Move over Anthony Wiener, there’s a new serial sexter in town.
Newly obtained text messages written by Democratic Indiana state Rep. Justin Moed have surfaced online and they will no doubt have a damning affect on the young politician’s budding career, and perhaps his relationship with his future wife, as well. (Moed is engaged to be married to a woman later this year. Or at least he was before this scandal broke.)
Adult film actress and longtime aspiring college graduate Sydney Leathers, the same woman who exposed Anthony Weiner in his sexting scandal a few years ago, obtained the explicit texts, some of which include naked photos of Moed’s bare butt. We can’t show the photos here (we’re a family site, after all!), but you can check them out at TheDirty.com.
It all started when Moed, using the screen name “Bitch Boy,” responded to an ad Leathers posted online seeking a submissive man she could “financially dominate.” The two got to chatting.
Moed told Leather he wanted to dress up in a French maid’s outfit and clean Leathers’ house, buy a strap-on for her to use on him, and be tied up in a closet and listen while Leathers had sex with her boyfriend.
But wait. It gets even more scandalous.
Moed also went into graphic detail about his sexual escapades with other men. He confessed to having an ongoing carnal relationship with a man in Indianapolis. He also said he has a special fondness for “big black cock.” Oh, and he’s a bottom.
“I sucked him,” Moed wrote about the affair. “He f-cked me. We hooked up several times. He was very dominant.”
“People say I have a charm and a naughty intrigue about me,” he added.
After the scandal broke, Moed released the following statement:
I am truly sorry I have hurt the ones I love most with my poor judgement. i am committed to rebuilding trust with my family and my community. I am committed to rebuilding trust with my family and my community. This is a private matter and I ask for it to be treated as such. I apologize to my constituents and to everyone I have let down.
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CleJoke
Should we crucify him or accept him into the fold?
I’ve been sexting all morning with three different dudes on grindr and text. Plus I’m about to phone with a dude who’s telling me his first time was with his cousin.
Who am I to judge.
CleJoke
BTW he’s thanking gawd that there were some poepoe shoe in Ferguson last night. His story is being totally ignored by CNN and the lame stream media.
Thank gawd for pink and lavender media lie queerty.
BJ McFrisky
He’s a Democrat, therefore it will soon be forgotten.
Ladbrook
Sounds like a closeted gay man with a sub-fetish who has convinced himself he needs to be “straight” in order to work in elective politics. Either way, I feel badly for his fiancée, who, I suspect, didn’t sign up for this.
Aromaeus
I hate that BBC line. It’s degrading and reeks of fetishization. This is why I don’t give white men the time of day. They think that shizz is cute but it’s disgusting.
Cam
@BJ McFrisky: said.. “He’s a Democrat, therefore it will soon be forgotten.
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Yes BJ, because the Republicans that are attacked after being outted aren’t attacked for being gay, but for being hypocrites.
The problem with your comments is, you know this, but you still try to play the “Republicans are such victims” card every time.
We get it, you will support any right wing bigot as long as they are in your party, but please don’t try to slip a comment like that through and think that people on this site will fall for it.
Mike G
You have to be pretty dumb to hire a hooker who outs her own clientele…
Gigi Gee
Why break stories like these if he’s not hurting anyone? For all we know, the stories he was sharing could have been fantasies. If they’re “pro-family” politicians with a history of anti-gay votes, sure. Go for it. But in this case…big deal.
Gigi Gee
@BJ McFrisky: And Mark Sanford’s affair wasn’t quickly forgotten?
ziege19
Did I miss something here? Has he voted for anti-gay legislation? Made anti-gay comments? If so I can understand spreading this information about his sex life because of the hypocrisy of someone in political office. But I see he’s a Democrat, there’s no mention of any anti-gay activities. So what is this? Did we decide just to shame someone for his sexual activities just because they are not “normal”? Do we know what kind of relationship he and his wife have, if he’s actually cheated on her, or anything like that?
