Tell Kim Ficera to shut up. We enjoy and are comforted by public figures-actors (specially hunks) openly defending and supporting our needs. After all is me he is referring. We are very tired of "activists" (mostly single) and their failed strategies. Long-term couples need security, recognition and the protection of the law now and most of us don't care how you call it. Furthermore, this is not exclusively a white boy issue so please stop hoarding the waves. That includes the lesbians with 3 kids. Thanks.