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Ultimate Fighter Dakota Cochrane Addresses Gay-Porn Past

Queerty reported on mixed-martial artist Dakota Cochrane’s gay-porn past back in September, but now that he’s been cast in the new season of The Ultimate Fighter reality show, he’s finally talking to the press about it.

Cochrane (right), who claims to be straight, starred in some 16 porn flicks under the name “Danny” before racking up some serious wins in the fighting world.

The 25-year-old is 10-2 in MMA and posted a win over former WEC lightweight champ Jamie Varner in September.

Cochrane was open about his adult past on his audition tape for TUF:

“I think it’s a little bit courageous for both of us. I could just hide in a hole and no one would know except for the people close to me. And to them, I was up front. I let them know right away so it wasn’t anything that could come back and bite them in the butt. I think maybe they respected that a little bit,” Cochrane told MMAFighting. “I think some people judge against it, some people will be OK with it. Some people will want me to get my butt kicked, and hopefully others will respect what I’m trying to do.”

We’re curious to see how fans will react to Cochrane on the show and in the ring, now that his gay-ish side has come out. UFC President Dana White, the Vince McMahon  of Ultimate Fighting, told Edge Magazine that a gay fighter “wouldn’t be a big deal to me and most of the guys I know in this sport.” But two-time champion Eduordo Nogueria told USA Today he wouldn’t grapple with an out fighter—and White himself got busted for dropping some F-bombs in a video blog a few years back.

What will be the reaction from fans, hardcore and casual, once this blows up on the blogosphere?

For his part Cochrane is acting contrite. Yesterday on The MMA Show with Mauro Ranallo he said:

“Yeah, it’s true. It’s something I did a long time ago. Definitely made a mistake and want to put it in the past. Just trying to move on to bigger and better things now…”

Considering Cochrane made some $80,000 from his porn work (or so he claims) and it didn’t involve potentially crippling injuries—we’re not sure he made the right choice.

While 32 fighters are signed up for the first episode of TUF, only the 16 who win their initial matches will go on for the rest of the series and potentially land a long-term contract with UFC.

Sheesh, he’d be better off competing on Drag Race.

Photo: The MMA Corner

By:           Dan Avery
On:           Feb 29, 2012
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  • 90 Comments
    • dsp
      dsp

      For one thing, he is not doing a Dustin Zito move and being the douche that Zito is. He isn’t hiding it and is being upfront. I beleive he knew if he tried to hide it it would blow up in his face. Now, will it hurt him, I don’t know and don’t really care! And 80 000.00$ is 5 000.00$ per film….yeah that sounds about right!

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:43 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • QJ201
      QJ201

      @dsp: No website is paying 5K per “film” or “scene.” Even the big porn production companies don’t pay that much unless you are a branded “star.”

      “Straight” man lies about how much money he made in gay porn; guess he figures the “big payout” makes doing gay porn more acceptable.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:47 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Polyboy
      Polyboy

      One of these days I wish one of the GfP’s would just say, “I kissed a boy and I liked the money.”

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:48 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Brad
      Brad

      Wait… His non-porn name is Dakota Cochrane, and he went with Danny? Someone needs to talk I him about branding.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 12:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Aaron
      Aaron

      @Polyboy: Except, you know, that GfP is bullshit, since there’s a million other things a straight guy could do if he was really desperate for money that didn’t involve fucking another dude. However, saying your straight DOES guarantee more money. It’s just that it’s a lie.

      It’s called being bi, but we all know how that word goes down. Note that in porn with two women, they’ll almost always identify as bi – none of this GfP bullcrap.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 12:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • B
      B

      No. 4 · Brad wrote, “Wait… His non-porn name is Dakota Cochrane, and he went with Danny? Someone needs to talk I him about branding.”

      Maybe someone did talk to him about branding – after he stopped doing porn. You don’t know if “Dakota Cochran” is his real name. It could just be his current “stage name”.

      You know, like the actor Cary Grant’s real name was Archibald Leach.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 1:03 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • dsp
      dsp

      @QJ201: Just figured it sounded about even but then again I don’t do porn, I just watch it…lolz Then how much does it pay? Doesn’t seem to pay much then?

