• Latest
  • Life
  • Entertainment
  • Politics
  • Pride50
Queerty* Queerty* Pride
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube
  • newsletter
  • Menu
Close
Queerty*
  • Log in
  • Register
  • Life
  • Entertainment
  • Politics
  • Driven
  • Prepared
  • Joystick
  • Goods
  • Video (Queerty TV)
  • Queerty Ever After
  • Dragaholic
  • Health
  • Out for Good
  • The Queerty Interview
  • LGBTQ Nation News
  • GayCities Travel Guides
  • Share a Tip
  • Toggle Dark Mode

Entertainment*

music videos

An Ode To Every Straight Girl’s ‘Gay Best Friend’

By February 27, 2011 at 4:02am · 16 comments

Loves to go shopping for shoes. Is sexy and fabulous. Always around to go to the club. What other stereotypes do you have about gay best friends? Because they’re all in the video for Heven’s single “Gay Best Friend,” which, while a few months old, definitely needs a sassy makeover.

Entertainment gay best friends heven Music Music Videos
View Comments16

Get Queerty Daily

Subscribe to Queerty for a daily dose of #entertainment #gaybestfriends #heven stories and more

16 Comments

  • Evan

    I’m sorry, this is just awful. It’s not even fun.

    February 27, 2011 at 7:02am
  • Devon

    See this is exactly why I have so few female friends. Seems like a lot of women only want gay guys around to act like living, breathing fashion advice columns, and be a cute little pet for them to take out and show off to their girlfriends.

    February 27, 2011 at 9:02am
  • Shannon1981

    Fag hags(or I guess we are calling them fruit flies now) annoy me, and I am not even a dude. IDK, just something about them. Half the time they fall for the gay guy, or wind up being these desperate rejects from the straight social circles, or want to be lesbians but can’t quite pull it off…the list goes on and on, and this paints a perfect picture of why they suck.

    February 27, 2011 at 10:02am
  • Chris

    I saw that last year, why post it now?!

    February 27, 2011 at 11:02am
  • Steve-O

    This is awful and just plain offensive!!

    February 27, 2011 at 12:02pm
  • adman

    Well, for what it’s worth, most straight women have equally demeaning ideas about their straight guys too. An accessory, can get them things they want, etc. Women are people, and as such, are unfortunately prone becoming captivated with mediocre bullshit ideas.

    February 27, 2011 at 12:02pm
  • F

    Why?

    February 27, 2011 at 12:02pm
  • Shofixti

    The 3 white girls get a white gay best friend.
    The 3 black girls get a black gay best friend.

    On the nose.

    February 27, 2011 at 2:02pm
  • Thomas

    @Shofixti: That’s basically how it is in real life, no?

    February 27, 2011 at 3:02pm
  • Jaime

    I’d like to belt her right in the fuckin’ gob.

    February 28, 2011 at 2:02am
  • blake

    ERMMM guys this is all just in fun… And honestly its true! EVERY GIRL NEEDS A GAY BEST FRIEND!

    February 28, 2011 at 3:02am
  • AncientLeaves

    Not all women with gay friends think this way, you know. I find this video and the stereotypes and ideas in it highly annoying too.

    February 28, 2011 at 5:02am
  • shaquita

    embarassment…sheesh

    my gay buddies and i go out hiking and biking…none of them are into shopping..i hate these stereotypes

    February 28, 2011 at 6:02am
  • jud.ykkk

    My friends told me about BiRomances.c’0m told It’s the best placeto meet bisexual and bicurious singles.Come in and stay a
    while. Complete your profile. Post a message,a picture of yourself and check out the photo galleries.Give it a try, you will find someone you like.

    February 28, 2011 at 5:02pm
  • Jeffree

    I have plenty of str8 female friends, but I refuse to be the “gayBFF” after several experiences where I was expected to compensate some how for how lousy their relationships were with their guy/husband or other str8 women.

    “Dear Abby” had it right: don’t marry or date or get too close to someone who doesn’t have friends.

    The more *interesting* topic to me is the close friendships that [too rarely?] happen between a str8 guy & a gay one. Of the 4 people I’m closest with, 2 are hetero males. Both guys are comfortable in their own sexuality & we do have many interests in common. Anyone else?

    February 28, 2011 at 7:02pm
  • Joe

    People on this site need to chill out. The girl is not speaking for all of humanity, merely paying an homage to a part of the queer culture that she loves. Calm down and feel the love! And if you don’t think masculine gays get enough representation, I would remember that its the queens, trans, fems, and butch lesbians that have suffered some of the worst abuse, and have also been some of the biggest activists because they couldn’t pass like holier-than-thou str8 acters. If you want to change the image then come out, and be you, and love others for being themselves.

