...I came out late in life after a rigid Catholic upbringing where gay just wasn't part of my world...in my confusion met and married a hairdresser...once a month religiously had sex on haircutting nights...resulted in six girls and one son...my wife became an alcoholic and left me with all 7...and I raised them on my own for 25 years...held up to 4 jobs at one time...all graduated from university or college successfully...and are straight...