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	<title>Comments on: Now That Gareth Thomas Is Out, Will The Tabloids Start Gossiping About His Sex Life?</title>
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		<title>By: Steve Shawcross</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Shawcross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 21:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The UK has come a long way since the unfortunate John Fashnu, a footballer who came about 20 years ago-- ended up hanging himself. That cast a long shadow over men coming out in sport.

Also I think Welsh men, especially in south Wales, have a reputation for being macho (confer Aberdare tic-tacs!). As Ian &quot;H&quot; Watkins said of his youth in the valleys, if you weren&#039;t married by the age of 21, questions were asked-- it&#039;s the &#039;done&#039; thing. It took him a long time to come out, despite it being more &#039;obvious&#039; with him!

I had always thought it would a be tennis that saw a sportsman coming out, given the sport&#039;s reputation for lesbians.However a rugby player coming doesn&#039;t particularly surprise me, since rubgy fans tend to be less &#039;trouble&#039; than footy fans (although I&#039;m sure there are a few thuggish rugby fans and there are plenty of well-behaved footy fans).

I always hoped it would be Jonny Wilkinson who&#039;d come out, darn!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The UK has come a long way since the unfortunate John Fashnu, a footballer who came about 20 years ago&#8211; ended up hanging himself. That cast a long shadow over men coming out in sport.</p>
<p>Also I think Welsh men, especially in south Wales, have a reputation for being macho (confer Aberdare tic-tacs!). As Ian &#8220;H&#8221; Watkins said of his youth in the valleys, if you weren&#8217;t married by the age of 21, questions were asked&#8211; it&#8217;s the &#8216;done&#8217; thing. It took him a long time to come out, despite it being more &#8216;obvious&#8217; with him!</p>
<p>I had always thought it would a be tennis that saw a sportsman coming out, given the sport&#8217;s reputation for lesbians.However a rugby player coming doesn&#8217;t particularly surprise me, since rubgy fans tend to be less &#8216;trouble&#8217; than footy fans (although I&#8217;m sure there are a few thuggish rugby fans and there are plenty of well-behaved footy fans).</p>
<p>I always hoped it would be Jonny Wilkinson who&#8217;d come out, darn!</p>
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		<title>By: John from  England(used to be just John but there are other John's)</title>
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		<dc:creator>John from  England(used to be just John but there are other John's)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ B Damion

I meant &#039;wife&#039; not &#039;wide&#039;....</description>
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<p>I meant &#8216;wife&#8217; not &#8216;wide&#8217;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: B Damion</title>
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		<dc:creator>B Damion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 20:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you John.</description>
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		<title>By: Chitown Kev</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chitown Kev</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@MK

&quot;If it&#039;s anything like America, the gay media will try to dig up embarrassing sexual dirt on the guy as much as possible and since he is out the mainstream media will pick up some of those stories (especially the reputation damaging ones).&quot;

Uh, this Britain...and in terms of hot sex stories, their twice as bad as America. Oh, we WILL get the dirt.

And considering that ass spread, I will get insanely jealous once that dirt comes out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@MK</p>
<p>&#8220;If it&#8217;s anything like America, the gay media will try to dig up embarrassing sexual dirt on the guy as much as possible and since he is out the mainstream media will pick up some of those stories (especially the reputation damaging ones).&#8221;</p>
<p>Uh, this Britain&#8230;and in terms of hot sex stories, their twice as bad as America. Oh, we WILL get the dirt.</p>
<p>And considering that ass spread, I will get insanely jealous once that dirt comes out.</p>
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		<title>By: John from  England(used to be just John but there are other John's)</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/now-that-gareth-thomas-is-out-will-the-tabloids-start-gossiping-about-his-sex-life-20091222/#comment-250786</link>
		<dc:creator>John from  England(used to be just John but there are other John's)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 12:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ B Damion

I know you mean well but his wide says she doesn&#039;t want your pity and doesn&#039;t regret anything. HER words.