      Feb 29, 2012 at 1:11 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Uppity
      Uppity

      Dakota Cochrane deserved to get into The Ultimate Fighter purely on ability alone. If you’ve watched his fights you’ll see that. But his gay porn past makes him reality TV gold so his acceptance was a no brainer. The guy has been focussing on his MMA career for a few years now in Omaha. He has a pregnant girlfriend and is due to be married later this year. He really is a trailblazer in the sense that no male athlete has ever competed at a top level with a gay porn resume. Not to my knowledge, anyway.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 1:34 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • William
      William

      Roflmao all you gay for pay supporters deserve him.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 1:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tomer
      Tomer

      if he’s good at wrestling as he is good at f**king…Danny boy, you’ve got nothing to be ashamed about!

      Feb 29, 2012 at 2:06 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Oh, ok.
      Oh, ok.

      Too afraid to say he’s bi, oh well.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 3:07 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Oh, ok.
      Oh, ok.

      I love Google, 10 seconds searching: He bottomed on Sean Cody as “Danny”.

      Gay for pay my ass. I guess his pregnant wife is ok with it, that’s interesting, but her choice. If I was her I would see if his O face is the same as it is on those pages.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 3:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Marie Cohn
      Marie Cohn

      He’s the Marilyn Monroe of mixed martial artists!

      Feb 29, 2012 at 3:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Price Waterhouse
      Price Waterhouse

      Good for him by facing up to the “outing”, and I wish him well in his fighting career. This is a new age, and participating in perfectly harmless and wholesome activity (like sex) should not be a barrier to this. PS to the haters from the gay side: he DOES have a right to his own sexuality, regardless of what he portrayed in the vids. Porn is not real life – grow up and be kind.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 3:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      Danny/Cochrane says,

      “Yeah, it’s true. It’s something I did a long time ago. Definitely made a mistake and want to put it in the past. Just trying to move on to bigger and better things now…”

      It may have been a career mistake but he most likely loved doing porn, at least that is how he came off in his films. I see it as an experience, and only a mistake in right wing religious nut-bag circles that have serious tunnel vision sexual hangups.

      Now his girlfriend not liking him doing porn, (above articles and posts) that does cross some lines in my book as sexual union is a combined contract, not just one party making the decisions at the expense of the other. That I would consider a “mistake”, and that may be all he was referring to with that “mistake” comment. We will probably never know.

      But as a porn performer, he is at the top of the class. Looks like as a fighter, he may also be there. Either way, he takes what he does and does his extreme best. That is the alpha male hero I like to see; slaying your fears, taking no prisoners.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 3:40 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kasnar Burns
      Kasnar Burns

      Anyone even thinking about doing porn in this internet/twitter age has to know that if they go that route, it will eventually be found out. Not only will their involvement in porn come out, but their naked bodies will be displayed all over the internet. Hopefully, there will be a day when doing porn or exposing one’s body will be less controversial — though I do not see that happening in my lifetime truthfully.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:00 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Jake
      Jake

      I’m sorry but straight? My straight friends have never wanted or allowed anyone to fuck them let alone 16 Sean Cody videos. He can claim he’s bi but he’s sucked and ridden too much dick to ever make me think he’s only interested in vagina. Gay for pay is bullshit, he’s hot so why not straight porn?

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:22 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      Yes, people, you can be a straight man and have sex with other men.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Asherman
      Asherman

      @Jake:

      Gay porn pays better. Why is it so hard to believe that some of the gay for pay guys are just acting? The producers give them Viagra or an injection. They have straight porn on set. They get bonuses for doing more sensational acts.

      Desperate people will do anything for money.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @Mr Robertson

      My dicktionary says people who have sex w both sexes are bi. What dicktionary are you reading?

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:46 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jason
      jason

      Most men are bisexually oriented but choose to identify as straight. It’s much easier. Society is built on the straight assumption, particularly for men. There is still a stigma against male-male sexuality in particular.

