Halloween is a distant memory for most of us, but it’s an imminent reality for the tumultuous trio. And like any TV show featuring the spookiest of all holidays, Looking delves into the genre of horror this week. Except instead of grisly murder or suspenseful secrets, they pull out all the stops in an emotional bloodbath.
Things start off simply, with Dom, Ag and Pat arguing over their costumes. The scene is light, but it’s a good reminder that these three are actually friends. While I enjoy the depth of their separate storylines, I’m always happy to be reminded that sometimes they just meander around together and make silly jokes. It’s been a while since they’ve had that opportunity.
When Ag has to bail, there’s a weird moment where Dom and Pat acknowledge that he used to be horrible and is still not that great. To all the people asking, “why would anyone be friends with Ag?” you can take solace in the fact that the characters might not be entirely sure themselves. But since our favorite bearded deviant has shirked his plate-buying duties, Pat has to go to the office to steal some. Because, you know, that’s the only possible place in San Francisco where a person could reasonably come by something as rare and precious as paper flatware.
And of course while he’s there he just has to talk to Kevin. Bossman Cheaterpants is in an understandably iffy place, feelings-wise, but has made the call to move back to Seattle with his boyfriend. For some reason, Patrick feels like he has a say in this, and suggests that the move maybe not happen because, like, what about my needs? It’s a decidedly dodgy move given how he treated Kevin at last week’s office celebration, but don’t worry, he’s just getting started.
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After a little drama of who’s-doing-couples-costumes-with-who, everyone gets dolled up and heads to the party and the awkward gets turned right up to twelve. First off, even though Patrick’s Gordon Freeman costume is actually really good, no one gets it. (Though Ag has no right to throw shade since all he did was drape himself in cosplay wigs.) Dom, who presumably still doesn’t like to be called Daddy, shows up in a harness to play He-Man. Whoever thought of that: thank you. We all needed it very badly.
But then the guest list gets a little more complicated. Doris and Malik make an insane Sonny and Cher, but the insinuation of love and marriage has our favorite lady nurse ready to bolt for the door. Turns out they’ve become a proper couple since last time we saw them. Presumably if the show were an hour long, we wouldn’t have to play so much connect-the-dots with the minor characters. Next, Richie and the Ginger arrive in adorably casual Where the Wild Things Are costumes and proceed to be adorably casual with each other. Great for them, but bad for our host.
Since Eddie is never not the best person in the room, he shows up dressed as Bilbo Baggins with a sexy Legolas in tow. He is overt in attempting to set Patrick up with this guy, but the elf is out of luck because Patty’s already selected his date for the evening: ALL THE VODKA. All of it. His only goals tonight are to inflict himself on Richie and tell everyone about the karaoke sign-up sheet ten times each. Emboldened by the booze, he proceeds to destroy a perfectly nice conversation among his friends and their dates about PrEP. Uncalled for, dude! We finally had PrEP being discussed on TV, don’t ruin it for us! Go ruin something else, like your chances with the guy Eddie brought over.
Pat, perhaps mistaking one of Legolas’ braids for implied consent, tries to get a make-out session going on the dance floor. You can’t pull that shit with an archer, though, because you will get shot down. For most people, this would be a low point. But most people don’t invite their partnered boss fuckbuddy to their house party, so we’re nowhere near done yet. Yes, Kevin shows up with Jon right behind him and everything’s about to get very real.
I believe it was Chekov who said that a karaoke machine that gets plugged in during the first act has to be used to hurt multiple close friends during the third act. Fulfilling this prophecy, Patrick puts on his “Season 1 Agustin” costume and gives a long, embarrassing, thoroughly inebriated speech to the helpless crowd. To Dom, he offers a dismissive message about the restaurant that clearly shows how little he believes in its potential. To Ag, he provides a stinging “joke” about the rent that’s not getting paid. To Richie, he deals a low blow about his boyfriend’s choice to take Truvada. And to Kevin, he offers a suspicious story about being alone in the office that finally convinces the onlookers to pull the plug on this unsightly meltdown.
For some reason, Kevin thinks he should have a chat with Patrick right now. They’re all lovey-dovey in a way that they should know is wrong because everyone is telling them it’s wrong. Like, in the moment, as it’s taking place, they are getting clear signals not to do this. Ag tries to prevent the conversation from even happening, and Jon swoops in to stop it almost immediately. Boyfriend’s no fool (despite the literal jester’s hat), he knows something’s up.
We end with everyone’s relationships in various states of disarray. Ag clearly wants more from Eddie, who is unwilling to go there. Malik really wants more from Doris, who seems to want more also but is afraid to give it. Dom is alone on the couch even though he is a kind, hot, single, shirtless, emotionally stable top at a gay Halloween party. Patrick has earned some amount of alienation from pretty much everyone he invited tonight. The exception to this trend is Richie, who makes a clean escape and remains a good man dancing with another good man. My theory? He and his date survived the carnage because they were the only ones in comfortable costumes. Let that be a lesson to you next October, readers.
lauraspencer
This series is still LOOKING for its ever shrinking audience.
Here are the ratings for the 5 episodes that have aired so far…
.183
.195
.324 (season high)
.192
.150
For perspective, season one’s heighest rated episode was .505 and the lowest was .118
HBO will not be able to afford to bring the show back with such low numbers. The show is not growing its audience and isn’t even retaing the one that it had from season 1.
DJ_Gayburn
@lauraspencer: Such a shame, I really like this show!
MarionPaige
@lauraspencer:
Your obvious talents are wasted on tv show ratings. You should be working on world peace and climate change.
MarionPaige
instead of airing Looking with it’s allegedly “low ratings” (whatever that means in today’s multiplatform / vod market) HBO should just go black (or air a repeat of Bill Maher – a man all of America hates).
Doughosier
@MarionPaige: I live in America and love Bill Maher.
Paco
Maybe the ratings will improve when HBO finally offers their standalone streaming subscription this year.
cd30
Towards the end of the episode, what do you think that exchange of looks between Patrick and Richie was about? Does Richie feel sorry for Patrick or was it more of see what you did Patrick, you cheated on me with him and now you are alone and I’m happy and not alone. It is obvious that Richie still has feelings for Patrick but is afraid of getting hurt again.
lauraspencer
I enjoy Bill Maher as well.
Even though ratings are fractured by today’s multi platform viewing experience they are still the standard that most networks rely on to measure show success.
Yes, HBO follows a different model since it is subscription driven and not ad sales focused, but even a subscription service isn’t interested if there aren’t enough eyeballs watching hence not enough willing to subscribe for that particular show.
HBO’s ENLIGHTENED has similar ratings and didn’t make it past season 2 even though critically acclaimed and a golden globe winner.
@marionpage….one thing at a time. I should have my research on climate change ready for presentation next week. World Peace is a bit too much for me to tackle at this time.
MinnesotaNotNice
Wow, what a crash and burn for Patrick. Watching him self destruct was almost a pleasure when you look at how he treated Richie and then this latest encounter with Kevin. Looking to see how out of control he gets, but with only maybe 2-3 episodes left for this season and the frequent comments about how poorly the show is doing in the ratings and possible cancellation, I’m not holding my breath.
onthemark
These write-ups are well done and a lot of fun. I enjoy reading them before watching the show.
MarionPaige
it seems clear from reading entertainment industry blogs that the most important factor in whether or not a tv show is renewed today is “how much does it cost to produce” (i.e who owns it).
redcarpet30
I don’t know why Richie is willing to be within 500 feet of Patrick at this point. After his obvious attempts to get him back, all the shit he pulled in season 1, last weeks revelation of Patricks cheating, Patrick’s cheating with his MARRIED BOSS…I just don’t see why Richie doesn’t look at that and go “keep that crazy hot mess away from me, so glad I dumped him”.
Everyone is Team Kevin and Team Richie. I’m team nobody. Patrick has a lot to make up for before he deserves or can handle a guy, especially a decent one like Richie.