http://www.towleroad.com/2009/12/i-still-love-gareth-and-i-will-never-stop-loving-him-says--jemma-in-her-first-interview-since-he-publicly-announced-he-was.html#comments</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ B Damion</p>
<p>I know you mean well but his wide says she doesn&#8217;t want your pity and doesn&#8217;t regret anything. HER words.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.towleroad.com/2009/12/i-still-love-gareth-and-i-will-never-stop-loving-him-says--jemma-in-her-first-interview-since-he-publicly-announced-he-was.html#comments" rel="nofollow">http://www.towleroad.com/2009/.....l#comments</a></p>
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		<title>By: alan brickman</title>
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		<dc:creator>alan brickman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 04:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The man has a hawt body please put more pics of this manshow up...morning goods anyone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The man has a hawt body please put more pics of this manshow up&#8230;morning goods anyone?</p>
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		<title>By: BradSA</title>
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		<dc:creator>BradSA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The gay media do most of the leg work for gay haters when it comes to gay celebrities whether they are in or out.&quot;

i.e Queerty. I couldn&#039;t agree more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The gay media do most of the leg work for gay haters when it comes to gay celebrities whether they are in or out.&#8221;</p>
<p>i.e Queerty. I couldn&#8217;t agree more.</p>
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		<title>By: mk</title>
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		<dc:creator>mk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt; Not only do you have to ask whether editors at papers like The Sun will go after him, but whether their readers will even want to know the dirt. &lt;/i&gt;

If it&#039;s anything like America, the gay media will try to dig up embarrassing sexual dirt on the guy as much as possible and since he is out the mainstream media will pick up some of those stories (especially the reputation damaging ones). The mainstream media can say they got it from a gay gossip source so it shields them from the &quot;you&#039;re attacking a representative of a vulnerable minority, playing into the gay guys are sexually compulsive deviants stereotypes gay haters love to exploit, and damaging this important guy&#039;s ability to be a figure for the political movement&quot; complaints they&#039;d be open to otherwise. The gay media do most of the leg work for gay haters when it comes to gay celebrities whether they are in or out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i> Not only do you have to ask whether editors at papers like The Sun will go after him, but whether their readers will even want to know the dirt. </i></p>
<p>If it&#8217;s anything like America, the gay media will try to dig up embarrassing sexual dirt on the guy as much as possible and since he is out the mainstream media will pick up some of those stories (especially the reputation damaging ones). The mainstream media can say they got it from a gay gossip source so it shields them from the &#8220;you&#8217;re attacking a representative of a vulnerable minority, playing into the gay guys are sexually compulsive deviants stereotypes gay haters love to exploit, and damaging this important guy&#8217;s ability to be a figure for the political movement&#8221; complaints they&#8217;d be open to otherwise. The gay media do most of the leg work for gay haters when it comes to gay celebrities whether they are in or out.</p>
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		<title>By: BradSA</title>
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		<dc:creator>BradSA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, Clay Aiken has been in a long term relationship with a total hunk for the last few years. How boring that he keeps his private life to himself. Now that he&#039;s been out for more than a year and there&#039;s no salacious gossip, he&#039;s neutered? C&#039;mon Queerty. Can&#039;t you do better than slam a guy for that? 

Have you SEEN his boyfriend? He&#039;s 6&#039;2&quot; and hot enough to do a photo spread on. 


http://i47.tinypic.com/67kwnq.jpg</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, Clay Aiken has been in a long term relationship with a total hunk for the last few years. How boring that he keeps his private life to himself. Now that he&#8217;s been out for more than a year and there&#8217;s no salacious gossip, he&#8217;s neutered? C&#8217;mon Queerty. Can&#8217;t you do better than slam a guy for that? </p>
<p>Have you SEEN his boyfriend? He&#8217;s 6&#8217;2&#8243; and hot enough to do a photo spread on. </p>
<p><a href="http://i47.tinypic.com/67kwnq.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://i47.tinypic.com/67kwnq.jpg</a></p>
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		<title>By: B Damion</title>
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		<dc:creator>B Damion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 20:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a gay man. I wasn&#039;t trying to be offensive with my statement. I&#039;m just sharing my feelings on the matter like everyone else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a gay man. I wasn&#8217;t trying to be offensive with my statement. I&#8217;m just sharing my feelings on the matter like everyone else.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike in Asheville, nee "in Brooklyn"</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike in Asheville, nee "in Brooklyn"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:22:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@No.6 B Damon:

Do you get all that preachy over all divorces? If not for the extensive reach of homophobia and bigotry, perhaps Gareth, like so many before him and many to follow, would have come to peace earlier in their lives.

Continuing living a life of lies cannot mend a fake marriage; with the truth, the ex-wife now has a chance to fall in love with someone who can truly love her back. For the children, they get to watch, albeit somewhat tardy, the strength it takes to be out and the exposure to a natural part of humanity.

