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Gay Boxer Orlando Cruz Pummeled With Love And Support After Coming Out

Coming out can often be a difficult, even traumatizing experience, but as Orlando Cruz learned, it can also be incredibly cathartic and lead to a world of support one never knew existed.

Earlier this month, Cruz declared that he was and “always will be a proud gay man.” Expecting the worst, Cruz was instead applauded and congratulated for his bravery.

Fellow openly gay Puerto Rican Ricky Martin tweeted, “Congratulations Boricua for your courage! I’m so happy for you! Power to you! Peace to you and yours!” Cruz also received messages of support from all over the world, including Spain, Australia, Nigeria and Afghanistan, noting that 95% of responses to his coming-out have been positive.

“All this time I was waiting, waiting, waiting,” Cruz told the Orlando Sentinel. “I had to let go of this.”

Coming out to the world is one thing, but Cruz also found his parents accepting. His mother, Dominga Torres, had her suspicions about Orlando’s sexuality, but didn’t want to pry . Still, Torres was not surprised when he told her after coming back form the Sydney Olympics in 2000, where he had his first experience with a man.

“A mother knows her son,” she said as she watched him train for his fight Friday with Jorge Pazos. “Nobody is perfect in life. Only God is perfect. You have to learn to love your child no matter what.”

His father was a tougher nut to crack, and though he initially rejected Orlando, he’s come around, if not all the way to full acceptance.

“Dad supports me,” Cruz said. “After all, I am his son, and it’s my life, and he has to respect me for who I am.”

Orlando’s father will show his support for his son at the Pazos fight Friday, which could position Cruz for a world title shot.

By:           Les Fabian Brathwaite
On:           Oct 18, 2012
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  • 6 Comments
    • KARUADAM
      KARUADAM

      WOW baby, I am free for you any time! come take me.

      Oct 18, 2012 at 9:33 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • olen
      olen

      Is his mother suggesting his gayness is a flaw in that quote? sad and unacceptable.

      Oct 18, 2012 at 10:49 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mjl-428
      Mjl-428

      I’ll be watching Boxing more often now

      Oct 18, 2012 at 3:33 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • redcarpet
      redcarpet

      @olen: He just came out, give her time to process and learn, some people don’t have perfect PFLAG parents.

      Oct 18, 2012 at 4:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Black Pegasus
      Black Pegasus

      Queerty didn’t have any sexier photos of this man? seriously?

      but anyway, I’d fuck Mr Cruz in his tight toned ass while he’s wearing his boxing
      gloves. Mmmmm yeah

      Oct 18, 2012 at 7:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • James from chicago
      James from chicago

      He has a face only a mother could love.lol

      Oct 19, 2012 at 9:54 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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