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WATCH: Porn Star Colby Keller Vlogs About Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety

Hipster porn-star Colby Keller is Manhunt’s new “sex advice video columnist”! And what a wise, down-to-earth intercourse guru Mr. Keller is!

Responding to a guy who says he has performance anxiety in bed, Keller says: “I usually have performance anxiety when I’m a little too self-conscious, or feeling insecure, or feeling like the other person isn’t into me, which could happen on a porn set. Usually what helps me is to think about is really hot sexual experiences I’ve had, or fantasies that I’ve had in the past.”

Uh oh—just don’t yell out, “Oh yeah, Brent Everett, I like the way you’re doin’ that,” right?

He also says that the problem is probably in the partner, which we agree with. Find someone new if they’re not doing enough to help you get it up, seriously.

What do y’all think? Is Colby Keller your new go-to for sex advice, or is he just as useless as your clueless Sunday brunch girlfriend?

We think he’d be slightly more convincing… with his shirt off.

By:           Evan Mulvihill
On:           Mar 29, 2012
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  • 25 Comments
    • Kyle
      Kyle

      He’s a whore, darlin.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 1:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Clueless
      Clueless

      SOoooooo hot!!!!

      Mar 29, 2012 at 1:18 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • QJ201
      QJ201

      So funny, Manhunt daily describes his a really hot top. Guess they have never seen his vids…he’s a big power bottom that loves a big load in his mouth. If he’s not really into bottoming or spooge sucking, then he must be a great actor.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 1:24 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ok, ok
      Ok, ok

      Queerty is deleting comments now, truth must sting a little.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 3:19 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Matthew
      Matthew

      I actually read the comment that was deleted and, like many other comments on this site, it went way beyond the scope of this article and right into malicious territory. He clearly has no issues regarding his profession or with the number of people he chooses to sleep with. And, as someone who *has* slept with a lot of people, he is pretty qualified to offer advice on the subject. Those of you who are (quite irrationally) launching into very personal attacks on a complete stranger are too angry to be online.

      This was supposed to be a fluff post, I’m sure. Appreciate it for that and that alone, admire a cute (and articulate) guy who is willing to share his porn-wisdom with all of us regular guys, and go to a yahoo chat room if you do feel truly compelled to relentlessly dissect the character of a stranger.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 3:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ok, ok
      Ok, ok

      @Matthew: Malicious how? I don’t know him personally.

      He “porn star” telling someone to leave their partner and find a new one rather than talk out the situation like an adult and get to the root of the problem is completely idiotic.

      Are you really that sensitive? And well the first comment called him a whore yet you glossed right over that one. Get over yourself. You can worship “porn stars” all day long if you so choose, no one else has to.

      A whore coaching others to be whores is ridiculous, taking relationship advice from someone who can’t even get a real job is ridiculous, and white knighting an online sex toy is hilarious.

      Brb, popcorn.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 3:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Marie Cohn
      Marie Cohn

      Oh, please, in his industry, they’re all performing on Viagra or injectables.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 3:58 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Fausto Fernós
      Fausto Fernós

      All that money for manhunt and such terrible video and audio. Come on, get it together! Wish I could understand what he’s saying. I like this idea but I want to be able to understand him.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 4:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jason
      jason

      Darling, you’re a porn performer. You’re in it for the money and the attention. I wonder how much Viagra and amyl contribute to your performance.

      People who have sex for money do not represent people who have sex for nothing. Now, go on your merry way and stop pretending you’re a representative for the gay community. Sheesh….

      Mar 29, 2012 at 5:12 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Pickles
      Pickles

      @Ok, ok

      He’s not giving relationship advice, he’s giving advice about SEX.

      He is a “sex advice columnist” not a relationship counselor.

      If there is anyone who knows about sex, it’s a porn performer.

      Why are people so full of jealousy and rage on Queerty?

      If you have BETTER advice to give about SEX, start your own VLOG and leave other folks be.

      Anyone who has read Colby’s very intelligent, thought-provoking, FUN blog knows he thinks a lot about sex (in addition to having a lot for work) and actually has a lot of interesting and helpful things to say.

      He’s kind, down-to-Earth, accessible and funny.

      If you don’t want to take SEX advice from a “whore” (so what, who cares?), don’t watch his videos or read columns about them.

