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Can a Newspaper Critic Say a Big Lesbian Television Host Looks Like a ‘Big Lesbian’ And Get Away With It?

Clare Balding, a BBC sports presenter (and jockey!), hosts a show called Britain by Bike. Reviewed by London’s Sunday Times, critic AA Gill said Balding looked like a big lesbian. Well, she is a big lesbian. So how did Gill apologize?

With new jokes! “Some time ago, I made a cheap and frankly unnecessary joke about Clare Balding looking like a big lesbian,” Gill (pictured, below), the paper’s television and restaurant pundit, writes in a new column. “And afterwards somebody tugged my sleeve to point out that she is a big lesbian, and I felt foolish and guilty. So I’d like to take this opportunity to apologise. Sorry. Now back to the dyke on a bike, puffing up the nooks and crannies at the bottom end of the nation.” Ha ha?

So Balding wrote the newspaper — twice — over the incident. She received this response from editor John Witherow:

In my view some members of the gay community need to stop regarding themselves as having a special victim status and behave like any other sensible group that is accepted by society. Not having a privileged status means, of course, one must accept occasionally being the butt of jokes . A person?’s sexuality should not give them a protected status. Jeremy Clarkson, perhaps the epitome of the heterosexual male, is constantly jeered at for his dress sense (lack of), adolescent mind-set and hair style. He puts up with it as a presenter?’s lot and in this context I hardly think that AA Gill?’s remarks were particularly ?cruel?, especially as he ended by so warmly endorsing you as a presenter.

Balding responded, using a couple references I had to Wikipedia:

What, so it’s OK that he beat me up because he’s nice about me at the end? For God’s sake, would he seriously review Stephen Fry presenting QI as a faggot or Evan Davis on Dragons Den as a queer? And if he did, would the editor compare that to someone having a go at Jeremy Clarkson for his dress sense?

And in another note, she writes:

When the day comes that people stop resigning from high office, being disowned by their families, getting beaten up and in some instances committing suicide because of their sexuality, you may have a point. This is not about me putting up with having the piss taken out of me, something I have been quite able to withstand, it is about you legitimising name calling. ‘Dyke’ is not shouted out in school playgrounds (or as I’ve had it at an airport) as a compliment, believe me. It may be your job to defend your writer and your editorial team but if you really think that homophobia does not exist and was not demonstrated beyond being ‘the butt of a joke’ then we have a problem.

She’s filing a report with the Press Complaints Commission, relays The F Word, which really can’t do that much.

And what are we, and Balding, going to get out of this? An eventual apology from the paper? It would mean little, as the Times was already provided the opportunity to review the situation, and upon doing so its editor shot back that Balding is being too sensitive, and compared the persecution Gill faces over his hair and childish humor as akin to what Balding faces as a lesbian.

A forced note of sorrow, one that stems from public pressure, is as meaningless as not offering one at all.

By:          Ryan Tedder
On:           Jul 30, 2010
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    • Alex

      He’s got some seriously British teeth. Because he is British.

      Jul 30, 2010 at 1:25 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • RomanHans

      Whoa! The women are coming out in full force. Looks like we’re falling behind on the role models, dudes, with the eloquent, impressive Ms. Balding following in the footsteps of the estimable Shirley Sherrod. Thank heaven there are a few folks with guts on our side.

      Jul 30, 2010 at 1:59 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Geoff M

      Even a forced apology has value when it comes to this sort of thing.

      Jul 30, 2010 at 2:25 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Carrie

      Your first quote from Clare Balding isn’t from her letter – it’s from her interview with me, as featured on The F Word. Can you amend and credit this, please?

      Jul 30, 2010 at 4:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • slobone

      Look, you’ve got to choose your battles. Calling someone a big lesbian when in fact she is a big lesbian may not be the funniest joke I ever heard, but it hardly rises to the level of gay-bashing…

      Jul 30, 2010 at 6:46 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Maldwyn

      She’s not beyond humiliating people herself, she once tell a jockey on a post-race TV interview he could now afford to get his teeth ‘fixed’ with his winnings.Doesn’t excuse A A Gill, though.

      Jul 31, 2010 at 5:54 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Queer Supremacist

      Another smarmy breeder who’s not sorry for what he said but is terribly sorry for getting called out on it.

      In other news, scientists discovered shit still stinks.

      Jul 31, 2010 at 11:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dawson

      So, to sum this up…she’s pissed because he called her what she is. Shouldn’t she be happy to be representing. Oh, and the “victim card” isn’t acceptable anymore no matter what minority is playing it.

      Aug 1, 2010 at 8:31 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tallskin

      @Dawson, she is complaining because as she says (and I paraphrase) anyone has a right to slag her off as a fat woman, to say her hairstyle is awful, her clothes sense stinks, that she is ugly, but no-one has the right to slag her off for being a dyke, for her sexuality: she says that crossed the line.

      Aug 1, 2010 at 8:58 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dave

      Claire has clearly she doesn’t object to being called a big lesbian. It’s the use of dyke she objects to. Pretty reasonably IMHO.

      Aug 1, 2010 at 9:11 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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