There’s been a lot of talk about intersectionality lately. More and more people, especially those in the LGBTQ community, are speaking up about forms of discrimination that overlap or intersect and what can be done to stop it from happening.
But there’s one group that’s still tardy to the party when it comes to honestly confronting systemic oppression: the “white gay”.
Related: 22 tweets that explain what a “white gay” is and how you can avoid being one
Urban Dictionary defines a “White Gay” as:
How about we take this to the next level?
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The “Gay best friend” typically portrayed on sitcoms screaming “OH MY GOD GURL YAAAS”. An unbearable cis queen, everything they do or say has to be over-dramatic. A White Gay, like a White Feminist, is not exclusively White or Homosexual, the only definitive traits are the endless spouting of Tumblr or urban slang and “controversial” propaganda/topics in hopes of getting attention. Most likely a twink, with no conscience of privilege or minority struggles (most likely sexist although they try to act like black women).
Related: Bad seeds: 5 privileged gay men who refused to apologize after acting racist on social media
Now, it’s important to note that not everyone who is both white and gay is a “white gay” and that the two are not always one and the same.
Also, it’s totally 100% possible for a person to change. Minds can be opened. Behavior can be corrected. Ignorance can give way to enlightenment. Someone who once exhibited a “white gay” mentality can stop. All it takes is a little education. And, of course, a willingness to do so.
Now, without any further ado, scroll down for 27 telltale signs indicating you might be a “white gay”…
1. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever referred to your “inner black woman”.
white gays saying they have an "inner black woman" is misogynoir sorry I don't make the rules
— ???? ???? (@BONEP1LE) November 2, 2018
2. You might be a “white gay” if… the majority of your friends are all the same color as you.
3. You might be a “white gay” if… you voted for Donald Trump.
4. You might be a “white gay” if… Britney Spears is your favorite “diva.”
5. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever dressed up as a person of another race for Halloween.
BREAKING: hot white gays being racist pic.twitter.com/F2gjoqSqfK
— Chris Cassingham (@CCassingham) October 30, 2018
6. You might be a “white gay” if… you refuse to even entertain the idea that you may have benefitted from white supremacy at some point in your life.
7. You might be a “white gay” if… you still think rejecting entire swaths of people simply because of the color of their skin is “just a preference.”
Gays with 'No Asians', 'No Blacks' & 'Just a preference' in their Grindr bio pic.twitter.com/E40lZ5gzjB
— Jay (@StressedQu33r) August 2, 2018
8. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever tried arguing that your sexual orientation puts you at the same disadvantages as a QPOC.
A lot of white gay men think they can get away with a lot of shit because they're gay and a "minority" too. News flash, hardtruth time, you're still white, guy.
— Khanyo (@LukhanyoMvimbi) November 1, 2018
9. You might be a “white gay” if… you don’t know what a QPOC is.
10. You might be a “white gay” if… you think Lana Del Rey is a “genius” and you own every single one of her albums on vinyl.
11. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever bragged about or broadcast the fact that you are white on social media.
12. You might be a “white gay” if… you only follow other white gays.
13. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever uttered the words “Not to be racist, but…”
14. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever uttered the words “It’s OK to be white!”
15. You might be a “white gay” if… you identify as a feminist but still call women “bitches” and “whores” and you have no idea what to make of trans women.
If you are a cis gay/queer man tweeting about how you "don't like vagina" you are:
1. Misogynist
2. Transphobic
3. Boring as shit ohmygd grow up what are you 14? Do you still wear axe? Your opinion smells like you still wear axe— Woke But Petty (@marcformarc) August 30, 2018
16. You might be a “white gay” if… your favorite meal is brunch.
17. You might be a “white gay” if… you assume all Asian guys are submissive bottoms with small penises… even though you’ve never actually dated an Asian guy before because “No rice. Sorry. Just a preference.”
18. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve never questioned whether you might be basic.
