According to the all-knowing Wikipedia, a micropenis is an “unusually small penis” with an “erect penile length … smaller than about 7 cm (2 3/4 in).” It is a condition that affects about 0.6 percent of males and that is rarely ever talked about. Until now.
One brave man has opened about his life with a micropenis to New York Magazine during an in-depth interview, discussing everything from scarring sexual experiences, to experimenting with men, to the types of condoms he uses. The 51-year-old English teacher from the U.K. bared all — the good, the bad, and the ugly — about what it’s like having an infant-sized penis.
Here are a few highlights from the interview…
On when his penis stopped growing:
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I was 14. Quite honestly, my entire life has been shaped and damaged by my penis size. I’m still not really over it, even though I’m way into middle age. I’ve had relationships, but they’ve never been terribly good, particularly not from my partner’s point of view. I always feel like I can’t do what I should be able to do as well as most people. That’s what I worry about. And doctors have never been any help.
On his first sexual experience:
It was traumatic. I was 21 and it was at a party. I’m very sociable and I love parties. This was a big house party and a lovely girl really took to me; she really enjoyed my conversation and she was the one who suggested to me that we go upstairs and find a bedroom. This had never happened before … She undressed and then she helped me undress, because I wasn’t very keen to take my clothes off. She started trying to get me hard because she couldn’t really see what was there. I guess she was hoping it would change, or get bigger. I did get semi-hard but it wasn’t enough and I couldn’t penetrate her … We got to a certain point and she couldn’t hide how disappointed she was. She was quite annoyed and I don’t blame her at all; to this day, I don’t blame her.
On actually losing his virginity:
It was great, even though it was also embarrassing. It was much better than the first time because the girl I was with was very experienced and knew how to deal with me; she just knew how to get what little I had to offer. She knew how to get that little thing inside her! She made the most of what I have. And she was sweet and lovely and laughed about it all and she was fascinated by how small it was. I had a relationship with her for almost a year. But she lost interest in having sex with me, she had other boyfriends, and eventually she became a lesbian.
On having penetrative sex:
It’s really very difficult. All the other things are fine: oral, manual and I have never got into all the additional things, the toys, the strap-ons and the vibrators. I don’t like it. I love bodies, touch and all those things are great, but full sex is something I just can’t do properly. My penis is just not big enough. When I’m having sex I’m always aware that she’s probably pretending to enjoy things more than she really is and the last woman I was with admitted that was true and that just stopped me dead. I knew it was true and of course it’s not her fault, it’s my fault.
On experimenting with men:
For a while I thought, It’s no good. I thought maybe I should just be gay — maybe I could just be a bitch to a gay man, I could take it up the ass. But I didn’t enjoy it very much and I realized I wasn’t gay. You’re either gay or you’re not; you can’t make yourself be gay. But I really liked the whole world of gay men and women — the scene, but not the sex. I did sleep with a few guys, though.
On when having a small penis works in his favor:
Oral sex. Giving it rather than receiving it. I’m often worried that women feel they have to return the favor, but I would need to be very thoroughly persuaded that any woman would really want to put my horrible little penis in her mouth, and then taste the result. I would like to think I might be good at other things — maybe as a gentle, miniature introduction to anal sex, but I have never had the nerve to ask if it might be wanted.
On warning his partners before hand about his micropenis:
I usually say, “I don’t think you’re going to be terribly impressed, but this is what I’ve got.”
On the last time he had sex:
Twenty-one months ago. February 2013.
On condoms:
When I was desperate to get into bed, to get into women, I was trying to find condoms that worked, but I still haven’t found one. You can get ones that are really small, but there’s so many sad stories of that. Oh no. There are small ones these days, but back then you couldn’t. It was one size fits all, and it didn’t. It didn’t fit at all by any means, and of course the few girls that I’ve known had practiced with their boyfriend the best way of putting on condoms, but when they met me and had to deal with me, it was just totally different. It’s not like a banana at all; it’s a little battery. All I can ever do is say “I’m sorry. I’m so sorry.”
