Collin Simpson is the #1 most popular performer on the adult site GayHoopla. On Tuesday, the blue-eyed brunette came out as bisexual via Twitter.
“You asked, now here’s the answer! I don’t like to label myself, however if I had to say for certain, I’m bisexual with a preference for women,” he tweeted. “I am sexually attracted to men, but I have yet to experience love for another man like I have had for a woman.”
You asked, now here's the answer! I don't like to label myself, however if I had to say for certain, I'm bisexual with a preference for women. I am sexually attracted to men, but I have yet to experience love for another man like I have had for a woman. https://t.co/bk5Ec3Rgcm
— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
He followed that up with a second tweet explaining that he’s hooked up with other guys both on and off camera, and that he prefers guys who are tastefully tattooed, muscular, clean cut, with larger-than-average, ahem, members.
“That being said, I HAVE had relations with a man outside of work and, in fact, am searching for my next partner,” he wrote. “I prefer a high level of muscularity; clean cut with tasteful tattoos and a huge c*ck!”
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That being said, I HAVE had relations with a man outside of work and, in fact, am searching for my next partner. I prefer a high level of muscularity; clean cut with tasteful tattoos and a huge cock! https://t.co/bk5Ec3Rgcm
— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
Simpson went on to say that “very curious” to see what a relationship with a man might be like. A relationship that goes beyond just sex, that is:
This could just as easily happen to me with a man, and I'm very curious to see what, the real aspect of having a male partner is like. Not just a fuck buddy!
— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
He continued by comparing love to… ice cream?
I love many things, but, to be in love is entirely different set of emotions and more importantly, devotion. Loving something can be as simple as your favorite ice cream flavor over all the other delicacies.
— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
Being in love, he added, is all about making sacrifices:
Being IN love is completely different ; you'll sacrifice things in your life you once thought you'd never let go of, change your behaviors, better your self in ways you never thought possible. Real love is powerful, and nigh unbreakable.
— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
And that real love is blind. It knows no race, no gender, no sexual orientation and NO LIES:
Real, genuine love knows no bounds and it knows NO RACES, NO SEXUAL ORIENTATION, NO GENDER, and NO LIES
I'm completely open and honest with my fans at all times— Collin Simpson (@CollinSimpsonGH) May 2, 2018
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asby
Love knows “NO RACES NO SEXUAL ORIENTATION NO GENDER NO LIES” ….But it does know how muscular you are , How your tattoos look and how big your dick is….He should just say “no fats no fems”
PresidentTogekiss
So, we’re not allowed to have standards now? We’re supposed to just get it one with the first person who asks?
Bradsflix
Maybe how about my boyfriends 18-24 straight white jock. I have dated 15 of them and one at a time My current bf is really the best liking I put off getting with him cause I was intimidated because I think he looks absolutely perfect.
WindsorOntario
Another asshole comes out. I wish this one would have stayed closeted. Like we need any more narcissistic, arrogant people who think they’re too good for everyone and nobody is good enough for them.
Smith David
O.M.G…I agree. I never thought that I’d ever feel this way. But, I just want people to stay in the closet now. LOL. Please!!! It’s now becoming disingenuous to come out. Instead, these sexual revelations have now become another means of garnering more attention. That said, who the hell am I to judge. Do whatever you want folks:)
Donston
I am kinda at that point as well. For many of these famous, semi famous and wannabe famous people “coming out” is becoming less about revealing yourself and more about making an annoucement to garner attention and praise and then using it for marketing. While the way most do it often seems highly calculated, as they make sure to spew all the right cliches to fit whatever they’re coming out as. (I do like Adam Rippon and, to a lesser extenet, Gus Kenworthy. But both are constantly bragging about their gayness, using it for attention and are fashioning themselves as groundbreakers. However, at least Adam is fairly self-deprecating).
Less concern with identity, sociology, affirmation and attention and more focus on just living your life freely and without shame or manipulation would be nice.
Donston
To make myself clearer I’m saying whether you wannabe date/have sex with dudes, chicks, a trans people, multiple types of people, whatever. Just do you. Whatever fulfills you, makes you feel satisfied, gives you comfort. Stop being so concerned with justifying your life, stop using identity to fraction yourself into whatever sociological bubble or as an attempt to make your “old life” not seem invalid, and stop acting as if people should praise and adore you for “coming out”.
This is why I appreciated the way Kevin McHale “came out”.
Nahald
Why do people have to “come out” anyway? Sheesh, it is the 21st century, marriage is legal for everyone, and I never hear people coming out as “straight”, so why would us gay people have to “come out”. Just be yourself and love whomever you fall in love with.
ChrisK
I don’t really see the problem here. So what if he prefers muscular hung guys and doesn’t like labels.