      Even a man who is 100% straight in his orientation (by orientation, I mean private feelings and thoughts) may, on extreme occasions, engage in same-sex activity. How so? It’s because male sexual behavior is dictated by libido as much as it is by orientation. The strength of the male libido can drive 100% straight-oriented men to engage in behavior with men, thus over-riding their orientation.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 4:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @Jason

      “Most men are bisexually oriented but choose to identify as straight”.

      Can you direct me to any studies that back up that claim?

      Feb 29, 2012 at 5:01 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Rob
      Rob

      I agree Aaron, these guys are either bisexual or gay and “G4P” is just marketing since there are tons of gay men who lust after hetero men or the fantasy and pipe dream of having sex with an actual hetero guy.

      I’ve never met any actual hetero/straight guy who actually had sex with men or who wanted to have sex with men, let alone did porn where he was filmed and had sex with men.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 5:05 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jason
      jason

      Rob,

      You just haven’t met any straight men who ADMIT to having sex with men. Straight men are driven by their libido and will engage in sexual activity with men (perhaps not penetration but mutual masturbation for sure) in certain circumstances.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 5:33 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • kuy
      kuy

      @iDavid:

      Actually, people who are attracted to both women and men are bi. A bisexual may never have sex with anyone, but he is still bi, so bisexuality is not defined by what you do. You can, however, say that bisexuality is also an identity aside from also being a sexual preference.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 5:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • vixlad
      vixlad

      @Uppity: I pity his so-called-girlfriend. This is a recipe for disaster waiting to happen. People like him are usually from troubled or broken homes, where being gay was frowned upon. And so, admitting that you are one, will be totally terrifying to admit to oneself. I see a lot of sadness, depression and pain in this boys future, because this marriage if it ever come into fruition will eventually fall apart. I see all the time. My best friends cousin went through the same thing. SAD!

      Feb 29, 2012 at 6:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • steve sydney
      steve sydney

      Isn’t a mistake something you do once, twice at the most?

      When you get to performing in adult film number 16, I don’t think you can still call it a ‘mistake’

      Feb 29, 2012 at 7:30 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @steve sydney: “Isn’t a mistake something you do once, twice at the most?” No. A “mistake” can also refer to an ongoing situation, or even to a whole period of your life.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 7:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Will
      Will

      Interesting to see what straight guys are saying about the matter (jump to the comments section)….seems like Dakota/Danny has sparked quite an amusing conversation among those in the sporting world lol

      http://www.bloodyelbow.com/2012/2/29/2832679/UFC-ultimate-fighter-dakota-cochrane-gay-porn

      Feb 29, 2012 at 8:27 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Alan brickman
      Alan brickman

      Hopefully the jealous separtists won’t drive him to suicide like Roman Ragazzi..grow lives already!!

      Feb 29, 2012 at 8:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Blahqula
      Blahqula

      This is why I never let my bi side take over. Ask a woman what she’s offering and it’s something along the lines of “You want to sleep with me, I’ll let you”. Give her affection and warmth, and wait for some in return. Keep waiting. And Waiting….With men you know where you stand and can build on it, or not, depending on the circumstances and variables in your lives, etc. Women, ummmm, not so much.

      The whole deal with women is “you gave me real affection, that’s a commitment, I caught you”. I learned how to say “well, that’s what you think hon, I won’t make that mistake again”. There you have it, the real reason bi’s are so feared. And I didn’t even make porn. I’m glad I’m only like 20-30% hetero tho, even then I was thinking the Louis CK joke by the time I was 15. You know, The one where he sees the hot chick at the bar and asks her “what do you do”? She says “People want to fuck me”. So true.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 8:34 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tika Masala
      Tika Masala

      I’m proud of him. Let him figure it out. At least he isn’t mired in self pity and remorse, he’s going
      on living his life as he sees it, and headed towards a dream. Good for him.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 8:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @Mr Robertson,

      Ah yes, you mean “mistake” like, “you can be a straight man and have sex with other men”.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 9:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @iDavid: I actually *don’t* mean that.

      If I say you can be a straight man and have sex with other men, it’s because you can be a straight man and have with other men. It happens. For a bunch of reasons.

