
—Blake Skjellerup, the Olympic speed skater from New Zealand, countering comments made by Germany’s national soccer team goalie Ursula Holl, who is married to a woman, and who told reporters, “I think it is problematic that gay players should come out. The more you disclose about your personal life, the more vulnerable you are. And the fans in the stadium can be very, very cruel. These public hostilities would be difficult to bear…I would not advise any football player to come out.”
We need out athletes to stop apologizing for being out. We can’t rely on the straight ones to speak for us, we have to speak for ourselves. I realize that this conversation may not be full of pleasant observations (hey, Ms. Holl is speaking the truth from her perspective), but the dialog needs to happen. And it needs to happen among gay athletes now.
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Good for him. Hell Monica Seles came back after being stabbed in the neck and back dispite lingering fears and emotional issues that this caused her, to win another Grand Slam.