A 25-year-old heterosexual man from the U.K. is all shook up after inadvertently hooking up with another guy, so he’s turning to advice columnist Deidre from the UK Sun for help.
“Dear Deidre,” his letter begins. “I was seduced by a beautiful woman who, it turned out, was a man dressed in drag. The sex was amazing but now I’m confused.”
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It all started when the man attended his friend’s house party.
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“My girlfriend was busy that night so I went on my own,” he writes. “I was already drunk by the time I arrived. I went straight to the kitchen to find some more beer.”
That’s when he saw the woman.
“A beautiful blonde said she’d pour it for me,” the man writes. “She was around my age and had long, shapely legs and a beautiful smile. She seemed really keen and we bantered a bit then I led her upstairs–not something I normally do.”
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One thing led to another and pretty soon the man realized, “she wasn’t a girl but a bloke dressed in drag.”
But that didn’t stop him from finishing what he had started.
“We had sex,” he confesses. “It was epic.”
Now he says he’s in a pickle.
“Since then I really can’t bear to get close to my girlfriend at all,” he writes. “She knows I’ve changed but she doesn’t know why. I can’t stop thinking about that night.”
“How can I say I cheated on her with a man?”
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As usual, Deidre knows just what to say.
“One gay encounter doesn’t mean you’re gay,” he advises. “You were drunk at the time and already turned on by the person you thought was a girl.”
“If it doesn’t really mean anything to you long-term, put it down to experience but best not tell your fiancée, who could find it unsettling,” she continues. “If you’re feeling unsure, though, don’t drift into a marriage you’ll regret.”
“I’m sending you my e-leaflet Gay Worries, which will help you to think this all through.”
What do you think? Should the chap tell his girlfriend about the encounter, or is it best to keep it mum? Sound off in the comments section below…
Phillip Bernal
What a pile of horse shit… how could he not know…
SpunkyBunks
If he’s hot and/or has lots of money, I’m sure there are lots of drag queens who will happily accommodate him and welcome him to the community. It obvious that his girlfriend is boring and bad in the sack, otherwise he wouldn’t stop thinking about that night.
John Kuehnle
Honestly, I don’t believe most of these articles. It does catch your eye though.
Kevin J Desmond
Bitch Please … he’s a homo and is just now accepting it.
K Patrick McCarthy
Lies
Juanjo
Way back in college I went out one night with a guy who was a friend of a friend. Nothing big – just went to a movie we both wanted to see and then a pizza and alcohol. He crashed at my place and one thing led to another. It was a lot of fun and he expressed no lack of enthusiasm at the time. A few days later he called me and asked if we could meet. I said yes and we went to one of the local student hangouts where we sat around and chatted. he was freaked as he had never had sex with another guy and had never even thought about it. He had been more or less just curious and went with it that night. The point was much like the guy in this article he had discovered he really liked it and wondered of this made him gay. I told him one or two sexual experiences did not make one gay or straight. I also told him he might discover as he went along that he was bi or gay but not to get too stressed about it. We had a hot little affair for the next year at which time I graduated and moved back home to the islands.
He is now a doctor in LA with a wife and kids and very happy with his life. We are still friends after more than 35 years.
Don Hanover
oh, pleeeeeeeze
Jimmy McKinney
If the sex was that good and he enjoyed the blokes company then I don’t see why he’s freaking out. Just go for it and enjoy yourself with a dude that likes to dress up and forget the woman that you prolly never desired or loved.
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
schrodinger’s trans cat
he’s gay if the other party asserts they are a man; straight if the other party asserts they are a woman…at any future instant
enjoyed the fuck outta that superposition bruh
Nicki Cowart
He ain’t straight…
Nick212
He’s on the road to Homoville. But he might not be driving the bus.
Rodney Jones
Oh please …. Its called getting pissed & doing something he obviously wanted to do…..so if you enjoyed it ….OWN it & move on!!!!
Chris
I can’t believe how drunk I was last night. ….. Now where have I ever heard that?
Billy Budd
Who CARES if he is gay or straight? If he liked to fuck the guy, he should keep doing it. Everyone should do what he or she likes to do.
Michael Haynes
sorry but this is click bait dude was gay already
Brian
Why was this dude drunk when he arrived at the party? Where is his self-control? If you can’t control your drink then you are choosing to make yourself vulnerable to those who wish to exploit you.
Giancarlo85
@Brian: Lol. When was the last time you were at a party? And your cousin’s birthday at IHOP doesn’t count.
As far as this guy, he is at least bisexual. I am sorry but he isn’t straight… So let’s stop fantasizing about it.
Daggerman
…my first thought was how on earth did he not know? What a twit, I mean why do so many so called heterosexual men plead ignorance when they fall into bed with another man!! Because they’re ashamed of the experience and try and wiggle out of it by saying such puerile trash!! If they’re not liars then they’re certainly total douche bags!!!
DCguy
So he had sex with a guy and now isn’t interested in touching his girlfriend.
He needs to stop overthinking, he knows exactly what is going on and so do we.
Gregor Edgar Wilson
He should have gone to Specsavers!! Plonker!!
Hussain-TheCanadian
I agree with the part that she shouldn’t just marry his GF just yet if this encounter is making him freakout like this – Maybe he is Bi; I doubt hes gay though – not buying that the man is 25 and JUST realized he might be gay!!??
drivendervish
It sounds like a good story but probably made up. Most straight men who begin to have sex with what they thought was a girl and all the sudden notice a dick they run away as fast as they can and a portion of those will assault the man in drag.