Yeah, he’s a bit narcissistic but most guys his age are.
nm4047
not just his age, ageism exists in all age groups
Bradsflix
I always date straight guys and have no problem finding a straight guy to be my lover. Mark & I have 7 months of being monogamous he said he has never felt so secure & trusting me so quick. I have never cheated on a lover. Mark was impressed on our second date I told him I was making a decision to not sleep with anyone but him.I told him I am not making him do it til he is ready. my prince said I am just as ready as you and 7 months later life is good. We played baseball together all last year and know erach other really well. He said it doesn.t feel like we are gay and most sytr8 guys say that cause there is nothing femme or fat about me
Donston
This is a prime example of why I moved on from a bi identity. Yes, I do feel like you can be “gay” and not be completely inherently homosexual. I’m not “open-minded” when it comes to love. I know what I want, what I have passion for, what completes me romantically and sexually and what generally satisfies me, and it’s not a chick.
I don’t pay a ton of attention to porn performers (I admit that I used to). But I’m pretty sure he’s another porn performer who has said some homophobic things in the past, and he works for sites that promote homophobia, racism and hetero-worship. And unforuntately, he does seem to be another over-the-top, humorless narcissist who thinks he’s a great philosopher and progressive thinker and yet is all about aesthetics, feeling different body parts and wanting people to worship him. He’s also another “bi-guy” who feels little emotional or romantic connection and inclination towards men. But maybe he’s a pretty gay-leaning dude who grew up having sex and relationships primarily with women, is scared to have a legit relationship with a guy, and his “love” for women is mostly about social and psychogical comfort than genuine romantic passion and romantic love.
Either way, he’s still pretty young (and incredibly shallow), and it’s his journey. And unlike so many of these dudes out here he seems to be trying to be legit honest here.
ChrisK
Most of us started out as bi sexual. It’s part of the coming out process.
dash_board1
@Donston, ‘gay’ is a synonym for homosexual, it doesn’t encompass a sexual attraction to the opposite sex. That’s literally the point of the word. You are apparently a bisexual who prefers men, what’s wrong with just saying you are bisexual? Trying to make it so that the word ‘gay’ includes a sexual attraction to the opposite sex will just needlessly confuse things.
Donston
I’ll break down the reasons, dash:
“Bi” has become incredibly all-encompassing in recent years. So much so that people who have extremely opposite orientations and “lifestyles” are all identifying as the same thing. And most people could fit into “bi” in some way or another, especially under its current definitions..
I needed to separate myself from people still “figuring things out” as well as separate myself from the heteronormalcy, hetero-worship and internalized homophobia that is often associated with the bi community and the bi movement, whether that association is always fair or not.
Despite having loved a woman before and still having some type of random attraction to women here and there, I don’t have any real romantic or sexual interests in women or romantic/sexual/emotional satisfaction with women and never truly have.
I’m married to a man and happily so. Therefore, ain’t nobody about to walk around talking about “bi pride”.
I realized that almost half of gay-identifying men are not indeed completely, down to the last atom particle conventionally homosexual, and they use “gay” in the same context I just did. If pressed I have no problem saying I’m a mostly homoromantic, male-leaning pansexual. But in general, I’ll just stick with “gay” and keep it pushing as there’s no obligation to give that level of insight if I don’t know you like that or am trying to date you. And ultimately, I realized that, for the most part, this identity stuff is just one big sociological joke, and hardly anyone plays fair.
Josh447
Donston,
I have listened to Adam closely for self-deprecation and have never found a lick of it. I do find him to be very sensitive humble and full of the right answers at the right time with heart felt sincerity and clarity. He emulates humility which can often be mistaken for self deprication.
Now Gus, I too like him very much but find he’s just a bit too publically horn doggish, to a fault. The Ryan Reynolds tweet is but one situation that comes to mind. Hence he got no response. Both Adam and Gus however did a remarkable difficult trek coming out for the good of us all.
As far as people coming out to gain publicity attention, that seems to be a bit of a vacant call. It’s never been easy for anyone to come out. It doesn’t guarantee them more work or safety. Especially in the entertainment field where there’s a hardcore fear of losing out on business and gigs.
Whatever the reason however, coming out on the public stage takes guts and is good for the entire world.
This current fellow coming out as bisexual helps the entire majorly misunderstood bisexual community on all levels. He’s helping level the playing field. I thank him for that. We need more bisexuals doing the same which we are seeing more of day by day.
More power to all lgbt who publically come out. It is greatly to our benefit.
IMO they who come out for everyone to see needs and deserves our entire support and praise, not one hint of the opposite. That’s the religious rights job, not ours.
CastleSF
Your idea that just because we are gays, we all should share the same politics and follow the same liberal agendas, is preposterous. Who do you think you are that you are at liberty to speak as “we”, “we” should support bisexuals, they deserve “our” praise? Gays are from all walks of life, different social classes, different educations, different religious backgrounds, different sizes of bank accounts. To insist that all gay men should think like you do and support what you believe to be worthy is pure arrogance.
Josh447
CastleSF,
Me thinks you have some soul searching to do.
Donston
I’m all about people coming out and being for real about themselves. However, this doesn’t even come off like Nico Tortorella’s level of genuine convolution, narcissism and self-misandry. It sounds more like a very typical very gay-leaning man who’s copped a boyfriend but wants to cover all his corners due to his job (where hetero-worship is typical) and previous relationship with chicks. And someone who’s trying to use his “outing” to further his following. To me, that’s just lame.
