person with comprehension difficulties.</p>
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		<title>By: michael</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As redundant as it may be to say this I think we need to ever remind ourselves of who Obama is and not what he says he might be. Obama is a man who tossed his long time minister to the side, a minister who was pro gay. His minister made statements against America, like almost half the population did under the Bush administration. He kicked him to the curb because it pleased the religious right. Now, that shows a man with a lot of ego and not much spiritual conviction.  Obama selects that Queen whose name escapes me and is not worth googling to entertain on his campaign trail, that queen being a &quot;reformed&quot; queen, very insulting to gays but pleasing to the religious reich. Finally he chooses Pastor Warren, another gay hating champion of the right. Now this is  what Obama&#039;s actions say he is. And as the cliche goes, well you all know how it goes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As redundant as it may be to say this I think we need to ever remind ourselves of who Obama is and not what he says he might be. Obama is a man who tossed his long time minister to the side, a minister who was pro gay. His minister made statements against America, like almost half the population did under the Bush administration. He kicked him to the curb because it pleased the religious right. Now, that shows a man with a lot of ego and not much spiritual conviction.  Obama selects that Queen whose name escapes me and is not worth googling to entertain on his campaign trail, that queen being a &#8220;reformed&#8221; queen, very insulting to gays but pleasing to the religious reich. Finally he chooses Pastor Warren, another gay hating champion of the right. Now this is  what Obama&#8217;s actions say he is. And as the cliche goes, well you all know how it goes.</p>
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		<title>By: Movement Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Movement Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:39:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182633&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;timncguy&lt;/a&gt;: 

&quot;It will start when I stake office&quot; is not &quot;It will be repealed when I take office.&quot; I&#039;m sorry if you can&#039;t understand English. 

Please continue the circular firing squad, some of us have actual work to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182633" rel="nofollow">timncguy</a>: </p>
<p>&#8220;It will start when I stake office&#8221; is not &#8220;It will be repealed when I take office.&#8221; I&#8217;m sorry if you can&#8217;t understand English. </p>
<p>Please continue the circular firing squad, some of us have actual work to do.</p>
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		<title>By: Movement Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Movement Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182627&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Orpheus_lost&lt;/a&gt;: 

Wow. You&#039;re dumb. You keep screeching about &quot;lies&quot; I&#039;m telling. Name one. You don&#039;t have an argument. You have a tantrum. 

You equate bad policy as precedent for what you think is a good policy. You&#039;re okay with transgender folks being thrown under the bus, just so you don&#039;t can, what? get married? 

As an actual lawyer pointed out, this whole shit storm was kicked up by Americablog&#039;s distortion and hysteria about the DOJ briefing. Here&#039;s something that should untwist your panties: 

2. “Comparing us to incest and pedophilia” claim is overstated and does not withstand any serious, legal scrutiny.

This claim, to which I’ve previously objected, has been Aravosis’s claim to fame on the brief, with him taking credit whenever anyone uses the claim.

Here’s the actual line — yes, only one sentence, and not really even a sentence but just a list of cases (called a “string cite”) after a sentence — from the brief:

    And the courts have widely held that certain marriages performed elsewhere need not be given effect, because they conflicted with the public policy of the forum.  See, e.g., Catalano v. Catalano, 170 A.2d 726, 728-29 (Conn. 1961) (marriage of uncle to niece, “though valid in Italy under its laws, was not valid in Connecticut because it contravened the public policy of th[at] state”); Wilkins v. Zelichowski, 140 A.2d 65, 67-68 (N.J. 1958) (marriage of 16-year-old female held invalid in New Jersey, regardless of validity in Indiana where performed, in light of N.J. policy reflected in statute permitting adult female to secure annulment of her underage marriage); In re Mortenson’s Estate, 316 P.2d 1106 (Ariz. 1957) (marriage of first cousins held invalid in Arizona, though lawfully performed in New Mexico, given Arizona policy reflected in statute declaring such marriages “prohibited and void”).

