Tonight’s Barbara Walters Oscar Special, airing at 7pm on ABC, will be her last. After twenty-nine years of interviewing famous actors — of interest to the public because they might receive a golden statue on the night of the program’s airing — Walters is hanging up her hat. And she has just one single regret over that nearly three-decade era: Ricky Martin.
Of her 93 interviews with A-list stars, Walter’s only admitted mistake is pushing Martin to address the rumors that he’s a ‘mo.
“In 2000, I pushed Ricky Martin very hard to admit if he was gay or not, and the way he refused to do it made everyone decide that he was,” she says now. “A lot of people say that destroyed his career, and when I think back on it now I feel it was an inappropriate question.”
Did Walters didn’t destroy his career? Well, she certainly didn’t help it, but the rumors were out there, and they still are, even as Martin grows increasingly closer to acknowledging his sexuality. There was no Twitter back then, so it’s hard to judge whether there would have been an even wilder storm over his remarks. But rather than leaving the issue alone, she pressed him: “You know, you could stop these rumors. You could say, as many artists have, ‘Yes I am gay,’ or you could say, ‘No I’m not,’ or you could leave it, as you are, ambiguous. I don’t want to put you on the stop, but it’s in your power to do it.”
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In the above video clip from The View, which aired in 2006, Walters counts down her top thirty mistakes; Martin’s interview only makes the No. 5 spot.
(That doesn’t make Ricky Martin’s interview the one she detests the most: “I absolutely hated the year I had to sit down with the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I don’t want to go down in history for doing that one. And the year I talked to Shrek? Please. Let me forget that.”)
In another interview with Martin, Walters asked less about his sexuality, and more about his romantic life — about how he’s enjoying his success (and whether he’s truly “livin’ la vida local“), and whether he’s seeing anyone, and whether he’s ever been in love. Walters delved into Martin’s personal life, the same way we expect entertainment journalists to do … with out heterosexual celebs.
alan brickman
She`s always hated gays since Al Cohn made a fool of her….
Michael
One can fully support women in journalism, and condemn how long it took for them to be admitted, and still objectively and fairly say that if Walters were male she would long ago have been reduced to working check out at Wal-Mart, and now one of their “greeters.” She didn’t break barriers with ability, she broke them with mere stubbornness and threats of yelling “Sexism!” if she didn’t get her way.
She didn’t get her “major interviews” with serious news figures because of any real accomplishments or abilities as a reporter. The subjects agreed to be interviewed by her because she herself was a celebrity, and they knew it would give them a widely-watched forum for their views.
Has she ever apologized for publicly revealing how basically incompetent she is when many moons ago, on “Today,” she asked someone who had worked with the famous humanitarian Dr. Albert Schweitzer, “How is the Dr. doing?” and, after a stunned pause, the person replied, “Well, Barbara, he died two years ago.”?
[And by PUBLICLY talking about the Ricky Martin incident AGAIN…she’s too stupid AND narcisstic to realize she’s smearing him again in a hetero-driven industry. Treating being gay as something to be ashamed of has been one of her specialities for decades.]
Or for giving a sense of decency to and playing beard for one of the most heinous closet queens this side of Jeffrey Dahmer: Roy Cohn?
ewe
Come off it. He is in the closet, he has always been in the closet and frankly he makes it very difficult for others who are not because he is the one who is being interviewed dodging around and fostering the idea that there is something to be ashamed about when there isn’t. For that Ricky Martin is childish, afraid and not capable of ever rising to the status of someone like Ellen or Elton John who say what they are and move on to the next question. He is stuck. I cannot have empathy anymore. The man is how old now?
OH and Barbara Walters is and always has been nothing but a smelly fish.
ewe
It isn’t that difficult to just say ” i am into guys” when and if he is asked the question again. Whats the big deal? I guess it is a big deal if you pretend to be straight and live a whole lie your whole life. Pathetic. Barbara Walters asked President Nixon about his sex life. She is a skank.
zenflo
“La Vida Loca” was only a half-step above the stereotype-inducing strains of the “Macarena,” “Mambo No. 5” or, for that matter, “Der Kommissar.”
