“If I go on a date with a girl and tell her I’m bi, she just thinks I’m gay. But if I go on a date with a guy and tell him I’m bi, he just thinks I’m definitely gay.”
This is just one of many largely unspoken dilemmas bisexual men face on daily basis. At least according to an episode of the new web series The Feels, created by Tim Manley.
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The quirky and heartfelt series, which launched earlier this month and has quickly become our new favorite thing, is about a bisexual dude named Charlie who has “too many feelings.” The episodes are super-short, with a new one being released every day for the month of September.
Check out the episode “Visibility” below, and see more on the show’s YouTube channel…
Brian
Men who swing both ways are frequently maligned by women. Women see them as a competitive threat. Women see them as a threat to her business model. These types of men are very powerful as they have the ability to destroy girl power.
Liberal society has encouraged the fraud that women are naturally bisexual but that men are straight or gay. LOL. What liberals conveniently ignore is the fact that 95% of female bisexuality is fake. Yep, fake. Women make up their sexuality in the same way they make up their faces.
Think of how a woman puts on mascara to make her eyes seem bigger than they really are. Think of how she puts on lip-stick to make her lips seem fuller than they really are. Think of how she dyes her hair on a frequent basis. Think of how she elevates her height by wearing stilettos. Think of how she wears push-up bras to make her boobs seem bigger even though they are small.
This is EXACTLY the type of behavior that women engage in regarding their sexuality. They will fake it – simple as that.
Only men can truly swing both ways with a GENUINE sexuality.
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
^Oh the paradox that all that unhingedness should yield so much Dull.
CaliKyle
@Brian: I agree wholeheartedly with your second paragraph but take exception with your contention that “men who swing both ways” are only maligned by hetero females. As someone who identifies as gay but has had sex with approximately a couple dozen women (by choice and out of purely sexual non romantic attraction, not in service to a closeted existence) I can assure you that sexually bi men are explicitly reviled and trashed by both straight females and males, additionally by gay males but to a lesser extent. Hetero women get nasty because the poor things have been socialized to compete with each other for male attention based on things such as physical looks and sexual desirability – over which they have only limited control – and they cannot tolerate the concept of competing against men as well as their own gender in this arena. Straight guys – like the several with whom I was sexually involved in college – also loathe sexually bi guys not only because they often end up with us when they want to know what it feels like to suck d or get their butts reamed but because acknowledging that male to male lust isnt nearly as uncommon as they claim it to be means they too may indulge in same sex experimentation.
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
@CaliKyle: You’ve had more various pussy than a good proportion of the straight male population and yet you reject the label “bisexual”, which would be understandable if you’re rejecting the overly simplistic and limiting nature of all labels, but instead you’re okay with labelling yourself as “gay.” Interesting. Please don’t mistake this for criticism, but rather genuine curiosity for a phenomenon I can somewhat identify with myself.
jkthsnk
These shorts are like a scene study class where the coach needs to intervene.
etseq
@PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID: As if much of what anyone says in the Queerty comment section has any grounding in reality – its just another strange version of fanfic from sexually repressed, socially awkward trolls.
etseq
Yawn – as long as bisexual men ignore hegemonic structural forces such as homophobia and heterosexism and reduce these power dynamics to claims of individual prejudice, particularly when they attempt to blame gay men individually or collectively, nothing will change, nor should it. Heterosexuality is still overwhelmingly privileged in this society and bisexual men seem oblivious to this, especially the significant damage and distortion of internalized homophobia.
robho3
@Brian: oh Brian I just wish I were as wise as you (not). Everyone on here just waits with baited breath for you all inspiring comments.. If only we could be a smart as you.
ErikO
@CaliKyle: You were not involved sexually with hetero men. No guy that’s actually hetero/straight has sex with another man.
CaliKyle
@ErikO: Ignorant and completely wrong.
etseq
If you read this guy’s twitter feed, you’d never know he was anything but a straight hipster. He talks constantly about his girlfriend and only makes the occasional obscure reference that he might be anything other than straight. After the Pulse massacre, he barely tweeted anything except that he didn’t go to Pride because he prefers his cats. He also promoted his book very differently to gay media than mainstream – most of the stories have nothing to do with “queerness” or gay characters – its more of a hipster satire fest. But of course Queerty loves promoting this non-gay crap…
gayhope1990
Brian has mommy issues.He kept talking badly about women.That means something./Catlike:A straight guy,a real straight guy not a closeted case,doesn’t do anything around men.