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But we like Details. Those "Gay or…" pieces are pretty funny and we enjoy Michael "I write about hot gay sex, but don't actually do it" Chabon's ongoing column in the magazine. Plus, carrying around a copy of Details in your back pocket is hanky code for "Likes to fuck metrosexuals/ likes to be fucked by metrosexuals"– we forget which side means which. The inclusions of Clay Aiken and "pregnant man" Thomas Beatie in their annual "Power 40 List" is a perfect example of the queasy/happy dichotomy Details heaps upon the gay reader. |
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Labor of Love chronicles Thomas Beatie’s unique life experiences: his less-than-idyllic childhood in Hawaii; his transition from female to male; his marriage to his wife, Nancy; his legal battles to live as a man; his fight to conceive a child; and the birth of their daughter, Susan, in late June. Labor of Love is a groundbreaking book because it tackles social, political, and legal questions about gender, marriage, and family. Thomas and Nancy’s uphill battle to have a baby is both fascinating and touching. They are a normal couple who wanted a family, and yet the circumstances surrounding their desire to get pregnant and their journey to get there are truly extraordinary. And astoundingly marketable! |
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Questions of Beatie's intent aside, we're pretty impressed that a national magazine's going after this story. And Beatie's hardly the only queer who shows up in the weekly's pages, as a reader points out: …Please do an amusing biting gay critique of how People has gay stories like EVERY WEEK! Seriously. This week there's something about ugly Lane Bass's HUNK, and Lindsay's dyke moment. I swear that section in the front, Scoop or insider or something either has shirtless guys or stories about gays, or is quoting GLAAD. We're not surprised, of course. Gays do make the best gossip. |
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Watch the Towleroad-provided video about the baby's birth and other precious details, after the jump. Be sure to note that Beatie didn't have a c-section, as previously reported. This man did it the old fashioned vaginal way, which takes serious balls. |
» Discovery?
Trans man "mama" Thomas Beatie's memoir may have been shelved, but that doesn't mean the pot's dry: "Discovery Communications is in negotiations for the exclusive U.S. rights to a documentary about Thomas Beattie[sic], the first man to give birth… September Films owns the global rights to the one-hour documentary, which will follow Beattie [sic] from childhood to the date of the birth, the newspaper says." Of course, the "first man" bit remains essential to Beatie's story, although he's not. [TV Week] |
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First the smaller item: publishing house St. Martin's Press has shelved Beatie's planned memoir. Perhaps because of speculation that Beatie was in it for the money? Regardless of Beatie's shrinking spotlight and gossip fodder, there's a bigger and far more important cultural narrative at work. And one that's almost as American as apple pie… |
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A Very Special Father's Day Post...
As he and wife Nancy get their nursery together, stock up on diapers and other baby-related goods, big questions remain for the happily queer couple, like how to make sure he - the "gestational carrier" - is not listed as the baby's mother. |
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The NY Post cartoonist has taken two shots at pregnant trans man Thomas Beatie. The first came back in April, when Beatie first burst on the scene. And now, inspired by news of Beatie's forthcoming delivery date, Delonas again turned his attention to the baby daddy. Too bad Delonas couldn't stretch his imagination, huh? |
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In addition to revealing the baby's sex - a girl - Beatie suggests he and his wife may keep reproducing after the new child arrives in four weeks: I feel on top of the world. We're sure trans activists are luke warm to this news. |
» Old Trend…
Thomas Beatie got some flack for allegedly using the "pregnant trans man" story for personal gain. A German trans man named "Dylan" never wanted such attention. That's why he kept his pregnancy a secret and hasn't talked until now, ten years after giving birth. Says Dylan of the experience: "People thought I was putting on weight. They were mostly treating me as a man and no one is going to start wondering whether a man might be pregnant." How times change! [Sunday Express] |
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File this one under "half-assed." Fox News' Greg Gutfeld apologized for trashing trans man Thomas Beatie. And when we say "apologize," we mean read outraged readers' letters and defended himself by calling critics "fat faced" and "wusses." He also tells people they need to "grow cajones like Thomas Beatie." We can't say we're surprised or expected anything less… |
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Could anything be more incoherent or sad? Gender Identity Disorder is not "incredible," no matter how politically fashionable it has become to claim otherwise. It is not just another hue in the rainbow of diversity. It is a dysfunction. It should be met with sympathy, counseling, and therapy, not with five-page spreads in People and appearances on Oprah. We can't say we're surprised by Jacoby's reaction - he once argued that legalizing sodomy would lead to an explosion of incest and bestiality. |
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And we thought MSNBC's Morning Joe team were offensive! Fox News' Red Eye anchors had plenty of bile to spread about pregnant trans man Thomas Beatie, like referring to him as a "transgender sideshow" and hoping the delivery is "the worst experience in his life." Nice… We would call GLAAD, but, you know… |
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» Reaction.
Kevin Naff wrote a response to our GLAAD/Thomas Beatie story. The gist: "The only criticism I have for GLAAD is that it couldn’t suppress the Beatie story." [Washington Blade] |
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Old dogs can learn new tricks! |