Raymond Burr's Gay Life Wide Open
Raymond Burr's private gay life will soon be made public in a new biography.
The Perry Mason actor told suits and the public that he had lost a wife and son, but Burr actually lived in 35-year long committed relationship with another man, Robert Benevide.
Here's a taste:
Once Perry Mason took off, the dead-wife-and-son story was repeated time and again. Raymond could have ended it all right then and there, blaming the mix-up on an overeager studio publicist or on his youthful showbiz naïveté. But he chose to continue perpetrating the fabrications by refusing to address them.
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Raymond's grueling Perry Mason shooting schedule would have made it difficult for him to have a romance with a member of either sex. So he used his long hours on the set as a convenient excuse whenever the subject of remarrying was raised. "I am an unmarried man, as opposed to a single man," he lectured one reporter in November 1957.
Clever distinction, no?
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I remember listening to Howard Stern's show one morning in the early 90s when Stern was talking about his own father's days working in radio. According to Howard, Ben Stern crossed paths with Burr on at least one occasion when Burr had come in to record advertisement voice-overs. The gist of the story was that, even those relatively closeted times of the 50s and 60s, anyone encountering Burr in work situations where Burr wasn't in character could have made him for a total mary.
I'd like to hear more. Anyone that can butch it up that much would HAVE to know he was acting a total mary. It is possible he didn't care but then that wouldn't seem to jive with not one but TWO fictional wives and a fictional son.
If he was that big of a homo, then surely others will know too.
Cast all the aspersions you like with the second hand information about Burr. I actually met him in 1982 at the Embarcadero in San Francisco. He had a great character actor career before Perry Mason in B films and noirs mostly as the heavy (no pun intended). Its too bad most of his film and TV work was in black and white. He had the deepest blue eyes I have ever seen. His eyes had that Joan Crawford searchlight appeal. When you looked him in the eye you knew why he was a star. It’s a shame he had to live his life in the closet.
He chose to live his life in the closet. Inventing dead wives and children all the way to the very end is just pathetic.
It was a different time. Don't judge too harshly.
He was married once, legally, to Isabella Ward, from 1947 until 1952. Why go to all the trouble to invent two other wives (including one who supposed died in the same plane crash that killed movie star Leslie Howard)? And a dead son? Seems like a massive amount of overkill, if you ask me. (Pardon the pun.)
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Exactly, He is passed on and has hurt no one. Allow him to continue to rest in Peace!