The last time we heard from ex-gay BDSM adult film star Joseph Sciambra, he was warning us that gay sex anally births the devil and lamenting over having to have his “sphincter almost stitched shut” after a shoot one time. Now, in a new interview with the Catholic World Report, the born again Christian minister had a lot to say about life after hardcore gay porn, which he describes as an “addiction.”
“Porn is an addiction, and it is progressive. It is comparable to being addicted to drugs,” Sciambra says. “When I became part of the homosexual culture, I found it was a society founded on porn. Porn in the gay world is what glued us together.”
“We acted it,” he continues. “We’d go to bars to get picked up, and have sex in bathrooms, on bar stools, on dance floors, and in bath houses. In my day, Mission Dolores Park was a big place where people would go to have sex. I believe it still is. When I go to minister there, I see used condoms on the ground … We meet and have sex on the ‘first date,’ but it really wasn’t a date. We were very ‘porn-ized’ as gay men.”
OK, first of all, how did Sciambra know the condoms he saw were used for gay sex? And secondly, what the hell does “porn-ized” mean?
Sciambra also says that underneath the surface of every gay man is “a life of disease, loneliness, and disappointment.” He, of course, knows from experience.
“When I was in the gay lifestyle, I was constantly sick,” he says. “I had chlamydia, gonorrhea, gay bowel syndrome, yeast infections—you name it.”
Gay bowel syndrome? What?
(For the record, we Googled this strange condition and learned that, once upon a time, “gay bowel syndrome” was an actual medical term used by some proctologists in the mid-’70s and early-’80s. It eventually went out of style a few years later after it was determined that the condition was neither gay-specific, confined to the bowel, nor a syndrome. Evidently, Sciambra’s doctor didn’t get the memo.)
“Beyond the physical symptoms, there are the emotional problems,” Sciambra continues. “Boys who involve themselves in the gay lifestyle are emotionally wounded … They join the gay community with an earnest desire for love. That’s why I did. But they get used up pretty quick. There are older people waiting for young people to come because they want to have sex with them. The young people then become scarred, bitter, and hostile.”
He just said a mouthful there.
Since “leaving the gay lifestyle,” Sciambra says he’s authored a 178-page e-book called “Swallowed By Satan“ about his experiences, which he claims has done “pretty well.”
“People living in every continent except Antarctica have read it,” he says. “Some tell me that it gives them hope that they can be healed … I get hundreds of emails every day from people looking for help.”
“Now that I have come back to Christ and his Church and embraced chastity,” Sciambra claims, “I’ve never been happier.”
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AxelDC
He sounds like a dry drunk, someone who traded one addiction for another.
Justin L Llanas
Power bottoms for Jesus
Ray Ivey
Gay Bowell Syndrome is the name of my Chris Salvatore tribute band.
Troy von Tussle
His miniscule brain obviously prolapsed.
ChadDarnell
I keep hearing his referred to as “adult film star.” Is there any proof he’s DONE a film? I’m getting tired of seeing his name attached to Joey Stefano every time I google “Joey Stefano.” (For my biopic on Joey… not some weird OCD thing…)
Have you seen his visit to the hotel room where Joey died? If not, Search it and you’re welcome in advance.
Harley
“We’d go to bars to get picked up, and have sex in bathrooms, on bar stools, on dance floors, and in bath houses.” Man. I’ve been out since 1980 and I have never done anything like what he describes. I must’ve missed the party.
ChadDarnell
Gotta love someone who continues to minister in a park where he “thinks” men still have sex. Girl, please.
blondeboyz
He has traded one addiction for another. The “gay lifestyle” for the “Xtian lifestyle”. Somehow in his twisted brain, porn and sex are the same thing. If you participate in porn then you are having sex or if you watch porn then it is a sexual thing. But if you go out and have sex then you are not doing porn. That’s like saying sex and love are the same thing. They aren’t. Sex is sex and love is love. They do overlap but they are not the same thing.
This is just another jesus freak who is [email protected] up on religion who left the “gay lifestyle” and has successfully stopped shitting the devil out of his rectum. Oh why do we give these twisted idiots publicity?
Dave Basora
Gay bowel syndrome? Isn’t that caused by Santorum?
Luis H. Lopez
On the down low and self loathing
Bear Donna
” Gay sex anally births the devil” and he is lamenting over having to have his â??sphincter almost stitched shut?? WTF? This queen took one that was too big for his ass to handle and NOW the Devil is involved? He really is 1 big a**hole!
David Tillman
Lmaooooo
David Tillman
Jose
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
Because you were a whore, darlin’! And yes I am slut-shaming the holy fuck outta you for being controlled by your appetites rather than being the master of them. Fucking loser.