19. You might be a “white gay” if… you think that because you had sex with a Latino guy one time that means you’re not racist.
20. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve never once dated a person of color.
21. You might be a “white gay” if… you only date people of color.
This is #whitegay level 1000 pic.twitter.com/Mj2ObyLUgl
— ??? (@ShayneOfficial) August 21, 2018
22. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever been to a Taylor Swift concert.
23. You might be a “white gay” if… you assume all Asian guys are from China and are unaware that 1. Asia is a continent, and 2. It consists of 48 countries, including Saudi Arabia, India, Turkey, Mongolia, and Kazakhstan.
24. You might be a “white gay” if… you make a big deal about being into sports.
25. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever typed the words “I don’t usually like [insert any race other than white] guys, but you’re different…” while chatting with a dude on Grindr.
26. You might be a “white gay” if… you’ve ever said/typed/tweeted/texted/commented the words “Not all white men!”
27. You might be a “white gay” if… you found this article triggering, offensive, too serious, or “racist against white people.”
Related: Dear white gays: Can you please stop whitesplainin’ your racism to me?
twinkfan
What if I am not a white gay, but 85? of these apply to me too?
Am I then a white gay? Or are these criteria racist, arbitrary, capricious, and silly? Or am I racist, arbitrary, capricious, and silly?
Doesn’t really matter either way, I love what I do, and you should too. Don’t let people shame you into changing. Definitely try new experiences, but do not be forced.
twinkfan
Also, that is 85%. My phone died as I was trying to edit. It was a real race against time. 🙂
Catholicslutbox
These lists aren’t meant to be taken seriously.
It’s fluff news that’s meant to get clicks.
I made it up to about 17 before having to call it quits.
Who cares if those insta-tw*ts are racists f-ks. It’s not like you had a chance anyways.
Thirst and move on.
MikeE
QUEERTY: “Now, it’s important to note that not everyone who is both white and gay is a “white gay” and that the two are not always one and the same.”
Then proceeds to throw together a list that ensures almost 99% of all white gay males fall into the “white gay” category.
This website used to at least be fun, if never particularly serious. It’s really become BS now. The TMZ of LGBT websites.
Archibald Meatpants
I prefer to think of myself as a “cream coloured cup cake” then a white gay seriously is there a drive through where you can pick one up as a “white gay” sounds like a new McDonald’s coffee
Xzamilloh
I don’t even like this post, but I am HERE for the impending triggering.
Donston
I mean, with this post it officially crosses over from wanting to have a “conversation” to just trolling, bitterness and being divisive for the sake of it (as well as of course for the sake of clicks and comments). Graham is clearly at rather sad and empty dude. Though that’s been obvious for a while. As far as “triggering” goes, that got old a long time ago. People will show their ass on the internet for any ol’ reason anyhow.
Blackceo
Just like the last similar article on this about a week or two ago, I’m here for the comments as well and I’m so glad for #27 cuz the triggering is at Defcon 1 lol. I will admit that many of these are not exclusive to White guys, but some of them are. I mean…brunch?? Brunch is an event for me and my crew. But some of the other stuff is very true, regardless of who wants to admit it. If I as a fair skinned person of color can recognize the privileges I have over darker skinned people of color, I don’t know why many White people get so triggered when they get checked on their privilege. SMH
Donston
To me, it’s more about this persistent desperation to have others recognize their privileges that get aggravating. Also, this obsession with what others think and how they live their lives. It seems white people have to now constantly “prove” they’re not horrible and have to remind people how sensitive and understanding they are to everyone’s troubles. And it’s frankly led to a lot of hollow acquiesces, phony sycophantics, as well as “triggered” people. And wherever one of them does something wrong or out of line race is immediately brought up. (Then again, when a black person does something out of line or wrong race is brought up. It’s an annoying and endless tit for tat). Even as a black person this all does get exhausting. And it’s one of the bigger reasons I stopped fvcking with social media.