      And if I say a mistake can involve an ongoing situation, or even a whole period in your life, it’s because it can. That, too, happens.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 9:31 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kieran
      Kieran

      There’s something very inviting about a sport that uses terms like “Rear naked chokehold”.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 9:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @Will

      Hey thx for that link. It dawned on me while reading those very entertaining posts, that this whole thing could be on huge planned set up to draw in a huge audience. Straights out of speculation and the rest cuz the guy is over the top HOT. The guy is a waking talking dream boy, who is kickn ass.
      This could be making lotsa cash for good ol “Danny” boy.

      Mr. Roberts,

      Str8 men don’t ever have sex with the same sex, not ever not know how. They would sooner eat dirt. That’s like saying a total gay guy woukd have sex w a woman cuz well, he’s just sssooooo horny. Nada, never yuk. Just not a match, on any level.
      Heteroflexible, bi, bi curious choose your label, but at least let’s keep the labels
      ummmmmm….straight. ; )

      Feb 29, 2012 at 9:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @kieran

      “Oh behave!” lol

      Feb 29, 2012 at 9:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tyler
      Tyler

      Blaquah you should just come out as being bisexual and stop living your life in the closet. Life and your sexuality are meant for living and not hiding in a closet or repressed like you and worrying about biphobic bigots and what others will think about yourself for being true to who you are instead of living a lie. You clearly know nothing about women.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 10:01 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tim
      Tim

      Blaquah I agree with Tyler, by staying closeted as a bisexual you’re promoting biphobia, bisexual erasure, and bisexual invisibility within the LGBT community a lot of which is promoted by gay men and lesbians.

      The dirty little secret that never gets addressed in the so called “gay” world is the fact that many gay men do go through a second coming out and re-identify as bisexual. These men may still overwhelmingly prefer men, but their orientation and identity are not exclusively towards men. And how their attraction to both sexes manifests differently as well.

      There are a whole shit load of latent bisexuals masquerading around as gay men because they are ignorant of the fact that bisexual doesn’t only mean an equal attraction to both genders or they’re too scared to admit it because they’ve invested so much of their time and energy cultivating a gay identity, and because of the biphobia and bisexual erasure that’s promoted by some gay men and lesbians who are hypocritical bigots.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 10:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @iDavid: Yeah. They never do in the advertised version. In the real-life version, though, you end up making all the innumerable wrong choices and compromises and plain old leaps into the unknown that people inevitably make in life. I think your example of gay guys having sex with women is a good analogy. I, like I think most everyone else here, know a lot of gay guys, myself included, who have had sex with women repeatedly and who aren’t one bit less gay for it.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 10:25 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Aaron
      Aaron

      @kuy: THIS. Thank you for saying the other thing I wanted to say, in a much better manner.

      @Tim: Ditto to you.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 10:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Joe
      Joe

      Wow, a lot of folks on this wall are just making all of these declarative statements about his reality. “He’s straight” “Straight? Ha!” “He comes from a broken home” “All men are bisexual, he chose to be straight” I don’t know what sources y’all have to feel so confident on what is definitely true about a stranger. I mean, shouldn’t we be allowed any identity that is true to us. Can’t “straight, but totally cool with sex with guys if a big pay check is involved” its own identity? Its not traditionally straight, but its not gay either, and bi isn’t just some garbage dump for all identities between the two extremes. He says he’s straight, that’s okay with me, he’s done gay porn, thats also okay with me too. I’m just glad he isn’t acting as ashamed of it as others in the past.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 10:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @Joe: +1.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:03 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Patsy Stoned
      Patsy Stoned

      Joe, he is acting ashamed of it. “I hated it every time I went there.” Really? Nobody forced him to take it up the ass at gunpoint. And he went back, repeatedly.

