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	<title>Comments on: Oprah Listens Intently as Ellen + Portia Share Their Lesbian Love Story</title>
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	<description>Free of an agenda. Except that gay one.</description>
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		<title>By: dontblamemeivotedforhillary</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/oprah-listens-intently-as-ellen-portia-share-their-lesbian-love-story-20091110/#comment-235404</link>
		<dc:creator>dontblamemeivotedforhillary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When they moved Ellen against Oprah in the New York market, it was a no-brainer! Poor Oprah!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When they moved Ellen against Oprah in the New York market, it was a no-brainer! Poor Oprah!</p>
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		<title>By: rrr</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/oprah-listens-intently-as-ellen-portia-share-their-lesbian-love-story-20091110/#comment-235038</link>
		<dc:creator>rrr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 00:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Jason

They are trying to increase tolerance and the public comfort level with gay/lesbian couples and gay/lesbian marriage. Ellen&#039;s (at the time attacked and career damaging) coming out years ago was part of making America more accepting than before of lesbian couples, so if anyone deserves to enjoy some of the results of that it would be her. Opening up their private life like that is still putting themselves on the line and a sacrifice of privacy for her and Portia, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Jason</p>
<p>They are trying to increase tolerance and the public comfort level with gay/lesbian couples and gay/lesbian marriage. Ellen&#8217;s (at the time attacked and career damaging) coming out years ago was part of making America more accepting than before of lesbian couples, so if anyone deserves to enjoy some of the results of that it would be her. Opening up their private life like that is still putting themselves on the line and a sacrifice of privacy for her and Portia, though.</p>
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		<title>By: cheri</title>
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		<dc:creator>cheri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 00:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They are a very sweet couple. I do not understand the bashing and distain over their happiness. I am pleased that they are public about their relationship. I think it is helpful for the education of the public in general to see a gay relationship normalized. It is encouraging to see the closet emptying of celebraties who are now wanting to live truthful lives. I pray for the day when all gay couples are able to marry. It is a civil right for which they have been denied for too long. And they deserve for their unions to be federally recognized.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They are a very sweet couple. I do not understand the bashing and distain over their happiness. I am pleased that they are public about their relationship. I think it is helpful for the education of the public in general to see a gay relationship normalized. It is encouraging to see the closet emptying of celebraties who are now wanting to live truthful lives. I pray for the day when all gay couples are able to marry. It is a civil right for which they have been denied for too long. And they deserve for their unions to be federally recognized.</p>
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		<title>By: jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 23:13:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Women tend to exploit greater acceptance of female homosexuality than male homosexuality.  I see this in the Ellen wedding.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women tend to exploit greater acceptance of female homosexuality than male homosexuality.  I see this in the Ellen wedding.</p>
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		<title>By: rrr</title>
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		<dc:creator>rrr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 23:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt; Where are the gay male weddings? &lt;/i&gt;

Ellen and Portia are on there because they are celebrities and Ellen had launched a major campaign to be on the cover of O Magazine. They have also been very open and sharing with the public all along about their wedding.

I don&#039;t see any comparable gay male celebrity married couples around. David Hyde Pierce married his partner, but the partner isn&#039;t a celeb, there&#039;s no sign they are trying to get on Oprah, and they&#039;ve been private about their wedding and have only shared the bare fact that it happened.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i> Where are the gay male weddings? </i></p>
<p>Ellen and Portia are on there because they are celebrities and Ellen had launched a major campaign to be on the cover of O Magazine. They have also been very open and sharing with the public all along about their wedding.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t see any comparable gay male celebrity married couples around. David Hyde Pierce married his partner, but the partner isn&#8217;t a celeb, there&#8217;s no sign they are trying to get on Oprah, and they&#8217;ve been private about their wedding and have only shared the bare fact that it happened.</p>
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		<title>By: bfears</title>
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		<dc:creator>bfears</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>love these two! the wedding was soo beautiful! they give me hope!
I love ellen!

