As fans of Girls know, Hannah, Marnie, Shoshanna, and Jessa are big on mouthiness but low on maturity. So each week, blogger Chris J. Kelly is grading the four main characters’ emotional ages based on their words and actions.
Chris took a semester of psychology so he’s, like, totally qualified.
Emotional Age: 14 months
This week, Hannah has set a task for herself: she’s going to cook a delicious meal and throw a fun dinner party. Forget that the circumstances—kicking out her roommate while keeping all his belongings—might not warrant celebration. Ignore the fact that her selection of guests is entirely inappropriate. Look past her inability to prepare edible food. As the adult social gathering she has envisioned almost literally burns down around her, she is locked firmly in her own head, where some sort of fantasy shindig is apparently going swimmingly.
According to the first page that came up on my Google search, Freud believed that people with narcissistic personality disorders were stuck developmentally at the time when they learned to walk. Another cursory glance assured me that babies learn to walk at around a year old.
I bet Hannah was an awful baby.
Emotional Age: 40
From the get-go, Marnie is completely honest about the stunning awkwardness of Hannah’s get-together. Like a grown-up, she forthrightly identifies the problem and offers to fix it by leaving. Later, when everything is spiraling out of control, she addresses Audrey’s snippy comments assertively but factually, without sinking to personal attacks.
Moments later, however, she’s on the roof confessing her directionlessness, kissing Charlie, and then trying to convince herself that her repulsive interlude with Booth Jonathan constitutes the beginnings of a meaningful relationship.
When someone so adult falls apart so thoroughly, we call that a midlife crisis.
Emotional Age: 93
Good old Granny Shosh. In her day, people didn’t talk about things like intercourse or butt plugs. They had a sense of moral decency. Unfortunately, she’s old enough now that her mind is going. She might forget that she’s been living with someone for two weeks, and then have a moment of clarity at the dinner table. You could tell her over and over again that you’re a loser, but even after repeated explanations, she might not understand.
It’s sad, really. I hope Greenpoint has a retirement community that trains the nurses to put residents’ hair in a side bun.
Emotional Age: 19
There’s nothing like getting to college and living by your own rules for the first time. The challenge at that age is that you feel like an adult, but you’re not socialized to the point that you can actually behave like one. As a result, you probably do things like tell the truth in an extremely blunt manner. It seems so genuine, like you’re being honest to your core inner self, but really it just makes you an asshole. Also, you might find it fulfilling to punch people and break things, but that’s not self-expression so much as a crime spree.
Jessa is so busy trying to communicate her free spirit realness that she can’t see how many lives she’s destroying, including her own. You can only be that irresponsible when you’re under the legal drinking age.
ODDS AND ENDS