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Is 49ers Quarterback Colin Kaepernick Dating Gay Circuit DJ Luis Perez?

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By:           Matthew Tharrett
On:           Feb 4, 2014
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  • 76 Comments
    • dale landefeld
      dale landefeld

      it’s about time ya’ll got togetha

      Feb 4, 2014 at 6:41 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      I’m glad that beautiful ass is getting some man-love

      Feb 4, 2014 at 6:44 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jimbryant
      jimbryant

      Male-male relations have a lot of shades and degrees. They can be very “complex” in a psychological sense.

      For example, you can have a very intimate relationship between two men who identify as straight. They may touch each other and sleep together but they’re not going to take it to the level of sexual penetration.

      Then you have men who develop strong bonds of camaraderie which are based on shared sexual interest in women. Their relationships as men are based on having a good time together but having sex only with women. This is the “men are for pleasure, women are for babies” philosophy.

      In other cases, you have men who want the feeling of something in their anuses. They have a fetish for anal filling. They are attracted to anybody or anything that will fill their anus. If it’s a man who will do it, so be it. However, this does not mean that they are oriented towards men sexually.

      Take home message – male sexuality can be a very complicated thing that cannot always be owned by traditional labels.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:00 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      Haha, I couldn’t wait till right-wing troll response…

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dixie Rect
      Dixie Rect

      In order to be a ‘power couple’ don’t you have to be somewhat famous or at least recognizable?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Manchester
      Manchester

      @litper: LOL!

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:15 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Scribe38
      Scribe38

      @queerty is there any NFL player that you people don’t believe is secretly gay? Is it a crime just to be seen with a gay guy? Nothing you guys are doing on this subject is helping the gay rights movement. Please grow up and stop trying to out people who wouldn’t give you the time of day.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:17 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @Scribe38: is there any closeted NFL player right wing trolls haven’t defended?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ppp111
      ppp111

      @Scribe38:

      I know right? LMAO! I for one thoroughly enjoy this shit! What’s funny is that the quarterbacks mentioned (Rodgers and Kaepernick) are guys I find extremely attractive. Matter-of-fact, when the issue of the gay NFL players came up last year, someone at SFgate forums brought up his name. I immediately responded that Kaepernick was someone I would have thought of as well. I’m not afraid to admit that I’d rather have guys like Kaepernick and Rodgers on Queerty than Tom Daley any day. Granted, the football players are probably straight (as far as we know) but I find them more my type than Daley.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Rad
      Rad

      All that money and no rhinoplasty? He’s straight.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:50 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • KDub
      KDub

      @Scribe38: I literally lol’ed. So true. According to this site, pretty much every popular player is secretly gay, might be gay or has been gay at some point lol. So pathetic.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Fitz
      Fitz

      Nothing builds straight allies faster than calling them gay when they show a little affection! Good work!

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Scribe38
      Scribe38

      @litper: lol. I am not right wing. I voted for Obama twice, donate to pro-choice groups, gay male with same dude for 20 years. I am out, blk, and f*cking proud. I just don’t believe people should be outed or gay men sooo sad that they need famous folks to be drugged out of the closet to feel okay about their lives. The dude throws a ball for a living (very well, I am a fan) and that is the only part of him that the public deserves.
      @ppp111: yea I still hold onto his sport illustrated issue he is hot, but I don’t believe he is gay.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 7:58 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • dutchman67
      dutchman67

      @jimbryant: Jimbryant. I would hazard a guess that most men who “want something put in their anus” are probably gay. Or are you trying out some Denial?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:06 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • dutchman67
      dutchman67

      @Scribe38: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you WOULD jump on that in a New York minute, right?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nogoaway
      nogoaway

      I know right, gossiping about people possibly being gay on a gay website? Who do they think they are?! And KDub, you’re so right, TWO whole football players have been rumored to be gay here recently. Don’t they know that no football players are ever gay and even if they are you should never, ever speculate about it. It will single handedly ruin the entire gay rights movement.

      Can everybody pull the stick out of their asses here. Jesus Christ who are these commenters.

