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Search For Missing Gay College Student Ryan Uhre Hindered By “Anti-Gay” Media Coverage

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By:           Matthew Tharrett
On:           Feb 14, 2014
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  • 21 Comments
    • Mezaien
      Mezaien

      Ryan Uhre, come home my man people love you and want to know you are OK. I got 4 boys and 2 girls if one was going missing I would have shit in my pants.

      Feb 14, 2014 at 6:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Black Pegasus
      Black Pegasus

      Maybe the parent were reluctant about sharing his sexual orientation because it wasn’t relevant nor was it anyone’s business. Why was it important to label him “missing gay man” as oppose to a missing “college student”?

      And here’s another bomb: If he wasn’t nice looking, Queerty wouldn’t have ran the story.

      Feb 14, 2014 at 8:34 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ncman
      ncman

      @Black Pegasus: did you read the story? It gives the reasons why his sexual orientation would be very relevant.

      Feb 14, 2014 at 8:44 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dixie Rect
      Dixie Rect

      Gay, not gay, the guy just disappeared, help if you can.

      Feb 14, 2014 at 9:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • seraphx9
      seraphx9

      @Black Pegasus: It’s important that it’s noted that he’s gay because statistically, he could be in greater danger because of his sexuality. Gay people are more likely to face violence than their straight counterparts.

      Feb 14, 2014 at 10:27 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • oilburner
      oilburner

      He’s dead my friend Monica who is kinda psychic said he’s dead and my likely was murdered by a gay hook up gone wrong. Look @ his Grindr and A4A profiles. Monica says you’ll find out there

      Feb 14, 2014 at 11:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • charwegl
      charwegl

      @seraphx9: That’s a very far reach. Queerty has ran this story saying “some speculate” when it’s basically one guy from a small south florida publication with no evidence to back it up. The guy went missing and I’m sure the authorities are going down every avenue. There is no evidence that they botched the investigation because he was gay and the cops don’t like that. Furthermore a couple’s son is missing and this asshole keeps calling their house trying to write a story that doesn’t seem to be based on much evidence. Of course they hung up on him.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 4:51 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • seaguy
      seaguy

      Dad is either too stupid/ignorant to realize he is not helping the search for his son by refusing to talk to gay media. Does he not get the idea that even if his son was not gay the more coverage this gets the better the chances of finding him are.

      Or it could be he is just a hateful man who does not care if his son is dead or alive he just wants the gay to go away. Well dad if that is how you are I hope when your time is up that you enjoy your stay in hell because that is where people like you go.

      Hope he is found ok and alive.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 6:40 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • seaguy
      seaguy

      @oilburner: I called Dionne Warwick at the Psychic Friends network and she said your friend Monica is a fake.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 6:42 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • rickhfx
      rickhfx

      Hopefully his str8 fraternity brothers didn’t have anything to do with his missing, knowing how violent as well as anti gay many str8 people are.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 10:22 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • tjr101
      tjr101

      Not to discount in anyway the disappearance of this young man, but in America thousands of gay kids go missing every year, Black Pegasus has a point. Is it because he happens to be good looking? Queerty is disingenuous in this aspect.

      I am also not going to question the motives of the father in this case. Besides the gay media, has he spoken to any type of media? Not knowing where your child is can be traumatizing.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 11:24 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Gigi Gee
      Gigi Gee

      @Black Pegasus: How sad it must be to live in your head.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 1:35 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DShucking
      DShucking

      @Black Pegasus: *run. Wouldn’t have run the story.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 2:58 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • domen8r
      domen8r

      if he does have hookup apps, i hope the police are following those up for help. Sure, it’s possible Queerty chose to run this story because he’s traditionally attractive, just as it’s possible the choice of a metaphor like “Pegasus” is more macho/sexual than another mythical creature (like a unicorn). But the story as covered by Queerty focused more on the possible “re-closeting” than it did on his physicality…in fact didn’t mention it at all. They ran a pic for help in leads, and the pic showed someone traditionally handsome. What’s sadder still is the possibility that his family (or at least his dad) would rather have his son’s possible memory kept in the closet than his son’s fate investigated as quickly as possible.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 4:54 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • corey
      corey

      Human remains found in trunk of burning car:

      “Ryan Uhre, of Weston, has been missing for more than a week, but his father Michael Uhre said Monday he had no reason to believe the remains in the car had anything to do with his 23-year-old son.

