You can get so caught up in the details of your life . . . career, shopping, the gym . . . that you forget to have meaningful relationships. Naturally, everybody has a different idea of what makes for a meaningful relationship. Some believe that until they’ve plumbed the depths of another’s soul, even holding hands is imprudent, while others feel that if they don’t first plumb where the sun doesn’t shine, they have no means for entering into another’s soul.

(Solve)Dating, which has already provided our heterosexual counterparts with a classier-than-average dating site, is poised to connect gay men as well as lesbians. The site contains thoughtful reflections on many aspects of relationships and allows you to submit your own thoughts for possible posting.

The emphasis, of course, will be on forming an enduring relationship, though the 30 minute relationships won't be neglected.