Now you’re a temple prostitute on your knees for Jesus instead
Jose Eduardo Cisneros
Ewww
Luke H Thornton
Well when you are methed out you don’t realize that traffic cone is as big as it actually is.
RIGay
Another tale of woe from yet another self-loathing, gay, born-again Christian who thinks he speaks for all of us.
And what ever DID come of George Michael?
Well… at least he is not in denial of the sex he had.
Realitycheck
Sciambra you done it all wrong!!
People date and have great gay friends and enjoy the same things every body else does, including loving relationships.
You sex obsessed life has nothing to do with mine and many others, and by the way….nothing wrong with sex.
So sad to see so many people hating themselves………what a loser.
John Williams
Why do you promote these derelict people?
Stache99
He’s sure done a good job wiping out any traces of his porn work. Can’t seem to find one thing he’s done. That’s pretty amazing considering considering nothing escapes google now a days.
Stache99
I guess setting yourself up as a former porn star sells more books though then just another loser X gay would.
ingyaom
Jesus was Jewish. I don’t remember him having a church. Am I missing something?
onthemark
If porn is a problem in the “gay community” nowadays, it’s with so many young guys jacking off to porn 5 times day and never going out at all. Physically “safe,” but hardly psychologically healthy.
Anyway, nobody now is having “sex in bathrooms, on bar stools, on dance floors,” etc., that’s not happening anymore. And when it WAS happening it had little or no connection to porn. Porn is ubiquitous now, but it wasn’t back then.
@Realitycheck: Exactly. I’ve known a lot of gay “sluts” over the years (including me) and it seems every one of us, in the normal course of events, occasionally met someone we just clicked with and then we cooled it down, or even permanently settled down. That’s just the way real life works.
Alex Rothwell
He’s a mess.
Jesus Malverde
He was in porn?
Jason Starr- Nolan
Wtf? Him a gay porn star? Something seriously has gone astray there!
TemptyK
He’s speaking the truth for the most part. I’m just saying. Please don’t eat me!
martinbakman
Well…..I mean if you let someone stick a tree in there often enough…
’til only Jeebuz would touch it.
Chuck Allmaras
Only way this guy was EVER in gay porn was if it were one of those where they wear those black masks!
Kangol
Sciambra is Exhibit A on gay self-loathing and denial.
Rather than that magic book, he could use some psychological counseling. Pronto!
Alan Arthur Anglin
He’s a sad sad man
Victor Barry
He’s a real slut. Broke his own ass and is now bitter. Should not speak for the rest of us.
Giancarlo85
He’s a sad pathetic loser who is bitter. The gay men I know aren’t doing porn. Maybe he should get the hint gay culture isn’t centered on porn. But then again he lost his mind years ago and became a religious fanatic.
Cam
So another Queen with baggage who couldn’t handle life so wants to attack the rest of the world that could.
Giancarlo85
@TemptyK: You spout off all the time… speaking the truth? About what? The fact he couldn’t handle his own life? Give me a break.
Billy Budd
He looks very sad and depressed in that picture. I guess he needs dick ASAP.
jwtraveler
Ignore the loon.
Jack Anthony Owen
Either way u look at it hes a piece of s**t!
tricky ricky
I hope the catholic magazine told him he’s going to hell for not being catholic.
Avery Alvarez
Like every “ex-gay”, he projects his own failures onto the gay community. He’s a pathetic, broken thing, and he assumes (or wants to assume) that the rest of us are too.
Also, like every “ex-gay”, he doesn’t want to accept any personal responsibility for his life. All the mistakes he made – drugs, promiscuous sex, porn, etc….”Ex=gay therapy” teaches these things aren’t decisions you’ve made that you must account for, they’re decisions the “gay lifestyle” has made you do.
Oh, well. His unhappiness is written on his face, so in the grand scheme of things, everythign works out.
Chris Vogel
This standard for evangelical “witnessing”, a central part of their “worship”. They live by being invited to speak to congregations and other like gatherings, and do best if they can juice up their backstory to the maximum. Their audiences love this: they just “lay back in the pews and howl”. It’s garbage, of course, but their listeners, religious conservatives, live by childish delusions and ridiculous fabrication, so reality and truth are irrelevant. All that is really required is stuff that will pander to religious conservatives’ arrogance, vanity, malice and wilful ignorance.
Pete
Sciambra is not a ‘minister’ as he is a Roman Catholic. Catholics have priests, and he hasn’t taken Holy Orders.
It’s interesting that the most recent entry on his blog regards a Sean Cody model who apparently committed suicide. He still watches gay porn 😉
Robert Walsh
Anyone recognize him from Porn star days?
Will L
@PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID: Oh, my… I was thinking something along these lines but I think you put it so much better than I could have. 🙂
Donald Corvin
That must have been some awful porn!!!
Lowell Yelverton
What did he look like when he did porn? If that was his “O” face I see why he got out of the business !!
