Good timing

Former Disney star and ‘Love, Simon’ actor comes out as gay

In a week of cryptic coming outs (see: Harry Styles and Glee actor Kevin McHale), a star of the upcoming gay teen dramedy Love, Simon has come out publicly as gay.

23-year-old Joey Pollari, who plays Lyle in the film, got candid about his coming out experience in an interview with the Advocate.

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That started with the very first person he had to come out to: himself.

“The only part that was difficult was me coming out to myself. And I think that is the most difficult coming out,” he said.

His timing couldn’t be more perfect. Love, Simon, which is being touted as the first mainstream teen coming out film, hits theaters across America on March 16. It’s a pivotal moment, as the success of the film could tangibly highlight acceptance at its most widespread in history.

Pollari says he identifies with the movie’s central character, Simon Spier (Nick Robinson), a closeted 17-year-old.

“His experience was similar to mine.”

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“I think all my friends and family knew on some level,” he added. “I think maybe two people were shocked.”

Among those who knew was his mother.

“My mom knew. She laid hints for me everywhere. A lot of the trouble was self shame. I do believe a system of power, of patriarchy, of masculinity did impact me.

“The greatest difficulty I found was that it didn’t match my idea of myself. It seemed incongruent with the future I imagined for myself, the identity I had struck up with others. The interplay between me and women, me and men, now suddenly seemed entirely different. That just didn’t seem fair or right.”

He also highlighted that while the film’s story is a novel approach in mass-marketed cinema, love stories at their core are strikingly similar.

“Every love story, gay or straight, has to come from a place of coming out of some closet of some previous fear into a new territory. This one just makes it a little bit more explicit and ties it to the gay experience.”

Prior to Love, Simon, Pollari played Tyler in the Disney XD movie, Skyrunners.

Related: “Love, Simon” star Nick Robison’s brother came out while the film was in production: