You know, what I find more disgusting is how flippant Queerty’s staff was in reporting this issue. Since Iowa’s age of consent is 16, this 14 year old boy wasn’t someone Girouex just “had sex with”; this is statutory rape. It’s disturbing that your writer(s) couldn’t share this story in a more serious tone that this situation (and these male survivors) deserve. When you compare Girouex to a bad Sean Cody porn pun for some light-hearted chuckles and dismiss the experiences many gay men have with sexual violence, you’re really doing a huge disservice to a lot of your readers. C’mon Queerty, grow up.