The midwest chapter of ONYX, a national organization for men of color who enjoy leather, has issued a list of demands to the Chicago leather bar Touché for hosting a racist puppet show during the bar’s 45th anniversary.
Additionally, a town hall to discuss the show was canceled at the last minute, and though the puppeteer said he has performed his act for decades with “rave reviews,” a 1980 Washington Post review of his show also called it “racist” and “witless.”
White queer puppeteer Jerry Halliday offended the audience with his November 1 performance featuring a poor, Black woman puppet called “Sista Girl.” He used a “Blaccent” to voice her, lifted her dress to reveal her “afro puff,” and swore repeatedly at audience members who vocally criticized his act.
Video clips of his act were widely condemned on social media and in the LGBTQ press. In response, he issued a non-apology and pledged to retire the offending puppet.
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ONYX Midwest issued a statement condemning Halliday’s act for its racism, misogyny, and sexism, and for “reinforcing old, demoralizing, discriminatory, dehumanizing, and unspeakably damaging stereotypes.”
“We certainly would never expect to experience something so devastating in the year 2022, especially in our home bar,” the group wrote in a statement posted to Twitter.
The group condemned the bar management’s not recognizing the performance’s harm and stopping it. It also condemned the bar patrons who sided with Halliday when he asked how many of them wanted his act’s critics to “Shut the f**k up.”
ONYX Midwest announced that it would immediately remove its insignia from the bar and no longer hold its monthly social events there. The group also revoked the bar manager’s honorary membership until he undergoes “educational activities.”
The group also said it would only resume its social nights at the bar once the venue’s management established an “event-review committee” made up of the bar’s diverse patronage, donated $3,000 to a person of color charity of ONXY Midwest’s choosing, terminated the current bar manager, and hired a replacement committed to creating an environment free of similarly discriminatory behavior.
ONYX Midwest would like to address what happened at Touche’s 45th Anniversary Party on 11/1/2022. Before doing so we would like to express our sincerest gratitude to all that have chosen to support our mission and to speak out on our behalf. https://t.co/t3VOunjzrz pic.twitter.com/HWTQsB7rQk
— OnyxMidwest (@Onyxmidwest) November 8, 2022
The local Leather Archives & Museum had agreed to host a Wednesday evening town hall forum for community members to voice their concerns over Halliday’s act. However, the forum was postponed at the last minute after its moderator had a medical emergency, Block Club Chicago reported. The forum has not yet been rescheduled.
In Halliday’s non-apology for his act, he wrote, “I have been doing my show for 20 years for thousands of people of all races to standing ovations and rave reviews in the press.” But a recently unearthed 1980 Washington Post review of his show suggests otherwise.
“[Halliday’s] show was not only tasteless, it was also witless, lifeless and pointless,” the review said, calling his act a “stretched-out-summer-camp sketch” filled with “stupid and obvious characters.” The review also mentioned the show’s inclusion of “an insulting, racist stereotype of a black prostitute,” presumably Sista Girl.
While Halliday may have received rave reviews since then, it doesn’t sound like his act has changed much since 1980. No wonder one of his critical audience members at Touché bar commented, “Everyone in the crowd thinks this is a little weird for 2022.”
Queerty has reached out to Touché for comment, and we’ll update this post if we hear back.
Godabed
In 2022, entitled white people with racist point of views still exist. Don’t be shocked by this behavior, it literally happens all the time. I think how Onyx handled this is the correct way. Hold the bare accountable, hold the manager who booked the talent accountable, ask for education.
Stupid people do stupid things.
jt1990
@Godabed what about entitled black folks who attack innocent Whites, not to mention each other? Violently attacking or killing innocent people is a whole different level of entitlement. The real puppets in this story are woke Liberals. LMAO the irony here!
Rugby8
Stupid stupid stupid response
It us Not up to you to define, or Legislate, humor
Rugby8
In 2022 people still exist who need to blame Everything on Someone
Stop Whining
SDR94103
black people are racist too.
