There’s a first for everything, and this week, boyfriends graduating the police academy together is having its moment.
Meet Jimmy Moccia and Shawn MacIver, who as of today are cadets in the Boston Police Force. They’re also a happily partnered couple of five years.
Moccia, whose father and brother who are also Boston cops, told the Boston Herald “I think it’s important to note that throughout the entire academy experience we were never afraid to be ourselves.”
“I’m not going to lie. I was pretty nervous on the first day back in December,” he continued. “I sort of didn’t want people to find out because I didn’t want people to look at me differently. I wanted people to get to know us. We didn’t want to be known as ‘the gay cops.’ We’re cops who just happen to be gay. There’s so many other things we are. Yeah, gay’s on the list, but it doesn’t define us.
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MacIver almost gave up his dream of joining the force were it not for the inspiration he found in Tim Hancock, a member of the BPD’s SWAT team.
“Tim came out 20 years ago this month after he graduated from the police academy,” MacIver said. “He’s a former Marine, a legend in the department, not to mention an inspiration and motivator who told me I could pick up my dream and follow it here in Boston.”
The two met working security for gay bar Club Cafe in Boston, and hope their being part of a minority community will serve them in their new jobs.
“On the civil service exam there is no box you can check for being ‘gay,’ but the truth is we are a minority,” Moccia said. “We are a minority in the country as well as the department. But when you talk about community policing, I think it really provides us with a deeper empathy. We understand what it is like to exist in the shadows.”
Billy Budd
It is awesome to have gay policemen.
Brian Tankersley
Gorgeous
rob1953
Thank you both for sharing your story. You guys are an inspiration to all gay youths that have been bullied-once again proving that “things do get better.” It is possible to be gay and have it “all” just like everyone else. We are really all just people. Best of luck in your new careers. Be safe it is a tough job!
Philip Faust
LOL Stop and frisk YES :).
polarisfashion
Do they take turns wearing the handcuffs in bed?
wpewen
Joining the force is typically a father/son thing, it’s good that Boston is hip with it. Here in CA we’ve had out gay cops for quite a while, LA was one place that quickly moved on it, Richmond has an out chief (Seamus).
For a lot of guys, following in their Dads’s footsteps in important. I wanted to be in the Navy like my father but was 4f. He himself was an underground contractor, but construction has a long way to come behind civil service.
Interesting, and a development I applaud as a gay man.
Glücklich
First the serious stuff.
Were ENDA to pass and there were a box to self-identify as gay on job applications and the like, how many of us would check it? I don’t know that I’d want my sexual orientation to be considered at all not that I’ve ever felt it’s held me back.
Now the fun stuff.
@polarisfashion—naughty boy. I’d take a beating from either of their nighsticks. Disorderly conduct? Public indecency? Puh-LEASE, broo-tal-i-TAY!
@wpewen I think all boys go through a phase early on where they want to do the same job their dads do. I went through that phase. But not much older I decided instead I wanted to work behind a desk in a clean, quiet office, not some greasy garage, and carry a briefcase into a big skyscraper. So that’s what happened. Pays better, too.
gjg64
Security at Club Cafe? What for? The horrible Sunday buffet?
Ridpathos
So cute!
DDstar1me
MEH..
wpewen
@Glücklich: I wouldn’t phrase it that way. Some boys don’t go through identification with their Dads at all, it’s just a continuum. Things like military service and certain types of work do get passed down. Just depends on the individuals involved.
Bauhaus
@Glücklich:
The clean, quiet office, coming home to the greasy garage. Mmmm. Mmmm. Mmmm!
Nick Cioffi
Best of luck to both of you!
notevenwrong
@gjg64, LOL.
Cagnazzo82
I think it’s cute, but I just have issues with the prevalence of SWAT teams in America in general… so yeah, conflicted.
The story would make for a good TV show or movie though.
Glücklich
@Cagnazzo82:
I dunno…if someone took Mr. Glücklich hostage I’d want a SWAT swarm mowing down every single person between him and the door.
One ought to think of them the same way one thinks of the IRS: don’t attract their attention and there won’t be a problem.
Chris Mommaerts
So Cool
Glücklich
@Bauhaus:
The real dynamic is far more titillating. Paint spattered sweaty tank top-wearing artist and three piece suit-and-tie Wall Street type.
Darrell Schissler
Yessssss
Bauhaus
@Glücklich:
Yowza!
GayEGO
Congratulations guys! It is nice to see gay guys able to be open about themselves in all kinds of businesses and organizations.
Clark35
Congrats to them.
Tommy Gibson
Congrats
Charles Crown
He looks a little too young to have gray hair
jwtraveler
@Billy Budd: It’s so much better when the cops violating your civil rights, arresting lawful protesters and shooting unarmed black men are gay.
Bangloy Jayson
Congrats.lord i wish i will find my someone
Dakotahgeo
Absolute best to these guys and all GLBT LEOs. People we can be proud of!!! AND support!
notevenwrong
@Charles Crown, I think gray is sexy on young people.
Glücklich
@Bangloy Jayson:
What are you, twelve? Thirteen? Work on your grades instead.
Bauhaus
@Charles Crown:
Never too young for grey hair. Grey is sexy at every age, especially young. My hair is stubborn and won’t turn, dammit.
Niall Rueckher
Starsky&Hutch used to hug a lot
Sansacro
@jwtraveler: That’s quite a sweeping statement regarding cops.
Sansacro
@Charles Crown: Knew several guys and women who had grey patches since their twenties; one in high school. I call them “sontags” (as in Susan . . .).
stranded
“And hope their being part of a minority community will serve them in their new jobs.” Didn’t really work with Women, Latinos or Black people. But let’s hope.
Ralph Love
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Patrick Laney
I would be happier if they were from New York.
Jamie Murphy
Love ya both xo
David Manzanares
Love it!!!
NoCagada
So, where’s Jason Smegma’s post on this???
Glücklich
@NoCagada:
Oh my god! I just spit Scotch into the bathroom mirror laughing.
Alex Hintz
someone mention fallout 4?
Tim Kolman
Who is ready to go commit some crime in Boston!!?! Me!!!