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Gay Guys Turn To Whisper To Confess Their Cheating Ways

Here’s a newsflash: lots of people cheat in their relationships. Gay, straight, men, women — statistics show that it happens a lot more than we might imagine, and consistently across the board.

And if we’re going to get real about it, monogamy isn’t a ship built for everyone, but our culture almost demands it. The real problem isn’t non-monogamy, it’s non-communication. We’re afraid to talk to our partners and afraid to be truthful with ourselves, and the secrets and lies are the poison that can eventually kill the love shared between two people.

We certainly aren’t condoning cheating, nor are we dismissing monogamy. If you’re struggling (like some of these Whisper guys below are), you’ve got to talk it out, or else the truth has a way of coming back to haunt you.

 

Ive cheated on my boyfriend twice this week w two different guys. Both claimed to be

I just cheated on my boyfriend and after I was done I texted him

I told my boyfriend since I cheated on him once, he could cheat on me too. That conversation didn't go well.

I am gay and I cheated on my boyfriend. I  have no regrets and I want to see the new guy more than boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I literally became official 2 days ago. We're gay. I can't believe I had sex with another guy already  and it was only because the guy was gorgeous.

I'm gay and I cheated on  my boyfriend right before our 11 month anniversary. I don't  really feel that bad  about it

I cheated on my boyfriend with a woman. I don't  want to say anything because we're a gay  couple and I feel stupid.

My boyfriend cheated on me, so I cheated on him  with the same guy. We're  a gay couple

I just cheated on my boyfriend and I feel like I don't deserve him. I'm  living up to a bad gay stereotype

I'm gay and I slept with another guy when I was drunk. I love my boyfriend  a lot, and I made a  mistake but I don't want to tell him about it.

I'm gay and I cheated on  my boyfriend with his younger brother ????

I cheated on my boyfriend and I feel shifty about it.  I learned my lesson and found the love for him that I had been missing.

I cheated on my boyfriend in a 3way with another gay couple and I want to do it again

So I cheated on my boyfriend and I feel horrible about it but  we aren't techincally together...but we are committed. I don't know what to do, we're a  gay couple.

I cheated on my bf with some random guy, I hate  the fact that I did it. I  didn't tell my boyfriend,  but I wish I could...

Ive cheated on my boyfriend twice this week w two different guys. Both claimed to be