Ah, the ’90s. Many call it queer cinema’s Golden Age. It was a decade of profound change when it came to how audiences viewed LGBTQ people in film. Hollywood started depicting queer characters and stories, sometimes more successfully than others. Often this was done through comedies, since laughter tends to be the easiest way of connecting with people.
We’ve compiled a list of 13 queer comedies from the ’90s that you might be interested in revisiting while you’re stuck in quarantine. Some of these films have aged better than others. Almost all of them contain a gay stereotype (or five). And there are plenty of jokes that would never fly today. (Also, many of the actors in them don’t identify as LGBTQ.)
Still, it’s important not to separate these films from their time. It was the ’90s, after all, and people were still trying to figure out how to talk about queer issues. But at least they were trying. Also, without these movies helping to push LGBTQ characters into the mainstream consciousness, we wouldn’t have the infinitely better queer films that we have today, many of which feature actual queer people both in front of and behind the camera.
The Object Of My Affection (1998)
Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd star in this adaptation of gay writer Stephen McCauley’s bestselling novel about two roommates–one straight and one gay–whose relationship is complicated by an unplanned pregnancy. The film includes an A-list supporting cast, including Allison Janney, Alan Alda, and Nigel Hawthorne.
In & Out (1997)
Kevin Kline plays a closeted high school drama teacher from Indiana who is outed by a Hollywood actor who thanks him during an award acceptance speech. Chaos ensues. At the time of its release, the film was widely noted for its 12-second kiss between Kevin Kline and Tom Selleck. It was also one of Hollywood’s first attempts at a big budget gay rom-com.
Threesome (1994)
What happens when a beautiful coed with a gender neutral name is accidentally assigned to a dorm room with two guys? A threesome, of course! Lara Flynn Boyle, Josh Charles, and Stephen Baldwin star in this dramedy about college life, love triangles, and what happens when the boundaries of friendship become blurred. Brace yourself for some serious melodrama.
Spice World (1997)
OK, OK, so this one isn’t gay, per se, but it’s still pretty damn queer. (It’s the Spice Girls, after all!) Made at the height of their fame, this musical comedy follows the five British pop stars, who all play themselves, as they prepare to perform a major concert at London’s Royal Albert Hall. It’s cheesy. It’s campy. It’s colorful. And it remains the highest-grossing movie of all time by a musical group.
Edge of 17 (1998)
Set in Sandusky, Ohio in 1984, this coming-of-age tale follows Eric, a naive 17-year-old teenager figuring out his identity at the same time gender-bending pop stars like Boy George and Annie Lennox are flaunting androgynous images. It also features an early career performance by Lea DeLaria, who plays Eric’s butch lesbian boss at the amusement park restaurant where he meets his first boyfriend.
The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert (1994)
Two drag performers and a trans woman embark on a journey across the Australian Outback to perform a four-week stint at a cabaret in Alice Springs. To get there, they ride a tour bus named “Priscilla” and encounter an unforgettable cast of characters along the way. Need we say more?
Clueless (1995)
While not explicitly gay, the protagonist is a sexually-curious young woman named Cher (pretty gay), who’s obsessed with fashion (also pretty gay), and who’s a terrible driver (also also pretty gay… kidding!). There are also tons of cute guys in the movie, lots of crass jokes, and some funny gay characters, albeit very stereotypical by today’s standards.
Jeffrey (1995)
Steven Weber plays Jeffrey, a gay guy who becomes so disenchanted with sex that he takes a vow of celibacy. No sooner has he sworn off sex than he meets hunky, sensitive Steve. Passion ignites and hilarity ensues. The film features a strong supporting cast queer actors and icons, including Olympia Dukakis, Nathan Lane, Camryn Manheim, Sigourney Weaver, and Christine Baranski, just to name a few.