      Self-select yourself out of the frame and you’ll save YOUR time and we won’t have to bypass all the misdirected rage and irrational anger you’re posting underneath and lovely vlog about having better sex (which is a lovely thing that all folks should get to have)

      Also, you are totally projecting about “leaving your partner” because at no point did he suggest that. That’s all you boo.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 6:35 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • FunMe
      FunMe

      Is everyone in porn a “star”? Whatever!

      Mar 29, 2012 at 7:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ok, ok
      Ok, ok

      @Pickles: LOL you are mighty defensive. Speaking of “projecting” read that massive wall of text that I didn’t.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 7:21 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Matthew
      Matthew

      @Ok, ok:

      I’m not defending Colby Keller. I don’t even really care about Colby Keller, one way or another. It just gets a little negative sometimes, scrolling through the comments on stories that really shouldn’t be provoking much more than a semi, and instead finding bizarre rage and (i think) thinly-veiled insecurity. Do you agree with what he does for a living? Apparently not. I know I would never resort to porn, but this aversion certainly doesn’t entitle me to completely dehumanize those who do decide that that is how they’d like to pay the rent.

      Like the poster above mentioned, this is a guy who, amongst his other career endeavours, has decided to give sex advice to those who specifically ask it of him. If you don’t like it, or are completely and utterly offended by even the PROSPECT of it, you could maybe just not watch it?

      I think we can all agree that this is a relatively nobel cause, and we can also agree that maybe there would be less low-level rage pinging around the internet (and other places) if more people watched Colby’s videos and had fulfilling, regular sexual experiences…

      Mar 29, 2012 at 11:16 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Matthew
      Matthew

      @Evan Mulvihill:

      My first-ever comment and I’m getting a/an <3.

      Mar 29, 2012 at 11:22 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • shannon
      shannon

      WHO THE HELL CARES??? WHY DOES QUEERTY GLORIFY DRUG ADDICTED….UNEDUCATED….STUPID PORN PEOPLE???? COME ON NOW…….GET SOME POSITIVE THINGS IN HERE…

      Mar 29, 2012 at 11:34 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Codswallop
      Codswallop

      Did any of you actually WATCH the video?!

      His advice was good, some of it the OPPOSITE of “whoring” or whatever BS you’re trying to project into him. He tells the young guy who’s having the “performance problems” that maybe he needed a guy who would be patient with him, someone who cares, so maybe instead of hook-ups he should look for a guy to DATE!

      I wouldn’t go into porn either but I figure if you WATCH porn you shouldn’t get too far up on your high horse about it.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 1:08 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ok, ok
      Ok, ok

      @Matthew: LOL you care quite a bit, you need a hobby. It’s some random whore in porn, stop clutching your pearls over a few internet comments.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 1:30 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ryan
      ryan

      CK is fairly intelligent, but he’s gotta be dealing with mental illness or something. The guy has spent his entire adult life in porn and he’s only managed to fuck his way to the middle. He needs to lay off the drugs and get on track.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 2:13 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Fuck God
      Fuck God

      While his status as an undisputed hipster fuck god is undeniable (Mmmmmm…. Gimme a moment), I would agree that he mightn’t be qualified to dispense advice. One caveat: many advice columnists are just a face for a psychologist who actually ghost writes the responses. However, given his answer, I’m not inclined to agree that, if this were the case, he or she is a well-trained psychologist.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 8:36 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jason
      jason

      A whore is a whore is a whore. If you do porn, you’re a whore. Case closed.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 8:42 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • IzzyLuna
      IzzyLuna

      He lost my interest after 10 seconds. Porn stars shouldn’t speak. Just get naked, have sex and that’s it. That’s why they’re popular, not because of their thoughts on issues. Blah.

      Mar 30, 2012 at 1:05 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • porsupuesto
      porsupuesto

      loves me some Colby Keller!!

      Mar 30, 2012 at 11:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Six Jerks
      Six Jerks

      JFC people, why does everyone in our community HAVE to sling crap about each other??

      Mar 31, 2012 at 12:33 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kyle
      Kyle

      I said it before, and I’ll say it again…he’s a whore, darlin’.

      Apr 2, 2012 at 4:31 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dylan
      Dylan

      “Artist”

      Apr 2, 2012 at 5:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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