Gay guys have a language all to their own — for better or worse. And while the definitions to these terms are probably second nature to you by now, imagine you had little to no experience with the ins and outs of gay life.
Would you still know what PNP meant? How about rice queen? Six pack? Well that’s universal.
Wonder if there’s a whole batch of straight terms we wouldn’t be able to make sense of?
Watch as Davey Wavey quizzes three strapping straight guys about the gay dictionary.
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ingyaom
I knew this had to be DW.
tardis
What the hell is a rice queen?
QJ201
@ingyaom: same here
frubino
that attract non-Asian gay Asian men? Because rice grown only in Asia and yet they are the nicest people, such as the Philippines. Oh my God, am clever.
frubino
repair:
that non-Asian gay attract Asian men? Because rice grown only in Asia and yet they are the nicest people, such as the Philippines.
robho3
This was really funny!
enlightenone
Happy to say I would have failed this quiz. Pretty gross! Maybe I’m straight? That would explain why I was turned off, expect for the white guy WITH SWAG wearing the ball cap and the brotha who could throw me over his shoulder! Sorry, that was my college days. Lol!
takingliberties
How cute. Not.
DesperateRachel
Davey Wavey is scum. His videos contribute to homophobic stereotyping in wider society.
AJAnders
I’m gay. Never heard of rice queens and have no idea what PNP stands for.
aliengod
@DesperateRachel: I agree.
OzJosh
Has anyone ever in the history of sex ever actually felched?!
Harley
@AJAnders: Congratulations on your recent coming out. Welcome to the family. Now brush up on your gay history. It’s FABULOUS.
aliengod
@AJAnders: You’re better off not knowing. I think “rice queens” and “PNP” are a couple terms you can live without.
Stache99
@OzJosh: Not even in my most fucked up days would I ever think of that. One bridge too far.
Stache99
@AJAnders: Those that are strictly into Asians and “Party and Play” ie Meth and sex.
IcarusD
Over a decade ago, I once posted a Craigslist ad asking for someone to explain PNP for me. Had no idea what it was, but so many ads mentioned it and I was afraid of accidentally getting into something I didn’t want to do.
Good thing I got that explained before I responded to any of those ads.
Stache99
@IcarusD: In my drug taking days PNP and Party was a very handy tool to screen out the non drug users. I loved Craigslist where you type those in and you’ll get page after page of ready people.
I’m always amazed that the cops never did any stings. I guess the public doesn’t care as long as it’s off the streets.
crowebobby
Baseball-cap boy was cute as hell. I didn’t know a lot of these because they’ve come into the vernacular since I’ve retired from the scene. Quiz me on 1950’s slang and I’ll kick your butt.
Kenn
Interesting….I don’t know whether I was entertained, informed or horrified. I must say I knew all, but two of those terms, and most of this I would not be sharing with my straight male friends. I’m no prude and came out in the 70’s so I didn’t find much of this shocking. I’ve probably been referred to by one these terms (since I am half of an interracial couple), but it is interesting to see what the next generation of gays are talking about. Moving on…
enlightenone
@Kenn: “…But it is interesting to see what the next generation of gays [they don’t want to be labeled…I know, I know!] are talking about. Moving on…” Just as well. Not talking about much to inform, but more for shock value or continue their “15 minutes” too many of “fame” whatever that means today!
money718
PNP = means drugs, raw, anything goes…right?
Evji108
I always thought PNP meant poop & piss. Shows what I know.
Greg Garavani
Straight guys are not funny.
tjr101
A generation Y member here and I only recently found out what PNP was. “Rice queen” is highly offensive and “felch” is just too gross beyond my imagination. BTW, I’m no prude by any stretch.
Bee Gaga
I’m 19 and I knew what most of these meant, I found out PNP because guys would always ask me that and I finally was just like “ok what the hell does that mean.” Anyway, the only ones I didn’t know where felch and FF, which are disgusting.
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Lets try the straight guy game with Gay guys!
How’s bout defining these two???
1- Snowballing?
2- Edging?
PNP= party and play. Misunderstood term because most who advertise seeking it are using “Tina”, which means they are looking for pretty intense action that lasts for sometimes days on end.
Accidently tried it once upon a time thinking it was other powder. At first it was kinda sorta fun because it kept us so damm horny and into a whole lotta things. After like 12 hours was like I really, really wanna get off this damm merry go round ………
Clark35
A rice queen is a gay man that loves Asian men only because they are Asian and they’re r acist.
ChgoReason
Wow, rice queen? Really? So, if you are attracted to Irish guys that makes you a potato queen? Like Italian guys? Yup, you’re a meatball queen. Rice queen is just stupid and offensive; felch is just gross.
EbonyOnly
@tardis: Rice Queen – Only into Asian
I’m White and was called a Dinge Queen because I dated Black men.
Another reason our community can’t jump on the straight community. We’re ass holes as well.
EbonyOnly
Ok people…we’re not going to get everyone to accept this video / or likes / dislikes. Let’s move on.
We talk about being open / out of the closet / so then shut up and be yourself. Everyone doesn’t have to like you. You have to like yourself.