    March 23, 2011 at 7:03pm

Comments are closed.

More in Entertainment

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt
super gay

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt

Lori Petty’s crazy response to having to share a trailer with Madonna during ‘A League of Their Own’
play ball

Lori Petty’s crazy response to having to share a trailer with Madonna during ‘A League of Their Own’

Conservative YouTuber enlists “anti-woke” Minion army in the culture war against Disney
despicable
19 comments

Conservative YouTuber enlists “anti-woke” Minion army in the culture war against Disney

The debate over whether the homoerotic epic ‘RRR’ is a “gay love story” rages on
brrromance

The debate over whether the homoerotic epic ‘RRR’ is a “gay love story” rages on


Popular on Queerty

Elon Musk just reminded everyone why his trans daughter wants nothing to do with him
bigot billionaire

Elon Musk just reminded everyone why his trans daughter wants nothing to do with him

1 hour ago
This may be Marjorie Taylor Greene’s dumbest tweet yet, and that’s saying something
image problem
7 comments

This may be Marjorie Taylor Greene’s dumbest tweet yet, and that’s saying something

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt
super gay

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt

The “Queer Gaming Bundle” gives you over 500 games and helps LGBTQ creators
treasure trove

The “Queer Gaming Bundle” gives you over 500 games and helps LGBTQ creators

Florida high school enacts insane new LGBTQ policy and everyone’s thinking the same thing
bad education
24 comments

Florida high school enacts insane new LGBTQ policy and everyone’s thinking the same thing


Latest on Queerty

Lindsey Graham reaches for his smelling salts after being slapped with grand jury subpoena
lord, have mercy

Lindsey Graham reaches for his smelling salts after being slapped with grand jury subpoena

Elon Musk just reminded everyone why his trans daughter wants nothing to do with him
bigot billionaire

Elon Musk just reminded everyone why his trans daughter wants nothing to do with him

1 hour ago
This may be Marjorie Taylor Greene’s dumbest tweet yet, and that’s saying something
image problem
7 comments

This may be Marjorie Taylor Greene’s dumbest tweet yet, and that’s saying something

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt
super gay

‘Thor: Love & Thunder’ is Marvel’s gayest movie yet—and not just because of Thor’s bare butt

The “Queer Gaming Bundle” gives you over 500 games and helps LGBTQ creators
treasure trove

The “Queer Gaming Bundle” gives you over 500 games and helps LGBTQ creators

Florida high school enacts insane new LGBTQ policy and everyone’s thinking the same thing
bad education
24 comments

Florida high school enacts insane new LGBTQ policy and everyone’s thinking the same thing

Matt Gaetz should be very, very worried after this ominous court filing
tick tock

Matt Gaetz should be very, very worried after this ominous court filing

3 hours ago
Lori Petty’s crazy response to having to share a trailer with Madonna during ‘A League of Their Own’
play ball

Lori Petty’s crazy response to having to share a trailer with Madonna during ‘A League of Their Own’

Lauren Boebert rages after Rep. Eric Swalwell shares these photos of her
warpath
15 comments

Lauren Boebert rages after Rep. Eric Swalwell shares these photos of her

5 hours ago
Bette Midler denies her tweet was transphobic
backtrack
115 comments

Bette Midler denies her tweet was transphobic

Conservative YouTuber enlists “anti-woke” Minion army in the culture war against Disney
despicable
19 comments

Conservative YouTuber enlists “anti-woke” Minion army in the culture war against Disney

This gay Missouri legislature candidate refuses to back down from homophobes
justice for justice
17

This gay Missouri legislature candidate refuses to back down from homophobes

Free of an agenda (except that gay one)
Andy Cohen Bowen Yang Colton Haynes Colton Underwood Elton John Gus Kenworthy Lil Nas X Madonna Meghan Markle
Relationships Grindr Rupaul's Drag Race Screen Gems Twitter The Queerty Interview
  • Q.digital
  • A Q.Digital Company
  • © 2022 Queerty, Inc.
  • Advertise With Us
  • Contact

  • Share a Tip
  • Comments Policy
  • Privacy Statement
  • Terms of Use
  • Do Not Sell My Personal Information
  • Follow

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube
  • GayCities: Your Gay Travel Guide:

  • New York
  • London
  • San Francisco
  • Chicago
  • Los Angeles
  • Washington DC
  • Dallas
  • Gay Saskatoon
  • See all 230+ cities...