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Oli1023
This guy actually said “and eventually she became a lesbian” and then “You’re either gay or you’re not; you can’t make yourself be gay”.
WTF? Is he delirious, or just have a double standard for men and women?
1EqualityUSA
Vlad Putin is one of the most powerful men in the world. This guy’s in good company.
HereinNYC
Sorry, what was the upside of this? It sounded pretty downhill and traumatizing all around.
Kieran
For a story like this a picture would be worth a thousand words.
georgemed222
Kudos to him for being open about a topic many men would shy away from every talking about. Size is such an obsession with us, and not without reason – but it’s not the only factor. Penis health, for example, gets neglected (beyond checking for STIs) but is important; more guys need to regularly rub in a first rate penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to address common issues (dry skin, odor, etc.)
Bromancer7
I knew a guy who had micropenis. It was literally the size and shape of my pinky finger, with a tiny little head the size of my fingernail. I really felt bad for the guy. Thankfully he was content being a bottom.
Milk
@georgemed222: Its like going to a all you can eat restaurant. You know you can’t eat that much but the thought of having all these food makes one think it’s the best restaurant to be. It’s psychological. Unless one is born on the extreme side. The craving of big penis is as superficial as Donald Trump having a good hair plug.
NoCagada
Maybe he qualifies for a license plate for the disabled…
1EqualityUSA
NoCagada…”Missing third leg.”
Stache99
@Milk: It’s not a requirement but it sure is fun thing to be surprised by every now and then. I’m like a kitty with some catnip:)
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@Oli1023:
That only applies to women. Girls can become gay and then go back to straight just like that, I know tons of cases.
Cam
He seems to have a little baggage that may be hurting his chances. He says why should a woman want to put his horrible little penis in their mouth. Well I bet to a woman who isn’t that into given head, or has a bad gag reflex, a guy like him would be a bit of a dream in the “Giving oral sex dept.” Would be much easier for her. He should think of it like that.
ethan_hines
According to science Testosterone is NOT what determines penis size it’s Testosterone’s BIG brother DHT (Dihydrotestosterone) . I know for a fact that Female-To-Male transsexuals successfully use DHT cream to enlarge their member. More research clearly needs to be done for all males who are not satisfied with their size.
robho3
Poor guy I feel so bad for him. I have like a 6″ penis and sometimes I feel stigmatized for that.
darkanser
@ethan_hines: I always knew there was something about balding guys……;-)
Stache99
@darkanser: Ha. I was thinking the same thing since DHT is the main culprit in balding men.
Chris
Props to this man for having made his peace with his endowment and, though having SOME lingering issues (though way fewer than I think I would have), seeming to be more-or-less adjusted to the genetic-hand that his parents dealt to him.
TundraMichael
My very first time was with a guy with a micropenis. I didn’t really know what to do with a penis that size, and he apparently didn’t know what to do with a normal size one. I really am normal size, and he complained it hurt his mouth. I had something resembling my little finger (except not nearly as long), so I didn’t have that problem.
RevJames
@NoCagada: You win!
stranded
@robho3: I know right? I’m 6in myself and sometimes i get flat out rejected for it. I don’t know whether it’s the influence of porn or in terms of hooking up, everybody just turns into a size queen.
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neilgordon100
I have no hangups what so ever… flaccid i am 2.3 Inch and erect 3.2 inch.. Uncut and shaved.. I was told i am undeveloped. it has a boyish look. It works if i doggie as that was the only way my ex wife could fall pregnant.. I keep it shaved as it will get lost lol… looks so much better.. pity i cant show you on this… you will be surprised.. when erect the foreskin does not retract its self. In sex i pull it back.. i can have sex with the head covered. My wife after children found it hard to feel me inside her… she would allow me to cum and then i she would cum herself… on her own or using my penis.
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