Everyone know I was gay before I did. I got bullied for wearing girls’ clothes, so I stopped and I started wearing guys’ clothes and tried to butch up.
I was worried about being femme in any way. I was trying to hook up with girls in middle school. They hated it.
And then in freshman years of high school I met this guy who was a junior and I fell in love with him. I was 14. He never actually became my boyfriend but it opened me up and I came out.
I didn’t realize you could have physical relationships without being ‘in’ a relationship. Then I started dating older guys for a while in high school because there weren’t any gay kids when I was growing up.
[They were] in their twenties, when I was 14 or 15. because I had a fake ID, I was going out. That was where I met gay people.
—13 Reasons Why star Tommy Dorfman, talking to Attitude about his awkward first gay experiences and coming to terms with his sexuality.
jkthsnk
While I have lingering resentment that it wasn’t true in my day, it’s wonderful to see actors being out at the begging of their careers.
Hillers
He is absolutely dreamy on that show… a slinking, snarky, tall drink of water. I hope he’s featured more in the later episodes!
Terrycloth
@Hillers : Did I miss something ? I went back and read the article again..there’s no mention of a show he’s in…never heard of him actually…what show does he act in cable or network ?
cs7077
13 Reasons Why is the name of the series (Netflix). I think it’s a great series, but it deals with suicide so it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.
sylvialucas444
April replied I cannot believe that some one can earn $7119 in 4 weeks on the computer .
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mz.sam
After checking out the original Attitude article Tommy now grown-up has become just another big sissy.