These were three cases about marriages, which were valid in one jurisdiction, not being allowed under the laws of another jurisdiction.  There is nothing further.  The brief does not ever use the words “incest” or “pedophilia.”  And, by the way, the American Psychiatric Association Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR), the standard for diagnosis, defines pedophilia as involving “sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger).”  Under that definition, there is not even a case involving pedophilia appearing in the brief at all — which is likely the reason that no mainstream publication has repeated that claim.&quot;

http://lawdork.wordpress.com/2009/06/17/chairman-frank-and-aravosiss-misstatements/

Crying that Obama is comparing us to pedophiles is the specious argument, as is your lack of knowledge about basic civics, like separation of powers. Please revisit your high school social studies classes for how the government actually works, instead of arguing for disastrous Bush-era policies to get your way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182627" rel="nofollow">Orpheus_lost</a>: </p>
<p>Wow. You&#8217;re dumb. You keep screeching about &#8220;lies&#8221; I&#8217;m telling. Name one. You don&#8217;t have an argument. You have a tantrum. </p>
<p>You equate bad policy as precedent for what you think is a good policy. You&#8217;re okay with transgender folks being thrown under the bus, just so you don&#8217;t can, what? get married? </p>
<p>As an actual lawyer pointed out, this whole shit storm was kicked up by Americablog&#8217;s distortion and hysteria about the DOJ briefing. Here&#8217;s something that should untwist your panties: </p>
<p>2. “Comparing us to incest and pedophilia” claim is overstated and does not withstand any serious, legal scrutiny.</p>
<p>This claim, to which I’ve previously objected, has been Aravosis’s claim to fame on the brief, with him taking credit whenever anyone uses the claim.</p>
<p>Here’s the actual line — yes, only one sentence, and not really even a sentence but just a list of cases (called a “string cite”) after a sentence — from the brief:</p>
<p>    And the courts have widely held that certain marriages performed elsewhere need not be given effect, because they conflicted with the public policy of the forum.  See, e.g., Catalano v. Catalano, 170 A.2d 726, 728-29 (Conn. 1961) (marriage of uncle to niece, “though valid in Italy under its laws, was not valid in Connecticut because it contravened the public policy of th[at] state”); Wilkins v. Zelichowski, 140 A.2d 65, 67-68 (N.J. 1958) (marriage of 16-year-old female held invalid in New Jersey, regardless of validity in Indiana where performed, in light of N.J. policy reflected in statute permitting adult female to secure annulment of her underage marriage); In re Mortenson’s Estate, 316 P.2d 1106 (Ariz. 1957) (marriage of first cousins held invalid in Arizona, though lawfully performed in New Mexico, given Arizona policy reflected in statute declaring such marriages “prohibited and void”).</p>
<p>These were three cases about marriages, which were valid in one jurisdiction, not being allowed under the laws of another jurisdiction.  There is nothing further.  The brief does not ever use the words “incest” or “pedophilia.”  And, by the way, the American Psychiatric Association Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR), the standard for diagnosis, defines pedophilia as involving “sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger).”  Under that definition, there is not even a case involving pedophilia appearing in the brief at all — which is likely the reason that no mainstream publication has repeated that claim.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://lawdork.wordpress.com/2009/06/17/chairman-frank-and-aravosiss-misstatements/" rel="nofollow">http://lawdork.wordpress.com/2.....tatements/</a></p>
<p>Crying that Obama is comparing us to pedophiles is the specious argument, as is your lack of knowledge about basic civics, like separation of powers. Please revisit your high school social studies classes for how the government actually works, instead of arguing for disastrous Bush-era policies to get your way.</p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>timncguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182626&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SM&lt;/a&gt;:   you start with &quot;Prove it...&quot;

There you go again, another 5-year old type statement.  I half expect your next post will begin with

I know you are , but what am I!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182626" rel="nofollow">SM</a>:   you start with &#8220;Prove it&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>There you go again, another 5-year old type statement.  I half expect your next post will begin with</p>
<p>I know you are , but what am I!</p>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182633&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;timncguy&lt;/a&gt;: He&#039;s been handed that quote before, Timncguy, but he still continues to repeat the lie that it doesn&#039;t exist, just as he continues to lie and distort every other GLBT civil rights issue he comes across.

My only consolation in this is that since he is such a pathological liar, it&#039;s very unlikely that he works for a GLBT non-profit so the real damage to the cause should be minimal.

Then again, based on his arguments he could be Joe Solmonese....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182633" rel="nofollow">timncguy</a>: He&#8217;s been handed that quote before, Timncguy, but he still continues to repeat the lie that it doesn&#8217;t exist, just as he continues to lie and distort every other GLBT civil rights issue he comes across.</p>
<p>My only consolation in this is that since he is such a pathological liar, it&#8217;s very unlikely that he works for a GLBT non-profit so the real damage to the cause should be minimal.</p>
<p>Then again, based on his arguments he could be Joe Solmonese&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>timncguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:28:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182626&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SM&lt;/a&gt;: Obama promised to be our Fierce advocate and use the bully pulpit to advance our issues.