      By the way the only interesting thing about this is the pictures. Does anybody know where they could be seen?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:16 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @nogoaway: I agree, how DARE we discuss people’s sexuality especially since all gay NFL players are too chickenshit to come out. There is a reason for “drugging” these people out of closet. It’s 2014 ffs and they’re embarassment for our community just like gay republicans.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:35 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • macmantoo
      macmantoo

      Kap attended college here in Reno and there was never any gossip about him being gay. The gay community isn’t that big but I’m sure he could have found someone at college. I know his tats are religious in nature so I’m not sure whether he would he put all kinds of religious tats and be gay. But then again I was wrong once.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:35 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @ppp111: seems like you have a “straight” fetish

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:38 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ppp111
      ppp111

      @litper:

      Damn straight;-)! And yes that was an intended pun

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @macmantoo: a college football kid who just came out is a catholic who thinks gay sex is a sin… gay people can be fundies too

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @ppp111: straight = vagina = barf. Don’t find anything attractive there. This fetish comes from 1950s logic: gay = woman.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:48 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ppp111
      ppp111

      @Rad:

      What? Nothing wrong with his nose? I love it! And everything else about his body. The tats don’t bother me either.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:50 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ppp111
      ppp111

      @litper:

      Oh please! It’s all in good fun. Loosen up! LOL

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • skcord
      skcord

      Funny how it’s never the ugly guy suspected of being secretly gay : )

      Feb 4, 2014 at 8:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nogoaway
      nogoaway

      @skcord have you ever heard of Mike Myers or Ed Koch or countless others. Of course attractive people will be more gossiped about. Yours is a typical excuse, do you think you’re being original or something.

      Also weird that you consider Kaepernick to be attractive. A lot of people think he’s ugly (I think he’s hot though). Why wouldn’t gays target Brady or Eric Decker if they were just going for looks.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @skcord: like Larry Craig, the sex-symbol of the US politics

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:11 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Bob LaBlah
      Bob LaBlah

      If I were him I would have demanded the same thing. Who here amongst can actually say they wouldn’t mind someone whom you met at a gathering, thought was cute, cozied up to a few times and then they put the pics on social media with the obvious intentions of “look who’s gay and guess whose got’em’?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:44 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Scribe38
      Scribe38

      @dutchman67: lol. Once or twice. I prefer guys shorter than I am. I normally go for short, bear/cub types, but yeah he’s hot. Maybe a little too pretty for me.

      @litper: A man doing his job isn’t ANYTHING like a Republican/gay voting against our rights. This dude hasn’t said one anti-gay thing that I know of. But why stop at sports stars lets out every guy in the closet. Lets go in every house look up their internet history and pull these f*uckers into the street. Post their pictures on light poles. Wtf is wrong with you dude. I am cool with being gay, I love my dude and don’t need a QB to come out to make me feel good. BTW do you even watch football regularly to make any judgment on this guy’s behavior?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:50 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      So basically all a public figure need be is attractive for us to spread rumors about them being gay.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:50 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nogoaway
      nogoaway

      @DShucking: Basically you’re an idiot. The thing that started these rumors were pictures (that nobody can even see), not the fact that he’s “attractive.”

      Feb 4, 2014 at 9:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @nogoaway: I’m not an idiot, I was being facetious. Now go get AIDS.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:03 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nogoaway
      nogoaway

      @DShucking: Alright well obviously I shouldn’t have called you an idiot. That was wrong, I apologize. But you are annoying and predictable.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:08 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @nogoaway: Annoying, yes. Predictable? Wrong. I’m actually one of those people who does not come in here and slag off Queerty for being gossipy. I am absolutely gossipy myself and while I don’t think this guy is attractive in the face, he has a nice body. Now where are the pics that started this whole thing because I’ve never heard this rumor until now. Also, the pics of Rodgers with his roommate/assistant/BFF are reason enough to ask the question and I was totally down with that. P.S. Sorry about the AIDS thing. I’m a bitch.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • tjr101
      tjr101

      No doubt Kaepernick is my type, but given the numerous voluptuous women he’s dated and well having the bible literally tattooed all over his body. The guy is as straight as an unused nail.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nogoaway
      nogoaway

      @DShucking: It’s fine I’m a bitch as well. Yes that’s what I said in another post, the only interesting thing about this is the pics, they’ve been taken down and I wasn’t able to find them anywhere in a small amount of searching. If we could see them we could see if they were truly suspicious or not, as it is this article is pointless.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @tjr101: Didn’t he come out in support of marriage equality or a noh8 campaign or something like that?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:20 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @nogoaway: We’ll find them. :)

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:20 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ppp111
      ppp111

      @DShucking:

      I don’t believe Kaepernick has ever done any kind of marriage equality ad. I know other athletes have but I’m almost certain Kaep hasn’t. While I’ve never heard of him publicly supporting us he’s never made any derogatory statements about gay people either. The same goes for Aaron Rodgers although some people might take his ‘really, really loves women’ statement another way, I don’t believe it was intended to be homophobic.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 10:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @ppp111: Well then I am confused by the different personalities because I haven’t been keeping up. I know there are some sports personalities who are our allies but because I can’t stand sport, I lose track of the players.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      ppp111 , I agree. It’s easy to read too much into what someone says.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Deepdow
      Deepdow

      @jimbryant:

      Your first two examples are so positive, and demonstrably expressed within the straight perspective whilst your last example conflate subjective sex acts as the the totality of exclusive male homosexuality (or so it seems).
      Nice move there.
      I wonder, though, what drives a troll such as yourself. Your pathos betrays a self hate, a contempt, for actual homosexuality, yet your comments are clever in how you resolve your dilemma.
      You’re kind of one of the worst kinds of commenters.
      Pity this earnest website has you for its barnacle.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:31 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Respect4all
      Respect4all

      Who cares?

