Comments on: Is America Really This Saturated With Tops? http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/ Free of an agenda. Except that gay one. Wed, 15 Feb 2012 13:38:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: VIc http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-366450 VIc Sun, 07 Nov 2010 22:35:25 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-366450 all I know is in Dallas, there are about 100 of us bottoms fighting for the few and far between REAL TOPS in this city. I really want to know where there is that statistic if reversed. you know 100 TOPS for every bottom. That would be heaven!! all I know is in Dallas, there are about 100 of us bottoms fighting for the few and far between REAL TOPS in this city.

I really want to know where there is that statistic if reversed. you know 100 TOPS for every bottom. That would be heaven!!

]]> By: whatajoke http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-360755 whatajoke Sat, 23 Oct 2010 23:00:26 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-360755 I can't believe someone actually took the time to do this analysis. It's kind of obvious from looking at that map that most guys do not want to be self loathing girly bottoms. As for the person who said bottoming is just being another part of being gay. That's ridiculous. A guy acts like a chick, pretends his anus is a pussy, and all is well in the gay world. You guys need to get out more into the real world and out of the gay ghettos. Anal is so 1960's/70's and you're watching way too much porn. We need to decrease HIV and no anal is the only way it's ever going to happen. Condom use has failed miserably. I can’t believe someone actually took the time to do this analysis. It’s kind of obvious from looking at that map that most guys do not want to be self loathing girly bottoms. As for the person who said bottoming is just being another part of being gay. That’s ridiculous. A guy acts like a chick, pretends his anus is a pussy, and all is well in the gay world. You guys need to get out more into the real world and out of the gay ghettos. Anal is so 1960′s/70′s and you’re watching way too much porn. We need to decrease HIV and no anal is the only way it’s ever going to happen. Condom use has failed miserably.

]]> By: voracioustop http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-360747 voracioustop Sat, 23 Oct 2010 22:19:06 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-360747 The thing is, 80% of the "tops" on manhunt are looking to get fucked after all, so.... The thing is, 80% of the “tops” on manhunt are looking to get fucked after all, so….

]]> By: Tony http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-344623 Tony Fri, 10 Sep 2010 14:03:12 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-344623 Fitz, I don't do anal. Read post #40. Kubo, I don't care what anyone does in the sack. They should keep it to themselves, but once you start talking about anal you are going to get flack. Buggery is a self loathing lifestyle--always was, always will be. And bottoming/topping is not another way of being gay. It's an unhealthy gay lifestyle choice which effeminizes the bottom and spreads AIDS. That's hardly productive. Some of us don't feel part of the gay community. We don't want to be part of it. We don't like the stereotypes involved in that lifestyle. You can complain there's not enough money given to AIDS and there's no AIDS vaccine on the horizon, but just think, if you give up anal you won't have to worry about AIDS. It's rarely transmitted by oral sex. It's main transmission is anal sex and sharing needles. Fitz, I don’t do anal. Read post #40. Kubo, I don’t care what anyone does in the sack. They should keep it to themselves, but once you start talking about anal you are going to get flack. Buggery is a self loathing lifestyle–always was, always will be. And bottoming/topping is not another way of being gay. It’s an unhealthy gay lifestyle choice which effeminizes the bottom and spreads AIDS. That’s hardly productive. Some of us don’t feel part of the gay community. We don’t want to be part of it. We don’t like the stereotypes involved in that lifestyle. You can complain there’s not enough money given to AIDS and there’s no AIDS vaccine on the horizon, but just think, if you give up anal you won’t have to worry about AIDS. It’s rarely transmitted by oral sex. It’s main transmission is anal sex and sharing needles.