I’m not someone who supports all people, because most people are idiot or scum. I look at things from an individual basis. I’m not gonna “support” people just because they are lgbtq identifying. If they come off as manipulative, idiot, etc. I’m gonna call that out.
But this is much ado about a porn performer.
JAW
WHO?
Vince
Great skin.
IWantAFullBeard
He seems so bright. I wonder what his mom is more proud of – his video performances or his Tweeter wisdom.
LMFAO
masterwill7
YASSSSS!!!! 😀 Sooo true!
tham
hmm, it’s odd when they call themselves Bi but then talk like a 40 year old gay man who’s been around the block more then twice.
More power to him but still…a bit odd.
skeldare
Color me surprised.
But no way is he a “major star”.
batesmotel
Never heard of him. And stars are people most of the world has heard of. He comes off like a conceited douche though. And he’s not bi. He’s more gay than anything. Bisexuals tend to be hipper than this guy. They also don’t have a “muscly” stereotypical preference. This guy is definitely gay all around.
CastleSF
I have to agree with you on his being more gay than bi. I have never met a bisexual man who cares about another man’s endowment. He is just delusional but he is still very young.
Donston
I don’t think you can say “all bi’s are into this”. You can find almost anyone who’s into anything. In fact, some men have little sexual attraction, desire or romantic feelings towards guys. But they like being sexually dominated by “manly man” sometimes. It’s more of a fetish than anything else. However, based off his pornography (where his sex with women seems drab and forced) and his highy calculated comments here he does seem to be a very gay-leaning dude. And he already seems like he’s invested in wanting to be with a man. Just appears to be another dude who’s quite a bit more into dudes romantically and sexually but grew up having sex and relationships primarily with women and wants to hold on to that sense of hetero-normalcy as well as continue to appeal to women for the sake of his job and ego. It is what is. And as I mentioned in a previous post, it’s his journey.
PresidentTogekiss
We clearly have met different bisexuals. It’s true there are many hipster bisexuals, but I have also met many “bro” types. Also, liking muscles is not a gay/bi/straight thing. It has more to do with social circles. A guy who likes sports will probably prefer musclier dudes, whereas a sensitive writer will not.
mhoffman953
He’s an unknown gay porn guy. He’s doing this as an act to attract more clientele. Most customers of cam shows prefer men who are straight or bi instead of gay guys
Vince
It’s the sick truth. Then again look where we’re at. The site that celebrates Straight guys and the gay guys that love them.
LibraOracle
I never understood why gay men fetishize the same straight guys who oppress them, It’s insane.
chris33133
His “coming out” reminds me of a saying that, back when I first heard it, seemed very jaded and cynical: “Today’s trade is tomorrow’s competition.”
DCguy
So a guy who sleeps with guys on camera admits that he might like guys.
Wow, shocker.
Billy Budd
I don’t fit his profile, and Even though he is totally unknown and kinda nasty, I would like to fok him. Deep and hard.
bigthickrich
C’mon – who didn’t sit in Santa’s lap asking for the huge c@ck gift?
amigay
Hey Colin, ignore the haters. Be comfortable with yourself, stick with what you like and fuck off the rest.
prarie pup
Who is this guy and why are we supposed to care?
navybiboi1
He’s on HGF ain’t it…
Greg
I’ve had conversations with guys who identify as straight, but when they talk about being with other guys, it’s usually about sucking another guy’s cock and they would only do it if it was really big. They also talk about a guy with a bigger cock fucking their girlfriend, and they have to watch.
Greg
I’ve had conversations with guys on a web cam site, who identify as straight, but when they talk about being with other guys, it’s usually about sucking another guy’s cock and they would only do it if it was really big. They also talk about a guy with a bigger cock fucking their girlfriend, and they have to watch.
LibraOracle
Men often idealize bigger c*cks as being superior and feel inferior if they have a smaller member.
PresidentTogekiss
It’s true that these coming out stories in Twitter are mostly for attention, but there is surely a lot of bitterness in this comment section kkk. Just because the dude said he likes muscles and big dicks. That was kind obvious wasn’t it? He is a very muscled dude, which makes sense why he likes muscles (at least in most cases), and he’s a PORNSTAR, so of course he likes bid dicks and is arrogant.
But I don’t like the atitude in these posts that we can’t have preferences. Those are normal and shouldn’t be treated like sins.
SPEEDOSWIMMER
Gay for pay
Shallow and vapid
scooterdie
Or for Christ’s sake, straight men dont have sex AND same sex relationships with other men. Sucking a man off negates any claim you might have to heterosexuality.
LibraOracle
I just love how he went for all physical traits and no personality or emotional traits at all, he’s not looking for a lover but a sex partner.
cecewlalala
I absolutely love Collin Simpson he’s super nice over twitter and his scenes in gayhoopla are amazing! Gayhoopla is a really awesome website and their content is sooooo hot. Colin is definitely my favorite along with Julian Rodriguez! ?