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:43 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • SteveDenver
      SteveDenver

      I hope that gorgeous booty is being used for more than just sitting and shitting.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:50 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • the other Greg
      the other Greg

      @Deepdow: I’ve found that with jimbryant’s longer psychological ramblings, it helps if you imagine him saying it aloud in an Austrian accent, in 19th-century garb like Sigmund Freud. But in this particular case, during that last paragraph, imagine him shoving a carrot up his anus.

      Feb 4, 2014 at 11:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • litper
      litper

      @Scribe38: “Lets go in every house look up their internet history and pull these f*uckers into the street. Post their pictures on light poles”

      sounds like a great idea, at least we’ll know the true numbers of gay (and especially bi) people

      Feb 5, 2014 at 12:21 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • alanj
      alanj

      @the other Greg:
      Well that works for me. I’d actually given up reading them, now they make far more sense.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 12:33 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • charwegl
      charwegl

      Here we freaking go again. Queerty used to be a respected source that reported important news to the LGBTQ community. Lately it’s turned into TMZ or Entertainment Tonight.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 4:47 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jslick7in
      jslick7in

      Who cares if he’s gay or not…he’s a good looking guy and if he wan’t to show it off like in these pics…it’s there for all of us to enjoy!!

      Feb 5, 2014 at 6:17 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jimbryant
      jimbryant

      Oh, please, a lot of you are just jealous of me. You’re jealous because I have the ability to discuss issues without being hostage to traditional labels and modern-day PC thinking processes. A lot of you have fallen victim to the latter in particular, sad to say.

      I repeat what I implied earlier, and that is that fetish can over-ride orientation. You see this in straight men who have a fetish for anal filling. The fetish is in the sensation. These men have no interest sexually in men but they will accept men who are prepared to fill them.

      If that grates, so be it. Put some ice on it.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 7:19 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • nichols evelyn
      nichols evelyn

      My Uncle Jace just got an almost new yellow Mazda MAZDA3 Sedan just by working online with a cheap laptop. you could try this out… http://x.co/3pTtY

      Feb 5, 2014 at 8:38 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jimbryant
      jimbryant

      Nicholas evelyn,

      Tell your uncle Jace to put his Mazda where the sun don’t shine.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 8:39 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • LadywithaLamp
      LadywithaLamp

      I don’t care whether they are gay or not…Thanks for the eye candy Queerty.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 8:55 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • the other Greg
      the other Greg

      @jimbryant: “Nicholas evelyn,
      Tell your uncle Jace to put his Mazda where the sun don’t shine.”

      Wow! Apparently some straight guys need a LOT of anal filling!

      Feb 5, 2014 at 9:42 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • the other Greg
      the other Greg

      @jimbryant: I learned about “straight men who have a fetish for anal filling” from Dan Savage, who is pretty PC.

      I’d certainly never heard about that phenomenon in my day-to-day life because, well, it really never comes up for us non-neurotic gay guys. (No offense.)

      So we don’t need to learn about “straight men who have a fetish for anal filling” from you. In fact we don’t need to learn about it at all.

      But the way you say “zenzation,” Herr Doctor Professor, and that carrot prop! – hilarious.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 9:45 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      Who the fuck cares if they’re dating? Stop making them part of your fantasies and leave them alone.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 10:41 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • skcord
      skcord

      @nogoaway What excuse was being made and for what? You are making assumptions about my intent based on a single sentence. Originality aside, it was a joke! Calm down buddy…

      Feb 5, 2014 at 10:51 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Spike
      Spike

      Jay who? What major gay circuit parties has he played. Never heard of him.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 11:08 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • balehead
      balehead

      This sounds like stalking….

      Feb 5, 2014 at 11:43 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dev.C
      Dev.C

      I don’t really understand why questioning if someone is gay or assuming so is always seen as a negative. It’s a problem that being thought of as gay is a bad thing or something criminal. That kind of subconscious self-loathing way of thinking needs to be completely exorcised from the gay community.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 12:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • viveutvivas
      viveutvivas

      @the other Greg, LOL.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 12:49 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • RK
      RK

      It would be nice if they were. However, it is ironic how these supposedly tough dudes are such pussies and insecure about who they are and remain closeted. Until we reach the point that a guy’s masculinity isn’t questioned because he is gay, we have a long way to go. Though it is changing as more guys feel more secure to come out.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 1:55 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Designermax
      Designermax

      I’ve read through some of the Comments. My thoughts? I think Colin is about positioning, and marketing… NOT DRAMA!!! If you read the article, “he broke up with his girlfirend” the day after signing his NFL Contract. If Luis Perez is (or now possibly in the “Was”-column) dating Colin Kaepernick, that might be in serious jeopardy by Luis’s posting the photos. At the end of the Day— Forget who’s dating him!!! He is all about protecting his “rice bowl” (livelihood/longevity). I could be wrong—Right now it’s all media image, not relationships, That’s ALL!!!

      Feb 5, 2014 at 2:06 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kangol
      Kangol

      @Rad:

      His nose is beautiful as is. Such a sexy man. If he is gay/bi, I hope he’s with someone who can appreciate him for who he really is, and vice versa.

      Feb 5, 2014 at 10:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DarthKitsune
      DarthKitsune

      Gay/Bi/Straight I don’t care, Colin is hotness incarnate!

      Feb 6, 2014 at 2:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • darkanser
      darkanser

      I’m trying to imagine who would think Kaepernick is ugly — with that boyish face and hot body. I’m confident he has a fan club a couple miles long.

      Feb 7, 2014 at 2:36 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • D P
      D P

      @DarthKitsune: — I agree! @darkanser: — count me among the many!

      I found Colin Kaepernick attractive and compelling from the first glimpse and from the first understanding about the man. I was cautious, because I seriously dislike anyone who doesn’t accept gays and their rights and tolerance is *not* enough. Kaepernick is someone I admire, embrace [until I learn something negative otherwise] and someone I wish I could get down with. Period. To me, he’s almost on a level with David Beckham, my GOD.

      Feb 7, 2014 at 6:41 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • balehead
      balehead

      So if someone is attractive or has style they are Gay?….This is so sad…just like the posters on here believing these self hate cliches…

      Feb 12, 2014 at 8:42 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mdterp01
      Mdterp01

      Yeah I’m not sure there is anything to the Kaep rumors. Then again, he is a Kappa and they have a reputation among the Black fraternities for having a lot of gay and down low members.

      Feb 13, 2014 at 1:47 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • misterhollywood
      misterhollywood

      Great article and I think you guys have done a wonderful job on reporting issues related to Colin K. We have an article up that explores his sexual orientation in detail and have linked back to Queerty as part of the exploration. We have also done the same thing for Aaron Rodgers.

      http://www.-straight-or-gay.com

      What is interesting here is the culture of the NFL in terms of gay players. It seems like it is an evolving saga with this because some days you hear some very supportive statements and other days you hear things that are just flat out ugly and unwelcoming.

      My own thoughts are that if the NFL embraced gay players, they would see an enormous spike in their fan base … bigtime!

      Great post Queerty – love you guys.

      Mister Hollywood

      Feb 17, 2014 at 12:08 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • misterhollywood
      misterhollywood

      Ooops – sorry

      http://www.straight-or-gay.com

      (added a . where there should not have been).

      Enjoy and thanks again Queerty!

      Feb 17, 2014 at 12:11 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Jessie R
      Jessie R

      @dutchman67: “I would hazard a guess that most men who “want something put in their anus” are probably gay.”

      I hate to even partially agree with jimbryant, but there are plenty of straight guys who are curious about or like anal penetration. Hence why pegging is a thing, and why TS woman porn is a popular straight fetish.

      Feb 18, 2014 at 3:08 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • enlightenone
      enlightenone

      @ppp111: The “Daley” part I agree! Queerty is obsessed w/Daley, why? I would like for Daley to spend some time out of the public eye to grow up a little.

      May 18, 2014 at 7:11 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • enlightenone
      enlightenone

      @jimbryant: If they are not oriented towards men and it’s only a fetish to have something “stuffed in their anus,” then a cucumber would do! Human beings aren’t objects – they are “complex” to much to deal with for anal “fetish.”

      May 18, 2014 at 7:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • enlightenone
      enlightenone

      @macmantoo: Religion and gay can mix (though I consider myself to be spiritual); it’s the dogma that would put gay people in conflict if they believe and try to make sense of it.

      May 18, 2014 at 7:26 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • enlightenone
      enlightenone

      @D P: Count me in the “Club!”

      May 18, 2014 at 7:55 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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