]]> By: Kubo http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-344542 Kubo Fri, 10 Sep 2010 05:32:26 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-344542 @Tony If a guy "pretends" to be a girl in the sack what is that to yo?. Since you don't like it, you can leave it alone. We already have enough flak from the mainstream, we don't need hatred coming from someone within the community. Sex is sex, even heterosexual sex is dangerous, yet people do it anyways. I say, if you know the possible consequences and and want to go ahead, then go ahead. But what I do, or do not do in bed is none of your concern, unless you're in my bed. As for the "self-loathing" bottoming claim. "Bottoming" is just another part of being gay, kind sir, just like "topping," "versitle," and "no-anal" positions. Different gays, like it different ways. Your preferences don't have to be shared by everyone, or even liked for that matter. However, you should not be disrespectful to someone because they have views different than yours. Your way of thinking is counter-productive to our culture, narrow-minded, and to be quite honest offensive. But on the other hand, I do agree that there are other options for erotic interaction, and these should be looked into for those seeking to light a "spark" or two. (Finding someone into these options but not interested in intercourse, will naturally be difficult; as our culture as a whole tends to favor intercourse, eventually) @Tony If a guy “pretends” to be a girl in the sack what is that to yo?. Since you don’t like it, you can leave it alone. We already have enough flak from the mainstream, we don’t need hatred coming from someone within the community. Sex is sex, even heterosexual sex is dangerous, yet people do it anyways. I say, if you know the possible consequences and and want to go ahead, then go ahead. But what I do, or do not do in bed is none of your concern, unless you’re in my bed.

As for the “self-loathing” bottoming claim. “Bottoming” is just another part of being gay, kind sir, just like “topping,” “versitle,” and “no-anal” positions. Different gays, like it different ways. Your preferences don’t have to be shared by everyone, or even liked for that matter. However, you should not be disrespectful to someone because they have views different than yours. Your way of thinking is counter-productive to our culture, narrow-minded, and to be quite honest offensive.

But on the other hand, I do agree that there are other options for erotic interaction, and these should be looked into for those seeking to light a “spark” or two. (Finding someone into these options but not interested in intercourse, will naturally be difficult; as our culture as a whole tends to favor intercourse, eventually)

]]> By: Tony http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-344282 Tony Thu, 09 Sep 2010 17:43:51 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-344282 I only have sex with guys who love themselves. I live in the real world where men are men and they don't pretend their anus is a pussy. I don't get involved with anal tops or anal bottoms. The bottoms are the self loathers and the tops only contribute to their problem. If you want to take it between the legs get sex reassignment surgery and become a woman. Read post #40 for more info. I only have sex with guys who love themselves. I live in the real world where men are men and they don’t pretend their anus is a pussy. I don’t get involved with anal tops or anal bottoms. The bottoms are the self loathers and the tops only contribute to their problem. If you want to take it between the legs get sex reassignment surgery and become a woman. Read post #40 for more info.

]]> By: Fitz http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-344194 Fitz Thu, 09 Sep 2010 13:39:04 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-344194 @<a href="#comment-344185" rel="nofollow">Tony</a>: so... that means you only sleep with guys who hate themselves? @Tony: so… that means you only sleep with guys who hate themselves?

]]> By: Tony http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-344185 Tony Thu, 09 Sep 2010 13:32:24 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-344185 Bottoms are self loathing. To pretend you're a woman in bed is pathetic. Bottoms are self loathing. To pretend you’re a woman in bed is pathetic.

]]> By: horus http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-343582 horus Tue, 07 Sep 2010 18:26:55 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-343582 @<a href="#comment-216061" rel="nofollow">Tony</a>: you don't have to be into anal sex tony. please stop making negative comments about something with which (apparently) you are ignorant. it's highly offensive to me and i'm sure a few other people. being a man is more than what u do in the sack. it's how you live your life. how much integrity do you have? how considerate you are of others? do you treat your mate with respect and affection? it is true most boys take longer to mature. and we can see it doesn't matter if you are gay or straight. men are immature until they have some experience to back it up. @Tony: you don’t have to be into anal sex tony. please stop making negative comments about something with which (apparently) you are ignorant. it’s highly offensive to me and i’m sure a few other people.

being a man is more than what u do in the sack. it’s how you live your life. how much integrity do you have? how considerate you are of others? do you treat your mate with respect and affection?

it is true most boys take longer to mature. and we can see it doesn’t matter if you are gay or straight. men are immature until they have some experience to back it up.

