You mean you’re not taking cues on when to come out from the television? In what sad world do you live in where pop culture doesn’t influence one of the most important days of your life? (You know, aside from your Can’t Get Married wedding day.)
Current TV prettyboy Bryan Safi runs through the usual suspects of small screen coming outs, bullet pointing various strategies. This is helpful.
Just remember: Coming out is a special privilege deserved only for homosexuals! You don’t see straight characters, on TV or IRL, cuing dramatic music for their big reveal in front of friends and family just in time to ruin a dinner party or intimate gathering. So make the most of it. And above all else, rehearse!