His career stalled in the U.S. because he had nothing particularly relevant — and so many syrupy ballads — to offer going forward.
Michael
In other words, Barbara, it’s NOYFB.
Lukas P.
Is Ricky Martin still a celebrity? I thought he’s just busy being a Dad these days.
James UK
Whatever Baba Wawa has to apologise for it isn’t this: giving Elizabeth Hasselback a job ought to have been in the top 5.
Ricky Martin wasn’t facing being fired from his job and nor was he one paycheck from the poor-house if he came out.
He’s in the business of celebrity and she’s in the journalism business. Admittedly neither of them are at the serious ends of their trades, but still. If Martin didn’t set up the terms of the interview before recording began that certain topics were off limits, then he can’t complain that the question was asked.
And nor should we.
Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of.
AxelDC
I recall that interview. It was absurd, but it wasn’t WaWa’s fault.
Ricky Martin knew what it was about, he agreed to do it, and he’s the one with the unconvincing, ridiculous answer.
And “ruined his career”??? Like no gay man has ever gone on to have a successful career in music. Tell that to Elton John, George Michaels, Rufus Wainright, the Scissor Sisters (most of them), Erasure or the Pet Shop Boys.
Martin’s career faltered because he has little talent and because fans can smell cowardice. Going on TV to tell people you are ashamed of yourself is the worst possible response to gay rumors.
joytotheworld
Ricky Martin’s career is in the crapper because he stinks. That’s where it belongs. As if this closet case knows anything about “She bangs”. I believe he doesn’t just come out already because he’s afraid of alienating his Latina fan base (and truly, those are the only fans he’s ever had)
Everyone else can smell his mediocrity at best and down right gag inducing lameness at worst, a mile away.
Is he gay? Duh, but who cares now? He missed the opportunity to capitalize on the one interesting thing about himself. He’s a total snooze fest. Go back to Puerto Rico bum!
jason
Barbra Walters is vile, just vile. As for Ricky Martin being “gay”, here we go again with the insistence that a bisexual man declare himself as “gay”.
Bisexually oriented men are NOT gay, never have been gay, and never will be gay. They may have homosexual feelings along with their heterosexual ones, but they are not “gay” in the sense of exclusively homosexual feelings.
ewe
@jason: They are not straight either. Be sure to be balanced in your assertions please. If one must defend the fact they are not fully gay with their bisexuality then the same demands must be met defending they are not straight. Plus between you and me… she is as gay as i am. Get real.
jason
Ewe,
I totally agree with you.
ewe
@jason: ok. well now i am genuinely confused. What are you talking about then? I don’t believe bisexuality. I think you are either bi straight or bi gay. The rest is just a safe place to sit in an oppressive society or a place where one makes themselves feel superior to others. Gay people are already superior to everyone else so…. end of subject. lol. only kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ewe
I am only attacking bi people because they rarely are capable of coming to my aid when i need them or so it seems. I actually do acknowledge bisexuality and feel that it is the MOST difficult of orientations to be. They really do piss me off sometimes. I equate them with “stoner surfers”.
jason
“Bisexual orientation” means that one has feelings and fantasies for men and women in various proportions. It can be 50:50, 90:10, 10:90 or whatever. There is no set proportion. The prefix “bi” does not necessarily mean 50:50.
Look, I’m glad that Ricky Martin may be gay or bi. But I’m not going to force Ricky to declare himself as gay if he’s also disposed towards women.
Barbwa Walters might think she was doing us a favor but she’s also being very narrow in her perception of male sexuality. Male sexuality is not a bi-polar paradigm, it’s a spectrum.
ewe
I am by no means supporting Barbara Walters. I think she is shallow. But we are all bisexual with your definition and THAT IS JUST NOT THE TRUTH. I am sticking to what my own experience tells me and that is that bisexuals tend to have their feet up their ass and their head in the clouds. They act as if they are some velvet underground and we never see them but when i do meet some as i do in self help groups and meetings, they always turn out to be more gay than i am. Thats just my experience. And the ones who are not gay are just straight guys who want a blow job. Go pay someone for that. I am so over it. Of couse i am speaking about males only which is what you are addressing.
zenflo
Yes … La Ricki-ti-ta seems pretty solid in the gay column. Can’t recall any media coverage with female companions that looked like more than carefully orchestrated “beard” photo-ops.