      I hate that we live in a world where a man fucking another man is seen as shameful, while a man beating the hell out of another man is seen as heroic and a step up.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:30 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • shannon
      shannon

      THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “GAY FOR PAY”…UNLIKE WOMEN WHO CAN LAY THERE…MEN HAVE TO GET HARD…YOU HAVE TO BE TURNED ON…YOU GUYS WITH ALL THIS “HE IS STR8…AND HAD SEX WITH ME” BS….ARE SEEING THE RESULT OF THIS…..——-YOU ARE BEING USED…PLAYED AND ABUSED—— PEOPLE LOOK AT THE GAY COMMUNITY AS IDIOTS!! YOU REALLY THINK HE IS “STR8″?…THIS GAY IS GAYER THAN MOST….PLEASE STOP THIS NONSENSE…..================LISTEN===================== NO MAN WHO IS “STR8″ WILL HAVE SEX WITH YOU…..ANOTHER MAN….IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM!!!! NO MATTER HOW “DRUNK” OR “HORNY”….THIS WHY MEN ARE GETTING BASHED THINKING THIS..,..

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:33 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Joey
      Joey

      @shannon: That seems like a real personal rant. I’m sorry things were so bad for you with the straight guy you loved but as Shakespeare wrote

      “There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
      Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.”

      There are people who have sex festivals centered around acting like horses, people who truly aren’t interested in sex, people who have been more genders than most know exist and yet somehow, it’s unbelievable that a man could have sex for money…? Getting hard is a physiological reaction, not an attraction. Attraction is what you want when you are hard, not what gets you hard.

      Feb 29, 2012 at 11:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ramone
      Ramone

      Ahhh the thrill of the hunt ..he was quite a busy boy indeed ..

      Sean Cody – 0490
      Sean Cody – 0506
      Sean Cody – 0515
      Sean Cody – 0518
      Sean Cody – 0531
      Sean Cody – 0533
      Sean Cody – 0549
      Sean Cody – 0559
      Sean Cody —- (danny/billy)

      only 7 more to find !!

      Mar 1, 2012 at 12:19 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • acc999
      acc999

      How is 16 times a mistake??

      Mar 1, 2012 at 12:35 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tim
      Tim [Different person #1 using similar name]

      Sean Cody pays $1500 for solo vid. Maybe more for a fuck vid.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 12:40 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Derp! Duh -- erp!
      Derp! Duh -- erp!

      @acc999: Is your imagination really so paltry that you can honestly ask that question?

      Mar 1, 2012 at 12:50 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Starry Eyed
      Starry Eyed

      Some of these comments (as well as Dakota’s own) make me think something along the lines of “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me 16 times, shame on me.”

      Regardless, keep on keeping on, Mr. Cochrane. This conversation will never end, but at least it contributes to all the ways in which we look to define sex, sexuality, and identity in our diverse society and in the world at large. It certainly makes for interesting reading!

      Mar 1, 2012 at 12:59 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • acc999
      acc999

      the hunt is not very hard – just go to seancody.com, enter the site and do a model search for Danny – all the vids come up (you don’t even have to be a member to get this far) Something tells me the site is going to get some new members (pun intended) I’m a big fan of the UFC and the show and it will be interesting to watch what happens. I hope he does well and kicks some ass of some hater who thinks they can beat up a fag.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 1:06 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • acc999
      acc999

      @Derp! Duh — erp!: its called sarcasm idiot.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 1:21 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Blahqula
      Blahqula

      @Tyler: Nah, I’m not in the closet. My husband is Bi too, maybe a little more than me but not much. We sometimes admire women together, both like straight porn, (if the guy is hot ;D) It’s just a bore. Not to mention self absorbed being someone with tangled loyalties IMO. I feel the same way about monogamy too, trust is everything when it comes to setting and making goals AFAIC.

      After a lifetime of experience, I’ve learned it’s better to build on real love and affection, with respect for the vulnerabilities the people we care about have (as we all do, we’re only human). I’ve been lucky enough to find a guy who feels the same way about me. I have a couple of bi friends who’ve all settled in more or less the same way, but then we’re not twenty-somethings anymore either. Two friends are in Gay unions, my biggest client is a bi guy with a wife who has a live-in GF also. Not my thing, and the Hubs with his old world upbringing? Not gonna happen, and that suits me just fine.

      I don’t feel “old” by any means, (I’m 45) but once you make it around the block a few times in one piece, you realize it’s nice to be able to sleep at night, look at yourself in the mirror, the basics just become more important in general.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 1:52 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Derp! Duh — erp!
      Derp! Duh — erp!