      The younger Uhre recently began working in the office of Florida Rep. Richard Stark, D-Weston. Friends and family have been searching for him, and have handed out fliers in Broward County.

      He was last seen in Tallahassee on Feb. 2, and police there are investigating his disappearance.

      The Broward County medical examiner will try to identify the remains found in the car, BSO said.

      The Sheriff’s Office asks anyone with information to contact Broward Crime Stoppers at 954-493-8477.”

      http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/broward/fl-human-remains-in-burned-car-20140210,0,6650249.story

      Feb 15, 2014 at 5:31 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • corey
      corey

      Ps why did his “friends” wait 5 days to call anyone? They even said it wasn’t like him to just take off. Then “left the bar at halftime to pick up an order of to-go food “a few doors down” at Andrew’s Bar & Grille” did he pick it up? Did the police question if they saw him with anyone? Is there video footage other than what they have? This has to many wholes and souls like sloppy police work, unless I’ve just seen to many episodes of SVU.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 5:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • corey
      corey

      Pps little more info may help build a scenario:

      “Police tell us he was out with friends, then went to Andrew’s for some food, then back to Clyde’s. From there, they say another trip to Andrew’s less than an hour later, and then headed to Kleman Plaza. From there, he has not been seen or heard from by family or friends since.” (http://tallahasseeo.com/2014/02/15/fsu-students-react-to-missing-ryan-uhre-why-did-it-take-longer-than-24-hours-for-tpd-officers-to-get-off-donut-eating-asses-to-investigate-disappearance-evidence-is-lost-by-time-and-weather-condit/)

      I assume Clyde’s is the bar they were all at, Kleman Plaza sounds like a mall or some place that is very public and would have security cameras. The plot thickens!!!

      Feb 15, 2014 at 5:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • misterhollywood
      misterhollywood

      Sad to see that this kind of crap (anti-gay media) stuff is still going on. Ridiculous.

      Feb 15, 2014 at 6:20 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • sangsue
      sangsue

      My guess is that it might have something to do with his family. If his family didn’t accept him (the father at least) he might have offed himself.

      Feb 16, 2014 at 5:08 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AdamNichols
      AdamNichols

      @corey: Actually they said the opposite… the friends said “it WASN’T unusual for him to disappear for weekends” which is why they weren’t immediately worried that he was MIA. However, they called police as soon as he didn’t show for work on February 7. How about we stop assuming that every straight person is completely against gays (just like we wouldn’t want straight people to assume every gay person is bad). His friends aren’t the bad guys here.

      Feb 17, 2014 at 10:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • fsunole88
      fsunole88

      I am glad you wrote this article, Matthew. I am a gay student at FSU and when I heard Ryan went missing via the email the university sent out to everyone, I immediately recognized him from the gay hookup App, Grindr. Some people do not use it to hookup, regardless, if Ryan was using Grindr at the bar he was last seen at, I had a personal suspicion that this crime could be Grindr-related. I am thinking that he left the bar with his straight friends to meet up with someone off Grindr. I even had a 2-hour long conversation with my mother who works with criminal files and we agree that a pre-law student would not willingly trespass into an abandoned building downtown, blocks away from his internship. That’s without a doubt in my mind. Even if he was heavily intoxicated, no one in their wrong-mind would say, “Hey me, let’s climb this building BY MYSELF and see what’s in there.” His father did not want people to know he was gay. That’s horrid——makes me sick! Since then, I deleted my profile on the App. It’s just too risky, meeting up with gay people who we don’t even know their names. I do not believe there was no foul play in this. I want a definite answer. Till then, I cannot stop thinking about Ryan.

      Mar 26, 2014 at 10:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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