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Don’t FCK With My Gay Friends, My Gay Daddies, Or My Gay Son: The T-Shirt

The following video — which has NSFW cussing — is a glorified advertisement for the $13 t-shirt from FCKH8.com. The website did not pay to place the ad on Queerty. I’m posting it because it’s FCKing awesome.

Sadly, the online store doesn’t launch until Oct. 11, so you’ll have to keep it in your pants until National Coming Out Day. (And, fair warning: While the clip says all funds will go toward fighting for marriage equality, neither the video nor the website provides any information on how. Which may or may not be important to you.)

UPDATE: Given all your love for their campaign, FCKH8.com has opened early. And they say 5 bucks from each shirt will be donated to groups including
American Foundation for Equal Rights, Equality California, Courage Campaign, and Lambda Legal. Turns out the project is the brainchild of Luke Montgomery and Nate Guidas, the boyfriended do-gooders who made a similar video for their “Unf–k The Gulf” campaign.

By:          Ryan Tedder
On:           Oct 6, 2010
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    • Mikey

      Queerty, if you go to their site, at the bottom, you’ll see a message from fckh8 asking if you could pull the video.

      Oct 6, 2010 at 8:39 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Mikey

      Actually, the message is from their twitter page.


      Oct 6, 2010 at 8:45 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • peteNsfo

      ya know… I don’t like it.

      I totally support Marriage Equality, but society is vulgar enough as it is… and I really don’t like kids swearing.

      Sorry… thumbs-down from me.

      Oct 6, 2010 at 10:15 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Theo

      I am going to get the T-shirt for everyone in my family for this coming Christmas. I think they’re going to love it.

      Oct 6, 2010 at 10:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

      They were totally cool ’bout giving Queerts props and not bein douchy ’bout the premature video views………..

      And those shirts are fcuking pretty cool :p

      Oct 6, 2010 at 11:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Carsen Tyler

      I think I see some ripping off of the Stonewall UK school campaign.


      The shirt designs are cool, but I don’t think it would really help our cause in some groups of people. I mean some of these people think we are out to taint their children, I am pretty sure a campaign that throws around the f-bomb would only solidify their thoughts.

      Oct 6, 2010 at 11:13 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Chris

      That little kid was just adorable, what with the swearing and the love for his dads and all :)

      Oct 7, 2010 at 12:59 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Chris

      Oh, and do they ship to australia? Coz I can smell some awesome christmas presents!

      Oct 7, 2010 at 1:01 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Stratos

      Well I made it all the way to the :52 second mark. I guess I’m turning into an old prude. Such language. UGH

      Oct 7, 2010 at 6:55 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Qjersey

      LOVES it.

      But why does LGBT activism always boil down to

      “I came, I saw, I bought the T-shirt”?

      Oct 7, 2010 at 8:34 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dallas David

      @Stratos: This is the commercial side of gay activism.

      Me, I don’t wear t-shirts with messages. If some babtist lady asks if I’m married, I just say, “No, they don’t allow gay people to marry here in Texas yet.”
      Don’t really need a T-shirt to do that for me.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 8:44 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Max

      great video!!!

      Oct 7, 2010 at 9:05 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • shibby

      The video is less about directly attacking the Right than an attempt in galvanizing the LGBT communities and their allies into action. And it pretty much sums up my frustration about the whole situation for me. Vulgar? Sure. Cathartic? For me, absolutely.

      I would like more information on where the proceeds will be going, though.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 9:37 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • shibby

      From their website:

      $5.00 from each T-shirt goes directly to support the great work of the following groups leading the fight against Prop 8 and working for marriage equality across the U.S.

      American Foundation for Equal Rights
      Equality California
      Courage Campaign
      Lambda Legal

      Oct 7, 2010 at 9:41 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • FreddyMertz

      Looks like I’m going to have a huge credit card bill this month. lol

      Oct 7, 2010 at 9:48 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Luke Montgomery with FCKH8

      Thanks for all the great comments! We had planned to launch our FCKH8 video on National Coming Out Day (Monday the 11th) but the queers at Queerty scooped our video and posted it 5 days early (How did they get it!?) So we bit the pillow and took it like a man :)

      Stayed up all night tweeking on 11 Coke Zeros to finish the T-shirt store and launch the site… and sales have been crazy already this morning!

      Prop 8 was school bullies all grown up at the ballot box trying to hurt us and our families. Supporting the legal and political heros at the groups that we are donating proceeds to is our way of fighting back.

      International sales will be up in the store by tonight…

      Thanks for the support!

      Oct 7, 2010 at 10:10 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Rob

      Queerty, take the video down please. They’ve asked you nicely on Twitter to do so and it could negatively affect the campaign. You’ll get the final draft on Friday.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 1:27 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Charlie

      Ok the little kid dropping the F-Bomb made me pause but…. we have tried the assimilation advertising believe me we have. In California before the election it was all “Look at how safe and tame we are.”

      It’s time to try something different to galvanize the troops.

      Buying shirts for my friends. I know some people commented on an aversion to “commercialized” activism but – this fight aint free y’all.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 1:40 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ktbisl32

      So this is the same group that ran the unfckthegulf campaign (youtube it). I don’t understand if they actually care abt these issues or are just trying to make money.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 2:41 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Lakas

      but is it fair organic vegan though?