]]> By: Tony http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-216061 Tony Tue, 15 Sep 2009 18:47:00 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-216061 @<a href="#comment-216015" rel="nofollow">OMG</a>: OMG, I don't know who these men are that you know, but not all gay men have anal sex. I thought everyone knew that. There's deep kissing, oral, body licking, body contact, frot, mutual masturbation, nipple play, lots of other exciting and erotic things to do with your partner. Why do something that's damaging to your body or another man's body? That's what anal sex does. And that's why so many gay American men have HIV, AIDS and damaged rectums. I know so many guys will say of course your anus is for sex because that's where your prostate is. My answer is always the same: if the anus were the male g spot and that wonderful a place, every man on the planet would be a bottom or verstatile. @OMG: OMG, I don’t know who these men are that you know, but not all gay men have anal sex. I thought everyone knew that. There’s deep kissing, oral, body licking, body contact, frot, mutual masturbation, nipple play, lots of other exciting and erotic things to do with your partner. Why do something that’s damaging to your body or another man’s body? That’s what anal sex does. And that’s why so many gay American men have HIV, AIDS and damaged rectums. I know so many guys will say of course your anus is for sex because that’s where your prostate is. My answer is always the same: if the anus were the male g spot and that wonderful a place, every man on the planet would be a bottom or verstatile.

]]> By: bghnow http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-216038 bghnow Tue, 15 Sep 2009 18:10:09 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-216038 @<a href="#comment-216020" rel="nofollow">Fitz</a>: Exactly right @Fitz: Exactly right

]]> By: Fitz http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-216020 Fitz Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:27:09 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-216020 What ugly stupidness is this. I don't sleep with tops or bottoms. I sleep with men. One, usually. What ugly stupidness is this.
I don’t sleep with tops or bottoms.
I sleep with men. One, usually.

]]> By: OMG http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-216015 OMG Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:20:55 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-216015 How does Tony have sex, we all wonder... Oral only? Which would be wonderful for me, since I'm totally orally oriented. Never met anyone who's like that too, though... How does Tony have sex, we all wonder… Oral only? Which would be wonderful for me, since I’m totally orally oriented. Never met anyone who’s like that too, though…

]]> By: Tony http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-207878 Tony Wed, 19 Aug 2009 21:30:08 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-207878 I'm not sure why any man would be a bottom. You could wind up with an STD or leaky bowels. It's not worth it. We've lost millions in our community from anal sex and thousands living with HIV. Gay men need to start empowering themselves and drop the top/bottom, sub/dom, insertive/receptive labels. Anyone can live without anal sex. Tops have this ego macho man thing, they're the man, the bottom is the pseudo vagina. The whole thing is ridiculous. If you do a little research you'll find in early history that anal sex was never part of being gay. It was frowned upon. If you want to be a top/insertive/dominant man then go have sex with a woman. I’m not sure why any man would be a bottom. You could wind up with an STD or leaky bowels. It’s not worth it. We’ve lost millions in our community from anal sex and thousands living with HIV. Gay men need to start empowering themselves and drop the top/bottom, sub/dom, insertive/receptive labels. Anyone can live without anal sex. Tops have this ego macho man thing, they’re the man, the bottom is the pseudo vagina. The whole thing is ridiculous. If you do a little research you’ll find in early history that anal sex was never part of being gay. It was frowned upon. If you want to be a top/insertive/dominant man then go have sex with a woman.

]]> By: E. D. http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-176740 E. D. Mon, 08 Jun 2009 14:50:40 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-176740 Maybe by tops they mean "straight guys who say they're straight just so they can fuck gay bottoms, nsa, without commitment, and then go back home to their wife" Maybe by tops they mean “straight guys who say they’re straight just so they can fuck gay bottoms, nsa, without commitment, and then go back home to their wife”

]]> By: me http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-175402 me Thu, 04 Jun 2009 05:21:11 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-175402 i don't believe this for a second. in my experience tops are actually quite rare. if gays can lie about their dick size (a study compiled from SELF-REPORTED data showed that gays have larger dicks on average, which i also think is untrue) then they can lie about this too. i don’t believe this for a second. in my experience tops are actually quite rare. if gays can lie about their dick size (a study compiled from SELF-REPORTED data showed that gays have larger dicks on average, which i also think is untrue) then they can lie about this too.

]]> By: Bitch Republic http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-175332 Bitch Republic Thu, 04 Jun 2009 01:22:30 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-175332 Utah is mostly bottoms in my experience. :P Utah is mostly bottoms in my experience. :P

]]> By: sparkle obama http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-175330 sparkle obama Thu, 04 Jun 2009 01:15:56 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-175330 ew, stop saying "bottoming". ew, stop saying “bottoming”.

]]> By: Paul http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174923 Paul Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:47:33 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174923 Wrong! I live in Michigan and 90% of the gay men I have met throughout my life here have been bottoms. (or versatile, which of course means I'll TOP if I have to.) Wrong! I live in Michigan and 90% of the gay men I have met throughout my life here have been bottoms. (or versatile, which of course means I’ll TOP if I have to.)

]]> By: Tweek http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174907 Tweek Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:09:42 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174907 I thought it just funny and somewhat sad. It just goes to show how being a "bottom" has a negative reputation - especially among new or closeted gays, who are less likely to be comfortable with bottoming. Additionally, the whole idea of anonymous sex often causes guys to not want to feel the vulnerability that can often accompany bottoming. Overall this sampling is very flawed. Lets see a statistic taken from the bar scene - it will be very much the opposite. I thought it just funny and somewhat sad. It just goes to show how being a “bottom” has a negative reputation – especially among new or closeted gays, who are less likely to be comfortable with bottoming. Additionally, the whole idea of anonymous sex often causes guys to not want to feel the vulnerability that can often accompany bottoming. Overall this sampling is very flawed. Lets see a statistic taken from the bar scene – it will be very much the opposite.

]]> By: Rodney http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174906 Rodney Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:06:45 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174906 Well, I live in Atlanta, GA. If the entire state of Georgia is Tops, than I need to start looking outside of Atlanta because Atlanta is the bottom capital of Georgia. There are about twenty bottoms for each top. This also includes the bottoms who classify themselves as versatile. Nobody ever tells the truth on those sites anyway. Well, I live in Atlanta, GA. If the entire state of Georgia is Tops, than I need to start looking outside of Atlanta because Atlanta is the bottom capital of Georgia. There are about twenty bottoms for each top. This also includes the bottoms who classify themselves as versatile. Nobody ever tells the truth on those sites anyway.

]]> By: Synnerman http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174897 Synnerman Wed, 03 Jun 2009 13:46:21 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174897 Somehow I don't think that takes into account the T.O.P.s (Tops on Paper) that pervades those venues. "I'm a top" get them into bed and they want to get fucked equals "versatile" but their queerphobic egos won't let them acknowledge they like getting fucked. Somehow I don’t think that takes into account the T.O.P.s (Tops on Paper) that pervades those venues.

“I’m a top” get them into bed and they want to get fucked equals “versatile” but their queerphobic egos won’t let them acknowledge they like getting fucked.