Deacon
@ jt1990, Rugby8, & SDR94103,
I get it, you’ve been racist white queens who’ve fetishized black men for year, and making idiotic statements comes natural to you. we get it that you embrace your white privilege like a badge of honor like when you march down the street with your tiki torch in hand and I totally understand how people like Jerry Halliday and Shirly Q Liquor are you heroes just understand Black folk aren’t here for the BS. I don’t know what crime has to do with this I mean we all know white on white crime statically is the highest in the nation and calling out white racism is not whining so deal with it. POC would make fun of you but most whites are like your food, NO SEASONING NO FLAVA. Just to let you know ONYX has over 10k member nationwide and is the larger LEATHER organization in the country. So as you sit behind your screen as your shield to hide you from saying anything to an actual person of colors face know that anything and everything you say is just a reflection of how much you really envy us and how much you really wish you had our FLAVA. I stand with my ONYX MIDWEST Brothers!!! This is JOULE ONYX, until next time PEACE & LOVE!!!!
abfab
Too many concussions, RUGBY8? If so, well then….. we can excuse all of your momentary lapses in reasonings.
Winsocki
But if his other puppets of different backgrounds and race IDs are treated the same buffoonery then it is not racist. More like Lil Pill “I Hate People” song or Babs Johnson “kill everyone now”. Take a Joke don’t be Woke. I mean John Lennon could not write “Woman is N….r of the World” or Patti Smith sing “Rock n Roll N….r”. and they are progressive. This world is wack a doodle y doo. We used to love being sarcastic and irreverant. It depends on does the words come from a place of ‘hate’.
jt1990
@Winsocki “Take a joke don’t be woke” love it! I would think guys into this stuff would have thicker skin, but wokeism has taken hold in places you least expect to find it. It’s scary how lamestream media can brainwash just about anyone!
Phillip
Exactly so. All of us have lost our ability to laugh and make fun at the stereotypes of ourselves by our own people for goodness sake and let a news paper lead us around by a nose ring like an upset bull. I thought we were more intelligent and had thicker skins by now. I guess not.
Deacon
See that’s the problem, you think it’s a joke, you think Black people should just laugh it off like white people at a minstrel show. The problem with that theory is that you all can never and would never say these things directly to a Black persons face. It’s not about being woke it’s about the fact you hate being called out it, you feel POC are coming to take over or take away everything you think you cherish. Dude wants to be Wayland Flowers but lacks the talent to do so. But hay Black folks are being to sensitive right we should be able to take a joke, funny thing is if it was the other way around your panties would be so far up your ass you’d be storming the capital, yikes my bad you already did, 01/06/2021. Just know we’re used to having our culture our music even our comedy appropriated, just understand we’re no longer going to be quiet about it and if you don’t like it TOO BAD! If I hit a nerve just go dance it off, on second thought do that we all know y’all have as much rhythm as your potato salad has flavor, none at all LOL
Agility
Both of those songs were controversial 50 years ago for the use of the epithet, and neither has aged well. It’s not an excuse in 2022 for someone to act this way.
And if you actually watched the videos… they are CRINGE! Horrible. I’m not sure he made fun of any other races like he did the Black population… but WOW. There’s something wrong with someone who thought those were anything other than racist.
Vince
“event-review committee”…LMAO Yeah, that will ensure any comedy is completely boring and bland as f*ck.
This is nothing new. Just look at someone like Jeff Dunham. Funny as hell and yes very stereotypical puppets that cover all groups.
Some people need to just pull the stick out of their asses.
abfab
Can you be more specific when you’re talking about ”some people”?
Vince
The easily offended.
Rugby8
Yes!!!
Deacon
Vince my man, do you really mean the easily offended, come on we all know who you meant come out and say it, like Cyndi sang “I see your true colors shining through”. I’m waiting……..
abfab
VINCE, aka The Fonz, still into Jeff Dunham (?) …oh dear, you give too much of yourself away, Saint Vinny. How can anyone expect to have a discussion with you or the rugby tough guy of any great import?
GlobeTrotter
“The group also said it would only resume its social nights at the bar once the venue’s management established an ‘event-review committee’ made up of the bar’s diverse patronage, donated $3,000 to a person of color charity of ONXY Midwest’s choosing, terminated the current bar manager, and hired a replacement committed to creating an environment free of similarly discriminatory behavior.”