Blackceo
Donston…..regarding your last post…you’re not wrong. I agree that things have become too PC. Not everything is about race and when something is misrepresented as racism, it diminishes when actual racism, sexism, homophobia, etc occurs. The thing is though that I never usually have to bring it up until someone says something really stupid out of their mouths. Sorry but I’m not the kind of person that is going to let that go. I will drop some reality and then let it go and I am around people who can handle that and not get all offended. I’ve had to be checked on things and I don’t get all in an uproar when someone calls me on something stupid I’ve said. People who can’t take that are typically people I don’t associate with because many people like to marinate in their own ignorance. Some things people simply need to be checked on because they sound ignorant as hell. But do it and move on. Don’t belabor the issue.
Donston
That’s pretty much where I stand. When I hear/see something problematic I call it out, make sure they’re aware and then move on.
The problem is that click-bait sites like this as well as a bunch of narcissists and bigots on social media will use any opportunity to feed into divisiveness or use divisiveness for attention and for their own benefit.
fingertrouble
“It seems white people have to now constantly “prove” they’re not horrible and have to remind people how sensitive and understanding they are to everyone’s troubles. And it’s frankly led to a lot of hollow acquiesces, phony sycophantics, as well as “triggered” people.”
Oh HELL YES.
From the other side it’s irritating too – the people who pretend they are so #woke but instantly display blind classism or other bigotry when you engage…as they usually are middle class playing radical. As someone who is far left, it’s irritating when someone is so ‘on message’ about certain things (quite rightly calling out police shootings, racism, etc, but then says stuff like ‘what do you mean you can’t afford that *expensive thing*?’ or talk about ‘fish’ etc etc. *eyeroll*
I know the alt-right talk about ‘virtue signalling’ but it does happen, there are quite a few faux-progressives out there – as the Phil Ochs song ‘Love Me I’m A Liberal’ goes – ‘don’t you dare move next door to me’.
Exactly that attitude, just SEEMING to be right on, but clueless about say, the environment, or classism, or other things their in-group doesn’t post about. Also they go on about family/friends being POC, but all the event pics they post are so white I get snow-blindness. It doesn’t compute.
I think some ‘queens’ just like being the Queen from Alice shouting ‘off with their heads’ – they like the power of being moral and deciding who to shun and who is ‘in’, but they don’t want actual freedom. It’s like the cis straight white middle class people who talk over my head – even though I’m some of those – when ‘taking offence’ on my behalf, I pop up and go ‘hey queer here – that doesn’t offend me?’ and they just ignore me. Cos it never WAS about me, it was about point-scoring and power…the politically correct boss is like the old boss just with better pink/greenwashing. 🙁
Large Hardon Collider
Re: #2, probably for 98% of all people in the world, the “majority” of their friends are the same color they are.
Re: #16, what’s wrong with brunch? I know QPOC who like brunch.
Re: #18, I had to look up “basic” in Urban Dictionary. Never heard that before but it’s maybe useful!
JK 1984
I agree about brunch, I have never met a person who doesn’t love (or at least like) brunch.
OrchidIslander
I’m a QPOC who loves brunch and who can also whip up a fantastic one. I thought the article was jokey and not meant to be taken seriously, but reading some of the comments – it stung some.
Virpilosus
Hi LHC… for what it’s worth, I agree with your three points, and, in addition, think your moniker is THE damndest cool, clever and funny one I’ve seen in I don’t know how long! THANKS for the great Monday morning chuckle..,
SnakeyJ
I love how the left has to constantly fracture itself. When things get too comfortable, they’ll find something else to claim victim-hood. It’s good in a way… they will destroy themselves, so normal people can just sit back and watch.
Godabed
People stopped reading your post after reading “the left”, just fyi. you wasted your time typing the rest.
OrchidIslander
@Godabed, good point. His comment about “normal people” made me chuckle.