      Oct 7, 2010 at 6:41 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Luke Montgomery with FCKH8

      The guys from FCKH8 here…

      1. #17… no! Keep the video up! It was a surprise but we’ve had such a huge flood of support and are making a lot of friends too. Thanks Queerty for letting the pussy out of the bag :) It’s blowing up on Facebook and Twitter.

      2. Yeah, we’re the folks who did oil spill UnF–kTheGulf.com. We care about helping issues and REALLY like the F-word. So neener neener #19

      3. #20, we have an Organic Cotton Unisex American Apparel version of the shirt… and we’re both vegan (even though I thought you were being sarcastic, right?)

      On the issue of the F-word being offensive… I think it’s a very mild response to the brutal attacks on our rights at the ballot box by idiot thugs. We are using an impolite word in response to people who are taking away or rights to visit our spouses in the hospital, to adopting our children and having healthcare benefits. We should get all PLO on their asses. So I hope that puts a YouTube video and T-shirt into perspective.

      Now let’s FCKH8 :)


      Oct 7, 2010 at 7:14 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Yal

      That was fucking awesome!! Warmed my heart and pumped me up.

      I echo the statement about this making an awesome Christmas gift; and while it may not make as much of a statement here in Canadia, I will definitely be wearing it in solidarity with my gay brethren in the States and around the world.

      Now, off to watch that awesomeness for the 3rd time.

      Oct 7, 2010 at 11:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dancy

      This is awesome. I want a shirt. But does it have to be pink? I really just hate the color pink.

      Oct 8, 2010 at 2:38 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • mark

      Just F*ckin’ RIGHT…thanks
      I need a few of those shirts

      Oct 8, 2010 at 1:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • haha

      Well get the fuck over it.

      Oct 8, 2010 at 7:07 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Michael

      @Luke Montgomery with FCKH8: Let us know when you’ll have a checkout besides google. Cheers…..

      Oct 9, 2010 at 2:21 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Paypalman

      Yes! there should def be different ways of payments. I am NOT buying anything if it’s through google’s payment methods. Heeeeeellz to the no.


      Oct 9, 2010 at 2:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • deaf

      im deaf, could you caption the video or provide a transcript?

      Oct 12, 2010 at 8:31 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Deafie

      I’m deaf too, a transcript would be great!

      Oct 14, 2010 at 5:58 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Noelle

      Here’s my best effort at a transcription – mostly correct from what I can tell. I hope this helps our deaf friends!

      Hi. Are you one of those fuckwads that has a fucking problem with my gay son getting married?

      And my two moms. You fucking wanna stop them from getting married?

      Then listen up haters, for some fuckin’ straight talk on gay marriage.

      Number 1: If you don’t want gay marriage, then don’t marry someone

      With the same fucking junk in their undies. Pretty fuckin’ simple.

      Number 2

      So if you were really all about “protecting marriage”, you’d be fucking making divorce illegal for straight people, not cockblocking Adam and Steve from getting a fucking bridal registry.

      Don’t fuck with my two gay dads.

      Number 3

      The Christian fucking Right? You’ve got it all fuckin’ wrong. Don’t fucking talk to me about “family values” when you want to fuck gays and their kids out of emergency hospital visitation, custody of their children and health insurance benefits.

      Number 4

      Fuckin’ hypocritical Republicans. So, it’s cool for Rush Limbaugh to be on his fourth fuckin’ wife, but if Cathy wants to marry Karen, then that’s an “attack” on the institution? …HELLO?

      How the fuck does ripping up state constitutions and the rights they protect make this the “Land of the Free”?

      So…if you hate gay marriage, it’s really because you hate gay love.

      Then, you’re gonna fuckin’ hate this. [Two gay couples kissing.]

      GET THE FUCK OVER IT! Some dude’s marry dudes. Some chicks marry chicks. GET. THE FUCK. OVER IT.

      I’m gay.
      I’m straight [laughing]…well, not really.
      I’m straight.

      And we’re standing together to FUCK HATE.

      Across the country, in the courtroom and at the ballot box, the right to marry who you love is under attack.

      We’re fundraising for that fight. Marry this shirt! Do good, and look good doin’ it. Proceeds from each shirt goes directly to fund the fight for equal marriage rights. Tell people what you think, take a stand in pink. Share this video with five friends.

      I’m getting my Facebook all up in this thing’s Twitter! Spread this shit! Totally!

      Don’t fuck with my gay friends. Don’t fuck with my husband. Don’t fuck with my wife. Don’t fuck with my queer daddies. Don’t fuck with our families. FUCK HATE. [whistles] FCKH8.COM!

      (And, scene.)

      Oct 15, 2010 at 4:37 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Deafie

      This is great! Thanks so much!

      Oct 15, 2010 at 4:43 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Avenger

      So the gays are getting little kids to cuss and speak vulgarly on their behalf. Wonder what other obscene things they expose school children too?

      Oct 18, 2010 at 2:09 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • tallskin2

      @Avenger – you’re a christian c8nt and I would hit you but I can’t stand shit on my knuckles

      Oct 18, 2010 at 7:39 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • FuckYou


      Oct 25, 2010 at 11:14 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Brett Studd

      How F**king gay.

      Sep 16, 2011 at 7:28 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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