Speaking as a person of color, these people are BATSHIT CRAZY! It’s called parody, and if it doesn’t offend, then you’re not doing it right!
It always amazes me how these self-appointed, self-righteous groups feign offence at the most harmless and mundane activities, yet when it comes to the really important problems that bring REAL detriment and harm to the black community, like the hundreds of black men being murdered every year by other black men in places like Chicago, Philadelphia and New York, they’re inexplicably silent.
Halliday’s parody show consists of the harmless exercise of his right to free speech which brings no harm to any third party. The senseless killing of our black men by other black men however is a direct threat to the survival of our race and culture. Where is the outrage? Where is the indignation? Where are the marches? Where are the demands for change? Where are the ultimatums to our own bad actors?
This stunt reeks of hypocrisy and misplaced priorities!
Rugby8
Well Said!!!!
Kangol2
To answer your final series of questions, “Where is the outrage? Where is the indignation? Where are the marches? Where are the demands for change? Where are the ultimatums to our own bad actors?” let me ask you, are YOU out there marching to end gun violence? Are you out there trying to improve the educational system and job prospects, etc. for the young people you’re talking about? You mention “our race and culture,” yet before this say you’re a “person of color,” so let me ask, are you Black and if you are and feel passionately about the questions you ask, get off your @ss and get out there and march and organize and engage in some activism. There are many people out there doing this difficult work, and rather than conflating that issue with this overtly racist performance, which Touche needlessly staged to sully its 45th birthday, put your money where your mouth is, whatever your race and ethnicity, but especially if you are Black or a “person of color.”
GlobeTrotter
@Kangol2: The answer to all your questions is YES, I’m out there tutoring and mentoring and making a difference in the lives of our young men! I’ve taken in two young refugees in my empty guest room, mentored many young men, helped many to find educational grants programs and stood in as a reference as well as personally intervened to get a few into college.
Fname Optional Lname
Is there a correlation between this type of racist act and the violence/death the black community endures? Of course there is
Rugby8
NOPE
abfab
And there it is, Optional. A complete and total denial from our jock du jour, Rugby8. He doesn’t pull any punches. He just lets you know how dumb he is, no questions asked. Watch your back 8. Things could get rough.
Terrycloth
First know the comic you are going to see..ask around , do they have a dvd or clips online ?? 2.sit near the back so you won’t get picked on..also if you’re offended get up.and leave..don’t make a scene just because YOU didn’t like it dosent mean others arent.i went to a club with friends to see a comedian I was bored they roared I sat there Stone faced. Didn’t find the act remotely humorous..yet I stayed had a few more drinks and before I knew it was over.had fun later dancing and meeting people in the clubs
Deacon
I just want to understand, so you’re telling me that you research every performer you’re going to see before you go see them because if you did why’d you still go to a show where you didn’t think the comedian was funny? That to me sounds contradicting, and so you know people did up and leave the show but that doesn’t mean they don’t have the right to call out the manager for booking him. Like you said they could have researched him and saw he was a racist and not hired him, that is what your saying right. It’s ok if people try and cancel Dave Chapelle who had conversations with a trans person before he did his show but he’s a Black man, Jerry Halliday is a white queer so he gets a pass. I mean what were women thinking in the 90’s when they called out Andrew Dice Clay for his misogyny, they should have just shut up sat there and took it, after all it was only jokes.
Rugby8
Ridiculous!
Don’t like the performance? Leave.
Btw – want to talk about Wanda Sykes show? I found it hysterical- but, there was a TON of “white-related” humor.
Get over yourselves trying to control what people enjoy
Kangol2
You keep bringing up Wanda Sykes, but she isn’t trafficking in racist stereotypes and people have every right to criticize and protest this bar, its owner, the manager who abetted this piece of crapola performer, and the performer himself, who’s clearly still stuck in 1975 and a poor imitation of Waylon and Madame. Just imagine the shoe is on the other foot, and let’s see if you’d be so cavalier about it!