By definition the Bully Pulpit is used in PUBLIC, not behind the scenes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182626" rel="nofollow">SM</a>: Obama promised to be our Fierce advocate and use the bully pulpit to advance our issues.</p>
<p>By definition the Bully Pulpit is used in PUBLIC, not behind the scenes.</p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>timncguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182615&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: Ok, I repented and looked it up for you.

November 29, 2007: “As president, I will work with Congress and place the weight of my administration behind enactment of the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, which will make nondiscrimination the official policy of the U.S. military. I will task the Defense Department and the senior command structure in every branch of the armed forces with developing an action plan for the implementation of a full repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. And I will direct my Secretaries of Defense and Homeland Security to develop procedures for taking re-accession requests from those qualified service members who were separated from the armed forces under Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and still want to serve their country. The eradication of this policy will require more than just eliminating one statute. It will require the implementation of anti-harassment policies and protocols for dealing with abusive or discriminatory behavior as we transition our armed forces away from a policy of discrimination. The military must be our active partners in developing those policies and protocols. That work should have started long ago. It will start when I take office.” (Senator Barack Obama to the Human Rights Campaign)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182615" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: Ok, I repented and looked it up for you.</p>
<p>November 29, 2007: “As president, I will work with Congress and place the weight of my administration behind enactment of the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, which will make nondiscrimination the official policy of the U.S. military. I will task the Defense Department and the senior command structure in every branch of the armed forces with developing an action plan for the implementation of a full repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. And I will direct my Secretaries of Defense and Homeland Security to develop procedures for taking re-accession requests from those qualified service members who were separated from the armed forces under Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and still want to serve their country. The eradication of this policy will require more than just eliminating one statute. It will require the implementation of anti-harassment policies and protocols for dealing with abusive or discriminatory behavior as we transition our armed forces away from a policy of discrimination. The military must be our active partners in developing those policies and protocols. That work should have started long ago. It will start when I take office.” (Senator Barack Obama to the Human Rights Campaign)</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182626&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SM&lt;/a&gt;: 

Every bullshit half assed stupid excuse you can vomit up.  It&#039;s never been nor never will be either or.  Despite the two wars and the economy, he managed to reverse the ban on stem cell research and the mexico city policy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182626" rel="nofollow">SM</a>: </p>
<p>Every bullshit half assed stupid excuse you can vomit up.  It&#8217;s never been nor never will be either or.  Despite the two wars and the economy, he managed to reverse the ban on stem cell research and the mexico city policy.</p>
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		<title>By: Orpheus_lost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Orpheus_lost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182615&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: We can definitely start with the assumption that I&#039;m an asshole.  I&#039;m an asshole to you because you are spreading lies and distortions in order to get people to stop working in their own interests.  I&#039;m actually proud of being an asshole to you, and yes, I do feel superior - not because of those terrible &quot;nasty things&quot; I typed, but because I&#039;m arguing from an honest perspective while you are not.  That isn&#039;t disagreement, that calling out your lies.

You even lie as you whine about being called mean names.  The inoculation theory that you espouse has been proved to fail every time it has been tried.  Just to keep it within this administration, we heard that Obama was just inoculating the homophobes with McClurkin, then Warren, then Warren again, then by not mentioning H8, or Iowa, or Maine, or New Hampshire, etc..., and then by the DOJ DOMA brief, yet the religious right just keeps attacking nonstop.  How many fucking shots of GLBT Opression do you think they need before their hateful disease goes into remission?  What the fuck more can Obama offer them short of our genitals in a jar to make Damn sure we don&#039;t fuck the wrong hole again?  You know this but continue to push the lies.  I&#039;m asking why but you refuse to be honest and admit you&#039;re working to keep us down.

Same goes for your asinine rebuttal on marriage.  To be brief, your argument is that because a few vocal, yet ignorant, people say stupid things we are all assimilationists and you&#039;re actually protecting us from ourselves by trying to prevent it.  Sounds like a self-hater or a liar to me.  I&#039;m really thinking both.

And finally, back to DADT.  You suggest that because Bush used stop loss to keep wounded and traumatized soldiers on the field that ALL stop losses would do the same.  To anyone who got beyond the 2nd grade this is a specious argument at best.  By issuing a stop loss to prevent GLBTers from being dismissed Obama could actually afford to bring back MORE of those disabled soldiers instead of keeping them in the field.  Once again, you lie and distort.