]]> By: Zack http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174894 Zack Wed, 03 Jun 2009 13:42:27 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174894 This is the dumbest post I've ever seen This is the dumbest post I’ve ever seen

]]> By: damon459 http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174864 damon459 Wed, 03 Jun 2009 11:08:58 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174864 with less then 500 people on manhunt for the entire state of Montana, labeling us mostly vers. is crazy I've lived in MT my whole life (30yrs) and I can tell you those Vers. guy's are bottoms. We have more bottoms then we know what to do with. If your a bottom and in MT you almost have to make reservations a yr. in advance lol, besides making an assumption on such a small sampling isn't going to give much accuracy. with less then 500 people on manhunt for the entire state of Montana, labeling us mostly vers. is crazy I’ve lived in MT my whole life (30yrs) and I can tell you those Vers. guy’s are bottoms. We have more bottoms then we know what to do with. If your a bottom and in MT you almost have to make reservations a yr. in advance lol, besides making an assumption on such a small sampling isn’t going to give much accuracy.

]]> By: Qjersey http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174862 Qjersey Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:48:23 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174862 I have fucked more guys who listed themselves as tops (not vers/tops) on manhunt than I can count I have fucked more guys who listed themselves as tops (not vers/tops) on manhunt than I can count

]]> By: sparkle obama http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174859 sparkle obama Wed, 03 Jun 2009 08:59:43 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174859 guys would be less embarrassed to identify as "bottoms" if you all would stop using those gross terms like "bottom" & "top". that's sooo 20th century! i've said it before, those terms are suspect, old fashioned, corny & demeaning. how about "receptive" & "insertive"?? is that too pc for you, aunties? duh, get with the program, girls. guys would be less embarrassed to identify as “bottoms” if you all would stop using those gross terms like “bottom” & “top”.
that’s sooo 20th century!
i’ve said it before, those terms are suspect, old fashioned, corny & demeaning.
how about “receptive” & “insertive”??
is that too pc for you, aunties?
duh, get with the program, girls.

]]> By: mb00 http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174855 mb00 Wed, 03 Jun 2009 08:21:58 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174855 @<a href="#comment-174760" rel="nofollow">Toby</a>: Yeah, I get ya, what's the stigma with being a bottom? I have some friends that are bottom and, but it's like they don't like to admit it. What's up with that? @Toby: Yeah, I get ya, what’s the stigma with being a bottom? I have some friends that are bottom and, but it’s like they don’t like to admit it. What’s up with that?

]]> By: Joanaroo http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174841 Joanaroo Wed, 03 Jun 2009 05:53:04 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174841 My gay male friends all laugh when I say this, but agree with me that "You guys have it best because you can have the best of both worlds!". My gay male friends all laugh when I say this, but agree with me that “You guys have it best because you can have the best of both worlds!”.

]]> By: rick http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174829 rick Wed, 03 Jun 2009 04:28:48 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174829 all this proves is that gay men lie just like straight men. all this proves is that gay men lie just like straight men.

]]> By: Jack http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174824 Jack Wed, 03 Jun 2009 03:56:39 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174824 Now I understand why my alma mater's song was "On Wisconsin!" Now I understand why my alma mater’s song was “On Wisconsin!”

]]> By: SaintCahier http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174806 SaintCahier Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:19:11 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174806 I think that at this level of aggregation, the data are useless. Maybe bottoms flow to metropolitan areas and tops stay on countryside (or vice-versa) so as to masquerade the State trend ? Besides how much is the imbalance ? Is is *that* statistical significant ? Should I add one more reason to move to California ? I think that at this level of aggregation, the data are useless. Maybe bottoms flow to metropolitan areas and tops stay on countryside (or vice-versa) so as to masquerade the State trend ? Besides how much is the imbalance ? Is is *that* statistical significant ? Should I add one more reason to move to California ?

]]> By: Michael W. http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174803 Michael W. Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:12:36 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174803 @<a href="#comment-174782" rel="nofollow">stevenelliot</a>: If you want a good prostate tickling, nothing beats one of these: http://www.aneros.com @stevenelliot: If you want a good prostate tickling, nothing beats one of these:

http://www.aneros.com

]]> By: JD http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174791 JD Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:24:15 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174791 Well, North Dakota at least makes sense. You kinda have to take what you can get out there. Well, North Dakota at least makes sense. You kinda have to take what you can get out there.