Brian
Didn’t they just have another article just like this a week ago?
jk
they did…a very similar article. i believe queerty is trolling its readers trying to get people to argue with each other. shabby journalism.
Mainere
it comes from the same author, this Graham dude. Queerty needs to replace him ASAP
Wicked Dickie
I have never read of a gay basher not bashing a “white gay”. Gay bashers bash you whether you put “no black”, “no Asians”, “no Latino” on your Grindr profile or not. There are elected officials who don’t want to acknowledge your human rights whether or not you are a “white gay”, or “gay white”. The Wynn resort can kick you out whether you are a “white gay” or “gay white”. A baker in Colorado can refuse to make a wedding cake for you whether you are “white gay”, or “gay white”. The County Clerk can try to deny your marriage license whether you are “white gay”, or “gay white”. Should I go on?
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Have no idea what Grenmore looks like. Based on the nonstop race baiting threads he posts, one has to assume he is very unattractive and has tried to hit on guys waaaaay out of his league. These racist (yes Graham YOU ARE A RACIST) threads to “get back” at every Gay white man.,.
Taiyoken
Okay, Let’s do this:
1: I have not. who cares if someone has?
2: They are. who cares? This is more a product of regional demographics of where I was born and raised. Don’t dictate or shame who others happen to be friends with on the bases of their race, lest you want people collecting token minority friends like bottle caps.
3: I did not. I wanted Bernie or Jill Stein but Hillary cheated in the primaries and Jill wasn’t on the ballet in my state.
4: I don’t care for any “diva” nor care if anybody else likes or dislikes any particular “diva.” why should you?
5: I have not, but don’t give a shit if someone else does, unless they’re doing it to obviously mock the other race. the boys in the posted photo aren’t doing anything mocking or offensive. Don’t be offended on behalf of other races. That’s racist.
6: I’ll entertain the idea, but currently I’ve been given no clear evidence or proof that I have at any given instance. Nor could I help it retroactively.
7: I don’t care if it is just a preference. Such preferences are going to be there whether you force people to shut up about it or not. You’re not entitled to date someone who’s not attracted to you. Even if you call the reason someone’s not attracted to you a prejudice. Date who’s willing to date you, don’t who’s not. there. solved.
8: “same disadvantage? No. Disadvantages? Yes. People don’t NOT discriminate against me just because I’m white as well. Most people don’t actually care THAT much about race around here in the real world. You have to go to pretentious, virtue signaling articles on the internet about “white gays” to find people obsessing over race.
9: I didn’t, but I could figure it out from context: Quality Pets Of Cincinnati. Obviously.
10: Who? Nevermind, Who care?
11: I have not. No one cares what race you are, including what race I am.
12: I do not. who cares if I did?
13: I have not. I’ve no other defense of this one.
14: I have not, until now, as It is clear it needs to be said here, it IS, in fact, okay to be white. As much as it’s okay to be any color.
15: I am a feminist in as much as I agree males and females should be treated equally as much as humanly possible. But I will call anyone, male or female a “bitch” if they are being a bitch. I like “whores” male or female. and who cares? BTW, Trans women are women, that’s what I make of them.
16: My favorite meal is Lunch, but Dinner has its moments. who cares?
17: I assume nothing about their position or penis because of someone’s race.
18: Who cares? in five minutes “basic” will be the new “not basic.”
19: Not against Latinos, clearly. Who cares?
20: I have not. Who cares?
21: This is why people hate “SJW’s” also, who cares?
22: I have not, who cares if I have?
23: I do not, I’m well aware of global geography (Thank you Animaniacs).
24: I don’t even though I’m not into sports, Also, who cares if someone is or isn’t and is proud of it?
25: I have not. That seems a rude thing to say.
26: I haven’t, though I have seen things attributed to all whites/men/cis-white-male-gays/ that don’t apply to all’ ‘/’ ‘/’ ‘, despite people acting as if it did. So if people are saying “not all __” it might be because plenty of others don’t seem to understand that their broad generalizations don’t apply to the whole.
27: I did not find this article triggering, offensive, or racist. I found it to be an amusing intellectual exercise which is why I responded to it at all. I also found it preachy, hostile, inept, illogical, snobbish, and most of all divisive. This was fun, thank you.
It should be made clear, despite such articles like this attempting to shame people for stereotypes and the crime of existing. it IS okay to be white and gay, or black and gay, or brown and straight, or Asian(which is a color, now) and bi, or black and white. We’d do better to stop dividing people. I live in a red county of a purple state and the greatest racial and gender divisions I see come from articles like this one deriding people for being who they are. Most of these are things people can’t truly help, like happening to like Taylor Swift or happening to find blacks or Asians attractive. and, for some reason, happening to like brunch. Some of these are people being overly sensitive on behalf of others. A couple of these can be attributed to ignorance or rudeness, and I agree that could be addressed.
SoCalDave
LOL yeah Hillary “cheated” by having millions more people vote for her than Bernie. How dastardly.
PinkoOfTheGange
So does this mean we get to ignore ever “but nor all (insert sub group here) are not (insert some stereotype here)”. Or is this just for white guys? (and if you don’t see the issue with that explain why)
I really hope this article was a failed attempt at sarcasm.
BTW the stuff about dating preferences is coming across very incellie.
Pneumatikon
You really hate white people. Everyone prefers their own kind. A lot of the stuff you think of as insensitivity is a simple matter of white people giving non-whites some “cred.” Dressing up like foreigners on Halloween is like visiting a foreign country. Shakes things up. Makes it fun.
Here’s a dose of reality, sport: you need us white men. Gay or straight. Every one of you who aren’t white AND male. We don’t need you for jack shit. If New York City suddenly went all-white they’d be able to cut 85% of their police force and they’d STILL have more police coverage for the crimes they’d have left than they have now.
Welfare rolls? Best not go there, girl.
Wicked Dickie
Lol, are you serious. The white homophobe doesn’t need you, you idiot.
gymmuscleboy
Well done on this racist trash, Queerty. Now, when are you going to do an article on “black gay”? Or do you just hate white people?
No wonder we have Trump as president. This article is clear evidence that the left has absolutely lost their minds.
DarkZephyr
P.S. Trump IS racist.
DarkZephyr
OK this is too much even for me. Those of you here to enjoy people being “triggered” I guess you will find this entertaining.
This article is promoting a practice of utilizing skin color and race as an insult. In what universe should that ever be OK?
inbama
Exactly.
stranger2myself
Tl:dr
DHT
You got me on #15 (seriously only that one and not even the trans part!). But honestly, some of my best friends are bitches!
DHT
Honestly though…I think everyone is either a bitch or a whore.
queerty02
The only thing I disagree with is brunch.
ciasteczek
This is by far the stupidest “article” I have ever read here. This concept that white gays should feel ashamed or apoligize for being white is ridiculas and rasist af. Im so happy that I live in Europe and dont have to deal with this bs.
scubooty
@ciasteczek…….Black American Gays tend to be self-hating, Since they upset their people by liking men, they need a way to make up for it. Attacking/ demonizing Gay Whites is their ticket out. They found a way to put their race 1st, and be subservient to black straights.
GLF
What did Britney ever do to you?
Pistolo
Darling Queerty,
It’s come to my attention you’re trying to draw attention to inter-racial relations in the queer community. This is good. But your chosen template for doing so is with a deliberately provocative listicle which will only (mostly) engage trolls. So you’ve, in essence, undone yourself and are just kind of making a grab for hits, trivializing the subject and making you a part of the problem, not the solution and, lastly, using Twitter (our president’s fav blunt instrument) to convey these points.