So why don&#039;t we come to this agreement:  I&#039;m an asshole and you are a lying, self-hating, paid shill for the DNC?  Go back to your &quot;lucrative job in academia&quot; because you&#039;re not helping any of us here at all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182615" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: We can definitely start with the assumption that I&#8217;m an asshole.  I&#8217;m an asshole to you because you are spreading lies and distortions in order to get people to stop working in their own interests.  I&#8217;m actually proud of being an asshole to you, and yes, I do feel superior &#8211; not because of those terrible &#8220;nasty things&#8221; I typed, but because I&#8217;m arguing from an honest perspective while you are not.  That isn&#8217;t disagreement, that calling out your lies.</p>
<p>You even lie as you whine about being called mean names.  The inoculation theory that you espouse has been proved to fail every time it has been tried.  Just to keep it within this administration, we heard that Obama was just inoculating the homophobes with McClurkin, then Warren, then Warren again, then by not mentioning H8, or Iowa, or Maine, or New Hampshire, etc&#8230;, and then by the DOJ DOMA brief, yet the religious right just keeps attacking nonstop.  How many fucking shots of GLBT Opression do you think they need before their hateful disease goes into remission?  What the fuck more can Obama offer them short of our genitals in a jar to make Damn sure we don&#8217;t fuck the wrong hole again?  You know this but continue to push the lies.  I&#8217;m asking why but you refuse to be honest and admit you&#8217;re working to keep us down.</p>
<p>Same goes for your asinine rebuttal on marriage.  To be brief, your argument is that because a few vocal, yet ignorant, people say stupid things we are all assimilationists and you&#8217;re actually protecting us from ourselves by trying to prevent it.  Sounds like a self-hater or a liar to me.  I&#8217;m really thinking both.</p>
<p>And finally, back to DADT.  You suggest that because Bush used stop loss to keep wounded and traumatized soldiers on the field that ALL stop losses would do the same.  To anyone who got beyond the 2nd grade this is a specious argument at best.  By issuing a stop loss to prevent GLBTers from being dismissed Obama could actually afford to bring back MORE of those disabled soldiers instead of keeping them in the field.  Once again, you lie and distort.</p>
<p>So why don&#8217;t we come to this agreement:  I&#8217;m an asshole and you are a lying, self-hating, paid shill for the DNC?  Go back to your &#8220;lucrative job in academia&#8221; because you&#8217;re not helping any of us here at all.</p>
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		<title>By: SM</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:12:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182621&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;timncguy&lt;/a&gt;: 

Prove it...You do not know Obama is not working on this issue behind the scenes. Its a bit tricky considering we are fighting 2 wars and safety issues could come up.

Obama has made promises to the gay community and I personally think he has 4 years to fulfill his agenda. If you don&#039;t want to vote for him again or give him money...then give it to another candidate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182621" rel="nofollow">timncguy</a>: </p>
<p>Prove it&#8230;You do not know Obama is not working on this issue behind the scenes. Its a bit tricky considering we are fighting 2 wars and safety issues could come up.</p>
<p>Obama has made promises to the gay community and I personally think he has 4 years to fulfill his agenda. If you don&#8217;t want to vote for him again or give him money&#8230;then give it to another candidate.</p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182615&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: a stop loss to suspend DADT and let gay military who want to serve, stay and serve is in no way analagous to a stop loss that prevents people from leaving when their term of service is over.

These are two different stop loss orders and one can be enacted without enacting the other.  

Besides, last I knew there is already a stop loss in effect that is being used to extend the time in service of military members.

Are you under the impression that a stop loss to suspend DADT would also keep other military members in the service beyond the time they signed up for?  If so, you&#039;re wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182615" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: a stop loss to suspend DADT and let gay military who want to serve, stay and serve is in no way analagous to a stop loss that prevents people from leaving when their term of service is over.</p>
<p>These are two different stop loss orders and one can be enacted without enacting the other.  </p>
<p>Besides, last I knew there is already a stop loss in effect that is being used to extend the time in service of military members.</p>
<p>Are you under the impression that a stop loss to suspend DADT would also keep other military members in the service beyond the time they signed up for?  If so, you&#8217;re wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;strategery!&quot;</description>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think it&#039;s fair to call the lgbt civil rights campaign a movement...because in order for that to occur, it actually needs to move...I really don&#039;t care how glib I sound at this point.  You people have fucked us with your &quot;Strategy&quot; and &quot;pragmatism&quot; for years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s fair to call the lgbt civil rights campaign a movement&#8230;because in order for that to occur, it actually needs to move&#8230;I really don&#8217;t care how glib I sound at this point.  You people have fucked us with your &#8220;Strategy&#8221; and &#8220;pragmatism&#8221; for years.</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182620&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: 

