“What barely hanging onto A list married movie actor who is always Mr. Macho was seen, umm, how can I put this, getting serviced by a male assistant director on his latest movie. The trailer for the actor was unlocked and a production assistant walked in and now everyone knows. I was shocked when I heard it because I had never heard a peep that he leaned that way. Ever.”
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bobito
“… never heard a peep that way. Ever.” Well, that narrows it down considerably. Whoever he is, he must not be very good looking.
Richard in DC
Ummmm… are we not going to say who it is?
The Gay Numbers
@Richard in DC: THey never do. I always find these blind items confusing because I can never figure out whom they are discussing.
Qjersey
Getting serviced doesn’t mean he is gay. Some straight men are pigs and will let anyone suck their dick.
Frenchy
I hate blind items.
Frenchy
Russell Crowe…. Please!
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Cam
Well Russell Crowe did do that Nice little Aussie Gay film “The Sum of US”. Back then he looked GREAT in a apir of running shorts.
Solis
I’ll take a wild guess: Is it popular Korean actor Kwon Sang-woo?
Derek
Russell is a definite possibility, he’s married and he’s filming Robin Hood right now.
Another guess that I had was Mark Wahlberg who’s also filming a movie now.
TANK
This is so obvious. It’s adam sandler.
Jaroslaw
No one knows so why DOES Queerty print these types of things?
Duane
Pierce Brosnan is filming “Remember Me” in Queens.
scott ny'er
i wish it was colin farrell
walt zipprian
tom cruise
g
will smith
Jaroslaw
Wait a minute. if this production assistant “told” and everybody knows, then why don’t we have a name?
Raquel
You are extremely right JAROSLAW
Me thinks Queerty love to fantasize much
And even if he was serviced why not? Do straight men have to be 1000 % straight? Newsflash not everybody is a 6 out of a 6 gay like you no offense (talking to someone managing ‘Queerty’…)
Lesbian women have flings with men
Straight women sometimes play with women
Straight men can service other men or be serviced
I’ve had lesbian experience and you know what? I enjoyed it
But guess what? I’m not bissexual
And gay is far too much
50 % of straights are not attracted at all to the same sex but the other 50 % (me included) are mostly straight
Not bi
Not gay
Not 100 % straight
Just mostly straight
Like a 1 or something (even though I do not approve of Kinsey and find his findings dubios in some cases I sometimes use his scale…)
I personally find this a joke but if we must play then I don’t believe Russell Crowe, Bruce Willis or Stallone as suspects
Maybe Samuel L. Jackson? Who knows…
Don’t think so nonetheless
alan brickman
lots of straight guys will have their dick sucked. does this mean when gay guy goes to bed with a girl it means their straight??…
InExile
MATHEW MCCONAHEY???
Raquel
Alan Brickman – In the minds of many gay guys ANY man that has had gay sex or even a relationship must be gay or at least bi for life … I’m a straight/hetero woman and I’m sick of it … I’m sick of this double standard … from all of them … straight women and gay/bi men alike
There are so many straight men out there ( it would surprise even the gay community itself the numbers … almost the same as straight women ) scared of even telling their female lovers about their gay past … why ? Not so much because it’s gay ( even though this does come into account ) … but because they are not gay
Example of a man becoming straight http://transcendentalbloviation.blogspot.com/2006/04/coming-out-as-straight-dont-everybody.html
Also 99 % of straight women run away and treat straight men that have had gay sex as ” cotties ” or some deranged freak … they are not aliens honey … they are not murderers … they are not evil … they are humans … sure there are closeted ones but there are many honest ones too … and gay men whom endorse this action only worsen it
Why ? Because they are treating gay sex as some form of illness , disease or a virus that touches anybody once and forevermore into eternity … strangles them and they cannot escape it
Another that to their 6 out of 6 Kinsey minds cannot handle is that these men whom have experienced same sex activity are not even gay or bi ( while at the same time spouting their disgusting double standard of gay men impregnanting women and still being 100 % gay ) … the other thing is that straight women have heard of closeted gay men far too long that we have never heard of any man that despite gay experience is straight
They don’t hear about those Prison inmates … or the Military for example … those examples where straight men engage in same sex activity due to their environment ( male segregation ) … all boys schools … Saudi Arabia … or societies ( mostly ancient ) so misygonistic ( ancient Greece , etc ) and partially segregated that men were sometimes advised to engage in gay sex ( gay love being superior according to the Greek philosophers in some places ) and women were advised only as baby makers … they didn’t hear about those male prostitutes in the 1950’s , 1960’s and 1970’s when gay sex was seperated from gay identity by which Latinos ( and until today Eastern Europeans such as Romanians , etc ) engaged in male prostitution because of their poverty … they don’t hear about liberal straight European like French , Czech , Dutch , British , etc that in some surveys of that engaged in gay sex about 3/4’s identify as straight
It’s sick and I hope straight women and gay/bi men get a reality check … this ruins everybody
Stop treating straight men whom have same sex activity as a monster
But especially the straight women that keep on abandoning them just because of what they did or lived
Miss Understood
Raquel take a Valium. It’ll all be okay.