Gay is gay, bi is bi and straight is straight. Jeez Louise!
ewe
I am just not going to pretend i like bisexual men. They are too high maintenance.
Kieran
Let’s not pretend Homophobia is a thing of the past. It’s not. It’s very much alive and it’s slimey tentacles reach into virtually every segment of our culture and society. Let’s not pretend that Ricky Martin coming out as gay would have no affect on how he is seen by many of his fans. American Homophobia is real, runs deep and hasn’t been erradicated from society yet folks. Give Ricky Martin credit for not paying some bimbo to act as his wife. He has come as close to saying “I’m gay” without actually saying it as any celebrity around. If and when he wants to publicly discuss his sexual orientation, it should be up to him—-not a bunch of ANONYMOUS posters to a gay website.
ewe
@Kieran: screw you too.
Lukas P.
Hay cosas mas importantes que la musica y la publicidad!
Mr Martin has done some very admirable charitable work on behalf of children exploited for sex-traffic/trade purposes.
He has put whatever vestige of celebrity cachet he has into that. Good on him….
As for his music career, well he had some hit songs and his moment in the sun, but it’s been awhile, hasn’t it?
Whether or not he is bi or gay might be interesting to speculate about, but he has never come out as anything. I can’t imagine too many people over the age of 18 think he’s straight. Someone whose career is fresh and soaring *might* weigh the cost/benefit analyis differently and skew toward delaying a grand proclamation –which is still not admirable in my book — but I can’t summon the math skills to figure out WTF he has to LOSE at this point!
What he has to gain may likely be:
+ a revived fan base,
+ a chance to re-ignite his career,
+ duets with George Michael!
+ self respect
+ an end to wildass media speculation
+ and feel a SIGH OF EFFIN’ relief that he doesn’t have to hide that part of himself [40%? 75%? 98.5%?] that is oriented to man-on-man sex, partnership, friendship, cohabitation, porn, greeting cards, gym, and vacation locations.
P.s I don’t know Spanish so I sorta used my Italian-Spanish dictionary for the above headline. Sorry for mistakes…..
p.s. i am not watching the Oscar awards but the twitter-feed is dizzying. Yea Mo’Nique!
benlayvey
I’ll still hit that!
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terrwill
@benlayvey: Those pics are as old as Ricky’s claims that he is not a big homo!! : p
Robert, NYC
I’m no fan of Walters and quite frankly, I don’t think she is that much of a talent. I do wish she would get elocution too. In any event, I don’t think its anybody’s business delving into someone’s sex life, no matter their orientation, perceived, assumed or otherwise. This was more about Walters’ ratings. She’s just another media whore and doesn’t have really good judgment especially when she hired two airheads, Sherry Shepherd and Elizabitch Hasselback. Bad, bad, bad.
Sam
Barbara Walters has been long-derided for (amongst other things) her inability to go beyond the most basic of interviewing techniques—the questions are often as soft as the camera lens pointed at her. Never mind that he dodged the question, or that there are numerous other closeted celebrities who have similarly skirted around the issue of their sexual orientation, presumably for fear of losing their lucrative tween girl fan-base. The one time she actually asks the question few others have had the opportunity to pose to Ricky Martin in person, and she feels that was too tough.
spindoc
No. 11 · jason said…
Barbra Walters is vile, just vile. As for Ricky Martin being “gay”, here we go again with the insistence that a bisexual man declare himself as “gay”.
Bisexually oriented men are NOT gay, never have been gay, and never will be gay. They may have homosexual feelings along with their heterosexual ones, but they are not “gay” in the sense of exclusively homosexual feelings.
__________________
Where is your proof that he is bisexual? He has never declared anybody to be his girlfriend. This is where your argument breaks down Jason, you were SO desperate to come in here and beat your bisexual drum that you never even bothered to check on the person we are talking about. You are such an angry bisexual that you almost sound like you are trying to convince yourself rather than us.