But that&#039;s a failed &quot;timetable&quot; strategy.  State by state is a pathetic strategy.  Unprecedented?  That&#039;s not saying much, &quot;movement&quot; guy.  THe only use that has in a SC case.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182620" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: </p>
<p>But that&#8217;s a failed &#8220;timetable&#8221; strategy.  State by state is a pathetic strategy.  Unprecedented?  That&#8217;s not saying much, &#8220;movement&#8221; guy.  THe only use that has in a SC case.</p>
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		<title>By: timncguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>timncguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182615&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movement Guy&lt;/a&gt;: I have told you here and another poster also told you here that during the campaign Obama promised that he would begin the process of getting DADT repealed on his first day in office.  He promised his actions to begin on day 1.  And, he didn&#039;t start any actions.  As you recall there were many reports ober the last few weeks from the pentagon saying that nothing has been happening at all on DADT and the White House had not been having any discussion with the military in that regard.  Sorry you don&#039;t believe us.  I have seen the quote.  But, I have no intention of re finding it for you.  Look it up yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182615" rel="nofollow">Movement Guy</a>: I have told you here and another poster also told you here that during the campaign Obama promised that he would begin the process of getting DADT repealed on his first day in office.  He promised his actions to begin on day 1.  And, he didn&#8217;t start any actions.  As you recall there were many reports ober the last few weeks from the pentagon saying that nothing has been happening at all on DADT and the White House had not been having any discussion with the military in that regard.  Sorry you don&#8217;t believe us.  I have seen the quote.  But, I have no intention of re finding it for you.  Look it up yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Movement Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Movement Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182618&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;TANK&lt;/a&gt;: 

We&#039;ve just seen an unprecedented number of marriage victories at the state level, all part of the long term strategy pushed by movement leaders since 2000, so you tell me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182618" rel="nofollow">TANK</a>: </p>
<p>We&#8217;ve just seen an unprecedented number of marriage victories at the state level, all part of the long term strategy pushed by movement leaders since 2000, so you tell me.</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:04:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rather, the hell with what you call strategy and frank calls pragmatism.  As Frank said when he turned into crybaby on the house floor: &quot;I&#039;m a big shot.  These issues no longer apply to me.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rather, the hell with what you call strategy and frank calls pragmatism.  As Frank said when he turned into crybaby on the house floor: &#8220;I&#8217;m a big shot.  These issues no longer apply to me.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;You seem to equate pragmatism and strategic thinking with &quot;timidity.&quot; &lt;/i&gt;

How pragmatic the &quot;movement&quot; has been, huh?  Nothing to show for it accept defeat and humiliation.  If that&#039;s pragmatism and strategy, who needs it.  The hell with pragmatism and strategy if produces results like CA and the doj brief.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>You seem to equate pragmatism and strategic thinking with &#8220;timidity.&#8221; </i></p>
<p>How pragmatic the &#8220;movement&#8221; has been, huh?  Nothing to show for it accept defeat and humiliation.  If that&#8217;s pragmatism and strategy, who needs it.  The hell with pragmatism and strategy if produces results like CA and the doj brief.</p>
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		<title>By: Movement Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Movement Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 04:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182604&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;timncguy&lt;/a&gt;: 

I really don&#039;t think there&#039;s anything to admit, re: the DADT timeframe. I recall early in the administration many pundits speculating that DADT wouldn&#039;t be taken on in the first term. Can you point to a statement by Obama or a surrogate that says &quot;We will repeal DADT by X date?&quot; 

@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-182605&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Orpheus_lost&lt;/a&gt;: 

Let&#039;s start with the assumption that you&#039;re an asshole. I have been polite and resisted name-calling through all of out previous exchanges, but - like anyone without an intellectual argument - you resort to insults. 

You seem to equate pragmatism and strategic thinking with &quot;timidity.&quot; That&#039;s your perspective. We simply don&#039;t share it. The inoculation strategies I&#039;ve referred to have been around issue unrelated to ours, but it makes me think he&#039;ll be deploying similar strategies that will allow him to pass the laws we want. For examples, DOJ (with agreement that the brief was highly problematic) defending DOMA sets up the administration to silence pro-DOMA forces by saying they defended the law while it was in place while pushing for repeal (in the Congress). 