Deacon
Wanda Sykes, the Wanda Sykes married to a white French woman, that Wanda Sykes. If that’s the best you got then you need to stop immediately. You’re one of those white queers that learned about POC from watching tv, had spots on POC’s in your school but wasn’t really there friend, appropriates other cultures thinking it makes you seem cool, yeah you’re one of them, you think it’s just a joke, it’s not your ethnicity or your culture so it’s cool to laugh and make a mockery of it, I bet you belong to the Log Cabin Republicans. What you don’t get is that it’s not about controlling what a person says, say what you want, I also have the right to call you out about what you said and if you don’t like that the you should in you own words…LEAVE
boblrice
@Rugby8 I’m 50 and honestly I remember these jokes. From 30 years ago. Also, they’re not original to Halliday. This was Gay speak in the 90s. Old jokes that are completely tired today and I think you know that.
I’ll be honest, my 20-year-old self back then thought these were funny. But times change, and I was able to see over time why these bits are just, well, wrong.
I get it, you don’t want to think of yourself as racist for still finding this funny. But the truth is, it really never was all that funny. It was always lazy comedy. And it really was always racist.
It’s a difficult moment to turn the mirror inward, but you gotta do it. And then you actually grow in ways that are pretty amazing.
abfab
BULLYING 101 w/ Professor Rug8……we meet in the local sewer pipes, anytown, usa.
inbama
Thank God the racist puppeteer is Queer and not Gay.
abfab
So says Mother Superior.
abfab
You all know who I’m addressing here. Those of you who are too immature to understand this trauma and pain and the scars that won’t heal. Please don’t make it any worse than it already is. Please.
abfab
I have to laugh at the promo poster.
A proud boy image (tired leatherman image/raybans, beard) next to a fool with his puppet. Is this the level of entertainment? Juvenile? Fraternity shit? Animal House. And you rugby players are into this. Nice.
Chigago has so many great bars. Skip this one.
Creamsicle
You get what you pay for when you book a 42-year old puppet comedy act
fiddlinbeau
Well, as Deacon was saying, white on white crime and murder is very high. However, what he fails to mention is that it is highest in the red states. The blue states have much lower rates. This would be expected of rednecks killing rednecks. When the Republican party of Trump turns against other members of the Republican party, discussions of white on white murder are frequent. But I don’t see this is a bad thing. Fewer Republicans mean fewer Republican votes. So Deacon is wrong to be upset about white on white crime. In that sense, it doesn’t bother me at all. It’s part of karma which I find to be far more effective than justice. Justice doesn’t go all the way.
I don’t worry about white on white murder here in Chicago.
But abfab seems to be pretty young here because we had that “macho man look” for 50 years before the proud boys.
Maybe the proud boys are the butt boys; but you just don’t know it about that secret society (and here’s more of that dangerous sarcasm)…. All the same, I’m not going to go digging in that hole.
And if you are watching abfab, you should remember the episode with Whoopi Goldberg as the counselor in the New York movie special. Awfulizing does not do anything for a sturdy semantics which bring you above this stuff. You don’t want to be wallowing at it because it’s crap. It’s best to deal with it and move on. You can shame the people if you want, but only a personal experience can change somebody from the inside.
In the words of Whoopi Goldberg’s character when talking to the parents who can’t deal with the fact that their son is a gay boy, “You know what you gonna to do? You gonna to get over it!” I think that’s one of the best lines along with Bette Davis when she was asked about old age. She said “old age ain’t for sissies”. That wasn’t an attack on gay men. It was saying that getting old means you have to deal with it. As a senior member of the community, both of these statements are dearly true.
I would never go to that puppet show, but I ask everybody to show some resiliency and bounce back. WE ARE FAR STRONGER THAN THAT LOUSY PUPPETEER.
And I am 1,000% in full support of ONYX, which has always been one of my favorite organizations.
And one last stab at a joke…
But in sticking my hands up puppets butts, I can just say that I prefer my puppets to be live and not dummies… And I won’t put words in their mouths. That’s a waste of a perfectly good mouth.