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Why Is Everyone Fascinated With Gay Cowboys?

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Why would an urban straight guy make a film about gay cowboys?

Honestly, documentaries never entered my mind. I was originally doing research for a scripted show. I found the world of rodeo to be incredibly homogenous, until I was in Colorado and I sat next to a lesbian couple. They informed me that they rarely come to straight Rodeo events. This is where I learned about niche rodeo scenes: Black rodeo, Mexican rodeo but, more importantly, the gay rodeo. Upon further investigation I decided that a documentary would be far more meaningful than a scripted show. So I quit my job and went on a three-year journey.

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I was shocked at how many gay people live in the rural west.  That alone opened up my understanding about the community in a wider way. And there are so many that live in these little tiny towns, that are not out and this rodeo is the only safe place where they can go and be themselves. It’s a total throwback, but it’s a way for the more urban gays to perhaps remember their history and honor it. The cowboy code has a powerful message that everyone should learn about and live by.

usbyhrCbdp5xb7VxJWe3HKvBGYRva3r12xUo-bZSl50Cowboy code? What is this cowboy code? It sounds hot.

[Laughs] The cowboy code is really just simple rules to live by. Basically be kind to others. Be true to your word. Work hard, be honest and help those who need it. And, seriously I when I was out shooting I was almost suspicious as to how wonderful everyone was. I was a complete stranger with a camera and yet I was always picked up at the airport, had a place to sleep and was fed. It blew me away how supportive everyone was.

You talk a lot about breaking down stereotypes, how does this film do that?

Well the cowboy is so iconic. This film sort of restarts those traditions to include a wider array of people: women, gays, trans people. It even challenges stereotypes within the gay community. More often than not my gay friends are like, “wait…there’s a gay rodeo?” So this film is an opportunity to show gay people living with country western values.

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Matt Livadary

At my second rodeo in Alvarado, Texas there was a moonshine competition. And this drag queen named Sharbie was taking me around and getting me completely loaded. The next day I was hungover and this dude named Brett comes up and starts talking to me like he knew me intimately. And I’m thinking, Oh fuck, what did I do last night? Then I finally realized Brett was Sharbie without her drag on.

 

Watch the trailer for the film below and donate to the Queens & Cowboys Indiegogo campaign for completion funds here.

By:           CLARK HARDING
On:           Dec 22, 2013
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  • 32 Comments
    • KittyLitter
      KittyLitter

      No, not everyone.
      Just you.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 9:56 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      Gurrrl. Who doesn’t want to be roped and hogtied by some hot cowboy…? I have been to the gay rodeo and it was the most fun that I’ve had in a month of Sundays…Yee Ha..

      Dec 22, 2013 at 9:57 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      Why? Because they embrace the things that many urban gay communities do not:

      Tradition
      Masculinity
      Monogamy
      Sportsmanship
      Humility
      Trustworthiness
      Responsibility
      Character
      Reliability
      Morality
      Self-reliance
      No pressing desire to dress like women

      . . . in my humble opinion, of course.

      (disagree if you will, but before you attack me, note the qualifying words “many” and “opinion”)

      Dec 22, 2013 at 10:27 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @BJ McFrisky: A rather large order you might say but it leaves the lady with unturned hair…Hey BJ Paul Ryan and Aaron Schock want to have a three way with ewe..Ayn Rand wants to have your baby too.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 10:39 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Horse Lips
      Horse Lips

      There is not Alberato, Tx. There’s an Alvarado, Tx.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 10:43 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • balehead
      balehead

      BJ McFrisky is right….Not every gay want to flame out to “Single Ladies” you know…

      Dec 22, 2013 at 11:03 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jwrappaport
      jwrappaport

      Lots of us fetishize cowboys for the same reason we do firemen, cops, soldiers, etc.: it’s just hot to be little spoon to a big strong man. No big mystery there.

      @BJ McFrisky: These are qualities that belong not to communities or groups, but to people. You’ve sandbagged yourself by using weasel words like “many” and “opinion,” but your generalization is no less sweeping or unjustified.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 11:07 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      @jwrappaport: Sweeping, yes. Unjustified, no. Just ask a gay cowboy.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 11:19 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      @AuntieChrist: And I would gladly comply.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 11:22 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • hyhybt
      hyhybt

      The headline’s premise is faulty.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 11:52 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Adar Lang Pai
      Adar Lang Pai

      @BJ McFrisky: Sweeping judgments and patently false. Another right wing (probably self-hating) queen who despises the freedoms of urban gays to be who they are. First, there is nothing wrong with femininity. Gender stereotypes are so 90’s. And for you to sit back in your insulated little cowboy town and pass judgments on the personalities of millions of people you’ve never met is so trite. Gay or straight, you rednecks are so predictable.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 12:23 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • MikeE
      MikeE

      @BJ McFrisky: You’re so full of crap I can smell it from across the continent.

      Those aren’t “cowboy values. Those are simply conservative traditional values.

      Tradition? Have you been to a gay Seder? or Chanukah celebration?

      Masculinity? you are OBVIOUSLY hanging out in the wrong parts of town. I’ve known almost only “masculine” men all my life.

      Monogamy? Well, most of my friends are in monogamous relationships. I’ve been married for 10 years and we are monogamous. So I’m not seeing your point here. I’ve known tons of cowboys who were the biggest sluts this side of the Mississippi.

      Sportsmanship? Again, you are hanging out with the wrong people.

      Humility? Like you? “humility” has nothing to do with “cowboy values”. if anything, the whole cowboy ethos is more about being “larger than life”, which is the antithesis of “humility”.

      Trustworthiness? Again, shit dude, you need to hang with a better crowd.

      Responsibility? Ditto.

      Character? Ditto.

      Reliability? Ditto.

      Morality? whose morality? closeted christo-fascist morality?