Unless he’s actually hurting someone or abusing his power, this article is completely inappropriate. We’ve been fighting for years to stop the shaming of people for their consensual sexual activities and desires. Why? So we can point and titter and shame this guy for liking bdsm? So we can ‘out’ people and ruin their careers because they like getting fucked? Come on. Unless there is more to this story and the guy is somehow abusing his power, he deserves an apology for having his deepest, kinkiest desires splashed across the internet just for clicks and laughs. It’s shameful.
Creamsicle
Honestly, as long as this guy isn’t for anti-gah legislation then I just think it’s a shame that this guy felt the need to lie about his sexuality. We’re all sexual and the more we try to pretend we aren’t the sicker we’re going to be for it. At least now his fiancee knows and can choose to pursue a better relationship based in truth. Hope this guy finds his peace and that some day soon you don’t have to be a eunuch or absolutely vanilla in order to be a political hopeful.
DistingueTraces
Is this guy nuts?
In the texts quoted at The Dirty, he refers to the woman’s part in the Anthony Weiner scandal as part of a text exchange. So, he KNEW that she was in the business of drumming up scandal for politicians! Even an average guy with nothing to hide would have the sense to stay away from an operator like that.
Was he somehow looking to be outed? It makes no sense.
mmichael_24
No sympathy if you didn’t want what you did brought out into the public. Then why would you be stupid enough to conversate with a person who has ruined another politicians career about your sex life.
DarkZephyr
Why does this Leathers woman keep snitching on people? This is none of our business. I would only care if he was some hypocritical homophobe out to destroy his fellow LGBT people. The villain here is Leathers.
darian
@Cam: Hahaha oops so much for that truce. In all seriousness A) did he bout know who she was or what she is known for? B) I willing to bet you his soon-to-be wife or ex-wife may have been up for some of the freaky s**t he’s into. The minute he tried to step out on her he was done.
Giancarlo85
@BJ McFrisky: Why is it so many republicans have been caught in gay sex scandals?
I don’t really care for this guy. Like Leeland Yee he needs to leave the party and resign. Somebody else more honest will take his place (Yee was replaced by Van Nuys state Senator Alex Padilla btw). At any rate, as far as Rep Moed, I feel for his fiance, but it really isn’t any of my business. He needs to sort out his own issues and figure out who he is.
Giancarlo85
@ziege19: You’re not missing anything. BJ McRightwinger is making excuses for republicans again. If a republican is caught in a scandal (And that seems to happen every day right now), he sugarcoats it… if a democrat is, he thinks we aren’t criticizing that democrat enough.
GG
The shame isn’t to be found in his activities, but rather in that he thinks he needs to apologize for them. If everyone lived true to their nature (without breaking laws or harming others), this world would be a much better place.
robho3
So this Sydney Leathers person just goes around exposing people like is she the sex police? Something is off here.
jjose712
Frankly i don’t understand why someone with such public job can be so naive to expose himself that way. Keep your sex life private, man.
And frankly, where are all the good prostitutes who know to keep the secrets of their job gone? because she is a shame for the business
Low Country Boy
@robho3: She’s off. The crap she has pulled and her wacko actions (like stalking Weiner at a campaign event) speak volumes. I just have to wonder: Why is it that every politician who gets caught in some sex scandal always asks for “privacy” in their public statements! So ironic.
SpunkyBunks
So, do these clowns go around telling everyone (prostitutes, call boys, strippers, etc.) that they’re politicians? Nope, don’t feel sorry for the guy. Keep your personal business to yourself. Most wealthy, powerful people have madams to take care of this stuff privately. I guess he’s either poor or stupid not to get one.
Although, he sure knows how to party.
MCHG
Why is everyone pretending that hypocrisy is the only reason sites like this and the media tear people in the closet to shreds? How many times has an actor or musician, despite obvious liberal and pro gay leanings, been called every name in the book by commenters here and on other sites for being closeted? Where’s this guy’s obligation to be a role model? The only excuse for mainstream media not covering this is the breaking news at Ferguson, but it’s a pretty lame excuse to be fair.
Persa
Bless his heart. Not the brightest bulb is he?
He is responsible for his own choices but it’s not like he’s Satan span. People cheat, they break up, they make bad decisions. It shouldn’t be such big deal.
