Gen Y, your comments have been noted. We have tracked you down and, when you reach the ago of 30, we will ensure that you are dissolved from society, as per your suggestion.

Happy New Year to you!

@15 Johnny – It might give you better results to put away the gaydar, and consider having it with bi-boys and str8 boys also. Some of them are actually more available than gay boys, and some are (IMO) attractive, despite what many teenage girls say.
If they are interested in you, they may let you know in a very direct and crude way, so don’t be put off. It won’t be rainbows and moonbeams… you will probably skip first base, and go directly to second or third. Any kissing, if there is any, will come later. They will take the initiative, and flirt with you. You will have to seize the moment, and say something back, like, “Wanna rub your pri*k against my a**?” Remember, you can say anything, if you say it with a smile. But be prepared for them to actually do it. Lots of kids in school want to get off and have some kind of contact with another person, and even str8 boys will wander off the reservation some times. Especially if all the desireable girls in school are obsessing over the prettiest gay boys.

If you can try and have it with someone else who has never been kissed (or few times) so you can both enjoy the magic of your first few kisses.
Most important i think, don’t go in expecting anything. Just go with it.

This is great advice though, especially Terrwill addition about he community center. I was 19 when I kissed my first boy (though I’d been wrestling them to the ground and attempting to diddle for a lot longer), and that was back in the eighties (almost Jurassic by todays standards).

Yes, to today’s teens I say go for yours, and screw what anybody else thinks. Because 20 years goes by in a blink…..

The day will come when you HAVE to look back at not only how they treated you but WHY they treated you and your siblings the way they did. And you will one day ask yourself if you had THEIR education level and life experiences how would you have reacted were you them and had kids in tow.

I feel the same way more or less. there’s this one guy but I can’t be 100% sure if he’s gay or bi.

There was no Year 0 so the first decade AD — or CE for the non-religious — ran from 1 to 10. The second decade ran from 11 to 20. And so on through the decades and centuries until we get the the last decade of the 20th Century running from 1991 to 2000. So the first decade of the 21st Century runs from 2001 to 2010. But we love our round numbers so the majority of people ignore numerical fact in favor of using the wrong date spans.

If only it were that easy… I don’t even know where to look or how to look for that matter. More than likely I will be the one going to college without my first gay kiss.

not to start anything, but i’ve always considered 1990 part of the 90′s, not the 80′s. what makes this year any different?

However, the new year’s resolutions are good for the first of every month of the year.

I’ve actually done most of that (my history lesson is a lacking atm though, any notable people you recommend knowing about?)

The only suggestion would be to emphasize more “learn about the risks of doing anything more than kissing” which you stuck at the end of “first kiss.” I think it’s really important for all teens, not just queer.

Less important, but still worthy of considering, is to join/start a gay/straight alliance at school. It’s a proactive way of standing up to bullying.

Don’t be ascared to check out the local Gay community center.
Almost every locale has one nearby. Check them out, there
are others similar to you and they have strict procedures
in place to insure your privacy if you need……..

Usually the ones who bully the Gay kids are the biggest
freakin closet cases……… : P

And chances are pretty good that your family already knows
Perfect example episode from Glee few months ago when Kurt
came out to his Father, and he replied “I knew when you
were three”…………..