Alan down in Florida
It strikes me that part of the ratings problem is that this year Looking follows a new HBO series called Togetherness which is outright awful. In my market it goes head to head with Downton Abbey.
Hate me if you must but I just want to wrap Patrick (loved the facial hair) in my arms and tell him everything will be all right.
enlightenone
@redcarpet30: “…I’m team nobody. Patrick has a lot to make up for before he deserves or can handle a guy, especially a decent one like Richie.”
You’re “Team Richie” own it!
robho3
And the winner for the most unlikeable character in the history of television is………….Patrick. Do people like this even exist in the real world? And who invites their ex’s over for a party and what ex would even come esp to those train wrecks party? Even the fag hag is irritating.
jorgecruz
Most of my friends who watched this show in the beginning have given up on it. I enjoy it more than they do and still watch it every week. It has the feel of Tales of the City with its quirky charm. However I have two big complaints. The show is written like a tv sitcom. Not in the dialogue but in the way the story lines begin and end neatly in each episode. It feels like you don’t have to invest in the series because each week the episodes seem to start some place new that is completely unrelated to the previous episode. You aren’t even sure how much time has passed from episode to episode., you could almost watch any episode and have a pretty good idea of everything that is going on without knowing much back story. My second biggest complaint is about the length of the show and the editting. The show feels like it should be longer to tell more of the details of the story. Maybe it can’t budget for an hour, but who says a show can’t be 35-45 minutes long- especially on a cable channel. If it is going to continue to run as a half hour, then all the scenes shown need to have more importance. There are too many scenes each week that are not critical to the main story lines so the episodes don’t feel as impactful as they could be. Each scene seems to take place in a different location- have to move from room to room , go outside or inside, why can’t there be half an episode with two characters together in one place? The show has likeable characters but the audience needs to start seeing more reasons why we want them to succeed and begin rooting for their success or the show will fade away.
DistingueTraces
Team Brady
bh3443
Anyone know the name & artist of the song at the end? Thanks, BH
onthemark
@redcarpet30: Apparently San Francisco is a small town with hardly any gay people in it. That’s why these guys hang together even though they have little in common to begin with. And they’re always desperate to keep the friendship going after it falls apart, because there are hardly any new gay people to meet.
musctop
Couldnt get past 5 minutes of this show. I live in NYC–if I want to see vapid, self obsessed gay men I just have to go to the corner deli.
Cam
@lauraspencer: said… “HBO will not be able to afford to bring the show back with such low numbers. The show is not growing its audience and isn’t even retaing the one that it had from season 1.”
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HBO can afford to do whatever it wants to. It doesn’t sell advertising, and doesn’t have it, so ratings are a non-issue as long as people are still subscribing to it. And with shows like “Game of Thrones” people are still subscribing. So the ratings of this show don’t have much to do with whether or not it continues. It’s on Sunday night, filling a spot. Unless HBO has a bunch of series waiting in the wings trying to push it out there isn’t a reason to cancel it.
As for this episode, Patrick’s drunken speech, I mean, the guy is 30 years old and does that? Why do the writers keep writing him and Groff keep playing him as if he’s 19?
lykeitiz
@Cam: said: “As for this episode, Patrick’s drunken speech, I mean, the guy is 30 years old and does that? Why do the writers keep writing him and Groff keep playing him as if he’s 19?”
That has always bugged me too. Then I started to think I was being bugged about the wrong thing. I mean, think about it. Are there actually 30 (or 50) year old gay men with the mentality of 19 years old running around? Um…..YEAH!
Sadly, the answer is “Yes”. Now what bugs me is that when I watch it real life, I don’t want to watch in on TV.
Double R
I’m glad to have a show like Looking on HBO. It’s not enough to throw in a random gay character into an other wise straight television cast. I want a show with gays for gays.
I think it does an excellent job of representing gay life in a big city. It’s good to have a gay show that isn’t over the top like Rupaul’s Drag Race. The characters are realistic and make good and bad decisions like we all do. I have gone back and watched it from the beginning and have noticed the improved writing and acting. I hope HBO recognizes its importance and keeps it around.