No one on here is calling straight men “monsters” for having gay sex. What you say is correct, lots of mostly straight guys have gay sex. The point that should be made is that if a huge segment of the population is having gay sex than it’s a big hypocrisy to discriminate/oppress/etc ANY people for having gay sex, especially people who predominantly have gay sex.
Straight gays who dabble is gay sex are no better or worse than gay people.
Oh, and I think the item is about Vin Diesel.
TANK
raquel seems like a bitter ex fag hag. Is that it? Bitter ex fag hag who wasted her youth? Are you a porker, too? Might want to reevaulate that “waste” part.
Fitz
Oh Raquel, have another pint of Ben & Jerrys and watch another episode of Sex in the City, while wearing your slouchwear and complaining about the impossible social standards for beauty and fitness. Why even be here? Wasn’t there a chain smoking, bleached, lisping, trailer-fag to hang with at bingo? Did you come home empty again baby girl? Just keep eating, that will help. Have some chicken. It’s not your fault. Poor Baby doll.
Jaroslaw
Thanks Raquel and you go girl, also!
As we’ve already discussed on Queerty, albeit a while ago, so much of what you’re talking about goes directly to how most societies define masculinity (mostly a tireless repudiation of anything feminine) and denigration of women, anything “soft”, “feminine” sensitive, etc. Which explains why the much higher disgust levels for same sex male activity (when compared with same sex female activity); also why a number of “macho” Gay men only top etc.
Also, labels may be handy for a science or sociology experiment or for surveys but seldom allow for life in general much less a person’s whole life experiences.
TANK
@Raquel: I don’t think anyone here is saying that straight men who have had gay sex are monsters. I don’t personally think a “straight” man who has gay sex is straight. Unfortunately America is still a very homophobic country and there are a lot of gay men who identify as straight even as they engage in gay sex either because societal or family pressure or just the need for heterosexual privilege. What is disturbing to me is that women like you who insist on sleeping with confused gay men. I think it is predatory and it sounds like something you have some experience with. As a straight woman I find women who pursue these kind of relationships opportunistic and lacking self esteem. There are plenty of straight men out there gay men belong with gay men.
The Gay Numbers
While I do believe there are guys who are predominantely straight, but have sex with me, I don’t normally think of them as “straight.” Bi yes. Straight, no. And yes, getting a blow job from a guy counts. This is like that conversation with the fundamentalist I had in college. She said it’s not sex unless there is penetration. She said this after we caught her naked in the bathroom giving her boyfriend a bj.
TANK
@TANK:
That wasn’t me.
TANK
Oh, and fuck you, impersonator.
TikiHead
Ernest. Borgnine.
TANK
I can’t disagree with what you’ve said, though. But still, fuck you! I’m not a straight woman!
TANK
@TikiHead:
LMAO! With ED ASNER.
TANK
And there’s nuff back hair between ’em (asner and borgnine) to knit a fuckin’ sweater and some mittens.
Raquel
Tank – I’m not a ” biter ex fag hag ”
Guess what ? I’ve NEVER been a ” fag hag ” ( despite living in S.F. ) … go hang yourself idiot … people as yourself is why I no longer associate myself that much with the oh so tolerant gay community
I prefer to hang around with straights/heteros
Also I do know you are talking about America
I’m not American anymore … I’m an ex pat … I’ve moved on
But yes … even this can sometimes apply to straight American men
” Jaroslaw
Thanks Raquel and you go girl, also! ”
Thanks (:
” As we’ve already discussed on Queerty, albeit a while ago, so much of what you’re talking about goes directly to how most societies define masculinity (mostly a tireless repudiation of anything feminine) and denigration of women, anything “soft”, “feminine” sensitive, etc. ”
That is NOT always true … I thought the same of Christianity for example ( back then I was an agnostic ) but the more I researched the more I saw that it’s about ” natural roles ” and not so much hatred for women ( unlike ancient Greeks for example ) … the ancient Greeks repudiated women so much that they turned to same sex activity … when Christians arrived around 50 years after Christ’s birth to spread the message ( where femininity was denigrated even in Roman times ) they scorned the ultra macho environment and rejected homosexuality and hedonism and instead turned to marriage where a man and a woman have different roles … equal but different
Misygony in Ancient Greece http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/1421/essays/misogyny.html
I think you need to make a distinction just as I have … there are societies ( Ancient Greek or even some parts of Islamic ) where it SO ultra macho or hyper masculine ( that women are inferior even to male slaves ) that rejection of women is inevitable in some cases and they ( willing or unwillingly ) turn to homosexuality
Read that piece I gave you about ” Misygony in Ancient Greece ”
Then there are others where there is still a distinction of roles ( men = masculine & women = feminine like Christianity or Judaism ) BUT women are not inferior ( even though it can lead that way sometimes … ) and this is mostly centered around marriage ( and virginity , work , etc )
” Which explains why the much higher disgust levels for same sex male activity (when compared with same sex female activity); ”
No way ! That is TODAY ( due to Biblical Christianity ) but guess what ? In Ancient Greece since women were VERY inferior ( even to male slaves ) they recurred to same sex activity as the highest goal
Also same sex activity is ALL condemned in Christianity ( male or female ) … it’s the seculars ( non religious ) whom make this distinction ( due to their admiration of Ancient Greece , Ancient Rome , etc and rejection of Christianity ) and even then you will see that the ” bottom ” ( or ‘versatiles’ ) are denigrated but ” tops ” are praised ( this is how Hellenic civilization operated ) … until today tops in some parts of Latin America and Asia are not considered gay … they are considered straight
” also why a number of “macho” Gay men only top etc. ”
That has always happened ( for centuries )
” Also, labels may be handy for a science or sociology experiment or for surveys but seldom allow for life in general much less a person’s whole life experiences. ”
THAT is why I HATE these good for nothing gay men … they keep on bragging about having sex with women and still being 1000 % gay or 6 out of 6 but you know what ? If a straight man does it he is suddenly ” bi ” ( Or ” Well I think he is bi … I just can’t see him as straight ” … argh ! )
This and much more I why I don’t dialogue with the gay community much … lunacy , extremism and hypocrites
You pride yourselves on being tolerant but they are few ( like Jaroslaw for example ) … it’s the same shit I saw with ” tolerant ” , ‘wise’ and ‘spiritual’ Eastern cultures ( many of them are not ) along with extremists Christians in USA and the ‘rational seculars’ in Europe ( if you want to know I’m a nomal Christian now … I don’t associate myself with the extremists … but I’m not a non believer either )
Raquel
Opps I meant I’m a nominal Christian
Not a nomal
And I don’t associate myself with extremists so don’t get freaked out
” ” Which explains why the much higher disgust levels for same sex male activity (when compared with same sex female activity); ”
No way ! That is TODAY ( due to Biblical Christianity ) but guess what ? In Ancient Greece since women were VERY inferior ( even to male slaves ) they recurred to same sex activity as the highest goal ”
And the same sex actitivy as ALL male on male that was praised ( see ” Homosexuality Symposium ” ) … female on female was the lowest … male on female or female on male was in between
Well I guess I’m done on this question
Toodles
Kisses to you all
TikiHead
@TANK: Well, I don’t know if it was with Ed Asner, though I always did get a vibe from him. I just know Tova is going to be furious, and she’s going to withhold access to her magical anti-aging cream — Ernest is going to age 50 years in an afternoon.
Which will be something to see.
TikiHead
@Raquel: The well-respected site LandoverBaptist.org points out “All True Christians® know that if a boy touches himself, even in the shower, he is a homosexural. So just shut up about it and accept the fact that you are going to burn in HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY! “Fantasizing” about the “body parts” of female sluts is never an excuse! Since a boy is touching a male unmentionable member, that makes him HOMOSEXURAL! That is why a man who touches his devil snake while urinating is damned to an everlasting Hell.”
http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0802/toilet.html
This proves that nearly all men are gay, except for those who refuse to touch their own devil snake, even to pee.