]]> By: KPC http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174790 KPC Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:18:19 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174790 Everyone is an individual and we all have various preferences in all aspects of life, including sex, and I truly to respect each person's individual taste. That being said, I've never totally understood the whole top/bottom phenomenom. I love to fuck and I love to get fucked. Both feel great. I'd never want to deny my other half the pleasure I get from both positions and it's so fun to just keep switching back and forth. But that's just me! Live and let live. Everyone is an individual and we all have various preferences in all aspects of life, including sex, and I truly to respect each person’s individual taste. That being said, I’ve never totally understood the whole top/bottom phenomenom. I love to fuck and I love to get fucked. Both feel great. I’d never want to deny my other half the pleasure I get from both positions and it’s so fun to just keep switching back and forth. But that’s just me! Live and let live.

]]> By: stevenelliot http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174782 stevenelliot Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:44:52 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174782 what man doesnt like his prostate tickled from time to time..... what man doesnt like his prostate tickled from time to time…..

]]> By: Jay Pat http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174779 Jay Pat Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:42:54 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174779 umm what? Yes craigslist is very accurate. Texas is all bottoms, everyone knows that. blahhh umm what? Yes craigslist is very accurate. Texas is all bottoms, everyone knows that. blahhh

]]> By: WeHo Joel http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174771 WeHo Joel Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:14:03 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174771 Well based on experience with Manhunt about 1/2 of the profiles are ASK. Then you have a good portion Bottom/Versatile which means Bottom usually. A few Top/Versatile which I always equated to he's a top unless he is high or drunk then he becomes a bottom bitch. I've never understood the stigma that comes with announcing to the world that one is a bottom. Do we all hate ourselves that much? I don't think people would like on Manhunt that they are top or bottom as what would be the point. But they stretch the truth as in all the stats they provide. The bottom becomes bottom/versatile which means he is a bottom unless after 12 hours of cruising Manhunt the only way he'll get laid by someone close to his own age is to top the guy. Hey people it's just sex. Relax. Well based on experience with Manhunt about 1/2 of the profiles are ASK. Then you have a good portion Bottom/Versatile which means Bottom usually. A few Top/Versatile which I always equated to he’s a top unless he is high or drunk then he becomes a bottom bitch.

I’ve never understood the stigma that comes with announcing to the world that one is a bottom. Do we all hate ourselves that much? I don’t think people would like on Manhunt that they are top or bottom as what would be the point. But they stretch the truth as in all the stats they provide. The bottom becomes bottom/versatile which means he is a bottom unless after 12 hours of cruising Manhunt the only way he’ll get laid by someone close to his own age is to top the guy. Hey people it’s just sex. Relax.

]]> By: Toby http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174760 Toby Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:51:53 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174760 I have lived in NYC, DC and LA. My experience has been most of the gays I have met and have been friends with are bottoms. My experience has shown that most bottoms don't admit to being bottoms so I think this poll is little skewed by some fibbing. I have lived in NYC, DC and LA. My experience has been most of the gays I have met and have been friends with are bottoms. My experience has shown that most bottoms don’t admit to being bottoms so I think this poll is little skewed by some fibbing.

]]> By: Fitz http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174758 Fitz Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:50:51 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174758 Wonderfully, in the Bay area, there are 20 bottoms for every top. Wonderfully, in the Bay area, there are 20 bottoms for every top.

]]> By: James http://www.queerty.com/is-america-really-this-saturated-with-tops-20090602/#comment-174748 James Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:24:58 +0000 http://www.queerty.com/?p=55779#comment-174748 Mainly I think that manhunt has a lot of tops whereas gay.com has a lot of bottoms. Mainly I think that manhunt has a lot of tops whereas gay.com has a lot of bottoms.

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