The Opposite of Sex (1998)
Christina Ricci stars as a pregnant, oversexed teenager who chain smokes cigarettes, steals dead people’s ashes, and sleeps with her brother’s boyfriend. Not all of the jokes have aged well (like Lisa Kudrow’s cringeworthy gag about bi guys), but the film still tackled issues that a lot of Hollywood still wouldn’t touch back then, including HIV/AIDS and the idea of sexual fluidity.
Cruel Intentions (1999)
Another one that isn’t gay, per se, but it still spoke to an entire generation of queer teenagers. Not only is the film all about exploring taboo things, but Ryan Phillippe shows his butt, Josh Jackson has a gay sex scene, and Sarah Michelle Gellar and Selma Blair share that infamous strand of saliva kiss. Plus there’s the whole underlying theme of challenging the patriarchy and not subscribing to society’s expectations. And the soundtrack is pretty dope.
I Think I Do (1997)
Two college roommates meet up five years later at their former housemates’ straight wedding. Sparks fly as the ex-roommates try to navigate their new romance in this screwball comedy staring Alexis Arquette
Guillermo Diaz, and Tuc Watkins.To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar (1995)
Wesley Snipes, Patrick Swayze, and John Leguizamo star as three New York City drag queens who travel cross-country until their car breaks down, leaving them stranded in a small town in the middle of nowhere. The film features cameos by RuPaul, Naomi Campbell, Candis Cayne, and Julie Newmar herself, to name a few.
The Birdcage (1996)
We couldn’t put together a list of queer movies from the ’90s and not include this classic. If you haven’t seen it, you should. The film follows a flamboyant, middle-aged gay couple from South Beach whose straight son brings home his fiancé and her ultraconservative parents for the first time.
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MacAdvisor
Priscilla is not a tour bus. They buy the bus and drive it themselves.
Mattster
Yes, it was. After Adam paints it pink he dubs it “Priscilla, queen of the desert”.
That they drove the bus themselves is irrelevant.
jayceecook
@Mattster He’s right. Technically it’s a coach. Usually called a sleeper bus or an entertainer coach. A tour bus is a type of bus that takes people on a tour of tourist attractions and sightseeing.
jayceecook
@Mattster also, Adam dubs it PQoTD before he ends up painting it. And “It’s not pink… it’s lavendah!”
Josh447
They named the tour bus Priscilla, go figah.
taniajroland
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TristanShout
@jayceecook a tourbus us what bands use to move from show to show when they are on TOUR
Josh447
In and Out Birdcage and seriously hot Paul Rudd in Object of my Affectionate are my three faves. Not sure if Ryan Philippe’s butt shot is worth watching the entire str8 movie Cruel Intentions, tho add in the great cast…..
Going to check out Jeffrey and Edge of Seventeen. Good time for cheesy fun.
Great movie selection overall.
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Agree overall great selection. However no matter how hot Phillippes butt is his accepting hundreds of thousands cash from Saudi Arabia a regime that imprisons and executes Gays is indefensible and reprehensible.And then the repugnant smcubag puke defends the country:
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MDL Beast was a three-day music festival that brought out a handful of social media influencers and celebrities to Saudi Arabia.
MDL Beast was a three-day music festival that brought out a handful of social media influencers and celebrities to Saudi Arabia.
AP
STAFF AND WIRE REPORTS | USA TODAY | 5:25 pm EST December 23, 2019
Supermodels and social media mavens, their makeup artists and hair stylists in tow, posed at MDL Beast, a concert. What was unusual about these Instagram posts was that they were all tagged in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, which caught the attention of some critics.
The bevy of Instagram stars, former Victoria’s Secret models, including Alessandra Ambrosio, and Hollywood actors such as Ryan Phillippe, Ed Westwick, Armie Hammer and Wilmer Valderrama were invited to Saudi Arabia over the weekend to promote the kingdom’s most eye-popping effort at showcasing the changes taking hold in the country, where more than half of its 20 million citizens are under 25 years old.
It’s a pivot from three years ago, when religious police stormed restaurants playing music and harassed women in malls for showing their face or wearing red nail polish.