      @acc999: Oh sweetie. You think that’s what “sarcasm” means? I’m sorry the US public school system failed you, but no, that’s not “sarcasm.” So keep trying. Seriously, keep it at it. One day you’re bound to get it right.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 2:22 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Blahqula
      Blahqula

      <<@Tim: The dirty little secret that never gets addressed in the so called “gay” world is the fact that many gay men do go through a second coming out and re-identify as bisexual.>>

      You sound earnest and all, but I don’t think that’s the total picture. Many gay men are religious and go back in the closet to get married too. Others get exhausted fighting the good fight and make the family happy, it’s not easy being out and having fewer rights than heteros after all. Some bi-sexuals discount gay identity altogether and snicker with the straights about same gender relationships being some kind of contrived thing. Ever read Gore Vidal?

      I mean cynical exploitation of our identities is kind of limitless (not constrained by LGBT nor hetero) when you consider how complicit we are all in our 2000 year-old breeding project known as Western Civilization, if you think about it. Where has that gotten us? 7.5 billion and counting, so we don’t have to understand people who are different than our specific selves, and can call it “politics”? No thanks, I’m more pre-Socratic, life is a pantheon to me. I could care less about big brother, he’s on his own.

      <>

      Seriously, bi erasure? What about all the bi’s masquerading as straights, wifed up and treating our community like it starts and ends at the bathhouse? You’re a bit confused I think, politics that establish LGBT’s in society promote increased agency for bi’s, a huge change. Not some status quo that produces overpopulation and closets for all non-heteros to live in while we’re stripped of our rights. You’re off base, IMO.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 2:30 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      Mr Robertson,

      All the gay guys I know have never had sex with a woman, and the thought makes them nauseous. The many str8 guys I know feel the same nausea at the thought of being with a guy. These seem to be the natural extremes on the sliding scale of sexual attraction with bi in the middle.
      There is a term that has come out of studies where str8 and gay guys do have occasional sex with the opposite of their norm. The terms are heteroflexible and homoflexible, but would not fit into a traditionally bi category because the opposing attraction to their norm is so slight in comparison to their usual attraction. Does this sound more like what you may be referring to?

      Mar 1, 2012 at 2:34 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • silvano
      silvano

      it is so sad.. after 25 gay porn movie you said to us that you are straight.. how much people will belive you? after 25 movies not just 1 but 25!
      do you think to be gay or bi is ugual to be lesser masculine than straight men?
      ok maybe i could excuse him with the strongy homophobia in some envirorment, but i won’t believe you in anyway
      by the way i don’t belive in gay for pay too.. if you don’t like it you won’t have any erection too, porn is fake of course but nothing could give you an erection if you don’t like it!

      Mar 1, 2012 at 6:15 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • silvano
      silvano

      @iDavid: try to study kinsey report’s about male sexual behaviour mate..

      Mar 1, 2012 at 6:49 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • dave
      dave

      I suppose a straight man can willingly take a dick up his ass just for kicks. I suppose if he’s in prison or the pay is good, he can take a few more as well. 4-5-6 dicks up his ass willingly if he’s in jail for a long time. I’ll go out on a limb and say a straight man can take a dozen different men’s cocks in his ass for money. But at 16 – sorry. You are not straight.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 8:41 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Holla
      Holla

      Although the comments are getting a bit out of control here, I would say that I know many gay men who, in their youth, had sex with women, sometimes multiple women. Does this make them less gay? No, it makes them gay dudes who did it with women. Why can’t the same go for straight dudes?

      Mar 1, 2012 at 11:51 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jackfeiry
      jackfeiry

      @Holla
      Frankly i think all those gay men exist in your fantasy only …

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • kyle
      kyle

      @jason: These guys are “straight” not straight. And, you were born yesterday.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:11 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @jackfeiry: I feel like I’m hallucinating. You honestly think gay men who’ve slept with women don’t exist?

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:13 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kyle
      Kyle

      @Holla: Gay men who sleep with women do so out of desperation to be straight. They think this venture into heterosexuality will cure them of their homosexuality. It never happens.