Re: Marriage. I have seen on here and other blogs, a lot of sexual policing, e.g. &quot;why are the leather guys marching in the parade&quot; or &quot;quick! hide the trannies, or they&#039;ll make us look bad.&quot; Perhaps you don&#039;t recall how quickly trans people were thrown under the bus when ENDA was introduced during the pre-Obama congress. I do. And the same thing is happening to queer families that don&#039;t fit the hetero-normative image of marriage. I see folks all the time, whose sexual history (and predilections I&#039;m familiar with) arguing for marriage, while hiding how they actually live. And I say that being in a longterm monogamous relationship. Maybe, as Nancy Polikoff has argued we need something bigger than marriage that actually provides legal protections for how families (gay and straight) organize our lives. That&#039;s something the movement used to fight for, but when activists introduced a similar working paper a few years ago, they were attacked by the marriage movement folks. 

I find the military mostly abhorrent, but I do want those serving to be treated fairly so they can serve us best. My main issue, which you have ignored in post after post, is that stop loss is not the way to do it. Stop loss policies, have not only led to tens of thousand service people being horribly traumatized, physically and mentally, by multiple tours - some of them, I&#039;m sure, are gay, but also let the Iraq war go on for years without a draft. A draft which would have ended the war with utmost speed. 

Audre Lorde said - The master&#039;s tools will not unmake the master&#039;s house.

The rest of your scribbles are vain attempts to insult me, when, really, you don&#039;t know me, my intellect or my contributions to the movement or community. You just disagree with me and feel the need to say nasty things to make yourself feel superior. 

And, with that, I&#039;m off to bed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182604" rel="nofollow">timncguy</a>: </p>
<p>I really don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anything to admit, re: the DADT timeframe. I recall early in the administration many pundits speculating that DADT wouldn&#8217;t be taken on in the first term. Can you point to a statement by Obama or a surrogate that says &#8220;We will repeal DADT by X date?&#8221; </p>
<p>@<a class="atr_link" href="#comment-182605" rel="nofollow">Orpheus_lost</a>: </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s start with the assumption that you&#8217;re an asshole. I have been polite and resisted name-calling through all of out previous exchanges, but &#8211; like anyone without an intellectual argument &#8211; you resort to insults. </p>
<p>You seem to equate pragmatism and strategic thinking with &#8220;timidity.&#8221; That&#8217;s your perspective. We simply don&#8217;t share it. The inoculation strategies I&#8217;ve referred to have been around issue unrelated to ours, but it makes me think he&#8217;ll be deploying similar strategies that will allow him to pass the laws we want. For examples, DOJ (with agreement that the brief was highly problematic) defending DOMA sets up the administration to silence pro-DOMA forces by saying they defended the law while it was in place while pushing for repeal (in the Congress). </p>
<p>Re: Marriage. I have seen on here and other blogs, a lot of sexual policing, e.g. &#8220;why are the leather guys marching in the parade&#8221; or &#8220;quick! hide the trannies, or they&#8217;ll make us look bad.&#8221; Perhaps you don&#8217;t recall how quickly trans people were thrown under the bus when ENDA was introduced during the pre-Obama congress. I do. And the same thing is happening to queer families that don&#8217;t fit the hetero-normative image of marriage. I see folks all the time, whose sexual history (and predilections I&#8217;m familiar with) arguing for marriage, while hiding how they actually live. And I say that being in a longterm monogamous relationship. Maybe, as Nancy Polikoff has argued we need something bigger than marriage that actually provides legal protections for how families (gay and straight) organize our lives. That&#8217;s something the movement used to fight for, but when activists introduced a similar working paper a few years ago, they were attacked by the marriage movement folks. </p>
<p>I find the military mostly abhorrent, but I do want those serving to be treated fairly so they can serve us best. My main issue, which you have ignored in post after post, is that stop loss is not the way to do it. Stop loss policies, have not only led to tens of thousand service people being horribly traumatized, physically and mentally, by multiple tours &#8211; some of them, I&#8217;m sure, are gay, but also let the Iraq war go on for years without a draft. A draft which would have ended the war with utmost speed. </p>
<p>Audre Lorde said &#8211; The master&#8217;s tools will not unmake the master&#8217;s house.</p>
<p>The rest of your scribbles are vain attempts to insult me, when, really, you don&#8217;t know me, my intellect or my contributions to the movement or community. You just disagree with me and feel the need to say nasty things to make yourself feel superior. </p>
<p>And, with that, I&#8217;m off to bed.</p>
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