Saint Law
If he really was over his homosexuality he’d, you know, STFU about it.
What is it about these ex-gays that all they can go on about is gays?
Daniel Alvarado
lets keep these so called ex gay people out of the media they are only harming themselves
Saint Law
If you read his lips he’s clearly saying: “Where’s the dick?”
Alan Barthel
another asshole for god. what an idiot.
Deiter Kunze
Yeah, I’m willing to bet he’s been to Mission Dolores park a lot more recently than he’ll admit!!
Philip Shimkus
He got his brains fucked out for real!!
Giancarlo85
@Saint Law: He is a sad miserable lonely person.. What more do you expect? He got involved with the wrong crowd, now blames all gay people for his own failures and folly.
Bob LaBlah
@Robert Walsh: I too thought it odd that no titles he starred in were mentioned. If you can call off the names of dead people who seem to be (based on “their” account of events that took place) the only ones who can “verify” these movies took place something is wrong. A lot of great porn stars left us too early thanks to AIDS but not all of them are gone. Something sounds wrong here.
Shirley Talamas
Embraced chastity. Interesting. That doesn’t mean he’s heterosexual.
throwslikeagirl
” Swallowed By Satan”!? Oh, that’s too rich!
Reginald Augustus Salazar Magpayo
This guy is… or was gay?!!! Why? I thought gay people are cute. Yeah, he should be straight…nothing lost on our side.
gaym50ish
Notice that he says he has “embraced chastity.” That’s not being “ex-gay” (as if there were such a thing). That’s just getting regular hand exercise — probably while watching gay porn. And if that “gay bowel syndrome” is still a problem, he needs to get a smaller dildo.
Ken Potter
He’s trying to sell books.
Tony Stokes
“Swallowed by Satan”? Yeah, looking at this guy, I’m pretty sure Satan spit.
jason smeds
Sciambra isn’t wrong, you know. The temptations offered by the gay male lifestyle are pervasive and based on promiscuity. Promiscuity is marketed constantly.
The problem is that, being men, we are always tempted in the direction of sex. Straight guys are the same. The difference with the straight lifestyle is that women moderate male sexual excesses, a force that is absent in a lifestyle where men sexualize with men.
Having said that, I can’t help but feel that Sciambra made some poor choices in his life while on the gay scene. He didn’t HAVE to choose the options that he did. He could have chosen to refrain from the reported excesses.
edwardnvirginia
Dear QUEERTY:
your editorial choices PROVE that ‘popular gay culture’ is IN FACT saturated with pornographic imagery, endorsement of pornographic behaviors, and diminishment of the consequences of making choices primarily based on pornographic interests.
Merriam-Webster definition: PORNOGRAPHY. 1 : the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement. 2 : material (as books or a photograph) that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement.
So, the guy you belittle in the story – which of course begs the question of ‘why’ you’d belittle the suffering of this guy or any human – deserves your respect for his suffering, or just don’t say anything. Find a ‘real’ story to write about.
For example: write about WHO makes money off QUEERTY?
Giancarlo85
@jason smeds: Wow. Are you spouting off from the bible? Promiscuity is marketed everywhere, and that isn’t just with gay men. It’s with straight women and straight men too. Look at advertising for example. Even a simple cologne ad is highly sexualized.
Look at this way, you’re self depreciating. Nobody cares about your self hating ass. Sciambra is wrong. Want to know why? Because most gay men I know aren’t doing BDSM porn, or any porn at all. Maybe if you had any brain cells you would understand that, smeds.
Chris L. Reynolds
Yet again,a Quack Charlatan,gives trumped up information,which fans the flames of bigotry,bias and ignorance -and demonizing in the process!
Dennis Hull
Denial ain’t just a river in Egpyt.
msfrost
You cannot be Ex-Gay, that is an oxymoron.
NoCagada
Is Gay Bowel Syndrome the reason for that face???
jason smeds
edwardnvirginia,
Pornography literally means “depictions of prostitution”. It’s derived from the Greek word “porno” meaning prostitute and “graphy” meaning depiction. Whether it’s erotic or not is beside the point – it’s got nothing to do with the definition.
msfrost,
If one decides to subsequently not engage in any homosexual behavior, then one is ex-gay, as in ex-gay behavior.
Giancarlo85
@jason smeds: Bullshit on all counts.
Someone who does not engage in sex and is gay is still gay. Not “ex-gay”. You seem to believe lies. A gay man (take for example, Bob LaBlah) who hasn’t had sex in decades with someone of the same sex is still gay. Not “ex-gay”. You’re very stupid… maybe you should take some classes in human sexuality.
