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As a HOMO father to 6 I can tell you that your father was on your side! the wrong one. Go home and fuck him up big time don`t leave a inch untouched. AND make sure he eat hospital food for years.
Interesting that the tone that was taken in this article is that of not only defending the father, but insinuating that if the son didn’t want to forgive the abuse the son would be just some bitter idiot.
The idea behind the story in this particular instance is nice, but the tone of the article was extremely odd.
@Cam: Agreed. But it’s an artifact of our culture’s watered down version humanism, where everyone holds hands and “lets go” and “believes in light and love” and whatever other stupid bumper-sticker phraseology you can think of. Queerty doesn’t have educated people thinking deeply about these issues; that’s not their role. It just stupidly thoughtless, in the real sense of the word.
Forgiveness is never about God or the forgiven. It is about yourself. Finding peace with yourself. Moving on and releasing the hurt and baggage. You don’t have to forget. You don’t have to excuse. You don’t have to become friends with or mend the relationship with the forgiven. It is the best therapy ever.
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