I get that some of your criteria for what constitutes a “white gay” is in jest. I mean, surely LDR & Britney aren’t responsible for the dissolution of race relations in the queer community, right? It might be a millennia of pervasive bigotry but that’s just my theory. Nonetheless, even the term “white gay” which pretty explicitly addresses a general group of people in and of itself is only going to invite contention and betray the intentions of the broader, more crucial conversation. It doesn’t communicate the issue, it’s just a cheap catchphrase like the ones right wing trolls drum up on the regular.
In other words, stop living for the comment section fights & trolls & start writing in paragraphs with points that stand on their own (not on gifs)
PS- No, other commenters who complain about “pc culture” or ”pc culture”, I’m NOT here for you.
Kangol
It’s a silly list, but the aim is to get clicks and trigger white fragility, which it succeeded in doing. BTW, Graham left off the constant reversion to overt racism (like “Vince” typing “oogah boogah,” etc.) every time African homophobes are mentioned, but silence whenever white ones are. Why one response for Africans, yet silence when it comes to the far more dangerous, local white homophobes?
Pistolo
Yeah but clicks & white fragility only inspires more miscommunication and fighting. This isn’t woke, it’s lazy journalism and disingenous “advocacy”, it’s just gives the idiots ammunition.
Why not appeal to someone’s sense of empathy? Every queer person has been discriminated against or marginalized there’s no way, in a heteronormative society that hasn’t effected us. So, in that experience, we have something in common and if “white gays” could be made to understand how they’re acting like the people who tormented them..,that seems like it might break through?
Or, y’know, you could just incite trolls for hits in the interest of fighting to both sides are thoroughly, irreparably divided…y’know, because the hits would be worth it, right?
Not saying treat white people like fragile little whelps. I’m just suggesting something like this that appeals to the better qualities of humanity might change more minds.
Doug
Wow, just what our community needs: yet another box to put each other in.
swamp bubble
Guys don’t put preferences on your profile, do what this person does and silently reject people.
jrh311
After reading this drivel, I might be someone who couldn’t stomach being around Graham Gremore in real life…
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
1000% co-sign. An unattractive guy who has most likely been rejected many times by guys who has a platform to “get back” at the White Gays who rejected him. Beyond pathetic……
ShowMeGuy
I attended an Intersectionality Meeting which was associated with the LGBTQAPF Pridefest planning committee in my burg. I foolishly believed that people there would be looking to address issues of inclusiveness and increase visibility for all segments of the community at our Pride events.
It was just a room full of fat, hairy, lesbians of ambiguous ethnic origins attempting to invent the greatest number of marginalized minority groups to which they could self-identify in hopes of winning the title of “professional victim”.
What a waste of a Wednesday night.
Cacti
What a sad individual you are Graham, i pity you.
scubooty
7. You might be a “white gay” if… you still think rejecting entire swaths of people simply because of the color of their skin is “just a preference.”
Do you have any idea how many Black Gays do this? A TON!!!!!!
The Most racially bigoted site I have ever seen is a Black Gay one. The forum there is so racially bigoted, and they are totally oblivious about their own racial bigotry.
I am not saying anyone should reject anyone else because of race. I am saying that there are huge racial double standards in the Gay Community. Blacks are basically allowed to break any demand that you want to make of Whites…..Cray Cray
scubooty
7. You might be a “white gay” if… you still think rejecting entire swaths of people simply because of the color of their skin is “just a preference.”
Seems like Jussie Smollett certainly put his foot down and demanded someone of a certain race be his boyfriend on Empire. See, when Blacks do this they are said to be having pride. No, how about he’s just another racially bigoted black gay person……And don’t blame us for you not seeing enough Black Gays together when you were young. That’s on your own Homophobic Culture, bro.