      Self-reliance? Wrong crowd, again.

      No pressing desire to dress like women? Well, I have never had a pressing desire for such, and none of my friends either, though we respect anyone who does do so (Respect: there’s a quality I don’t see you espousing!).

      So in the final analysis, your whole bullsh** list really says more about your own pathetic life than anything about cowboys or any imaginary “values” that might be unique to them.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 12:29 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • the other Greg
      the other Greg

      @BJ McFrisky: There is a drag queen prominently written about in the article. Perhaps you didn’t actually read it. Well that wouldn’t be a first.

      And I’m surprised that you even think “humility” is a virtue! Go figure.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 12:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • 2eo
      2eo

      @the other Greg: I’d never accuse BJ of being able to read, he is the original child left behind.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 2:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      I’ve been to a number of these events (even though I hate country music) and have known a lot of these guys, so I speak not out of my ass. I’m merely pointing out differences—as I’ve perceived them—between the gay men in DC & SF and the gay men at rodeos, based on my experience.

      @MikeE: Congrats on that.

      @Adar Lang Pai: Um, I’m a DC native who’s spent most of his adult life in the SF bay area, so I hardly qualify as being a redneck living in an “insulated little cowboy town.”

      @the other Greg: Yes, true there are a considerable number of DQs at the rodeos, genuine good people, and I admit that line about not having the desire to dress like women was specifically aimed at a friend of mine who reads this site (I’m talkin’ to YOU, j.m.), so . . . I apologize to the DQs. See? Humility.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 2:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • MikeE
      MikeE

      @BJ McFrisky: Strange. “Humility” tinged with bitterness and a very mean spirit. You know, in the final analysis, that’s not humility at all. It’s hypocrisy.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 2:27 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • balehead
      balehead

      You bitters need to hit a gym already….

      Dec 22, 2013 at 2:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @BJ McFrisky: Well I live in Oklahoma and our Great Plains Rodeo trumps your fictitious affiliations cause they got all kinds of folks in THAT Rodeo from all walks of life from the brightest flame to the manliest men.. We live in a diverse community nothing is black and white so you can just crawl back into your closet with all of your neatly folded blanket statements…Have a nice day and Merry effing Christmas :-)

      Dec 22, 2013 at 4:46 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • sonofabee
      sonofabee

      Gosh, 18 comments so far and no one has said anything about the movie trailer. I guess I’ll be the first. :) It looks great and I can’t wait to see the movie. I love documentaries that cover diverse perspectives and show us what life is like in different parts of America. I’ve never been to a rodeo and I was never interested in country-western cowboy culture, but I’d love to learn more about it.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 5:17 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @sonofabee: Excellent point darling, but as you can see the articles are only a tipping point for folks to come and make comments…And of course there are trends, certain articles get commented on while others are virtually ignored, certain issues get commented on by certain people and some just come here to toss a log or two on the fire… Most of the time it is rather prosaic and predictable…It seems the art of the gay read has been lost to all but a few die hard queens and frankly my dear their aren’t many left…And of course I too am looking forward to seeing this documentary.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 5:42 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jimbryant
      jimbryant

      Men who call themselves “gay” have an awful amount of fetishes. In fact, men in general have an awful amount of fetishes. In many cases, I would say their fetishes trump their sexual orientations.

      As for gay men’s obsession with cowboys, it’s got something to do with sexual politics. Usually, the gay guys feminize the masculine. It’s more about bringing it down than elevating it.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 5:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • BJ McFrisky
      BJ McFrisky

      @AuntieChrist: Thanks, Auntie, a Merry Christmas to you too.

      @jimbryant: I can’t figure if your shtick is that you’re slightly crazy or just plain stupid. Either way, you can espouse an opinion without being rude.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 6:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jwtraveler
      jwtraveler

      @BJ McFrisky: Pish.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 7:01 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @BJ McFrisky: No honey, Ms.Bryant is pure cray cray troll…Fancies itself a cross between Dr.Joyce Brothers and Dr.Phil…Looks like he she or it is back on it’s meds…Diatribe never changes…Minor variations but about the same. Hey I do respect you ya know? It’s all in fun nothing personal…Honest injun : )

      Dec 22, 2013 at 7:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tyler100
      Tyler100

      @jimbryant:

      Clearly our sort-insane comments weren’t generating the kind of fervor you wanted so you’ve decided to get truly batshit insane.

      Dec 22, 2013 at 8:00 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Deepdow
      Deepdow

      I iconic American male ideal is an obvious symbol for homosexual men.com

      Dec 22, 2013 at 8:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Spike
      Spike

      Put Tom Daley in a cowboy hat and boots and he’s a sexy swimmer cowboy. Why no pics of Tom Daley as a sexy swimmer cowboy?

      Dec 22, 2013 at 10:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • the other Greg
      the other Greg

      @Spike: Don’t say that! – the Queerty boys will never get any work done.

      @sonofabee: I have to admit, I’ve never previously spent 10 seconds being “fascinated with gay cowboys” but the movie looks interesting and I’ll make a point of seeing it. And maybe I’ll see a gay rodeo in real life some time.

      Dec 23, 2013 at 12:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Kangol
      Kangol

      Vaqueros y vaqueritos me gustan mucho!

      Dec 23, 2013 at 12:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @the other Greg: Ya know. I felt the same way about the rodeo..But when you see a hot gay man riding a bull all the way till the bell rings..? Gurrl something pops inside…LOL

      Dec 23, 2013 at 12:57 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • AuntieChrist
      AuntieChrist

      @Kangol: Me gustan los hombres que no pretenden ser algo que no son.

      Dec 23, 2013 at 1:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • dannyboi2
      dannyboi2

      @Spike: hahahaha

      Dec 23, 2013 at 5:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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