      “Straight” guys who have gay sex on camera, no less, in front mom, dad, friends, the world…do so because they are gay. “Straight” who cruise craigslist looking for same-sex hook-ups do so because they are gay.

      “Straight” men who pursue other men for sexual pleasure are gay … (or bisexual. Not straight.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • kyle
      kyle

      @Mr. Robertson: Gay men who pursue women for sex do so because they are desperate to be “cured” of their homosexuality. It never works.

      These “straight” guys who are in these videos, or cruise craigslist, time and time again, do so out of pleasure.

      They are gay or bisexual. Not straight.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • kyle
      kyle

      @Joe: He’s extremely ashamed of it. He said, he “hated it”, it was a “mistake”. He has even craked jokes at the expense of gay men on his twitter by claiming to have eaten a six inch sub from subway, and that he has taken 6 inches in a long time. A twitter follower of his also wanted to set the record set that he wasn’t “a gay guy”, and that it’s all bullshit.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:26 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kurt Wilde
      Kurt Wilde

      @Oh, ok.: We get girls pregnant to prove how straight we “really” are.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 4:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Stark
      Stark

      ^
      ^
      ^
      This is why everybody hates us.

      Mar 1, 2012 at 8:20 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • catsjc
      catsjc

      What are the names if the videos and where can I buy then?
      I’m gay, I live and love out proud and aloud!

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:00 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      You can’t buy them as Seancody.com does not put their movies on DVD. Search “Danny” on the web sight.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:20 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • iDavid
      iDavid

      @Silvano

      Re: The Kinsey Scale.

      O is exclusively str8 with no desire or experience w the same sex. 6 is exc gay w no desire or experience w opposite sex. This backs up my assertions previously stated.

      So your point is?

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:33 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Trent
      Trent

      He said he did it. He did not make any inflammatory remarks. We should just either support him or forget about him. NO need to make nasty comments or speculate about his orientation. It does not matter.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 8:05 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • arbiter
      arbiter

      Um, why is everyone forgetting the most glaringly obvious thing I could say about this? Bottoming is awesome. Ever google ‘pegging?’ Straight guys are figuring this out in droves. Maybe Mr. Cochrane simply discovered that after they waved a bunch of money in front of his face? And, he’s obviously not the most hung on SC, so they probably thought “cute bottom.” I tend not to speculate on orientations if the person identifies as one or the other. I’ve had straight guys admit to me that they’ve had fleeting attractions to other men, supposing I would understand, I guess. I’ve had attractions to women (and slept with one), but I wouldn’t consider myself bi. It’s a lot more complicated than if you take it up the rear, you’re gay or at least bi. Some people just plain don’t give a shit. If you have no hang-ups, are offered a lot of cash and discover *gasp* it feels f**king awesome, then why not? Sure, he’s straight and in a hyper-masculine profession, so now it seems embarrassing, but what interest does anyone else have on speculating on another person’s sexuality, really? And the gay community just likes to characterize everyone as gay, as it is. You know what I think about it? HOT. lol

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mr. Robertson
      Mr. Robertson

      @arbiter: +1. Great post.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:33 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jason
      jason

      You don’t have to be attracted to men to be a good bottom. A bottom can be totally limp. The bottom seeks pleasure through a fetishistic feeling of having something tickling his prostate. It’s basically an act of fetish.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:37 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kyle
    • JJ
      JJ

      “Sure, he’s straight and in a hyper-masculine profession, so now it seems embarrassing…”

      What homophobic BS.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:48 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • arbiter
      arbiter

      @Kyle: not a very promising turn-out, eh? Ah well, the six or so responses on that page could hardly be considered representative. It’s kind of a terrible forum for that kind of question… because how many would openly admit to being ok to do gay porn, even if it’s ‘just for the money,’ especially on a site dedicated to MMA? But you know what… I like MMA, and I like gay porn, but would I do either? NO.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:55 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • arbiter
      arbiter

      @JJ: Why is that homophobic? WTF? Do you know lots of straight guys who would openly admit to letting a guy stuff him for money, or something? I said SEEMS, although, as open as he is about it, he doesn’t seem too embarrassed!