Kangol
How about looking at the larger context, instead of spouting off such nonsense. White people began the persecution of queer people, of all races, in what is now the US. They imposed their religious fanaticism and burned people at the stake beginning in the 1600s (look it up). They imposed harsh anti-gay/anti-queer rules and laws on the enslaved Africans and free black people who built this country. They legalized racialized apartheid in the South and many parts of the North after the white supremacist Confederacy, which as both its president and vice president made clear, was to champion white power and domination of blacks. And on and on. Today, white gays like you continue to promote racial apartheid and white privilege in dating and every other aspect of LGBTQ life, so what do you expect non-white people to do, just continue to be dumped on, or to say enough is enough? We don’t live in a historical vacuum, including up through today. So look in the mirror first before you misunderstand again what Jussie Smollett and others are saying.
scubooty
Having been on a Black Gay Site a lot, here is what goes on:
“I feel so guilty for not helping the black race by breeding. It’s so awful of me. I wish I could be great like these fantastic Black Heterosexuals that have a bastard rate of almost 75%, but, oh well. I shall make up for my terrible actions by lifting my black race by attacking all White Gays, and their so called Gay agenda (which is out to destroy my black king race.”)
scubooty
27. You might be a “white gay” if… you found this article triggering, offensive, too serious, or “racist against white people.”
This is my favorite one. Do as we say, or be hated by you enlightened ones. Be Black Gay guys’ bitches, or what? They’ll hate us? Trust me. Most Black Gays have been indoctrinated their whole life to hate Whites. Nothing you can say or do will make them like you.
scubooty
When are you gunna try to raise awareness about how racially bigoted the great majority of Black Gays are? If you want to read some raw naked racial bigotry, that’s where you will find it in vast amounts. You just don’t care to look.
dwes09
OK, it is now official and undeniable, Graham Gremore is an idiot who would not recognize critical thought if it came up and bit him in the face!
Essentially this article says that anybody who does not agree with his odd analysis of the world is a “white gay”! Whatever the hell that is, as he implies it has nothing at all to do with being white.
As a progressive, I am puzzled why is it that knee jerk, foolish naifs think that their lack of understanding of people’s complexity constitutes progressiveness on their part.
Rather than passing judgement on others because he is dull, a better tactic is to try and understand, relate to them on their terms and have compassion for others.
Especially stupid is the comment about vagina. Obviously (to those with brains) distaste for vagina characterizes gay men. It is neither misogynist nor not transphobic (you don’t have to desire people sexually to value and support them). And he obviously has not spent much time around not totally assimilated Jews, Asians, Muslims (of all racial extractions), Hindus and others where the pressure to date and pair bond within ones group are very strong (even among gay folks) and more reasonable than his lack of understanding about cultures outside his own!
While his fluffiest pieces might be good for a laugh, when Gremore attempts analysis or intellect he falls flat on his face. it amazes me he does not break his nose!
To quote an old song:
“People are people so why should it be
You and I should get along so awfully
So we’re different colours
And we’re different creeds
And different people have different needs”
Willing to bet he would rather eat glass than acknowledge the validity of different needs, just as the worst regressive would; or acknowlege that he is not the arbiter of how thinking people can behave!
prttymn33
that’s a wide paintbush Miss thing.
How about all y’all quit yer bitchin’ start laughing, and stop being as triggered as trumpanzees.
I know that hottie with the “White Boy” glasses, and he laughs at himself as much as, Hell, more than you do.
He’s an artist, would you hold Mapplethorpe up to your current gripes, I don’t think so.
Get over yourselves.
QueerTruth
Yawn… if you’re trying to be funny – then be funny. But trying to be serious while campy falls flat.
Try again.
Yooper
News for ya, “white gay” isn’t a thing, though the chip on some people’s shoulders is.
djmcgamester
1/27 – most of my friends are white. Don’t know why I’d have to justify it. Unless I’m supposed to go out and specifically look to hang out with non-white people.
The list is stupid regardless. You might be racist if you’re overly concerned about what white people do.
Esscourt
Man, talk about facism!