put a ring on it

10 romantic movies to get you in the mood for popping the question

Courtesy Shane Co. 

What is it about the human character that so draws us to love stories?

Hollywood has made a cottage industry out of happy, beautiful couples tying the knot accompanied by swelling music and impossibly elaborate and dramatic weddings. And yet, fans can't seem to get enough!

Of course, we in the queer world spent most of Hollywood's first century starved for love stories about people like us.

How lucky, then, that in the past few decades we've started to see tales of LGBTQ people finding romance in glossy, Tinseltown fashion. For an uplifting dose of puppy dog eyes, erotic tension, and passionate movie kisses, we love to turn to these stories of tenderness and enchantment in the hopes that we too might someday get to put a ring on it (and as an added bonus, we now have in Shane Co. a jeweler to make the ring a reality...). Here are some of our favorite LGBTQ love stories built to fit the big screen. 

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Courtesy Shane Co. 

What is it about the human character that so draws us to love stories?

Hollywood has made a cottage industry out of happy, beautiful couples tying the knot accompanied by swelling music and impossibly elaborate and dramatic weddings. And yet, fans can’t seem to get enough!

Of course, we in the queer world spent most of Hollywood’s first century starved for love stories about people like us.

How lucky, then, that in the past few decades we’ve started to see tales of LGBTQ people finding romance in glossy, Tinseltown fashion. For an uplifting dose of puppy dog eyes, erotic tension, and passionate movie kisses, we love to turn to these stories of tenderness and enchantment in the hopes that we too might someday get to put a ring on it (and as an added bonus, we now have in Shane Co. a jeweler to make the ring a reality…). Here are some of our favorite LGBTQ love stories built to fit the big screen. 

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Love, Simon

Closeted lad Simon’s ongoing virtual crush on “Blue,” a fellow student (and no, we will not reveal his identity here), still gives us all the feels. Maybe one day it will be common to see queer kids marrying their high school sweethearts, too. Until then, we’ll settle for a passionate kiss on the Ferris wheel.

Moonlight

Chiron and Kevin’s love affair, which spans decades, throbs with sexual tension and buried passion. We like to imagine that after the powerful, sexy climax (innuendo intended), Chiron pops the question to Kevin. Attraction in the movies doesn’t get much more intense.

Brokeback Mountain

Enis and Jack may not get the happy ending we all want, but this tale of an unlikely, all-in romance makes us weep every time we see it. Brokeback Mountain, we still don’t know how to quit you.

Carol

Director Todd Haynes’ melodrama about a middle-aged, married woman in love with a younger shopgirl fills us with warmth and suspense. These two ladies are so in love they don’t even notice the mysterious man tracking them on their cross-country trek.

The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert

Wait, the classic comedy Priscilla is a romance, you ask? Yes, indeed: the third-act romance between Bob and the transgender queen Bernadette has a chivalrous streak to it, one which adds a layer of love to the otherwise sequined proceedings.

Weekend

Director Andrew Haigh’s all-in-a-weekend love story about two gay men who connect just before one must leave the country has all the ingredients for a magnetic affair: an erotic charge, an alluring attraction, and a bittersweet conclusion that makes us fall in love with both men as a couple.

Rent

Between the tumultuous love of the on-again, off-again relationship of Maureen and Joanne and the tender tragedy of Collins and Angel, Rent, for all its flaws, still makes our hearts (excuse the phrase) sing with joy.

The Skinny

Director Patrik-Ian Polk’s still-overlooked romp about a group of friends enjoying New York Pride doesn’t get enough credit for its humor, or for its subtle observations about 20-something queer relationships, including how two boys can fall madly in love on a big-city adventure.

Call Me By Your Name

What more can we say about this beautiful, gay coming-of-age story, other than that we wish the two boys in love could have run off into the sunset together? We also can’t watch without craving peaches.

My Beautiful Launderette

This ’80s classic gay love story between a Pakistani immigrant and a London punk still plays as a swoon-worthy romance thanks to the chemistry and performances by Daniel Day-Lewis and Gordon Warnecke. Who would have thought a movie set in a laundromat would make us well up with love?

Feeling inspired after revisiting these love stories? Visit Shane Co. to put a ring on the romance.

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