@hyhybt: Not if said txt messages were flirty or even go so far as to ask for it. The contents of txts weren’t released but stated that they “support the defendants version of events”. That with the defendants insistance that the straight guy did ask for a bj. To some we are getting into murky water but i don’t believe its rape. Just that a drunk curious dude had his inhibitions way down, went there, and had instant regret. From my own experience and talking to friends, iv had sex with “straight” guys and had them regret acting out the fantasy, even heard of them getting agro/violent. It happens. And from what iv read here in NZ, its an almost classic case of this. Have you never woke up to someone after a druunken night out and gone “wtf?”. While regretful i certainly cannot accuse them of rape.