Hope he is able to move on and put this past him and live a more open life without all the shenanigans.
That political operative Leathers who spilled all the tea AGAIN though deserves a special place in Hell.
Jacob23
He’s probably not gay, believe it or not. He is into “fem-dom” which is a fetish exclusive to straight men. The woman controls, abuses, and degrades him. That’s the turn on. One way the mistress degrades him is to instruct him to submit to other men and then talk about how he liked it. Superficially, it’s homosexual activity. But the true turn on is not the sexual contact with males, but the fact that the dominant woman is making him do and say these things. Same thing with the “financial domination” aspect. On the surface, it looks like a monetary transfer, but it is a huge turn-on for the hetero male to be forced to turn over his hard-earned money to the woman.
NoCagada
@Gigi Gee: How about:
GINGRICH, LIMBAUGH, VITTER, MC CAIN, CRAIG, PALLADINO, GIULIANI, BARR,
ENSIGN, TRUMP, LEE, SCHWARZENEGGER, SANFORD
SteveDenver
He needs to turn Republican, claim God has spoken to him, and drag his fiance on stage with him where she can nod while he explains how she has forgiven him.
jwtraveler
@BJ McFrisky: Just how the Republicans have forgotten about Clinton and Monica Lewinsky.
gaym50ish
We would all be hypocrites if we said what he did sexually was wrong. What WAS wrong was deceiving the woman he was about to marry. When he says he’s “sorry” for hurting the ones he loves, what he really means is he’s sorry that he violated the 11th commandment: “Thou shalt not get caught.”
jason smeds
His wife should accept him so long as he now remains faithful to her. What’s in the past is in the past, and should stay there.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that he should suppress his same-sex feelings. He should never attempt to suppress these feelings but he should also realize that, once you are in a committed relationship with a man or woman, you should stay committed physically to that one person.
No extra-marital hanky panky, please.
NJjoe
@gaym50ish:
Touche’! You took the words right out of mouth.
Sluggo2007
Oh, please! Give him a break already! What else is there to do in Indiana?
Cam
@Jacob23: You probably should have read the whole article.
Giancarlo85
@Jacob23: Is making stupid comments something you do all the time?
Jacob23
@Cam: Yeah, I read the whole thing. Every single aspect of this story is consistent with a hetero fem-dom scene. The fact that he knew that she was the one who outed Weiner, the fact that he “accidentally” included his name on the gifts he was sending her (thereby making him more vulnerable to her) and the fact that he is talking to his dominatrix about how he submits to men are all big red flags that this is a male hetero fem-dom thing, not a gay thing.
Zekester
@BJ McFrisky: Let’s see, Anthony Weiner (D)resigned, Jim McGreevy (D)resigned whereas David “Diaper Dave” Vitter (R) STILL IN CONGRESS and Mark “Appalachian Trail” Sanford was later elected to the Senate. Seems that Democrats actually pay a price whereas the Family Values Party re-elects their perverts.
Lvng1Tor
BFD so he likes sex. he doesn’t have to be out. he could be bi and no record of voting against gay rights. I don’t think he ever made a public deceleration that he was not gay.so what if he cheats on his gf…f’n sick and tired of the media making private sex practices public and other trying to equate what someone does sexually with their ability to get a job done. It’s what the christians and zealots have been doing to us for years. It’s sex BFD!
Enron
Looks like he works out.
Giancarlo85
@Jacob23: My goodness, you couldn’t be anymore wrong. the guy is at least bisexual. This has nothing to do with this “fem dom” crap you keep talking about. What a blithering idiot.
enlightenone
@CleJoke: “Should we crucify him or accept him into the fold?”
Crucify him!
Realitycheck
I suspect, his wife to be, probably knew all of it already,
this kind of guy could not have a normal sex life, he needs
domination, and taking it hard and deep.
May be his finance is a big dildo master. LOL
On the serious side what a tremendous lack of good judgement
for some on in public office with a public image…….
Different people elect you and support you for different reasons and
thinking, so one private life should remain private.