      Mar 2, 2012 at 4:58 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • silvano
      silvano

      @iDavid as you can see the distribution of sexual orientation is a gaussian fuction, so i suppose the absolute gay men (it is signed like 6) and the absolude straight men (it is signed like 0) is unique than rare, most of human population are. Personally i could be in love with women and men too, it depeds by the fact i need emotion for falling in love and as a man as a woman can give it to me.
      by the way i can also undstand that now is “pretty” straight than he has a girlfriend, but he lies when he said he wasn’t gay and he made gay sex for gain some money.
      we are all virtually bisexual i suppose but i don’t think he has to disown himself because some people thinks all gay are fags. now i will be politically uncorrect, are people sure what MMA fighter do in their private life? I don’t think so, i know that that are a lot of men and women that lies about their feeling because they are scared by society.
      I’m italian and i can say that in my country homopobhia is really really strong, so i don’t wonder if mr Dakota cochrane said it was a terrible mistake about his (gay performer)past, it is just so sad it was smarter if he said it is my business i want to share it with nobody

      Mar 2, 2012 at 5:55 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • prince of snides aka divkid
      prince of snides aka divkid

      @silvano: mmmm, you got my attention at “gaussian fuction” — that sounds filthy and deeeelicious. i’d like to try out that wrestling move ;P

      Mar 2, 2012 at 6:05 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Trevor
      Trevor

      >>>There is a term that has come out of studies where str8 and gay guys do have occasional sex with the opposite of their norm. The terms are heteroflexible and homoflexible, but would not fit into a traditionally bi category because the opposing attraction to their norm is so slight in comparison to their usual attraction. Does this sound more like what you may be referring to?<<<

      iDavid-Terms like Heteroflexible and Homoflexible are just other terms for being bisexual. Granted I've noticed the men and women who use these terms are bisexual but don't want to admit it and are closeted or even in denial about their bisexuality.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 6:26 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kyle
    • Blahqula
      Blahqula

      @Kyle: What is the incentive for the respondents to answer truthfully under those conditions? Either way, with an extensive enough survey, you could find results fairly varied and so concluding Arbiters’ hypothesis even with such a small sample. Design Arbiter a survey and let him post it there, or you’re the one who’s full of shit. Unless you want to personally question each prize fighter you can access for zero incentive of your own, just to prove he’s the shitty one. Big talker talking big on Queerty, who would’ve guessed?.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 8:42 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kyle
      Kyle [Different person #1 using similar name]

      No, no, no. I don’t know what you’re talking about. I didn’t even read all that mess.
      That dude needs to go to that website and produce straight males, who are HONESTLY straight, who will agree to have gay sex on camera for money. That’s it.
      If not, all you straight guys love the homosex basement dwelling creeps, need to shut the eff up.

      Thank you.

      Mar 2, 2012 at 10:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Blahqula
      Blahqula

      @Kyle: So, you’re too illiterate to understand the basic foundations of a statistical study? I thought you were after the truth, my mistake, I didn’t realize.

      Question:”If not, all you straight guys love the homosex basement dwelling creeps, need to shut the eff up.”

      What does this sentence mean? I hope you’re not telling random people to shut up Kyle. I gave you a perfectly reasonable option to further pursue the dilemma you brought on yourself, and that’s the response I get? You should consider taking your own advice to heart before you speak to me again, Kyle. This is starting to seem like I’m talking to somebody who’s seriously lacking, and possibly drunk.

      Mar 3, 2012 at 6:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Luciano
      Luciano

      He is not straight at all. I hate those fake gay-for-pay porn stars who insist on claiming they’re not gay, as if it’s a shame to be gay.

      Mar 4, 2012 at 1:33 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Nanc
      Nanc

      Hmmm…all the critics about “how” you survive? Well…I did my own thing and sued due to a breach, however, I’m not a lesbian, it’s sometimes what you do to survive! Especially at his age! Go Dakota!

      Mar 9, 2012 at 10:44 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • silvano
      silvano

      @nanc i don’t take care about what mr dakota do in his bedroom with his wife or his husbad but if you spit into the dish where you ate you aren’t a man, but just a child

      Mar 11, 2012 at 5:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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