Though the efforts are aimed at boosting the economy while polishing Saudi Arabia’s image abroad and appealing to the young, the stars in attendance faced criticism from social media for being tone-deaf and “shameless.”
Aminatou Sow, co-host of the “Call Your Girlfriend” podcast, called out the celebrities by sharing screenshots of their social media posts highlighting the Saudi Arabia trip.
“Would love to know which PR firm/s kingdom of Saudi Arabia hired to do its image rehab,” Sow wrote to Twitter. “Sick to see celebs and influencers shamelessly promoting this nonsense.
Sow cited controversial events in the country, including journalist Jamal Kashoggi’s murder.
Diet Prada, a popular Instagram account that called out the fashion industry, shamed attendees for their participation.
“What’s worse than an all white @revolve influencer trip?” read a post on Instagram. “Cashing big fat checks in exchange for #content creation (aka propaganda) to rehabilitate the image of Saudi Arabia, a country said to be causing ‘the world’s worst humanitarian crisis’, according to the United Nations.”
When asked by The Associated Press, the entertainment authority that licensed MDL Beast said some people were compensated for promoting the event, but it denied six-figure sums were paid to individuals.
Phillippe responded to criticisms by sharing photos from his trip and captioning one of them with an explanation on why he chose to attend.
“i had a magical day with wonderful people. will prob add to this caption later when i gather my thoughts again. i love travel. i love different cultures,” he wrote. “I love how we can find ways to connect through our human oneness, the pure desire for love and freedom. no matter where in the world. hoping those connections help to bring even more positive change and progress.”
Jared MacBride
@PLAYS WELL – He took the Saudis money, but he has a lot of high placed company. So did the Bushes and Clintons, and the WWE and a whole slew of B-list influencers willing to check whatever ethics they have for a pay day. All this to prop up a totalitarian regime which brutalizes its own people and sponsors terrorism around the world, including, very possibly, the 9/11 attacks. Yet still the US government sucks up to these criminals like they were friends from he country club.
Josh447
Yowsers!
ShiningSex
HOW IS “OBJECT OF MY AFFECTION” ANYONE’S FAVORITE??? IT’S HORRIBLE.
IT’S JUST A STRAIGHT GIRL’S WET DREAM TO BAG A GAY GUY AND IT’S PATHETIC.
Jared MacBride
The Birdcage is a remake of a classic La Cage Aux Folles. Remakes of classics usually suck but this one definitely doesn’t. Very funny and very memorable movie.
jayceecook
I have seen each and every one of these films at least 3 times and own all but one. These were so instrumental to me as a young teen. But as a young queer kid trying to understand my own identity in spite of what others were saying to me I cherish each of them dearly. Some more than others.
Jeffrey may be “goofy” but there are some profound insights tucked in there. I remember seeing The Object of My Affection 3 times at the cinema. I would have my Mom drop me off and wait until she drove away before buying a ticket in case she might hear me. I also bought and read the book. For me it is one of those instances where the movie was better than the book.
I remember “borrowing” the VHS copy of The Opposite of Sex from the video store because I wanted to watch it again and again. And yes, that Lisa Kudrow bit stings. Especially if you’re bi.
Too Wong Foo. How I adore that one. I used to quote that film all the time. Especially the line by Wesley Snipes when he’s following the old lady. John Leguizamo made a beautiful drag queen. I was stunned. That also might have been the first time I ever saw Lady Bunny.
This might be the first time I actually agree with one of Queerty’s lists. Good job Queerty.
Josh447
Object of my Affection was an emotional roller coaster for me, so good. Half way through Edge of Seventeen, it’s like Thai food, sweet and hot.
balttymore
What about “Trick”? One of my favs
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Great addition, loved that movie!!
Josh447
Excellent movie as is God’s Own Country.
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Here is a suggestion, not from the 90’s (actually 80’s) and not an actual comedy…..