Oh, and Raquel? Take your Lithium.
TikiHead
@Raquel: Raquel, I want you to be happy. I really do. That’s why I want to play matchmaker, and fix you up with another frequent commenter on Queerty, a straight man who calls himself SM (I assume you are a straight woman).
Like you, he hates gay people. Like you, he wears thin quickly. Like you, his points are always just off the beam. Like you, he’s fond of ALL CAPS! Like you, he is batshit insane. Unlike, you, he can spell and write complete thoughts. But that’s only one small thing. Other than that, you seem perfect for each other!
I smell romance! (The real, hetero kind!)
You can find him in any thread that criticizes Obama. Look for the ALL CAPS!!!
Good luck!
Raquel
TikiHead – Nope … sorry … I’m not hateful of gays nor homophobic ( though I did suffer through horrible dating experiences in S.F. ) … I’m hateful of oh so tolerant gays and hypocrisy … but thank you for your ”fond” invitation
Good luck to yourself … I don’t believe in luck
I’m just being honest
If you cannot see that then good riddance
Btw see my thread on ”Catholics and Obama”
I didn’t even see him there unfortunately (‘SM’)… my deepest regards
Bye bye TikiHead
Wish you the best in life
TikiHead
@Raquel:
“TikiHead – Nope … sorry … I’m not hateful of gays nor homophobic..”
and earlier, up-thread:
“THAT is why I HATE these good for nothing gay men … they keep on bragging about having sex with women and still being 1000 % gay or 6 out of 6 but you know what ? If a straight man does it he is suddenly ” bi ” ( Or ” Well I think he is bi … I just can’t see him as straight ” … argh ! )
This and much more I why I don’t dialogue with the gay community much … lunacy , extremism and hypocrites”
Raquel, I am going to be honest, since you can’t: when you say ‘I wish you the best in life,’ we all know it’s the Christian® way of politely saying, ‘Go fuck yourself.’
Raquel? Go fuck yourself.
TikiHead
And do make sure to look up SM!
GFY!
MackMike
SM is a guy? Really? I was sure SM was a woman–go figure.
Geoff M
For once, the comments on a ‘blind item’ turned out to be funnier than the posted piece.
I wish it was Vin Deisel btw lol.
TikiHead
@MackMike: Now you have me wondering… I thought at one point in his/her all-caps rants, he/she said he/she was a straight man…
TikiHead
@Geoff M: “I wish it was Vin Deisel btw lol.”
Mmmmm.
UWSguy
It has to be someone who hasn’t been or isn’t commonly misidentified or assumed gay.
Marius
Unappealing, but Michael Douglas, Harrison Ford? Nah.
Marius
@Marius:
The Rock (and his hard place) David Duchovny, Shrek?
I’m done.
Frenchy
@Geoff M: Vin Diesel would be yummy!
TANK
@Raquel:
You’re a “nomal” christian now (code for STUPID), and believe that sexism results from denying that traditional gender roles which you deem natural? Those in christianity? LMAO! You’re a fuckin’ loon, and an antigay bigot. I prefer to hang out with gays because of heteros like you. And why are you here, then? Go hang around some breeders.
TANK
There’s nothing natural about christianity or what it requires people to behave like. It’s a twisted, artificial mess based on the judaic notion of redefining human nature, and denying it.
Matt Deco
“Who is always Mr. Macho…”
Really people? Tom Cruise, Adam Sandler, even Matthew Mcconaughey?
No.
Mark Whalberg and Vin Diesel aren’t married.
Brosnan, the Rock, or Will Smith fit the bill and are all currently filming.
I think if it was Brosnan though, it wouldn’t even really be a good rumor.
The Rock gets my bet.
Bitch Republic
Blind items are so fucking annoying. The originator of the “blind item” obviously knows and if so, they should just come out with it instead of playing these games.
friggida
Steve Guttenberg!
TikiHead
@Bitch Republic: “Blind items are so fucking annoying. The originator of the “blind item” obviously knows and if so, they should just come out with it instead of playing these games.”
Yes. And it’s very unfair to Tova Borgnine. Yessir, we need to pull that Bandaid off quick, and out Ernest once and for all.
seattle mike
The Rock has played gay in at least one movie, so he’s not “always Mr. Macho.”
TANK
bruce willis played gay in a few movies, too. I think the die hard series.
rick
woody harrelson.