B Damon, are you straight or stupid?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@No.6 B Damon:</p>
<p>Do you get all that preachy over all divorces? If not for the extensive reach of homophobia and bigotry, perhaps Gareth, like so many before him and many to follow, would have come to peace earlier in their lives.</p>
<p>Continuing living a life of lies cannot mend a fake marriage; with the truth, the ex-wife now has a chance to fall in love with someone who can truly love her back. For the children, they get to watch, albeit somewhat tardy, the strength it takes to be out and the exposure to a natural part of humanity.</p>
<p>B Damon, are you straight or stupid?</p>
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		<title>By: FakeName</title>
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		<dc:creator>FakeName</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, what an idiotic take on it! By people he hurt along the way I assume you&#039;re referring to his ex-wife? With whom he remains close friends and who supports him completely, and is in a far better position to comment than some random douche on the Internet? And seriously, boring to be straight? The man struggled for 20 years with his sexuality and contemplated suicide.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, what an idiotic take on it! By people he hurt along the way I assume you&#8217;re referring to his ex-wife? With whom he remains close friends and who supports him completely, and is in a far better position to comment than some random douche on the Internet? And seriously, boring to be straight? The man struggled for 20 years with his sexuality and contemplated suicide.</p>
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		<title>By: tavdy79</title>
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		<dc:creator>tavdy79</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Ryan, google Sean &amp; Rory Lamont, and you&#039;ll go from fan to fanatic. Just make sure you have safesearch off ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Ryan, google Sean &amp; Rory Lamont, and you&#8217;ll go from fan to fanatic. Just make sure you have safesearch off ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: B Damion</title>
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		<dc:creator>B Damion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not happy for this man at all. Ya great he came out. But how many people has he hurt in the process. No one ever talks about the people he has hurt all along the way. These men that get married have kids n then wanna come out of the closet..when they decide that now it&#039;s boring to be str8..lol..have hurt other people. He&#039;s a fraud..n i personally think that he will still want some pussycat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not happy for this man at all. Ya great he came out. But how many people has he hurt in the process. No one ever talks about the people he has hurt all along the way. These men that get married have kids n then wanna come out of the closet..when they decide that now it&#8217;s boring to be str8..lol..have hurt other people. He&#8217;s a fraud..n i personally think that he will still want some pussycat.</p>
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		<title>By: Alexa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alexa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Clay Aiken is all but neutered&quot; - what the hell does that even mean? Just because you don&#039;t think he&#039;s fuckable doesn&#039;t mean other men feel the same way, or that he&#039;s not having sex on a regular basis. 

If you read what I wrote in the first thread about this yesterday, my ex is still jumping for joy over it. She called me up twice (from England) about it. It&#039;s a really big deal, not just because he&#039;s a huge sports star, but because people think it may encourage other sports stars to come out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Clay Aiken is all but neutered&#8221; &#8211; what the hell does that even mean? Just because you don&#8217;t think he&#8217;s fuckable doesn&#8217;t mean other men feel the same way, or that he&#8217;s not having sex on a regular basis. </p>
<p>If you read what I wrote in the first thread about this yesterday, my ex is still jumping for joy over it. She called me up twice (from England) about it. It&#8217;s a really big deal, not just because he&#8217;s a huge sports star, but because people think it may encourage other sports stars to come out.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;sn&#039;t it.  

*WOOF - Pant - Pant - Drool - Drool - WOOF*

I am now officially a Rugby fan!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;sn&#8217;t it.  </p>
<p>*WOOF &#8211; Pant &#8211; Pant &#8211; Drool &#8211; Drool &#8211; WOOF*</p>
<p>I am now officially a Rugby fan!</p>
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		<title>By: ask ena</title>
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		<dc:creator>ask ena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holy CRAP!! (that butt shot is insane!)</description>
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		<title>By: Mike in Asheville, nee "in Brooklyn"</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike in Asheville, nee "in Brooklyn"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NO TO DISCRIMINATION; NO TO HOMOPHOBIA! Gareth&#039;s as good as: Brad Pitt, Derek Jeter, so no holds back.  Every sordid detail of Gareth&#039;s sex life should be published along with nude pictures! 

(Okay, just kidding, but it would be fun reading.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NO TO DISCRIMINATION; NO TO HOMOPHOBIA! Gareth&#8217;s as good as: Brad Pitt, Derek Jeter, so no holds back.  Every sordid detail of Gareth&#8217;s sex life should be published along with nude pictures! </p>
<p>(Okay, just kidding, but it would be fun reading.)</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theres a nude butt shot of him here.  You have to admit he&#039;s hotter than hell

http://back2stonewall.blogspot.com/?zx=8ced4beb68727b33

The guy is smokin hot!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theres a nude butt shot of him here.  You have to admit he&#8217;s hotter than hell</p>
<p><a href="http://back2stonewall.blogspot.com/?zx=8ced4beb68727b33" rel="nofollow">http://back2stonewall.blogspot.....eb68727b33</a></p>
<p>The guy is smokin hot!</p>
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