twitter= @bfears</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love these two! the wedding was soo beautiful! they give me hope!<br />
I love ellen!</p>
<p>twitter= @bfears</p>
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		<title>By: jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oprah does safe stuff like lesbian weddings.  Where are the gay male weddings?  She&#039;s a bit of a hypocrite.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oprah does safe stuff like lesbian weddings.  Where are the gay male weddings?  She&#8217;s a bit of a hypocrite.</p>
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		<title>By: dizzyspins</title>
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		<dc:creator>dizzyspins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Im happy Ellen and Portia are happy, but they really shouldnt make themselves poster children for gay-couple bliss. Ellen did that with Anne Heche and look how that turned out. I remember they were giving interviews about how happy they were just weeks before splitting--when clearly there wouldve been trouble in the relationship already--and it  felt really fraudulent.

 Just because a star like Ellen has taken a strong stand for LGBT rights doesnt mean she&#039;s above manipulating press coverage the same way a hetero star would. In general, you cant take what celebrities say about their personal lives at face value, no matter who they are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im happy Ellen and Portia are happy, but they really shouldnt make themselves poster children for gay-couple bliss. Ellen did that with Anne Heche and look how that turned out. I remember they were giving interviews about how happy they were just weeks before splitting&#8211;when clearly there wouldve been trouble in the relationship already&#8211;and it  felt really fraudulent.</p>
<p> Just because a star like Ellen has taken a strong stand for LGBT rights doesnt mean she&#8217;s above manipulating press coverage the same way a hetero star would. In general, you cant take what celebrities say about their personal lives at face value, no matter who they are.</p>
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		<title>By: AlwaysGay</title>
		<link>http://www.queerty.com/oprah-listens-intently-as-ellen-portia-share-their-lesbian-love-story-20091110/#comment-234806</link>
		<dc:creator>AlwaysGay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ellen and Portia are so sweet together.  I wish them all the best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ellen and Portia are so sweet together.  I wish them all the best.</p>
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		<title>By: drewbrown</title>
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		<dc:creator>drewbrown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was a really sweet and magical show. Oprah was gracious, Ellen was charming, and the montage of the wedding was truly beautiful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was a really sweet and magical show. Oprah was gracious, Ellen was charming, and the montage of the wedding was truly beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: romeo</title>
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		<dc:creator>romeo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tylertime #4:  Anne Heche dumped Ellen, and in a really humiliating way, too.  Ellen&#039;s  turned into something of a house gay these days, but equating her with a &quot;dirty old man&quot; is way out of line.  I don&#039;t think Portia is that much younger than she is anyway.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tylertime #4:  Anne Heche dumped Ellen, and in a really humiliating way, too.  Ellen&#8217;s  turned into something of a house gay these days, but equating her with a &#8220;dirty old man&#8221; is way out of line.  I don&#8217;t think Portia is that much younger than she is anyway.</p>
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		<title>By: Tylertime</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tylertime</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ellen is no better than dirty old men who date women significantly younger than them and then toss them.  Anne Heche, Alexandra Hedison who she cheated on and now Portia.  Wait till Portia hits 40 and see how long it is before Ellen trades her in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ellen is no better than dirty old men who date women significantly younger than them and then toss them.  Anne Heche, Alexandra Hedison who she cheated on and now Portia.  Wait till Portia hits 40 and see how long it is before Ellen trades her in.</p>
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		<title>By: xoxoman</title>
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		<dc:creator>xoxoman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooh look, its the same people to listen to again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooh look, its the same people to listen to again.</p>
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		<title>By: Chisne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chisne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I admire Ellen for her bravery, but I find her to be so annoying these days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I admire Ellen for her bravery, but I find her to be so annoying these days.</p>
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		<title>By: christopher di spirito</title>
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		<dc:creator>christopher di spirito</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder if Mama O was sitting thinking, &quot;Dayum, I wish I could share how Gail and I fell in love!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if Mama O was sitting thinking, &#8220;Dayum, I wish I could share how Gail and I fell in love!&#8221;</p>
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