Giancarlo85
Smeds just showed his true colors. He’s an anti-gay bigot. He just tried to equate sex acts with sexual orientation. That’s a total fail.
jason smeds
I agree that sexual feelings cannot be ex. You cannot be ex-gay or ex-straight in terms of your sexual feelings. However, if you’re talking about behavior as opposed to feelings, then it is completely possible to be ex-gay or ex-straight.
There are lots of “ex-gay behavior” men out there who are married to women. They decided that, once they got married to a woman, they would no longer engage in homosexual behavior. Lots and lots of men.
TemptyK
If I read the word “bigot” on this site just one more time, I’m going to scream.
James Michael
He wrote a book called Swallowed By Satan? That sounds like a gay porn title to me
Saint Law
@jason smeds: That’s what they tell you, fugly.
Giancarlo85
@jason smeds: Incorrect. Stop trying to equate sexual behavior with sexual orientation. There is no such thing as exgay, period. Learn how to make a clear argument.
And no, there aren’t lots and lots of men like that as there is no such thing as exgay. And some men who do marry women end up cheating with other men (like what these so called exgays do). Now you are just lying.
Giancarlo85
@TemptyK: Go ahead and scream. You don’t like reading facts because you are just a stupid troll that likes to defend antigay people. You aren’t necessarily a bigot though. More like a moron.
mdhess
A reformed slut whore who’s now become a right-wing evangelical — how novel.
Australorp
All those diseases he received didn’t come from a gay lifestyle. Being a slut and no respect for yourself did.
TemptyK
Giancarlo85,
You’re too self-righteous to be real. Who died and made you Pious? And besides, why do you insist there are “some” men with same-sex attractions who still marry women as opposed to “a lot”? Why do these men threaten gay men so much? It’s honestly getting old and it’s super insecure.
arj
This loon HAS been watching too much porn. That is where he gets his “inside information” on what goes on in restrooms, parks, bars, etc. He has taken some porn movie plots and internalized himself as the “star,” with these porn actors “doing” HIM. A major tip-off is his obsession with the late Joey Stefano. I am sure that Stefano probably did say “Hi” to him during one of his personal appearances somewhere, as most porn stars hit the bar circuit to promote their next movie, make a few bucks, and keep their persona before the public eye. This poor man is just a closet case that hates himself (his obsession with the Catholic group, “Courage”). Just listen to him. Everything about his demeanor screams psychopath that projects his fantasies on himself. Toss in a bit of publicity from the religious lunatic fringe and VOILA!, a recovering “porn-star” is born. Now his problem is that he has to keep up the fraud. IF he was the “porn-star” he claims he was, those clips are online and he knows it. That disproves his entire charade as a fraud.
Giancarlo85
@TemptyK: You are not real. You are a fake troll who will go to any length to defend antigay bigotry. I have seen you do it many times, and not just under this article. And yes, some. Who said those men threaten gay men? Those closeted types often push antigay laws while lying to everyone about who they are. See the problem here? The only one who is insecure here is you… You are also very naive and ignorant.
Giancarlo85
@TemptyK: Oh I forgot to add.. Your statements make absolutely no sense. Learn proper sentence structure please. Nothing you said was in response to anything I posted.
TemptyK
I’m talking to a loony, so I might as well just be one, at least temporarily. Sentence structure isn’t really important when you’re responding to something that was meant to be an “insult” (pfff) from a complete holier-than-thou idiot on the Internet who thinks the world functions at the snap of its fingers.
I don’t have to respond to anything you might have said. I can go off on a tangent or completely deviate; it’s my prerogative. You’re always on my case saying I’m spouting off and on, even when I’m right and you’re just too proud to admit it. It’s so like homosexual men to think they’re always right, and when someone challenges them the immediate response is “bigot”. It’s becoming so much of a yawn!
This guy is right in everything he said, period.
arj
One last comment on this loon…..if he is “now” so happy…..he should notify his face. His soul is truly in pain.
bearfuzzlover
Spam? What? I don’t think so!
Juanjo
Dear TemptyK and his little friend, sockpuppet, sorry but that dog doesn’t hunt at all.
I have been out and gay since 1966. I was a horny teenager back then and a self-described little slut. So were all my classmates, the male ones at least. If they were not jacking off they were trying to stick it in something or someone. Now there were people back then who cruised heavily – bath houses, movie theaters, parks, certain streets, back rooms in bars etc. But not everyone and not all the time. Sadly, most of those people are dead and have been since the 1980s since they died of AIDS. I am sorry for that because some of them were my best friends and I still miss them to this day. But rest of us of us are still around as are many others who have been born and come of age since then.
Miss preacher woman is reminiscing about a time period and a group of people she never knew and only knows from stories and porn flics. Stories and flics which are exaggerations and generalizations about a time period long gone.
dancerguy
I think it is Travis Wade. Hate to say that as I was a huge fan, but google image search this guy. Really looks like him to me.