“Garbo Talks”
But a really excellent little movie revolving a Gay actress from the 30’s Greta Garbo. Anne Bancroft in an outstanding performance plays a dying Garbo super fan who’s last wish is to meet her. Ron Silver plays her nebbish son who decides to try and make her wish come true.
Nice way to kill two hours during the corona apocalypse….
ScottOnEarth
Was “Garbo Talks” gay-themed?
sweetnovember
Only saw 3 of them. Clueless, cruel Intentions and the bus tour movie in Australia. The last one was very long and I didn’t understand all of it but I have enjoyed it
jayceecook
The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert is like 1 hour and 40 some minutes. If that is “very long” I can’t even imagine what a 2 hour movie would feel like to you. And the plot is pretty basic. What didn’t you understand?
Cam
Great list. Somebody suggested adding Trick, a great suggestion, and I would add “Broken Hearts Club” to the list also!
Chrisk
Yeah, too bad it had the right wing loony Dean Cain in it. Otherwise a great cast. Of coarse I also liked threesome and it had the blonde baldwin in it. Another right wing loony.
Cam
Ugh, correct about Dean Cain,
One nice thing, it had two openly gay actors in it, one being the fabulous Billy Porter!
StandingAndWalking
You missed “Beautiful Thing”! And “Trick” and “Broken Hearts Club”, as mentioned. Otherwise great list. I’d also add “Go” as well, which I rewatched not too long ago and very much holds up.
Chrisk
Trick was great. Also want to add in Billy’s Hollywood Screen Kiss.
Cam
Agreed, the only reason I didn’t bring up Beautiful Thing is that I didn’t think of it as a comedy.
But while we’re talking about it, one question, why is this movie, that routinely is named as one of the best LGBT movies ever, not available on any streaming platforms???
Deacon
This reminds of of how white the gay independent film industry was and still is
Kangol2
There were good more racially and ethnically diverse US LGBTQ films in the 1980s, Hollywood studio & indie (Fame, Can’t Stop the Music, Times Square, Watermelon Woman, Looking for Langston, Tongues Untied, etc.) and the 2000s (Ski Trip, Noah’s Arc: Jumping the Broom, Before Night Falls, etc.) but the 1990s were a lean decade on that front. There were a few, though, like Young Soul Rebels (from the UK), etc.
ShiningSex
MOST OF THESE ARE NOT CHEESY, BUT “OBJECT OF MY AFFECTION” AND “IN AND OUT” ARE QUITE OFFENSIVE, TERRIBLE FILMS.
EDGE OF SEVENTEEN, PRISCILLA, AND JEFFREY ARE GREAT!!!
Cam
Ok, I”m glad you said it. Object, where his friend who is a woman seems to try to force him to be straight, then plays the victim when he isn’t always left a really bad taste in my mouth. If you really want to be offended there is one called “The Next Best Thing” with Madonna that is kind of unwatchable.
Joshooeerr
Yes. And The Birdcage and In and Out both present nothing much beyond the most tired and tiresome gay stereotypes. Sure Robin Williams is hilarious and Kevin Kline gives a great performance, but beyond that they’re fairly deplorable.
ShiningSex
Torch Song Trilogy, Get Real, Longtime Companion, Boys in the Band, Frisk, The Living End, Out in the Dark are essential gay films to see.
Cam
Bring tissues if you’re going to watch 1, 3, or 4.
radiooutmike
I saw Objective of My Affection with my then wife when it came out.
I could not stop thinking about Paul Rudd. I was like quiet all the way home. It’s was like when that show Relativity was out. We used to watch and I could not stop thinking about David Conrad.
Or going to see In & Out and rooting for Kevin Kline not to be gay. Ugh, what a mess I was.
Kangol2
What about one of the funniest gay comedies of the 1990s, Waiting for Guffman? It’s laugh out loud funny, and is about as queer as things get.
brickdr66
The Trip with Larry Sullivan.