JSP
I was house-sitting for friends and next to the bed was Walters’ autobiography and with nothing else to read I read much of it that week. Ugh. Talk about self-absorbed. Very bizarre reading.
Robert, NYC
Jason, I’ve met some bisexual males who contend that not only are they not gay but when they engage in sex with males assert that is NOT gay sex. The fact that a man, bi or even straight engages in sex with someone of his own gender, that is 100% gay sex. Bisexuals are NOT straight either as some of them like to pretend they are even if the ratio towards heterosexuality is 60-40 or more. Its more about denial of the gay component that pisses me off. I wouldn’t wish bisexuality on anyone and I can’t imagine how difficult it must be not really sure of who you are even if your orientation is 60-40. Imagine getting married and having to keep that part of yourself hidden from your significant other, having to lie about your true identity. I can’t imagine how difficult that could be. Painful for some I’m sure.
sal(the original)
ROSIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hyhybt
“Did Walters didn’t destroy his career? ”
Sorry, I just can’t make sense of that one.
Jaroslaw
There was a long bitter post about bisexuality last year. To summarize, yes it exists, but not nearly to the extent some like to claim. Because as you can see here on this post, there is still a stigma to being Gay. Another problem is that for the great majority of supposed “bi’s” to sit out the fence and call themselves bisexual reinforces the notion that sexuality is fluid and is a choice. Someone eloquently wrote that parents or whomever can still hold out hope the right girl can “cure” their son of his homosexuality!
WTF?
“destroy his career”? He was a moment of fun, a novelty – to Americans who are the most fickle music listeners on the planet, never appreciating anything but the vapid pop on the radio that’s “hot” right now. If you spoke more than one language, you would know that his career didn’t die, slump, or otherwise. He just moved on from what he was doing musically at that moment. His music before was in Spanish and he returned to those roots. It was the foray into the money-making world that what the latin pop explosion of the 90’s that died. That’s all.
ewe
@Jaroslaw: I agree. Bi schmeye. They are too cowardly to come into the danger zone. The danger zone, being a place where one must combat an acceptance toward an oppressive society. Bisexuals are about as helpful as PFLAG members to me. They turn around their dysfunctional troubles onto gay people when all their drama is in their own head AND I HAVE TO BE THE ONE THANKING THEM FOR THEIR SUPPORT? I think not. Get over it. Most of them are as disturbed about sexuality as ex gay ministry alumni.
ewe
@WTF?: You are so right. He tried to be Elvis Presley. Even Elvis would not make it today.
badabing
@ joytotheworld
I agree with you. You can only play coy for so long about it before the public loses interest completely. And apparently, that was the most interesting thing about him. Whether it’s right or not, you put yourself out there for scrutiny when you’re in the public eye.
Meghan
Do you not have an editor? All of your mistakes really take away from the reading.
MuscleBoy
Ricky who?
benlayvey
@Jaroslaw: I insist as I’ve always done that bisexuality in MEN is a myth as I know of no men over the age of 30 who STILL lay claim to the label.
Hyhybt
@benlayvey: So, what, people you’ve never met don’t exist?
Cam
No. 40 · Hyhybt said….
@benlayvey: So, what, people you’ve never met don’t exist?
________________
Look, if he was REALLY bi, then he would have had no trouble trotting out some hot little woman to the occaisional red carpet event. That has never happened. Bi’s supposedly like women don’t they? So you’re telling me that in 15 years he hasn’t found one woman to have a relationship with? not sounding very bi.
Hyhybt
@Cam: If, as has been implied on Queerty before, he already has a partner, then he wouldn’t likely be looking for another.
I don’t know enough about Ricky Martin to say; it’s just the notion that just because Benlayvey doesn’t know any “men over the age of 30 who STILL lay claim to the label” that bisexual men don’t exist. Other possibilities, which could occur in combination: truly bisexual men are rare, less common than those pretending to be; bisexual men have learned by the age of 30 that, ironically, it’s far easier to call yourself either “gay” or “straight” or people will assume you are lying; if you have a partner and wish to remain faithful, there’s no point in declaring that you’re also attracted to the other sex; etc. This last one, of course, would work in reverse in a business largely based on your fans’ wanting to have sex with you.